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to verify or not to verify that is the question

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have had some meets where the people did not verify ( and before you ask no it was nt because I was shit or rude) just wondering is this a normal occureance for other people/couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I verify everyone I meet but I do state if it was a coffee meet or a play meet . Just mail the people you met and ask them for a verification ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or try not mailing people who you haven't met abusive messages..... Might be a start???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not have all my play meets resulting in veris. I do not ask for them and do not expect that each will be resulting in a verification (some people prefer discretion and confidentiality to be ensured). Also, If I meet the same person or a couple for another time, I would see it strange to receive another verification. Also, I meet people through several sources, so on FAB you will see only part of my lifestyle activity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or try not mailing people who you haven't met abusive messages..... Might be a start???"

Ohh not good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or try not mailing people who you haven't met abusive messages..... Might be a start???

Ohh not good "

Oh apparently it's his way of being original in his first message to get my attention..... Bloody weirdo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or try not mailing people who you haven't met abusive messages..... Might be a start???

Ohh not good

Oh apparently it's his way of being original in his first message to get my attention..... Bloody weirdo "

unfortunately plenty of them here

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By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Waterford


"I have had some meets where the people did not verify ( and before you ask no it was nt because I was shit or rude) just wondering is this a normal occureance for other people/couples"

Happened to me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or try not mailing people who you haven't met abusive messages..... Might be a start???

Ohh not good

Oh apparently it's his way of being original in his first message to get my attention..... Bloody weirdo "

I never verify unless specifically asked to or if the person is new and the verification is beneficial

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or try not mailing people who you haven't met abusive messages..... Might be a start???

Ohh not good

Oh apparently it's his way of being original in his first message to get my attention..... Bloody weirdo

I never verify unless specifically asked to or if the person is new and the verification is beneficial "

I never asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My view on verifications is that if you have to ask for one you probably don't deserve it...

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By *aftPunkCouple
over a year ago

Around the World


"I do not have all my play meets resulting in veris. I do not ask for them and do not expect that each will be resulting in a verification (some people prefer discretion and confidentiality to be ensured). Also, If I meet the same person or a couple for another time, I would see it strange to receive another verification. Also, I meet people through several sources, so on FAB you will see only part of my lifestyle activity.

"

Like your style and agree with your thinking on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had some meets where the people did not verify ( and before you ask no it was nt because I was shit or rude) just wondering is this a normal occureance for other people/couples"

I know that, and I give a f...* .If I get nothing I give nothing in return ..simple .

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By *auraxxWoman
over a year ago

east


"I do not have all my play meets resulting in veris. I do not ask for them and do not expect that each will be resulting in a verification (some people prefer discretion and confidentiality to be ensured). Also, If I meet the same person or a couple for another time, I would see it strange to receive another verification. Also, I meet people through several sources, so on FAB you will see only part of my lifestyle activity.

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I agree x

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

I never verify my meets or ask to be verified. Its no one else's business.

Only reason I allowed the veri was to get that green tick that everyone in here seems to be obsessed with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we had to ask for a veri after verifying a guy who came back. Was just really to be a brat more then anything. I do think they can get a bit out of hand at times. Plently of veri chasers for who a new veri is a ego boost. Your profile is yours to do as you please with at the end of the day. We will say we perfer to meet verified people and when veris arent displayed or at least summary it does throw up alarms bells with us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet anyone who was unverified, my filters don't even allow them to mail me so I think veris are important to an extent

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Iv always left a verie and always got 1,never would ask tho

but then i would have chatted alot to most of my meets before meet and after so it be natural to leave verie

and im not at all obsessed with them,i haven't checked my veries in months and have no idea if ppl have left site and their veries gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what i think is really rude is people mailing me to ask them to reverify them when they rejoin then dont even get so much as a thank you, bloody cheek.

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