FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Ireland

Curious one for the ladies

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would the ladies who are maturing say that you are better at sex now compared to when you were in your 20's and if so why is that. I ask because honestly I think I have been just amazing since the start

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definite better because I was still a virgin at 20

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

I think sex in my thirties is much better than sex in my twenties.

Two reasons for this, the first one being that as I have gotten older I have learned what I like and don't like, and have no problem saying so. Confidence that comes with age I guess.

The second reason is; the choice of sexual partners in my twenties were often immature men where as now I prefer slightly more mature man who knows exactly how to please a woman and who enjoy doing so.

Miss McJoy

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think sex in my thirties is much better than sex in my twenties.

Two reasons for this, the first one being that as I have gotten older I have learned what I like and don't like, and have no problem saying so. Confidence that comes with age I guess.

The second reason is; the choice of sexual partners in my twenties were often immature men where as now I prefer slightly more mature man who knows exactly how to please a woman and who enjoy doing so.

Miss McJoy "

Absolutely

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

I'll be mighty in my 50's.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I woudnt say 'I'm better at sex' now, although I looked better in my 20's im more comfortable in my own skin now, more confident and less eager to impress guys so I think that makes for a better sex life.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I woudnt say 'I'm better at sex' now, although I looked better in my 20's im more comfortable in my own skin now, more confident and less eager to impress guys so I think that makes for a better sex life. "

I hear ya Red

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I think I'm more open minded at my age now than in my 20s

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I think sex in my thirties is much better than sex in my twenties.

Two reasons for this, the first one being that as I have gotten older I have learned what I like and don't like, and have no problem saying so. Confidence that comes with age I guess.

The second reason is; the choice of sexual partners in my twenties were often immature men where as now I prefer slightly more mature man who knows exactly how to please a woman and who enjoy doing so.

Miss McJoy "

To true o used to be an inconsiderate fucker now its the joy of a woman I seekb

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does it go hand and hand that an older man is better because ATM I feel like I am as good as I am going to get.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Does it go hand and hand that an older man is better because ATM I feel like I am as good as I am going to get. "
doesn't really matter what you think what do the women you've had sex with think???

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"Does it go hand and hand that an older man is better because ATM I feel like I am as good as I am going to get. "

Absolutely not. Certainly not saying that all younger guys are bad or anything (just the ones I chose)

It's not your age it's the maturity to know what you're doing and as Red said to be comfortable in your own skin.

And there's always room for improvement .......

Miss McJoy

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ore of thatMan
over a year ago

skerries

Redhot ....dont know what you looked like or acted in your 20s but you just look anazing now ...my only wish is that im right side of 50 again so I could contact you ...oh maybe someday youmight send me a message ..P xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Red is right. Us mature ladies get to a point that we are comfortable with ourselves and know what we want. If you asked me 10 years ago would i join this sight i would have just laughed and said no way. Sex is a lot more fun now and enjoy pushing my boundaries with the right person

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Redhot ....dont know what you looked like or acted in your 20s but you just look anazing now ...my only wish is that im right side of 50 again so I could contact you ...oh maybe someday youmight send me a message ..P xx"

Thank you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cant tell you without sounding cocky

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Red is right. Us mature ladies get to a point that we are comfortable with ourselves and know what we want. If you asked me 10 years ago would i join this sight i would have just laughed and said no way. Sex is a lot more fun now and enjoy pushing my boundaries with the right person "

Well said - but it applies to us gents too great to be comfortable with yourself and each other, just let all the inhibitions melt away

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Definitely better now....more inclined to express what works and to ask what makes it work for someone else.....think its knowing that mutual pleasure is the best kind

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking back on my 20's And 30's I was definitely less confident and too worried about my body. ' Do I look ok'? Now I've found out the hard way that life's too short and I'm way more inhibited, dare to say what I want and how I want it and take way more iniative! My sexlife has improved tremendously! Does that answer your question?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor


"Looking back on my 20's And 30's I was definitely less confident and too worried about my body. ' Do I look ok'? Now I've found out the hard way that life's too short and I'm way more inhibited, dare to say what I want and how I want it and take way more iniative! My sexlife has improved tremendously! Does that answer your question?"

Brav-fucking-o!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Looking back on my 20's And 30's I was definitely less confident and too worried about my body. ' Do I look ok'? Now I've found out the hard way that life's too short and I'm way more inhibited, dare to say what I want and how I want it and take way more iniative! My sexlife has improved tremendously! Does that answer your question?"

Nothing better than a woman saying no that does nothing for me but I do like this so much easier

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

I find sex definitely gets better as you mature. In your Twenties and thirties you're usually having children. .. working etc so balance isn't really on sex...more reproduction. In your forties it becomes a bit more fun with gained confidence and a freedom to feel its ok to want to enjoy sex. ... In your fifties I think you Regress back to teenage years of horniness but with the ability to know what you like. . Read someone else's body to know what they are enjoying ...and your fearlessly curious as you take control of your own sexuality.... and it's mind blowing. Love being a cougar

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I find sex definitely gets better as you mature. In your Twenties and thirties you're usually having children. .. working etc so balance isn't really on sex...more reproduction. In your forties it becomes a bit more fun with gained confidence and a freedom to feel its ok to want to enjoy sex. ... In your fifties I think you Regress back to teenage years of horniness but with the ability to know what you like. . Read someone else's body to know what they are enjoying ...and your fearlessly curious as you take control of your own sexuality.... and it's mind blowing. Love being a cougar "

I think ur my soul mate

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it go hand and hand that an older man is better because ATM I feel like I am as good as I am going to get. "

I'd be worried if someone said that to me. I'd think that someone is stuck in their ways because they think they're fantastic in the sack. But what works for some partners, may not work for the others.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't speak for whether I'm a better shag now than I was in my twenties - but I will say I feel sexier, I love myself for what and who I am and I am waaay more confident than I was in my 20's. And to follow on from Miss Mcjoy's post, I agree with her point - I know what I like and I'm not afraid to say it which helps because as great as a guy can be, he's not a mind reader lol.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"I can't speak for whether I'm a better shag now than I was in my twenties - but I will say I feel sexier, I love myself for what and who I am and I am waaay more confident than I was in my 20's. And to follow on from Miss Mcjoy's post, I agree with her point - I know what I like and I'm not afraid to say it which helps because as great as a guy can be, he's not a mind reader lol. "

Mightn't be a bad thing that men can't read minds I'd be in trouble if some men knew what I was thinking

Miss McJoy

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking back on my 20's And 30's I was definitely less confident and too worried about my body. ' Do I look ok'? Now I've found out the hard way that life's too short and I'm way more inhibited, dare to say what I want and how I want it and take way more iniative! My sexlife has improved tremendously! Does that answer your question?"

Exactly this.I was a little stunner when I was teenager til I had kids.then the ole body took a bad hit with 5 kids in 4 years.only up til very recently do I not give a shit about the stretch marks and the scars and wobbly bits.when you let go of your inhibitions everything is better in my opinion

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats what i am thinking can it be that simple does there exist an action that will drive every woman on the planet wild and its that simple and everything else is just overthinking which complicates matters?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking back on my 20's And 30's I was definitely less confident and too worried about my body. ' Do I look ok'? Now I've found out the hard way that life's too short and I'm way more inhibited, dare to say what I want and how I want it and take way more iniative! My sexlife has improved tremendously! Does that answer your question?

Still a little stunner now

Exactly this.I was a little stunner when I was teenager til I had kids.then the ole body took a bad hit with 5 kids in 4 years.only up til very recently do I not give a shit about the stretch marks and the scars and wobbly bits.when you let go of your inhibitions everything is better in my opinion "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking back on my 20's And 30's I was definitely less confident and too worried about my body. ' Do I look ok'? Now I've found out the hard way that life's too short and I'm way more inhibited, dare to say what I want and how I want it and take way more iniative! My sexlife has improved tremendously! Does that answer your question?

Still a little stunner now

Exactly this.I was a little stunner when I was teenager til I had kids.then the ole body took a bad hit with 5 kids in 4 years.only up til very recently do I not give a shit about the stretch marks and the scars and wobbly bits.when you let go of your inhibitions everything is better in my opinion "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top