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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find when I'm arranging to meet someone and am very excited about the prospect, that if it takes for ever to settle on a date that I lose interest entirely. I end up basically not giving a shit whether we meet or not. I'm all for anticipation but it wears off eventually.

Anyone else find that this happens to them?

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By *aytime111Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

Absolutely agree with you there. Sometimes it's dragged out so long you would nearly rather just not bother

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By *idandnancy69Couple
over a year ago

carrickfergus

Sometimes,think it's probably the thrill of.the chase i love all that,used to love going on the pull in clubs such a turn on

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

For sure, does my head in. It's not like there's a wedding to be organised or anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well after seeing that body pic, I would cancel all other plans for a meet xx

but I do understand why a delay would effect you yes, initial excitement is a great thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do feel like that sometimes.

I generally don't ask anymore or try to arrange anything after the third attempt....ball's in their court then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only it was as easy as dropping everything and just going .... It can be quite annoying getting fun arranged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed there's only so much chasing that can be done before you cut your losses and realise your wasting your time. NEXT!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed, it can get annoying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some on here can take the piss bigtime.maken fools out of guys.meet.wount meet.meet wount meet.next thing o i have my lady prob this week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...theres alot that can't decided wether they are coming or going. No time for that shit.. Arrange the meet or don't.you just lose interest eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agreed there's only so much chasing that can be done before you cut your losses and realise your wasting your time. NEXT!!!!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, yes, yes.....absolutely agree op, happens far too often in my opinion, shouldn't be that hard to fix up a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Angel eyes.and misscc.well said u both know what the site is about. Any other ladys with a view like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes...theres alot that can't decided wether they are coming or going. No time for that shit.. Arrange the meet or don't.you just lose interest eventually"

Exactly!! Shit or get off the pot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agreed there's only so much chasing that can be done before you cut your losses and realise your wasting your time. NEXT!!!!!! "

good point duffer have to agree there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes totally agree as well if it goes on to long I think this is just not working and I move on

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By *aillimhguy01Man
over a year ago

galway


"Yes totally agree as well if it goes on to long I think this is just not working and I move on "

Yes curvy or maybe distance is a problem for most people xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes totally agree as well if it goes on to long I think this is just not working and I move on

Yes curvy or maybe distance is a problem for most people xxx"

if distance is a problem for some maybe they should not ask people for meets that are to far away

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Yes to a point, but because of other outside factors such as location and Christmas coming up I can't meet certain people until the new year....that could be 2 months away at least... Nobody's fault cept the time of year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes delays just happen. But I tend to get bored after a while and someone new and interesting has caught my attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the newness novelty feeling that can be most exciting. If there is more than one attempt at meet you feel you are getting to know the person already and the novelty and attraction/excitement fades fast. The temptation is to look for someone else "new".

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes totally agree as well if it goes on to long I think this is just not working and I move on

Yes curvy or maybe distance is a problem for most people xxx

if distance is a problem for some maybe they should not ask people for meets that are to far away "

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