FabSwingers.com forum: Performance problems

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A genuine concern and question.has anyone been to a meet,emotionally and mentally excited.but when it comes to the main event either you cant stand up if your a man or the stream wont flow if your a lady!just because of the nerves!what happens?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cue the influx of posts from the boasters saying they never have that problem

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"cue the influx of posts from the boasters saying they never have that problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"cue the influx of posts from the boasters saying they never have that problem

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pmsl well real men are able to be humble and honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"cue the influx of posts from the boasters saying they never have that problem

pmsl well real men are able to be humble and honest!"

some men must walk around with a constant hard on and some women must have to buy a new bed every month from flooding it!

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By *arkandEm14Couple
over a year ago

dublin

At the start of our swing adventure I (Mrs) had a huge problem with nerves and it did effect my "flow" and lube was my best friend but I can safely say now that although I still get nervous before a meet I soon relax and havent needed the lube since x

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

When i joined here this time as a single i shouldn't have as i was still reeling from a break up and on some early meets my performance wasn't the best,to say the least

eh i forget the question now

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Oh yea what happens?

Happened at a party,id just joined,was in door 5 mins and a girl literally dragged me upstair,just wasn't happening and i said sorry i need a drink,wasn't too awkward

and an early 1 on 1 meet,managed to do it. just

its all mental so sort out the mental side and all systems go

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh yea what happens?

Happened at a party,id just joined,was in door 5 mins and a girl literally dragged me upstair,just wasn't happening and i said sorry i need a drink,wasn't too awkward

and an early 1 on 1 meet,managed to do it. just

its all mental so sort out the mental side and all systems go"
lol im booking that therapist appointment right now!lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined the site I was very nervous as was just out of a long term relationship and very new to it all, met a couple for the first time and let's just say nothing happend, felt like shit after as I think they thought it was on there side why I had the problem but reassured them it was me, 2nd girl I met was a bit easier but the same thing happend on occasions, she was a lovely girl and chatted for hours and the subject of viagra was brought up. Even though I'd never taken one before in my life and had no bother downstairs before I joined the site I decided to buy some. After meeting another girl I was determined to give her a good time so popped half just before I headed to meet her and worked a treat. Ever since that half I have never needed to use one again, just keep one in my pocket going to a meet just to have peace of mind. I'm sure most on here wouldn't admit though incase it ruins there chance of a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I first joined the site I was very nervous as was just out of a long term relationship and very new to it all, met a couple for the first time and let's just say nothing happend, felt like shit after as I think they thought it was on there side why I had the problem but reassured them it was me, 2nd girl I met was a bit easier but the same thing happend on occasions, she was a lovely girl and chatted for hours and the subject of viagra was brought up. Even though I'd never taken one before in my life and had no bother downstairs before I joined the site I decided to buy some. After meeting another girl I was determined to give her a good time so popped half just before I headed to meet her and worked a treat. Ever since that half I have never needed to use one again, just keep one in my pocket going to a meet just to have peace of mind. I'm sure most on here wouldn't admit though incase it ruins there chance of a meet "
probably but i would agree on the tab!anyway i would prefer to be honest with a female or a couple and say im nervous and hope everything goes ok.i would hope you would get more respect and understanding!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first joined the site I was very nervous as was just out of a long term relationship and very new to it all, met a couple for the first time and let's just say nothing happend, felt like shit after as I think they thought it was on there side why I had the problem but reassured them it was me, 2nd girl I met was a bit easier but the same thing happend on occasions, she was a lovely girl and chatted for hours and the subject of viagra was brought up. Even though I'd never taken one before in my life and had no bother downstairs before I joined the site I decided to buy some. After meeting another girl I was determined to give her a good time so popped half just before I headed to meet her and worked a treat. Ever since that half I have never needed to use one again, just keep one in my pocket going to a meet just to have peace of mind. I'm sure most on here wouldn't admit though incase it ruins there chance of a meet probably but i would agree on the tab!anyway i would prefer to be honest with a female or a couple and say im nervous and hope everything goes ok.i would hope you would get more respect and understanding!"
you might get respect mate but might not get action lol people who are experienced on here are on this site to have fun and I'm not sure if they would be interested in someone who doesn't perform up or is too nervous and no one can knock them for it, time is precious to most folks, just being bluntly honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I first joined the site I was very nervous as was just out of a long term relationship and very new to it all, met a couple for the first time and let's just say nothing happend, felt like shit after as I think they thought it was on there side why I had the problem but reassured them it was me, 2nd girl I met was a bit easier but the same thing happend on occasions, she was a lovely girl and chatted for hours and the subject of viagra was brought up. Even though I'd never taken one before in my life and had no bother downstairs before I joined the site I decided to buy some. After meeting another girl I was determined to give her a good time so popped half just before I headed to meet her and worked a treat. Ever since that half I have never needed to use one again, just keep one in my pocket going to a meet just to have peace of mind. I'm sure most on here wouldn't admit though incase it ruins there chance of a meet probably but i would agree on the tab!anyway i would prefer to be honest with a female or a couple and say im nervous and hope everything goes ok.i would hope you would get more respect and understanding! you might get respect mate but might not get action lol people who are experienced on here are on this site to have fun and I'm not sure if they would be interested in someone who doesn't perform up or is too nervous and no one can knock them for it, time is precious to most folks, just being bluntly honest"
well i appreciate that and understand that aspect.but for the reasons youve just mentioned i think its good to talk!but i agree that might end up no action i can accept that aswell!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I was at a party once where I had a little to much to drink, but not so much I was d*unk. I kinda knew little mingo wasn't gonna play.

I call those oral nights

...and I no longer drink at meets.

I still get nervous before parties, esp if there's a lot of people I've not met before, but in the right company nerves pass.

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