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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sooooooo anyone that knows me knows that i love to be dominated in the bedroom ...... But how do u explain to a potential meet the difference in "sexy domination" as i call it and "real domination" .... You know the whole master - slave role play which can be very hard core ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you find you have to explain yourself at length about the difference , then its fair to say the guy is a novice and youd be better off just having a normal meet with him . too many eejits here think roleplay involves beating the shoite out of a woman who apparently "loves" it .

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"if you find you have to explain yourself at length about the difference , then its fair to say the guy is a novice and youd be better off just having a normal meet with him . too many eejits here think roleplay involves beating the shoite out of a woman who apparently "loves" it .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is sooooo true ..... I was asked earlier did i enjoy humilation

...... Now im a great believer in each to their own and all that but how can someone find humilation a turn on

..... and thats not to mention the likes of scat

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

There's a lot of wanna-be Doms out there these days, just make sure you're safe at all times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a lot of wanna-be Doms out there these days, just make sure you're safe at all times.

I'm slightly submissive but think That there is a dominatrix in me dying to get out

Would love to be thought properly by a woman who knows what she is at

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's a lot of wanna-be Doms out there these days, just make sure you're safe at all times.

I'm slightly submissive but think That there is a dominatrix in me dying to get out

Would love to be thought properly by a woman who knows what she is at "

Go for it

....... I couldnt be a dom ..... I wouldnt be confident enoigh i dont think

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I think the dominant streak has to be in you.

I enjoy a man that can take control, in the bedroom. But, I have to have the respect for him to allow him to. Otherwise my Domme comes out n takes over..

I am not into subby guys.. But girls.. Yummy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if u ever loking for a dunegon let me know

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"There's a lot of wanna-be Doms out there these days, just make sure you're safe at all times.

I'm slightly submissive but think That there is a dominatrix in me dying to get out

Would love to be thought properly by a woman who knows what she is at

Go for it

....... I couldnt be a dom ..... I wouldnt be confident enoigh i dont think

I seen what u did there

I think its some thing within that makes one domme the other its a beauty full thing when done right but as MOF says if u have to explain it ur on a looser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rae can be very domme at times, must confess, I do love it! But we switch about, depending on mood. Both dominating another lady though........ Nom nom nom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

now I'm no expert whatsoever... but just look at all the "Mr Grey and Christian Grey" profiles popping up... Most of them probably have no clue

I sway from being a bit submissive to dominant... I guess it depends on the guy I'm with. I'm quite dominant in the real world out there - so I actually quite enjoy being a little submissive in the bedroom..

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"if u ever loking for a dunegon let me know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's definitely more psychological in my opinion..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's a lot of wanna-be Doms out there these days, just make sure you're safe at all times.

I'm slightly submissive but think That there is a dominatrix in me dying to get out

Would love to be thought properly by a woman who knows what she is at

Go for it

....... I couldnt be a dom ..... I wouldnt be confident enoigh i dont think

I seen what u did there

I think its some thing within that makes one domme the other its a beauty full thing when done right but as MOF says if u have to explain it ur on a looser

what did i do

lol ..... Im very much a sub ..... Pardon the pun but i dont have the balls to be a domme

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the dominant streak has to be in you.

I enjoy a man that can take control, in the bedroom. But, I have to have the respect for him to allow him to. Otherwise my Domme comes out n takes over..

I am not into subby guys.. But girls.. Yummy! "

Sounds interesting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Rae can be very domme at times, must confess, I do love it! But we switch about, depending on mood. Both dominating another lady though........ Nom nom nom

Ohhhhh that puts a different twist on it completely

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"There's a lot of wanna-be Doms out there these days, just make sure you're safe at all times.

I'm slightly submissive but think That there is a dominatrix in me dying to get out

Would love to be thought properly by a woman who knows what she is at

Go for it

....... I couldnt be a dom ..... I wouldnt be confident enoigh i dont think

I seen what u did there

I think its some thing within that makes one domme the other its a beauty full thing when done right but as MOF says if u have to explain it ur on a looser

what did i do

lol ..... Im very much a sub ..... Pardon the pun but i dont have the balls to be a domme

U hesitated to think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's definitely more psychological in my opinion.. "

I dont think so ..... You either are or your not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's a lot of wanna-be Doms out there these days, just make sure you're safe at all times.

I'm slightly submissive but think That there is a dominatrix in me dying to get out

Would love to be thought properly by a woman who knows what she is at

Go for it

....... I couldnt be a dom ..... I wouldnt be confident enoigh i dont think

I seen what u did there

I think its some thing within that makes one domme the other its a beauty full thing when done right but as MOF says if u have to explain it ur on a looser

what did i do

lol ..... Im very much a sub ..... Pardon the pun but i dont have the balls to be a domme

U hesitated to think

I did?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always suggest being extremely cautious about meeting a 'Dom' from a swinging site. Its a very big risk to take particulatly if restraints are involved. Trust should ideally be earned and built up over time. It would be much better to find a tried and tested Dom from within the scene and preferably chat with a sub they have met in the past. I know girls who have had bad experiences and its not a risk worth taking in my opinion. Hunter x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would always suggest being extremely cautious about meeting a 'Dom' from a swinging site. Its a very big risk to take particulatly if restraints are involved. Trust should ideally be earned and built up over time. It would be much better to find a tried and tested Dom from within the scene and preferably chat with a sub they have met in the past. I know girls who have had bad experiences and its not a risk worth taking in my opinion. Hunter x"

Thankyou ..... All advice very welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is very true..... Restraining is Defo not for a first play date!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you guys know that 50 Shades is based on Twilight fan fiction.........doesn't that just make it even weirder lol?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sooooooo anyone that knows me knows that i love to be dominated in the bedroom ...... But how do u explain to a potential meet the difference in "sexy domination" as i call it and "real domination" .... You know the whole master - slave role play which can be very hard core ...

Simply tie me up call me a slut make me suck ur cock I'm urs for the evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply tie me up call me a slut make me suck ur cock I'm urs for the evening

Oh and a safe word too and u have to know them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First, come up with a safeword & gesture...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First, come up with a safeword & gesture..."

Mines is veedo though I've never used it yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First, come up with a safeword & gesture...

Mines is veedo though I've never used it yet

Naughty minx!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veedo would be a bit to close to 'paedo' for my liking when you're talking about safewords lol! I definitely don't wanna be called that while I'm whipping someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First, come up with a safeword & gesture...

Mines is veedo though I've never used it yet

Naughty minx!"

just can handle a lot lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veedo would be a bit to close to 'paedo' for my liking when you're talking about safewords lol! I definitely don't wanna be called that while I'm whipping someone

Haha ok how about get that fuckin whip away from me ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love to be totally submissive with my beloved, in fact I'm up for things these days I never thought I would be years ago, I love it! however wouldn't let anyone from here have access to that level of trust, too many Chumps who don't have a clue, still though , my bucket list consists of being dommed by two guys and a girl, someday it will happen!

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

"now I'm no expert whatsoever... but just look at all the "Mr Grey and Christian Grey" profiles popping up... Most of them probably have no clue

snap. .. I'm more of a switch.... It depends on the guy. .. and my mood

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

"First, come up with a safeword & gesture..."

top tip.... harder is not a good choice of safe word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds pretty comprehensive lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or my eyes say yea but my mouth saysno is also not a good one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im quite dominant in the bedroom. I can be submissive on rare occasions but the so called dom males here are actually scary with how out of touch they are. I have mails ranging from wanting to whip me til I'm in bits and wanting to beat some obedience into me. They honestly have no clue especially when safe words were brought up as a 'real' sub shouldn't have them. There are some proper doms here that I know from another site who are willing to.let me have references from previous subs which is reassuring as i would more than likely know the subs anyway.

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By *ts artMan
over a year ago

Londonderry

"There's a lot of wanna-be Doms out there these days, just make sure you're safe at all times.

As Ginger says, a lot of wanna-be's and such unfortunately

Btw Ginger hows you, you minx,fancy a little nibble on the neck or a finger nail slowly traced along the.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tie and tease Doms are ten a penny. Anybody can put a pair of cuffs or spreader bar on a sub and just start whacking away.

It's when the dom can literally take your breath away just by producing them and what he whispers in your ear that works for me.

There should be a license required to show effective equipment use before you let any ya'hoo near you.

Oh and best tip is use self release cuffs

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