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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK so here goes. I'm a little bit confused here. This is obviously a swingers site so why is there so many people on this just looking for singles who are singles? Don't get me wrong everyone has their right to choose who they want to have fun with but is there not other adult sites for singles fun? I for one find it odd as the name states it is a swinging site otherwise a more suited name would be fab fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Popcorn anyone ?

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim, N. Ireland


"OK so here goes. I'm a little bit confused here. This is obviously a swingers site so why is there so many people on this just looking for singles who are singles? Don't get me wrong everyone has their right to choose who they want to have fun with but is there not other adult sites for singles fun? I for one find it odd as the name states it is a swinging site otherwise a more suited name would be fab fucking "

I agree.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

So singles can't swing than.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK so here goes. I'm a little bit confused here. This is obviously a swingers site so why is there so many people on this just looking for singles who are singles? Don't get me wrong everyone has their right to choose who they want to have fun with but is there not other adult sites for singles fun? I for one find it odd as the name states it is a swinging site otherwise a more suited name would be fab fucking

I agree."

I'm a single , I occasionally meet other singles ,, I however don't rely on the site for one on ones ..which I think many singles do.

I use the site as a means to make other scenarios happens , whether with a group of singles or couples etc

It's not so easy to organise a four way or more way on tinder !

And I class myself a swinger !

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

I have been curious about this too, I've come across profiles of single who are strictly only looking for singles and that state in their profiles that they are not interested in couples, 3 sums or any other number.

But I guess it's each to their own and it's obviously working for them or they wouldn't be here so why not? I think ultimately this site is for the sexual adventurists? Who are we to to define that? And who knows maybe these people have been "swinging" whole time and just want a break? I say leave them off, each to their own after all.

Mrs. Curvy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am not saying singles have no right to be on this everyone looking for fun has the right , iwas more curious than anything . we are still fairly new to swinging so that's why I asked .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Popcorn anyone ?"
yes please

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I don't think u will find swinging is confined to cpls only why u you're sefls ate looking a sub single fem without the singles here u would not be able to fulfill ur fantasy

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By *usky Couple01Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Popcorn anyone ? yes please "
oh shit forgot to get that in the shopping u just reminded me about getting popcorn

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Of course I honestly didn't mean to offend anyone it was just a question . probably worded it wrong so I apologise to anyone I have offended. Seriously I'm still getting used to certain things about swinging so instead of asking himself or anyone else I thought I'd put it here

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Don't think u offended anyone u posted a reasonable question and open a discussion

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"Don't think u offended anyone u posted a reasonable question and open a discussion "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK hope not . here for fun not to pee people off

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By *ceryMan
over a year ago

Malahide & Waterford


"Popcorn anyone ? yes please "

Don't forget the beer too....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been curious about this too, I've come across profiles of single who are strictly only looking for singles and that state in their profiles that they are not interested in couples, 3 sums or any other number.

But I guess it's each to their own and it's obviously working for them or they wouldn't be here so why not? I think ultimately this site is for the sexual adventurists? Who are we to to define that? And who knows maybe these people have been "swinging" whole time and just want a break? I say leave them off, each to their own after all.

Mrs. Curvy"

Pretty much this. I wouldn't probably describe myself as a swinger per se. But I found this site suits my requirements the most and there are plenty of single males who want to meet single women. So everyone's happy!

Good thing is when I want to be more adventurous I'm already on the site to fullfill those fantasies.

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By *rishpleasureMan
over a year ago

about

Definition: "A social gathering specifically designed for various couples (male & female) to hook up and engage in sexual activities,ranging from a couple to a group of participants."

Singles are an addition to this and not integral. This site (perhaps because it us free) seems to carry a high percentage of singles. It is also interesting how much they seem to control the culture of the site.

That all said, there are no restrictions on this site like other unadvertised more selective sites so it is what it is and members are free to enjoy it as they wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might have started as a swinging site. I'd class it as a sex site now with single males cruising for women they view as hookers they dont pay for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It might have started as a swinging site. I'd class it as a sex site now with single males cruising for women they view as hookers they dont pay for. "

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"It might have started as a swinging site. I'd class it as a sex site now with single males cruising for women they view as hookers they dont pay for. "

not all single guys lol

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"It might have started as a swinging site. I'd class it as a sex site now with single males cruising for women they view as hookers they dont pay for.

not all single guys lol"

Indeed.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"It might have started as a swinging site. I'd class it as a sex site now with single males cruising for women they view as hookers they dont pay for.

not all single guys lol

Indeed."

Taring all single guys with the one brush again

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"It might have started as a swinging site. I'd class it as a sex site now with single males cruising for women they view as hookers they dont pay for. "

Yes I would say its a sex site but disagree with ur view of single men as all groupes both single men ,ladies and cpls joined here to meet others with a view to sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It might have started as a swinging site. I'd class it as a sex site now with single males cruising for women they view as hookers they dont pay for. "

you seem to have a very bitter outlook on life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It might have started as a swinging site. I'd class it as a sex site now with single males cruising for women they view as hookers they dont pay for.

you seem to have a very bitter outlook on life "

Oh, you know me from a few lines I type on a forum on a sleazy sex site?

I'd say I have a realistic view of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It might have started as a swinging site. I'd class it as a sex site now with single males cruising for women they view as hookers they dont pay for. "

The truth probably lies somewhere in between I reckon

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

I think its for each person to use in their own way. Maybe traditionally "swinging" was defined as wife swapping and thought of as only couples and I know many on here still feel this way. ... However like most things in life it has evolved and now includes many playing alone whether single or not. Sexual adventurist maybe seems a good term! .. after all these"singles" may be made up of many different types of people. People who may have been swinging as part of a couple. .But no longer in a couple. .. Singles who advocate the life style and safe fun sex with like minded people (without needing to be married )...people who aren't single at all..... and the chancers/idiots of course.(You will find them everywhere in life. ..)

But without variety it would be a very dull world... No?

There are enough judgemental people out there and everyone has their boundaries and things they accept personally ... so I think as long as people can be honest about that before they play so no one is letting anyone play with someone else that they wouldn't normally choose to on moral grounds then that is ok. I class myself as a swinger.. if that is by my own definition .. so be it. I prefer to play with whom I choose based on my own judgement of them and not a broadly sweeping definition made by someone else. Along the way I have made some great friends ,met some amazing people. ..and played with some very hot lovers and I fully intend to continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It might have started as a swinging site. I'd class it as a sex site now with single males cruising for women they view as hookers they dont pay for.

you seem to have a very bitter outlook on life

Oh, you know me from a few lines I type on a forum on a sleazy sex site?

I'd say I have a realistic view of life. "

i have seen enough of your posts to know the majority are negative

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I class myself as a swingle...

I do swing.. As in go to parties and swap partners.. I just don't do it with my life partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Variety is the spice of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It might have started as a swinging site. I'd class it as a sex site now with single males cruising for women they view as hookers they dont pay for. "

These are the guys I feel you never get off the ground here ..

I alway set the parameters and if the men don't like it .. NEXT !

I had one idiot yesterday turn down the offer of a coffee meet to get verified ( he was v.local) he said I'm here for meets not coffee ! Idiot

I def do not think all men are like that !

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By *rives me wildWoman
over a year ago

co dublin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here to have fun, not be labelled, my preferences are changing all the time as I'm open minded enough to want to try new things. This site provides the platform to do this regardless of what it's called!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm here to have fun, not be labelled, my preferences are changing all the time as I'm open minded enough to want to try new things. This site provides the platform to do this regardless of what it's called!"

Exactly this! Life changes, situations change and you adapt to them as they happen

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"I'm here to have fun, not be labelled, my preferences are changing all the time as I'm open minded enough to want to try new things. This site provides the platform to do this regardless of what it's called!

Exactly this! Life changes, situations change and you adapt to them as they happen"

I would thumb this but my bloody thumbs won't work grrr

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

This will always be different things to different people. Everyone is different and their expectations and experience will be different.

Some like singles, some dont, some like couples, some dont.

There are nice people and there are not so nice people, people you will meet time and again and some you will want to meet and will never get the chance to.

People try to put labels on others and to be honest the tar all with the one brush thing I find annoying as i go out of my way not to be like most in here, but its the nature of the lifestyle and i have seen it for many many years so i have learnt to live with it.

Let it be whatever it will be and just enjoy the ride as best as you can, and treat others like you would like them to treat you and you wont go far wrong.

Sean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It might have started as a swinging site. I'd class it as a sex site now with single males cruising for women they view as hookers they dont pay for.

you seem to have a very bitter outlook on life

Oh, you know me from a few lines I type on a forum on a sleazy sex site?

I'd say I have a realistic view of life.

i have seen enough of your posts to know the majority are negative "

You have no idea what is going on in a person's life so keep your half baked armchair psychology to yourself instead of personally attacking me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It might have started as a swinging site. I'd class it as a sex site now with single males cruising for women they view as hookers they dont pay for.

you seem to have a very bitter outlook on life

Oh, you know me from a few lines I type on a forum on a sleazy sex site?

I'd say I have a realistic view of life.

i have seen enough of your posts to know the majority are negative

You have no idea what is going on in a person's life so keep your half baked armchair psychology to yourself instead of personally attacking me."

Nobody has attached you...

But you have called this place a sleazy site and I have to agree with Curvy all you say is negative and you do come across as quite nasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like SS's post and especially the term Sexual adventurist!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3rd time lucky!

I gotta say it surprises me how many men will contact me who are only interested in meeting one on one, don't like the idea of another guy there at all, doesn't really interest me in the slightest.

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By *urferniMan
over a year ago

Antrim


"It might have started as a swinging site. I'd class it as a sex site now with single males cruising for women they view as hookers they dont pay for.

you seem to have a very bitter outlook on life

Oh, you know me from a few lines I type on a forum on a sleazy sex site?

I'd say I have a realistic view of life.

i have seen enough of your posts to know the majority are negative

You have no idea what is going on in a person's life so keep your half baked armchair psychology to yourself instead of personally attacking me."

Curvy made a couple of observations, not "personal attacks" I would agree with her observations, and your responses would only confirm that she was spot on

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"It might have started as a swinging site. I'd class it as a sex site now with single males cruising for women they view as hookers they dont pay for.

you seem to have a very bitter outlook on life

Oh, you know me from a few lines I type on a forum on a sleazy sex site?

I'd say I have a realistic view of life.

i have seen enough of your posts to know the majority are negative

You have no idea what is going on in a person's life so keep your half baked armchair psychology to yourself instead of personally attacking me.

Curvy made a couple of observations, not "personal attacks" I would agree with her observations, and your responses would only confirm that she was spot on"

well as elfie was quoted in both posts i would say that was pretty personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It might have started as a swinging site. I'd class it as a sex site now with single males cruising for women they view as hookers they dont pay for.

you seem to have a very bitter outlook on life

Oh, you know me from a few lines I type on a forum on a sleazy sex site?

I'd say I have a realistic view of life.

i have seen enough of your posts to know the majority are negative

You have no idea what is going on in a person's life so keep your half baked armchair psychology to yourself instead of personally attacking me."

if you believe i was personally attacking you i was not and i apologise if you took it that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It might have started as a swinging site. I'd class it as a sex site now with single males cruising for women they view as hookers they dont pay for.

you seem to have a very bitter outlook on life

Oh, you know me from a few lines I type on a forum on a sleazy sex site?

I'd say I have a realistic view of life.

i have seen enough of your posts to know the majority are negative

You have no idea what is going on in a person's life so keep your half baked armchair psychology to yourself instead of personally attacking me.

Curvy made a couple of observations, not "personal attacks" I would agree with her observations, and your responses would only confirm that she was spot on"

how can it not be personal when it is directed specifically at one person , of course it is personal then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Popcorn anyone ?"

..me..me ..am not on a diet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This will always be different things to different people. Everyone is different and their expectations and experience will be different.

Some like singles, some dont, some like couples, some dont.

There are nice people and there are not so nice people, people you will meet time and again and some you will want to meet and will never get the chance to.

People try to put labels on others and to be honest the tar all with the one brush thing I find annoying as i go out of my way not to be like most in here, but its the nature of the lifestyle and i have seen it for many many years so i have learnt to live with it.

Let it be whatever it will be and just enjoy the ride as best as you can, and treat others like you would like them to treat you and you wont go far wrong.

Sean "

very well put Sean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It might have started as a swinging site. I'd class it as a sex site now with single males cruising for women they view as hookers they dont pay for.

you seem to have a very bitter outlook on life

Oh, you know me from a few lines I type on a forum on a sleazy sex site?

I'd say I have a realistic view of life.

i have seen enough of your posts to know the majority are negative "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here Here. ..feckin someone else who speaks my language. .....anyone else agree. ?.? Well said. ..

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By *exyhotfuncpleCouple
over a year ago

hotnhorny

For us swinging is for those who enjoy group sex . Can't get our head around the "looking for 1 on 1 " you see on some profiles especially with tinder existing . Just a post not ment to offend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For us swinging is for those who enjoy group sex . Can't get our head around the "looking for 1 on 1 " you see on some profiles especially with tinder existing . Just a post not ment to offend "

Just because people look for 1 on 1s means they shouls be on a dating site? Why?

Does meeting 1 on 1 mean you want a relationship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For us swinging is for those who enjoy group sex . Can't get our head around the "looking for 1 on 1 " you see on some profiles especially with tinder existing . Just a post not ment to offend "

this is what I don't get, why guys come on here and moan that women don't want to meet them etc etc , when there are a plethora of 'hook-up' sites out there, I wouldn't say this site is primarily a hook-up site and the guys that have the most success are the ones who enjoy the social aspect of it, meet n greets and parties etc, just my two cents!

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

I'm here to lend myself to other peoples fantasies as well as fulfilling my own.

I don't need this place to meet single ladies, I need it for the above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm here to lend myself to other peoples fantasies as well as fulfilling my own.

I don't need this place to meet single ladies, I need it for the above."

and that is the difference, too many guys treat it as a hook up site, then get frustrated when they aren't getting anything out of it, you have the right idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like these threads annoy me sometimes i used the site for what it there for to meet people and have fun and make new friends.So what if i am single dont really give a bollox actually on other what other people think of my relationship status,im just getting sick of been judge.You get judged been a single guy now your getting judged on because ur not part of a couple ffs what next sorry rant over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like these threads annoy me sometimes i used the site for what it there for to meet people and have fun and make new friends.So what if i am single dont really give a bollox actually on other what other people think of my relationship status,im just getting sick of been judge.You get judged been a single guy now your getting judged on because ur not part of a couple ffs what next sorry rant over."

noone can stop you from using the site however you wish, as long as you are enjoying yourself then it's all good, it is the ones who complain that meets aren't falling into their lap that annoy me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met singles,couples and groups, but have to say I have stopped trying too hard with couples as they are the users ive had the most hassle with...sorry..but that's my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It might have started as a swinging site. I'd class it as a sex site now with single males cruising for women they view as hookers they dont pay for. "

Guys will always try it on. The longer you're on site the more you find out what you want from it x

Swinging has no rules x I just wish people wouldn't take sooooo seriously x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like these threads annoy me sometimes i used the site for what it there for to meet people and have fun and make new friends.So what if i am single dont really give a bollox actually on other what other people think of my relationship status,im just getting sick of been judge.You get judged been a single guy now your getting judged on because ur not part of a couple ffs what next sorry rant over.

noone can stop you from using the site however you wish, as long as you are enjoying yourself then it's all good, it is the ones who complain that meets aren't falling into their lap that annoy me."

Oh yea the i cant get a meet threads annoy the fook out of me to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It might have started as a swinging site. I'd class it as a sex site now with single males cruising for women they view as hookers they dont pay for.

Guys will always try it on. The longer you're on site the more you find out what you want from it x

Swinging has no rules x I just wish people wouldn't take sooooo seriously x "

Or be so judgemental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It might have started as a swinging site. I'd class it as a sex site now with single males cruising for women they view as hookers they dont pay for.

Guys will always try it on. The longer you're on site the more you find out what you want from it x

Swinging has no rules x I just wish people wouldn't take sooooo seriously x

Or be so judgemental"
totsly agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The typical swing party was you all put your keys in a hat and pull out the key, you take that gent to a room. It was 1 on 1.

Being a swinger does not mean you have to enjoy gangbangs or being the 3rd wheel. It never did.

Most couples on this site dont play apart, some need permission of their partner etc etc. Swinging was never about playing as a couple together was it? Why do so many couples look for couples? Because its the only way the man from the couples can get laid? The man is too insecure and knows the girl will get laid more?

So where does that leave single swingers? Well it often leaves them either having to be a 3rd wheel or maybe play with other singles until they have met someone they can swing with as a group.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The typical swing party was you all put your keys in a hat and pull out the key, you take that gent to a room. It was 1 on 1.

Being a swinger does not mean you have to enjoy gangbangs or being the 3rd wheel. It never did.

Most couples on this site dont play apart, some need permission of their partner etc etc. Swinging was never about playing as a couple together was it? Why do so many couples look for couples? Because its the only way the man from the couples can get laid? The man is too insecure and knows the girl will get laid more?

So where does that leave single swingers? Well it often leaves them either having to be a 3rd wheel or maybe play with other singles until they have met someone they can swing with as a group."

you truly are the fab Oracle safeword

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The typical swing party was you all put your keys in a hat and pull out the key, you take that gent to a room. It was 1 on 1.

Being a swinger does not mean you have to enjoy gangbangs or being the 3rd wheel. It never did.

Most couples on this site dont play apart, some need permission of their partner etc etc. Swinging was never about playing as a couple together was it? Why do so many couples look for couples? Because its the only way the man from the couples can get laid? The man is too insecure and knows the girl will get laid more?

So where does that leave single swingers? Well it often leaves them either having to be a 3rd wheel or maybe play with other singles until they have met someone they can swing with as a group.

you truly are the fab Oracle safeword"

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over a year ago

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By *am2camhornyCouple
over a year ago

London

Swinger site can and will have single people who swing I don't think anyone will ever have a problem with that!

But single people who want sex with other single people exclusively is where prob is! In our opinion that's why its hard for couples to find single ladies as alot Stick to there comfortezone and never progress post the single guy which can be done any night of the week clubbing! Also which we feel is worse are people on site and forums day and night as if they know it all and have no intention whatsoever of meeting anyone from the site single couple or otherwise! Single guys get bad rep for being timewasters but this is just as bad if not worse!

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By *exyhotfuncpleCouple
over a year ago

hotnhorny


"Swinger site can and will have single people who swing I don't think anyone will ever have a problem with that!

But single people who want sex with other single people exclusively is where prob is! In our opinion that's why its hard for couples to find single ladies as alot Stick to there comfortezone and never progress post the single guy which can be done any night of the week clubbing! Also which we feel is worse are people on site and forums day and night as if they know it all and have no intention whatsoever of meeting anyone from the site single couple or otherwise! Single guys get bad rep for being timewasters but this is just as bad if not worse!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinger site can and will have single people who swing I don't think anyone will ever have a problem with that!

But single people who want sex with other single people exclusively is where prob is! In our opinion that's why its hard for couples to find single ladies as alot Stick to there comfortezone and never progress post the single guy which can be done any night of the week clubbing! Also which we feel is worse are people on site and forums day and night as if they know it all and have no intention whatsoever of meeting anyone from the site single couple or otherwise! Single guys get bad rep for being timewasters but this is just as bad if not worse!"

So basically because people don't use the site the way you think they should, then they shouldn't be on it?

People can choose to be on here or use the site for whatever reason they want, it doesn't make them timewasters because you say it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinger site can and will have single people who swing I don't think anyone will ever have a problem with that!

But single people who want sex with other single people exclusively is where prob is! In our opinion that's why its hard for couples to find single ladies as alot Stick to there comfortezone and never progress post the single guy which can be done any night of the week clubbing! Also which we feel is worse are people on site and forums day and night as if they know it all and have no intention whatsoever of meeting anyone from the site single couple or otherwise! Single guys get bad rep for being timewasters but this is just as bad if not worse!"
I can see your point. But blaming single people to cause you problems finding single women to meet sounds harsh. In what way would I stop another girl from meeting you?

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Swinger site can and will have single people who swing I don't think anyone will ever have a problem with that!

But single people who want sex with other single people exclusively is where prob is! In our opinion that's why its hard for couples to find single ladies as alot Stick to there comfortezone and never progress post the single guy which can be done any night of the week clubbing! Also which we feel is worse are people on site and forums day and night as if they know it all and have no intention whatsoever of meeting anyone from the site single couple or otherwise! Single guys get bad rep for being timewasters but this is just as bad if not worse!"

Again u can't tar every one with the same brush single guys looking for a free shag, single ladies not going out side their comfort zone. I can tell u from experience I have witnessed quiet a few pushing the boundaries from only meeting singles to full blown group play to submissive behavior with certain ladies or gents.

And there are a few here to chat and feel their way some jump in others take their time its a fun place and when it no longer a fun place it will be time to leave

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over a year ago

From experience... being a single fem and on and off the site over 3 years.. (more on than off) i have met guys from pof, tinder and fab... the kind of sex you have with guys from pof and tinder is boring as fuck... if you ask for or suggest something out of the norm they run a million miles in the opposite direction... guys here are much more open minded and into exploring. Its not just sex. Its kinky sex!!! I dont meet guys from pof or tinder anymore for sex because of this reason i am here. and love it here and wont be going anywhere anytime soon!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"From experience... being a single fem and on and off the site over 3 years.. (more on than off) i have met guys from pof, tinder and fab... the kind of sex you have with guys from pof and tinder is boring as fuck... if you ask for or suggest something out of the norm they run a million miles in the opposite direction... guys here are much more open minded and into exploring. Its not just sex. Its kinky sex!!! I dont meet guys from pof or tinder anymore for sex because of this reason i am here. and love it here and wont be going anywhere anytime soon! "

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By *nandtnCouple
over a year ago

wexford


"From experience... being a single fem and on and off the site over 3 years.. (more on than off) i have met guys from pof, tinder and fab... the kind of sex you have with guys from pof and tinder is boring as fuck... if you ask for or suggest something out of the norm they run a million miles in the opposite direction... guys here are much more open minded and into exploring. Its not just sex. Its kinky sex!!! I dont meet guys from pof or tinder anymore for sex because of this reason i am here. and love it here and wont be going anywhere anytime soon!

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over a year ago


"From experience... being a single fem and on and off the site over 3 years.. (more on than off) i have met guys from pof, tinder and fab... the kind of sex you have with guys from pof and tinder is boring as fuck... if you ask for or suggest something out of the norm they run a million miles in the opposite direction... guys here are much more open minded and into exploring. Its not just sex. Its kinky sex!!! I dont meet guys from pof or tinder anymore for sex because of this reason i am here. and love it here and wont be going anywhere anytime soon! "

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From experience... being a single fem and on and off the site over 3 years.. (more on than off) i have met guys from pof, tinder and fab... the kind of sex you have with guys from pof and tinder is boring as fuck... if you ask for or suggest something out of the norm they run a million miles in the opposite direction... guys here are much more open minded and into exploring. Its not just sex. Its kinky sex!!! I dont meet guys from pof or tinder anymore for sex because of this reason i am here. and love it here and wont be going anywhere anytime soon! "

Wanna try out my ropes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any more popcorn going

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By *usky Couple01Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Popcorn anyone ?

..me..me ..am not on a diet "
do u want some with the popcorn lol

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"Popcorn anyone ?

..me..me ..am not on a diet do u want some with the popcorn lol "

could we make it a g&t?

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