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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What does it take to get meeting someone on here no a days.meet a few on an older username before but no good since i returned to the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get photo verified

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am photo verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get photo verified"

Patience

Respect

Proper grammar

Follow the golden rules and you'll be grand

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iv all of the above allthough patients running out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is most important. Take the time to get know the folks here. No one likes Mr Pushy

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By *itIrishCplCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Iv all of the above allthough patients running out"

Not sure you have the proper grammar to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv all of the above allthough patients running out

Not sure you have the proper grammar to be honest. "

I spotted that too ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv all of the above allthough patients running out

Not sure you have the proper grammar to be honest.

I spotted that too .. "

Give him time. He out of practice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv all of the above allthough patients running out

Not sure you have the proper grammar to be honest.

I spotted that too ..

Give him time. He out of practice "

*is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try saying something interesting to the ladies or couples that you are approaching.

If you will not figure it out, you will have a bad time here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feb up of giving the same advice over and over again

your only on here 5 weeks and already complaining about not getting meets

yes I can see how complaining will help your cause

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv all of the above allthough patients running out

Not sure you have the proper grammar to be honest.

I spotted that too ..

Give him time. He out of practice

*is "

Oops my bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have 3 meet requests = desperate

Your only pics is a cock = generic male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv all of the above allthough patients running out

Not sure you have the proper grammar to be honest.

I spotted that too ..

Give him time. He out of practice

*is "

are we playing the grammar police? not an entertaining game to play :P I have the worst spelling of all anyway... in all the languages I speak/write...

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Op this question comes up a lot

No pun intended.

Anyway what do you do in a nightclub environment or pub

To chat someone up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op this question comes up a lot

No pun intended.

Anyway what do you do in a nightclub environment or pub

To chat someone up.

"

You dont go showing your cock in a club so dont have it as your only picture, keep it as a private amd only send of asked for it. Women see hundreds of cocks on here everyday, they all look the same and dont make you stand out. Women like abs or bums, use an abs pic as your profiler. Read peoples profiles and incorporate that into your msg, it shows you're interested. Go on cam, show your face, chat to people in the chatrooms, ive met lots of peeps i would consider seeing there because their personality won me over, that and theyre hot too! You may get a cam veri and you may get a meet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its not hard to get chatting to ladies in a club.they see ya and your able to speak and get spoken back to here ya message people and hear nothing back and i send my face pic to nearly every1 i send a message too but yeah my grammer isnt the best but does that make ya a fake on here or stupid.i didnt realise you needed a honour in english to have any chance on here.ive up a few meets on here as thay are a few dates im available to meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im on the phone here and cant get the camera working on the chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place is frustrating...and you'll note that its rarely that guys give negative responses to these posts...'cos we have all been there!!...but genuinely, take your time either typing or responding to messages, and don't try to get a meet, just chat and let a coffee meet happen, once you have a green tick take a cple decent pics and get yourself to a meet and greet

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I am living proof that, politeness, manners, hard work and patience pays off.

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By *idandnancy69Couple
over a year ago

carrickfergus


"I am living proof that, politeness, manners, hard work and patience pays off.

"

Living the dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This place is frustrating...and you'll note that its rarely that guys give negative responses to these posts...'cos we have all been there!!...but genuinely, take your time either typing or responding to messages, and don't try to get a meet, just chat and let a coffee meet happen, once you have a green tick take a cple decent pics and get yourself to a meet and greet"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a start, you are the only person in this thread that hasn't even bothered with a profile pic. You can be as polite as you like in your messages, but if people don't even open your mail cuz you're just another blank profile male, you will get nowhere. If you went on Tinder without a profile pic i'm pretty sure you would get nowhere either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am living proof that, politeness, manners, hard work and patience pays off.

"

Best advice that can be given

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick with it Rome wasnt built in a day!

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By *idandnancy69Couple
over a year ago

carrickfergus


"For a start, you are the only person in this thread that hasn't even bothered with a profile pic. You can be as polite as you like in your messages, but if people don't even open your mail cuz you're just another blank profile male, you will get nowhere. If you went on Tinder without a profile pic i'm pretty sure you would get nowhere either."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pushiness and showing obvious frustration is the biggest turn off for me, I see updates all the time saying 'this site is shit' , 'all the women here are arseholes' 'noone is real here', all because they aren't getting a meet, maybe it' the attitude being displayed that is putting women off wanting to meet you, saying you are running out of patience suggests that you are relying on this site to fulfil your sex life. Noone owes you anything here friend, we all signed up for free, some of us choose to pay the supporters fee, but that doesn't mean anyone owes you sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say you met some from here when using an old profile before?

Ask them to verify you.

But basically you're saying you've been here before?

So you should know how things work for everyone here,

Get involved, be respectful, have patience and who knows....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have 3 meet requests = desperate

Your only pics is a cock = generic male"

Judgemental much??

How does 3 meet requests make him desperate??

They are for different dates and different locations.

To me that shows he is willing and happy to plan ahead and less likely to expect women to fuck him NOW like so many on here do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks lady stardust for that nice reply. Yeah some of the people that i met are not on the site anymore and there are still 2 left but 1 of them has changed theyre age limits so i cant contact them and the others know me from my last username but wont verify me again until i meet them again which i respect but i havent been free to meet them when they are free likewise when i am available they arent.ok my profile pic is of my penis but i dont send that photo to people i usually send my face pic in a private message.i was a gold member for a while and didnt get as much as a relpy back hardly

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas


"You have 3 meet requests = desperate

Your only pics is a cock = generic male

Judgemental much??

How does 3 meet requests make him desperate??

They are for different dates and different locations.

To me that shows he is willing and happy to plan ahead and less likely to expect women to fuck him NOW like so many on here do

"

This

Best of luck here mate. Take down the cock pic. We all have one so we don't need to display it.

Send out a few emails to profiles that take you're fancy and see how you get on.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"pushiness and showing obvious frustration is the biggest turn off for me, I see updates all the time saying 'this site is shit' , 'all the women here are arseholes' 'noone is real here', all because they aren't getting a meet, maybe it' the attitude being displayed that is putting women off wanting to meet you, saying you are running out of patience suggests that you are relying on this site to fulfil your sex life. Noone owes you anything here friend, we all signed up for free, some of us choose to pay the supporters fee, but that doesn't mean anyone owes you sex."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyway to everyone that took theyre time to read my thread and reply thanks a million for the possitives and negative responses.much appreciated.safe fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyway to everyone that took theyre time to read my thread and reply thanks a million for the possitives and negative responses.much appreciated.safe fabbing"

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