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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering fab ladies......Is it ok to want to romance a lady on here? Or would that be crossing a line

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

I would think that's entirely up to the individual woman. Perhaps some of the lovely ladies here would like that, but if it's nsa fun that they are looking for it might be crossing the line a little.

Just my take on it

Miss McJoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your definition of romance is applying lube before anal, sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind if a meet brings me chocolates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sure every lady here has different wants and needs. Impossible to generalise.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"If your definition of romance is applying lube before anal, sure."

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with everything above, some girls just like a bit of spit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would think that's entirely up to the individual woman. Perhaps some of the lovely ladies here would like that, but if it's nsa fun that they are looking for it might be crossing the line a little.

Just my take on it

Miss McJoy "

Maybe romance is not the right word, charm would be a better one.

Do ladies on here want to be charmed?

And does it help if they feel desired/wanted by the guy

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

i dont see the harm in it ?

whats wrong with being chivalrous and a bit romantic ? now im sure there are women who just want to be fucked but im also sure there are women who want to be wooed too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would think that's entirely up to the individual woman. Perhaps some of the lovely ladies here would like that, but if it's nsa fun that they are looking for it might be crossing the line a little.

Just my take on it

Miss McJoy

Maybe romance is not the right word, charm would be a better one.

Do ladies on here want to be charmed?

And does it help if they feel desired/wanted by the guy"

Huh? How else do you get them to meet you? Ask them if they want to suck your cock? Or pull them into your cave by their hair?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would think that's entirely up to the individual woman. Perhaps some of the lovely ladies here would like that, but if it's nsa fun that they are looking for it might be crossing the line a little.

Just my take on it

Miss McJoy

Maybe romance is not the right word, charm would be a better one.

Do ladies on here want to be charmed?

And does it help if they feel desired/wanted by the guy"

Honestly, guys would say mass to get into our knicks here so charm would be lost on me I'm afraid. Be yourself is the best advice!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I would think that's entirely up to the individual woman. Perhaps some of the lovely ladies here would like that, but if it's nsa fun that they are looking for it might be crossing the line a little.

Just my take on it

Miss McJoy

Maybe romance is not the right word, charm would be a better one.

Do ladies on here want to be charmed?

And does it help if they feel desired/wanted by the guy

Honestly, guys would say mass to get into our knicks here so charm would be lost on me I'm afraid. Be yourself is the best advice! "

But I'm naturally charming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont see the harm in it ?

whats wrong with being chivalrous and a bit romantic ? now im sure there are women who just want to be fucked but im also sure there are women who want to be wooed too. "

Agreed, I think you could generalise it again by saying all ladies want is respect no mater what type of sex it is that turns them on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand charm in a different way it seems Red lol. I don't see it as talking shite and lies but there are no harm telling someone you fancy them lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would think that's entirely up to the individual woman. Perhaps some of the lovely ladies here would like that, but if it's nsa fun that they are looking for it might be crossing the line a little.

Just my take on it

Miss McJoy

Maybe romance is not the right word, charm would be a better one.

Do ladies on here want to be charmed?

And does it help if they feel desired/wanted by the guy

Huh? How else do you get them to meet you? Ask them if they want to suck your cock? Or pull them into your cave by their hair? "

Course not, I understand you want to be desired, that was a silly question on my part

Just wondering how many ladies appreciate being chased, charmed!!!

Cave?!? I'm not a member of the taliban

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By *ittle_janineTV/TS
over a year ago

galway


"If your definition of romance is applying lube before anal, sure."
i should not use any lube nowadays for me to be consistent with being nsa (though im not a "woman")lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is definitely not a thread that can be answered any one way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to to treat ladys with respect and have a bit of charm to when its needed if people dont like it thats up to them not changing myself for anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to to treat ladys with respect and have a bit of charm to when its needed if people dont like it thats up to them not changing myself for anyone."

Well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand charm in a different way it seems Red lol. I don't see it as talking shite and lies but there are no harm telling someone you fancy them lol

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Of course there isn't! I understand what charm is, all im saying is that I've heard so much crap from guys here, I'd be cynical of it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is definitely not a thread that can be answered any one way

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I think your right, just wanted a general feel from people

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By *atiePWoman
over a year ago

Secret Location


"I understand charm in a different way it seems Red lol. I don't see it as talking shite and lies but there are no harm telling someone you fancy them lol

Of course there isn't! I understand what charm is, all im saying is that I've heard so much crap from guys here, I'd be cynical of it! "

I don't think there's much more crap spouted by guys here than in any nightclub in the country coming close to closing time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand charm in a different way it seems Red lol. I don't see it as talking shite and lies but there are no harm telling someone you fancy them lol

Of course there isn't! I understand what charm is, all im saying is that I've heard so much crap from guys here, I'd be cynical of it!

I don't think there's much more crap spouted by guys here than in any nightclub in the country coming close to closing time."

Don't tar us all with that brush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand charm in a different way it seems Red lol. I don't see it as talking shite and lies but there are no harm telling someone you fancy them lol

Of course there isn't! I understand what charm is, all im saying is that I've heard so much crap from guys here, I'd be cynical of it!

I don't think there's much more crap spouted by guys here than in any nightclub in the country coming close to closing time."

very true Red and Sasha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would think that's entirely up to the individual woman. Perhaps some of the lovely ladies here would like that, but if it's nsa fun that they are looking for it might be crossing the line a little.

Just my take on it

Miss McJoy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the meet if it's an evening meet and we're having a drink I'll ask what she or they drink and bring a bottle if it's a coffee meet I'll pay and if it's a naughty meet I won't aim at the curtains :0) does that count as romance

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

I think there has to be a mutual attraction ... and charm, courtesy and manners are certainly an expectation on my part....but romancing is not a part of nsa in my books

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"It depends on the meet if it's an evening meet and we're having a drink I'll ask what she or they drink and bring a bottle if it's a coffee meet I'll pay and if it's a naughty meet I won't aim at the curtains :0) does that count as romance "

you're definitely buying lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think there has to be a mutual attraction ... and charm, courtesy and manners are certainly an expectation on my part....but romancing is not a part of nsa in my books"

I think you've hit the nail on the head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on the meet if it's an evening meet and we're having a drink I'll ask what she or they drink and bring a bottle if it's a coffee meet I'll pay and if it's a naughty meet I won't aim at the curtains :0) does that count as romance

you're definitely buying lol"

I'm counting my penny's out as I type lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand charm in a different way it seems Red lol. I don't see it as talking shite and lies but there are no harm telling someone you fancy them lol

Of course there isn't! I understand what charm is, all im saying is that I've heard so much crap from guys here, I'd be cynical of it!

I don't think there's much more crap spouted by guys here than in any nightclub in the country coming close to closing time.

Don't tar us all with that brush "

My point is, if a guy sends me a message here trying to charm me saying 'oh you're the most beautiful woman here' or some shit like that, I laugh as you can guarantee he's sent the same to 40 other women in the last 5 mins. I think we all need some charm in our lives, no doubt, but it's the cheesy shite I hate.

I know you well OP and as I said in my first post, be yourself cos you're a lovely guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I have been chatting with a guy and it's looking like we have a connection I enjoyed being romanced it makes the night so much more fun

will I expect it to continue after the meet ?? ... No ! It's a kiss and thank you for a wonderful night

. Bye

no strings does not mean clinical...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand charm in a different way it seems Red lol. I don't see it as talking shite and lies but there are no harm telling someone you fancy them lol

Of course there isn't! I understand what charm is, all im saying is that I've heard so much crap from guys here, I'd be cynical of it!

I don't think there's much more crap spouted by guys here than in any nightclub in the country coming close to closing time.

Don't tar us all with that brush

My point is, if a guy sends me a message here trying to charm me saying 'oh you're the most beautiful woman here' or some shit like that, I laugh as you can guarantee he's sent the same to 40 other women in the last 5 mins. I think we all need some charm in our lives, no doubt, but it's the cheesy shite I hate.

I know you well OP and as I said in my first post, be yourself cos you're a lovely guy. "

Thanks Red, Spoken like the true lady you areyou know me well and you know theres no BS from me

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

The best kind of romance is the kind that awakens the soul, that makes us reach for more, that plants fire in our hearts and bring peace to our minds.

Yes...everyone wants romance, for its the very essence of our being.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"If I have been chatting with a guy and it's looking like we have a connection I enjoyed being romanced it makes the night so much more fun

will I expect it to continue after the meet ?? ... No ! It's a kiss and thank you for a wonderful night

. Bye

no strings does not mean clinical..."

exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best kind of romance is the kind that awakens the soul, that makes us reach for more, that plants fire in our hearts and bring peace to our minds.

Yes...everyone wants romance, for its the very essence of our being."

Oh WOW!! You are a bit of a romantic ole soul!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand charm in a different way it seems Red lol. I don't see it as talking shite and lies but there are no harm telling someone you fancy them lol

Of course there isn't! I understand what charm is, all im saying is that I've heard so much crap from guys here, I'd be cynical of it!

I don't think there's much more crap spouted by guys here than in any nightclub in the country coming close to closing time.

Don't tar us all with that brush

My point is, if a guy sends me a message here trying to charm me saying 'oh you're the most beautiful woman here' or some shit like that, I laugh as you can guarantee he's sent the same to 40 other women in the last 5 mins. I think we all need some charm in our lives, no doubt, but it's the cheesy shite I hate.

I know you well OP and as I said in my first post, be yourself cos you're a lovely guy. "

Do you think that would be different if it wasn't so female dominated?

Some females profiles read like a mechanical list of standards and protocols to be met. When people compete for attention they tend to over do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best kind of romance is the kind that awakens the soul, that makes us reach for more, that plants fire in our hearts and bring peace to our minds.

Yes...everyone wants romance, for its the very essence of our being."

you must be having some good meets and ya nothing wrong with some romance and chemistry on a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand charm in a different way it seems Red lol. I don't see it as talking shite and lies but there are no harm telling someone you fancy them lol

Of course there isn't! I understand what charm is, all im saying is that I've heard so much crap from guys here, I'd be cynical of it!

I don't think there's much more crap spouted by guys here than in any nightclub in the country coming close to closing time.

Don't tar us all with that brush

My point is, if a guy sends me a message here trying to charm me saying 'oh you're the most beautiful woman here' or some shit like that, I laugh as you can guarantee he's sent the same to 40 other women in the last 5 mins. I think we all need some charm in our lives, no doubt, but it's the cheesy shite I hate.

I know you well OP and as I said in my first post, be yourself cos you're a lovely guy.

Do you think that would be different if it wasn't so female dominated?

Some females profiles read like a mechanical list of standards and protocols to be met. When people compete for attention they tend to over do it."

OVER HERE HELLO LOOKS AT ME hate attention seekers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best kind of romance is the kind that awakens the soul, that makes us reach for more, that plants fire in our hearts and bring peace to our minds.

Yes...everyone wants romance, for its the very essence of our being."

I think we all have different ideas of Romance, when you fall and it should be a fall, there is no love without risk. It should be like the whole world reveals itself in a different way. The feelings you feel so new and strong they threaten to pull everything that was normal apart. You don't fully understand it but you feel it and that feeling is the new chaos you have to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

build your life around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Romance doesn't mean love to me. But if it's genuine (and not like Red says in the first message "you're so gorgeous I'm getting divorced for you" kind of thing) it warms the heart and wets the panties

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"It depends on the meet if it's an evening meet and we're having a drink I'll ask what she or they drink and bring a bottle if it's a coffee meet I'll pay and if it's a naughty meet I won't aim at the curtains :0) does that count as romance

you're definitely buying lol

I'm counting my penny's out as I type lol "

as long as you remember how to count! !

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm still dying to use "I'd bury myself so deep in you the next man to pull me out would be crowned king of England" in an opening message.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm still dying to use "I'd bury myself so deep in you the next man to pull me out would be crowned king of England" in an opening message....."

Or.....I'd suck the fart out of your arse

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"I'm still dying to use "I'd bury myself so deep in you the next man to pull me out would be crowned king of England" in an opening message.....

Or.....I'd suck the fart out of your arse "

ewww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still dying to use "I'd bury myself so deep in you the next man to pull me out would be crowned king of England" in an opening message....."

Smooth.

I got one the other day 'Id drink your bath water' and one yesterday 'I'll gladly be your little bitch then I'll penetrate you so hard, how do you like that?'.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way, romance and swinging dont mix. I remain emotionless at all times.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I'm still dying to use "I'd bury myself so deep in you the next man to pull me out would be crowned king of England" in an opening message.....

Smooth.

I got one the other day 'Id drink your bath water' and one yesterday 'I'll gladly be your little bitch then I'll penetrate you so hard, how do you like that?'..... "

Its no "I'd eat chips out of your knickers"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still dying to use "I'd bury myself so deep in you the next man to pull me out would be crowned king of England" in an opening message.....

Smooth.

I got one the other day 'Id drink your bath water' and one yesterday 'I'll gladly be your little bitch then I'll penetrate you so hard, how do you like that?'..... "

Wrong emoticon I meant this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still dying to use "I'd bury myself so deep in you the next man to pull me out would be crowned king of England" in an opening message.....

Smooth.

I got one the other day 'Id drink your bath water' and one yesterday 'I'll gladly be your little bitch then I'll penetrate you so hard, how do you like that?'.....

Its no "I'd eat chips out of your knickers" "

And go back for the grease....

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"No way, romance and swinging dont mix. I remain emotionless at all times. "

I've always wanted to meet a fem bot, but then I realised who you are! Welcome back my dear...you're not emotionless, you're very sweet.

Ooops I've just wrecked your tough forum persona....disregard.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"I'm still dying to use "I'd bury myself so deep in you the next man to pull me out would be crowned king of England" in an opening message.....

Smooth.

I got one the other day 'Id drink your bath water' and one yesterday 'I'll gladly be your little bitch then I'll penetrate you so hard, how do you like that?'.....

Its no "I'd eat chips out of your knickers"

And go back for the grease.... "

red! ! Don't encourage him. .. You know what he's like lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm still dying to use "I'd bury myself so deep in you the next man to pull me out would be crowned king of England" in an opening message.....

Smooth.

I got one the other day 'Id drink your bath water' and one yesterday 'I'll gladly be your little bitch then I'll penetrate you so hard, how do you like that?'.....

Its no "I'd eat chips out of your knickers"

And go back for the grease.... "

Haha.....top notch

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I'm still dying to use "I'd bury myself so deep in you the next man to pull me out would be crowned king of England" in an opening message.....

Smooth.

I got one the other day 'Id drink your bath water' and one yesterday 'I'll gladly be your little bitch then I'll penetrate you so hard, how do you like that?'.....

Its no "I'd eat chips out of your knickers"

And go back for the grease....

red! ! Don't encourage him. .. You know what he's like lol "

What am I like exactly????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm still dying to use "I'd bury myself so deep in you the next man to pull me out would be crowned king of England" in an opening message.....

Or.....I'd suck the fart out of your arse

ewww "

Ah come on......isn't that what every woman wants to hear!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No way, romance and swinging dont mix. I remain emotionless at all times.

I've always wanted to meet a fem bot, but then I realised who you are! Welcome back my dear...you're not emotionless, you're very sweet.

Ooops I've just wrecked your tough forum persona....disregard. "

Shhh. I'm a keyboard warrior apparently.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"No way, romance and swinging dont mix. I remain emotionless at all times.

I've always wanted to meet a fem bot, but then I realised who you are! Welcome back my dear...you're not emotionless, you're very sweet.

Ooops I've just wrecked your tough forum persona....disregard.

Shhh. I'm a keyboard warrior apparently. "

Keep fighting the good fight. Can't message you but friend request sent. Hope you've been well xx

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"I'm still dying to use "I'd bury myself so deep in you the next man to pull me out would be crowned king of England" in an opening message.....

Smooth.

I got one the other day 'Id drink your bath water' and one yesterday 'I'll gladly be your little bitch then I'll penetrate you so hard, how do you like that?'.....

Its no "I'd eat chips out of your knickers"

And go back for the grease....

red! ! Don't encourage him. .. You know what he's like lol

What am I like exactly????"

You're a very naughty boy! !

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I'm still dying to use "I'd bury myself so deep in you the next man to pull me out would be crowned king of England" in an opening message.....

Smooth.

I got one the other day 'Id drink your bath water' and one yesterday 'I'll gladly be your little bitch then I'll penetrate you so hard, how do you like that?'.....

Its no "I'd eat chips out of your knickers"

And go back for the grease....

red! ! Don't encourage him. .. You know what he's like lol

What am I like exactly????

You're a very naughty boy! ! "

Can't argue with fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still dying to use "I'd bury myself so deep in you the next man to pull me out would be crowned king of England" in an opening message.....

Smooth.

I got one the other day 'Id drink your bath water' and one yesterday 'I'll gladly be your little bitch then I'll penetrate you so hard, how do you like that?'.....

Its no "I'd eat chips out of your knickers" "

You always say the right things. I'm officially in love

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