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By *illow1972 OP   Man
over a year ago

Naas

....get very, very, very, very, very upset and annoyed and distressed etc at guys mailing them, when the dreaded "not looking for single guys" clearly appears on their profiles?

I've read some very eloquently written short prose on numerous profiles, proffering such a position but yet plenty of the veri's are from ..........single guys.

Not that I'm sending out 10's of mails every day or anything of the sort but would one care enlighten me?

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By *o pants partyCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"....get very, very, very, very, very upset and annoyed and distressed etc at guys mailing them, when the dreaded "not looking for single guys" clearly appears on their profiles?

I've read some very eloquently written short prose on numerous profiles, proffering such a position but yet plenty of the veri's are from ..........single guys.

Not that I'm sending out 10's of mails every day or anything of the sort but would one care enlighten me?"

It's not receiving the mails from single guys that riles us...we don't mind chatting to them, lots of decent single guys on here!! It's the mails from single guys that say 'wanna fuck' or 'are u looking for a single guy' with a cock pic attached.... read the profile fuckwit!!

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I have met couples that dont meet single guys but its mainly at parties. and I still don't mail a profile that states they dont meet single guys because whats the point ?

as for them getting irate I understand I was part of a cpl and even do we had not meeting anyone we still got 100s of mails asking to meet it gets very tiring trying to tru the bollox to the maila from friends etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason for people been verified by guys and it stating on the profile . Not meeting single guys . Could be because preferences change quite a bit on fab . What people try this month night not be what they want next month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they check out and perve profiles like the rest of us . . But they decide who they would like to contact instead of being swamped with mail. . . .

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think they check out and perve profiles like the rest of us . . But they decide who they would like to contact instead of being swamped with mail. . . ."

Otherwise we would be swamped with mails but some really lovely decent guys out there just takes time to find them

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"....get very, very, very, very, very upset and annoyed and distressed etc at guys mailing them, when the dreaded "not looking for single guys" clearly appears on their profiles?

I've read some very eloquently written short prose on numerous profiles, proffering such a position but yet plenty of the veri's are from ..........single guys.

Not that I'm sending out 10's of mails every day or anything of the sort but would one care enlighten me?"

We reply to a lot of them. We not looking for single guys. We don't get annoyed by it. If idiots out there we just ignore. You gotta give every one the right to be who they are if that makes sense.

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

We don't mind anyone messaging us, and we try to reply to all messages. There have only been a couple of times in the last year where we have received messages that weren't particularly nice. But other than that we have no issues with getting mesages from single guys even though we aren't looking to meet them.

Miss McJoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have not looking for single guys. It's not the mails that annoy me it's the responses I get back saying " you were just a pity fuck , you look easy , who'd want to fuck you anyway you ugly and fat" . . So I don't meet single men as much but I do still talk to some and maybe meet them . . I've met some great men . It's the bloody immature and childish behavior some " boys" have towards a simple no thank you

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By *o pants partyCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I have not looking for single guys. It's not the mails that annoy me it's the responses I get back saying " you were just a pity fuck , you look easy , who'd want to fuck you anyway you ugly and fat" . . So I don't meet single men as much but I do still talk to some and maybe meet them . . I've met some great men . It's the bloody immature and childish behavior some " boys" have towards a simple no thank you "

omg that's terrible?! Are they really that mean? !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....get very, very, very, very, very upset and annoyed and distressed etc at guys mailing them, when the dreaded "not looking for single guys" clearly appears on their profiles?

I've read some very eloquently written short prose on numerous profiles, proffering such a position but yet plenty of the veri's are from ..........single guys.

Not that I'm sending out 10's of mails every day or anything of the sort but would one care enlighten me?

We reply to a lot of them. We not looking for single guys. We don't get annoyed by it. If idiots out there we just ignore. You gotta give every one the right to be who they are if that makes sense."

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"I have not looking for single guys. It's not the mails that annoy me it's the responses I get back saying " you were just a pity fuck , you look easy , who'd want to fuck you anyway you ugly and fat" . . So I don't meet single men as much but I do still talk to some and maybe meet them . . I've met some great men . It's the bloody immature and childish behavior some " boys" have towards a simple no thank you "

that's disgusting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....get very, very, very, very, very upset and annoyed and distressed etc at guys mailing them, when the dreaded "not looking for single guys" clearly appears on their profiles?

I've read some very eloquently written short prose on numerous profiles, proffering such a position but yet plenty of the veri's are from ..........single guys.

Not that I'm sending out 10's of mails every day or anything of the sort but would one care enlighten me?

It's not receiving the mails from single guys that riles us...we don't mind chatting to them, lots of decent single guys on here!! It's the mails from single guys that say 'wanna fuck' or 'are u looking for a single guy' with a cock pic attached.... read the profile fuckwit!! "
yea what do these blokes think that people are that stupid ,ive gotten plenty of mail from blokes just asking to fuck me for money ,who are these fucking retards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have not looking for single guys. It's not the mails that annoy me it's the responses I get back saying " you were just a pity fuck , you look easy , who'd want to fuck you anyway you ugly and fat" . . So I don't meet single men as much but I do still talk to some and maybe meet them . . I've met some great men . It's the bloody immature and childish behavior some " boys" have towards a simple no thank you "

and theres the reason for the bad reputation that single guys get onsite. When is the last time a single male would have received s nasty vindictive message with that type of content its simply not nice people. One persons hubba hubba is another person no thank you,it takes all shapes sizes and personalities to fill this world and theres someone for everyone. Just be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just get frustrated at people mailing me in general looking to meet.

Or abusing me because I'm not meeting.

It's kinda funny though and good to see who I won't be meeting when I'm back meeting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We reply to most of our messages from single males and we have met a few but we changed our profile to not meeting single males as we decided to meet more couples and females . The only time we would get annoyed is if we get a message saying wanna fuck with a cock pic attached or If they person messaging clearly hasnt read our profile. There defo is some lovely single guys out there though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have not looking for single guys. It's not the mails that annoy me it's the responses I get back saying " you were just a pity fuck , you look easy , who'd want to fuck you anyway you ugly and fat" . . So I don't meet single men as much but I do still talk to some and maybe meet them . . I've met some great men . It's the bloody immature and childish behavior some " boys" have towards a simple no thank you

omg that's terrible?! Are they really that mean? !!"

Oh that's not the half of it I've had alot worse . At this point I'm turned off meeting males . . My block list is pages full . At the beginning it really hurt but now I block and move on .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not email them as they say they don't want to be contacted by single males (although if they REALLY wouldn't want to be contacted there's always the mail filters....)

If you're very interested in them you could always send them a wink. You never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and as for them rude single guys? They only make the decent ones look better, in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would not email them as they say they don't want to be contacted by single males (although if they REALLY wouldn't want to be contacted there's always the mail filters....)

If you're very interested in them you could always send them a wink. You never know "

If you block single guys from mailing you they don't appear on the 'whos looked at me' feature as far as I remember... So if you are meeting single guys but don't want mail, you can't see those that may be interested /interest you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would not email them as they say they don't want to be contacted by single males (although if they REALLY wouldn't want to be contacted there's always the mail filters....)

If you're very interested in them you could always send them a wink. You never know

If you block single guys from mailing you they don't appear on the 'whos looked at me' feature as far as I remember... So if you are meeting single guys but don't want mail, you can't see those that may be interested /interest you"

that's contradicting the couple's request of not wanting to be contacted by single males. If they're not interested than why would they care to see who looks at their profile?

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By *illow1972 OP   Man
over a year ago

Naas

Oh Jaysus no, I wouldn't dream of mailing couples who are not looking for single guys. We all have our own preferences.

When I open a couples profile, the first thing I do is scroll down to see if they meet single guys, if not, no harm done and I move on. If they are, I'll read the profile (as long as its not 26 paragraphs beginning with "We Don't....."). Then I perve the pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would not email them as they say they don't want to be contacted by single males (although if they REALLY wouldn't want to be contacted there's always the mail filters....)

If you're very interested in them you could always send them a wink. You never know

If you block single guys from mailing you they don't appear on the 'whos looked at me' feature as far as I remember... So if you are meeting single guys but don't want mail, you can't see those that may be interested /interest you

that's contradicting the couple's request of not wanting to be contacted by single males. If they're not interested than why would they care to see who looks at their profile?

"

I was just pointing out that that's what happens with male mail filters more so than anything

Some people have no single guys on their profile but prefer to contact the guys themselves rather than deal with mails, so while blocking male mails is a good idea in theory, they can't see potentials who haven't mailed them due to the 'no single males' line on their profile?

Also just curiosity to see who's perving on them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people who get that angry about getting too much mail on fab are pretty lucky that they dont have real life problems to get that angry about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people who get that angry about getting too much mail on fab are pretty lucky that they dont have real life problems to get that angry about."

I'm gonna mail you aaaalllllll day

Ne plnz?

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By *illow1972 OP   Man
over a year ago

Naas

My life revolves around clicking the "Who has looked at my profile" button.

My life revolves very slowly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people who get that angry about getting too much mail on fab are pretty lucky that they dont have real life problems to get that angry about."

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My life revolves around clicking the "Who has looked at my profile" button.

My life revolves very slowly."

I ninja perve so nobody sees me coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have not looking for single guys. It's not the mails that annoy me it's the responses I get back saying " you were just a pity fuck , you look easy , who'd want to fuck you anyway you ugly and fat" . . So I don't meet single men as much but I do still talk to some and maybe meet them . . I've met some great men . It's the bloody immature and childish behavior some " boys" have towards a simple no thank you

and theres the reason for the bad reputation that single guys get onsite. When is the last time a single male would have received s nasty vindictive message with that type of content its simply not nice people. One persons hubba hubba is another person no thank you,it takes all shapes sizes and personalities to fill this world and theres someone for everyone. Just be nice "
you said that spot on,but were all born with manners ,theses lads that just mail looking a fuck are a fucking insult been a man ,i would never treat a woman like shite or just ask her for a fuck ,these lads have to be fucked out of this site ,sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are alway amazed by some men's lack of social skills. you would never say 'wanna fuck' in a bar, so why on here as an opening line!??

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

We have on our profile that we will meet single guy's , now we do get the odd arsehole but not half as much as before when it was only couples and single girls. They probably read it now and go "oh shite these will meet" we feel it s out the guys looking for virtual porn and looking for endless mails.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are alway amazed by some men's lack of social skills. you would never say 'wanna fuck' in a bar, so why on here as an opening line!??"

Or drop their pants asking wanna suck this. I love opening the mails that address just Ms.innocent and I tell them its actually Mr.bossy online at the moment and I've no interest in cock

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By *idandnancy69Couple
over a year ago

carrickfergus


"I have not looking for single guys. It's not the mails that annoy me it's the responses I get back saying " you were just a pity fuck , you look easy , who'd want to fuck you anyway you ugly and fat" . . So I don't meet single men as much but I do still talk to some and maybe meet them . . I've met some great men . It's the bloody immature and childish behavior some " boys" have towards a simple no thank you

omg that's terrible?! Are they really that mean? !!"

Yip they can be

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"we are alway amazed by some men's lack of social skills. you would never say 'wanna fuck' in a bar, so why on here as an opening line!??"

Having thought about this a bit and to be honest we fairly new here we think a lot probably believe the publicity about the sex site scene. You know the kind of get laid locally tonight stuff. In fairness we've never seen this about fab but some sites use it to sell their wares so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have not looking for single guys. It's not the mails that annoy me it's the responses I get back saying " you were just a pity fuck , you look easy , who'd want to fuck you anyway you ugly and fat" . . So I don't meet single men as much but I do still talk to some and maybe meet them . . I've met some great men . It's the bloody immature and childish behavior some " boys" have towards a simple no thank you "

Its like certain forms of religious extremism, if the people honestly believed what they say then they would have no reason to tell you. The very fact they insult you shows how much it effects them. The truly sure one says nothing as there is nothing to gain. Unfortunate you have to pay for their insecurity.

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By *reddieRaeCouple
over a year ago

Banbridge

We got some absolute crackers before we blocked single blokes.....one encouraging Rae to "sneak away from that looser for the best hour of her life" and one "how about now for the phone sex you promised"......which she never did, but did cause a bit of a discussion in the house...... Those are the two that stick Out from dozens. Not realising, obviously that with work etc, I'm on much more often than Rae......

Now, it's not to tar everyone with the same brush, we've met some dead on single guys at M&Gs, socials etc and we've nothing against a bit of banter.....but blocking messages here has made fab life about a million % better, as we've no interest and no point inviting the hassle!

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id a fella crack up yesterday cos I didnt want to send him a face pic, proceeded to explain the way the site works to me, even though Ive been here for 5 years, he got told where to go then blocked, cant be arsed with people like that, if you dont like the way I use the site say ok and move on, dont try to tell me what to do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met single males at partys, had them blocked. We have them now unblocked, a well wrote massage gets our a response deff from us. We dont mind them now but have left it on our profile that we arent looking for single males , because only the rare one or two grabs our attion enough that,we might meet

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

If I see the 'no single males' thing I never email someone, don't see the point in being rude. Tis annoying if you mail someone that doesn't reply though.

I never use the wink option (unless I'm winked first) but I do often fab pics which I see as a more subtle form of winking. If someone wants to act on that then it's their choice.

I have had a number of contacts recently from couples who have that 'no males please' type thing on their profiles. Some choose to occasionally try something new and do the selecting themselves which works for them and in those instances for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't, it's only a matter of replying thanks but no thanks or Come to Mama

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By *y2funMan
over a year ago

DUDLEY


"....get very, very, very, very, very upset and annoyed and distressed etc at guys mailing them, ?"

not at all.... anyone is free to message us if you piss either of us off you'll get blocked or ignored, but message from single guys isn't an issue for us..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't believe people behave like that - what are they hoping to achieve??? Angry little men I'd say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love gettin messages from anyone.

Have filters on, so already sorted whom Im 99% certain I won't meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....get very, very, very, very, very upset and annoyed and distressed etc at guys mailing them, when the dreaded "not looking for single guys" clearly appears on their profiles?

I've read some very eloquently written short prose on numerous profiles, proffering such a position but yet plenty of the veri's are from ..........single guys.

Not that I'm sending out 10's of mails every day or anything of the sort but would one care enlighten me?

It's not receiving the mails from single guys that riles us...we don't mind chatting to them, lots of decent single guys on here!! It's the mails from single guys that say 'wanna fuck' or 'are u looking for a single guy' with a cock pic attached.... read the profile fuckwit!! "

So true

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"If I see the 'no single males' thing I never email someone, don't see the point in being rude. Tis annoying if you mail someone that doesn't reply though.

I never use the wink option (unless I'm winked first) but I do often fab pics which I see as a more subtle form of winking. If someone wants to act on that then it's their choice.

I have had a number of contacts recently from couples who have that 'no males please' type thing on their profiles. Some choose to occasionally try something new and do the selecting themselves which works for them and in those instances for me too

"

Yep, I'm exactly the same.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"we are alway amazed by some men's lack of social skills. you would never say 'wanna fuck' in a bar, so why on here as an opening line!??"

guys would say "wanna fuck" in a bar if they thought women would go for it,that's why alot of the gay scene is about anonymous sex,cruising and the like,that's men being men

men have a built in need to spread their seed,its about survival, and were like that from the beginning of time,if we weren't id say the human race would have died out long ago

you're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think they check out and perve profiles like the rest of us . . But they decide who they would like to contact instead of being swamped with mail. . . .

Otherwise we would be swamped with mails but some really lovely decent guys out there just takes time to find them "

We have it on our profile but just to stop us being swamoed by mail! We still get single guys mailing us and some of them are 100% then theres the others....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

filters are there for a reason if i dont want single guys to mail id block them

can never understand people complaining about getting to much mail

if your getting to much use the filters

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"filters are there for a reason if i dont want single guys to mail id block them

can never understand people complaining about getting to much mail

if your getting to much use the filters "

That's it in a nutshell.....

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