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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you ever been put off someone by who they have met?

Like if you saw someone had a verification from someone, or knew that they had met, would it make you think twice about contacting /meeting that person?

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Have you ever been put off someone by who they have met?

Like if you saw someone had a verification from someone, or knew that they had met, would it make you think twice about contacting /meeting that person?

"

no it wouldn't as we always like to judge people for ourselves when we would meet, and what happens between others is non of our buisness. thats the way we view things anyway.

mr crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever been put off someone by who they have met?

Like if you saw someone had a verification from someone, or knew that they had met, would it make you think twice about contacting /meeting that person?

"

I have done yes.its not a very nice thing to say but I have experienced that before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever been put off someone by who they have met?

Like if you saw someone had a verification from someone, or knew that they had met, would it make you think twice about contacting /meeting that person?

"

Yup we have been known to do this but was a case of any hole is a goal for the person in question

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Have you ever been put off someone by who they have met?

Like if you saw someone had a verification from someone, or knew that they had met, would it make you think twice about contacting /meeting that person?

"

I would give it some consideration, but ultimately form my own opinion.

different strokes for different folks and all that.

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

Ya, it would for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am perfectly capable of putting people off by myself . . . Lol. . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take a lot into consideration when thinking about meeting someone, and yes it can be a factor for me, depending on the reasons I have for having reservations.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"Have you ever been put off someone by who they have met?

Like if you saw someone had a verification from someone, or knew that they had met, would it make you think twice about contacting /meeting that person?

I would give it some consideration, but ultimately form my own opinion.

different strokes for different folks and all that."

As above... it would make me think harder dependent on the reason I had qualms about the person they had met and the type of meet... But ultimately I would make my own decision based on my own interaction chatting with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to my shame i have to admit yes i have done it

and will no doubt do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is that would u not find out for urself xxxx

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"to my shame i have to admit yes i have done it

and will no doubt do it again "

There's no shame in using the site in whatever way you wish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to my shame i have to admit yes i have done it

and will no doubt do it again

There's no shame in using the site in whatever way you wish."

I think that's the most sensible thing ive heard today!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to my shame i have to admit yes i have done it

and will no doubt do it again

There's no shame in using the site in whatever way you wish.

I think that's the most sensible thing ive heard today! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I never have personally but I know folk who have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to my shame i have to admit yes i have done it

and will no doubt do it again

There's no shame in using the site in whatever way you wish."

I have also done this and will keep doing this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i joined here, just over a year ago, certain people contacted me to 'warn' me about others, but i chose to make my own mind up. I've been very lucky, i've liked everyone i met, i've even loved a few of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever been put off someone by who they have met?

Like if you saw someone had a verification from someone, or knew that they had met, would it make you think twice about contacting /meeting that person?

no it wouldn't as we always like to judge people for ourselves when we would meet, and what happens between others is non of our buisness. thats the way we view things anyway.

mr crazy "

same with us,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When i joined here, just over a year ago, certain people contacted me to 'warn' me about others, but i chose to make my own mind up. I've been very lucky, i've liked everyone i met, i've even loved a few of them "

I generally ignore these kind of mails, apart from any that indicate that my safety could be compromised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When i joined here, just over a year ago, certain people contacted me to 'warn' me about others, but i chose to make my own mind up. I've been very lucky, i've liked everyone i met, i've even loved a few of them

I generally ignore these kind of mails, apart from any that indicate that my safety could be compromised "
I took note, made sure someone knew where i was and could get to me if necessary and went with my gut. It's stood me well till now, i have no reason to doubt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever been put off someone by who they have met?

Like if you saw someone had a verification from someone, or knew that they had met, would it make you think twice about contacting /meeting that person?

Me too ..... I dont like to judge but sometimes you just have toi

I have done yes.its not a very nice thing to say but I have experienced that before "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When i joined here, just over a year ago, certain people contacted me to 'warn' me about others, but i chose to make my own mind up. I've been very lucky, i've liked everyone i met, i've even loved a few of them "

I think if someone is going out of their way to contact others about fabbers, unless its to do with them being crazy stalking psychos, in which case they should be going to the police first, then I would say they really have too much time on their hands. I've had stories come back to me in the past about ones mailing people telling them not to meet me, but even at that I just thought, what a pair of saddos and let them get on with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever been put off someone by who they have met?

Like if you saw someone had a verification from someone, or knew that they had met, would it make you think twice about contacting /meeting that person?

"

Yea I ruled out a few people cause they met one person in a very short amount of time. They could have easily caught something and I preferred not to risk my own health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I'm guilty of it and totally misjudged a person who is now a very good friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to make my own mind about people. I am not for everybody and not everybody is for me.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"When i joined here, just over a year ago, certain people contacted me to 'warn' me about others, but i chose to make my own mind up. I've been very lucky, i've liked everyone i met, i've even loved a few of them "

wow! !! Never had that ever .Unless it's warning me about someone that's a threat or dodgy and from someone I know know is worthy of trust I can only think that is really spiteful .... How childish

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"When i joined here, just over a year ago, certain people contacted me to 'warn' me about others, but i chose to make my own mind up. I've been very lucky, i've liked everyone i met, i've even loved a few of them

wow! !! Never had that ever .Unless it's warning me about someone that's a threat or dodgy and from someone I know know is worthy of trust I can only think that is really spiteful .... How childish "

Never had it either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me neither, but it doesn't surprise me at all as there are quite a few delusional folk here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me neither, but it doesn't surprise me at all as there are quite a few delusional folk here "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the people who warned me about a particular person mailed others too, and went on to warn me about how many people on here don't practice safe sex and tried to stop me meeting certain people. That's one of the reasons my veris and friends list is hidden. Hopefully it goes without saying that i've always insisted on condoms and have had checkups to keep myself and others safe

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