FabSwingers.com forum: verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do others think about numerous verifications on profile and those added on a daily basis? Is it a turn off that people have been with anyone and everyone or a turn on that everyone says they had a good time and we should get some too!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Sometimes verifications dont mean they had fun, and sometimes fun doesn't mean verifications.

I like my verifications to look like they were only coffee meets, cos its nobody's business what went on.

For all ye know I might not have had sex with anyone here. It could all be coffee!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes verifications dont mean they had fun, and sometimes fun doesn't mean verifications.

I like my verifications to look like they were only coffee meets, cos its nobody's business what went on.

For all ye know I might not have had sex with anyone here. It could all be coffee!"

I don't get y ones judge others on here it's an effin swing site !! Live and let live and if u don't like it log off and go to Facebook !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get y ones judge others on here it's an effin swing site !! Live and let live and if u don't like it log off and go to Facebook !!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i guess its a personal thing as to whether you show verifications or not. . . I wouldn't judge someone by their veri's or how many. . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes verifications dont mean they had fun, and sometimes fun doesn't mean verifications.

I like my verifications to look like they were only coffee meets, cos its nobody's business what went on.

For all ye know I might not have had sex with anyone here. It could all be coffee!

I don't get y ones judge others on here it's an effin swing site !! Live and let live and if u don't like it log off and go to Facebook !!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still looking for my first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play to anyone with lots of verifies we are all here to have fun and it shows that maybe they're having fun?????

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By *uaveGentMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Sometimes verifications dont mean they had fun, and sometimes fun doesn't mean verifications.

I like my verifications to look like they were only coffee meets, cos its nobody's business what went on.

For all ye know I might not have had sex with anyone here. It could all be coffee!

I don't get y ones judge others on here it's an effin swing site !! Live and let live and if u don't like it log off and go to Facebook !!"

A certain type of swinger is always judging others because its the only way they feel comfortable with what they do.

Scene would be a whole lot better if people just stuck to looking for compatible playmates rather than sneer about what others got up to when they arent around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair play to anyone with lots of verifies we are all here to have fun and it shows that maybe they're having fun????? "

Did we just become best friends there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair play to anyone with lots of verifies we are all here to have fun and it shows that maybe they're having fun?????

Did we just become best friends there? "

Besties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair play to anyone with lots of verifies we are all here to have fun and it shows that maybe they're having fun?????

Did we just become best friends there? "
I think so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair play to anyone with lots of verifies we are all here to have fun and it shows that maybe they're having fun?????

Did we just become best friends there? I think so!

Mines read quite graphic lol but who's to judge anyone !!

I got a message saying have u no respect fir urself lol and this was from a married man pmsl yeah dead on what would ur wife think if she knew how much of a perv u were !! Dickwad !! Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes verifications dont mean they had fun, and sometimes fun doesn't mean verifications.

I like my verifications to look like they were only coffee meets, cos its nobody's business what went on.

For all ye know I might not have had sex with anyone here. It could all be coffee!"

Well said John, there's a lot can be read into what it says in verifications. I was recently chatting with someone who told me they knew exactly who I've been with just by reading my veri's. How wrong they were thinking I've been with ones I have only meet socially and not realising there's people who also don't leave veris after proper meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair play to anyone with lots of verifies we are all here to have fun and it shows that maybe they're having fun?????

Did we just become best friends there? I think so!

Mines read quite graphic lol but who's to judge anyone !!

I got a message saying have u no respect fir urself lol and this was from a married man pmsl yeah dead on what would ur wife think if she knew how much of a perv u were !! Dickwad !! Rant over "
your verifies and pics look ace

im sure you where really bothered about his opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you think I'm hiding my veris and the veri summary? It's no ones business who and how many I have met. And as some said just because I have a verification of someone doesn't mean I didn't just have a coffee or actually had sex.

And so what if someone has two or more veris from the same day. Doesn't mean anything. Certainly not that they do it with anyone. Those two meets could have been with two fuck buddies.

There's too much judgemental crap on here sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all your views everyone, whether it's 30 verifications, 3 or none as long as we're all having safe fun then that's all that matters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's too much judgemental crap on here sometimes. "

So agree with this statement. Just get on and enjoy yourselves and you'll have more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

alot of ppl must have loadssssssss a fun going by some of the profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes verifications dont mean they had fun, and sometimes fun doesn't mean verifications.

I like my verifications to look like they were only coffee meets, cos its nobody's business what went on.

For all ye know I might not have had sex with anyone here. It could all be coffee!

I don't get y ones judge others on here it's an effin swing site !! Live and let live and if u don't like it log off and go to Facebook !!"

Well said miss

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By *excockMan
over a year ago

waterford

"Sometimes verifications dont mean they had fun, and sometimes fun doesn't mean verifications.

I like my verifications to look like they were only coffee meets, cos its nobody's business what went on.

For all ye know I might not have had sex with anyone here. It could all be coffee!

I don't get y ones judge others on here it's an effin swing site !! Live and let live and if u don't like it log off and go to Facebook !!"

I agree with you lolita... were here to have fun..enjoy each other..in fact I'm hoping I can add another veri to ur list real soon.. Dublin social?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have tousands of verifications and have about half of them hiding

Most of my profile is none from people fucking me but from partys

But who cares who u fuck or not fuck is your life u do what you want to do

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

"Sometimes verifications dont mean they had fun, and sometimes fun doesn't mean verifications.

I like my verifications to look like they were only coffee meets, cos its nobody's business what went on.

For all ye know I might not have had sex with anyone here. It could all be coffee!

I don't get y ones judge others on here it's an effin swing site !! Live and let live and if u don't like it log off and go to Facebook !!"

well said!

And surely we're all here for pretty much that same thing so why judge anyone about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verification dont mean shit! Nobody ever leaves a bad veri and just cause someone has loads of veris wouldnt turn me off could be from a m&g or anythin. And if someone hasnt got many doesnt mean they dont meet cause not everyone leaves them i know Ive had meets and not left veris. So i usually just ignore them and chat to the person and judge for myself whether theyd be someone im interested in meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok I've lost count of my veris, and recently a few of my male friends thought they would advise me that I should maybe take some off!! I have found some males take offence if you don't show their veris, most of the ones I have displayed are all m&gs, and social affairs, it really is no one's business how well I suck cock etc that's my business, so I think my moto is don't judge the book by the cover !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair play to anyone with lots of verifies we are all here to have fun and it shows that maybe they're having fun?????

Did we just become best friends there? I think so!

Mines read quite graphic lol but who's to judge anyone !!

im sure you where really bothered about his opinion

I just had my say and fingered the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes verifications dont mean they had fun, and sometimes fun doesn't mean verifications.

I like my verifications to look like they were only coffee meets, cos its nobody's business what went on.

For all ye know I might not have had sex with anyone here. It could all be coffee!

I don't get y ones judge others on here it's an effin swing site !! Live and let live and if u don't like it log off and go to Facebook !!

Well said miss "

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

A lady friend recently said in a constructive manner that I might have too many veris displayed, and that it would put her PFF meeting me. She has a fair point, but I worked for my veris and I'm proud of them though I could see that some would see me as a bit of man whore..even though most of them are from social events.

She still met me. (Just for coffee mind you)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lady friend recently said in a constructive manner that I might have too many veris displayed, and that it would put her PFF meeting me. She has a fair point, but I worked for my veris and I'm proud of them though I could see that some would see me as a bit of man whore..even though most of them are from social events.

She still met me. (Just for coffee mind you)

So if it's from coffee or a gangbang it doesn't matter and if it bothers them then u don't wanna meet them anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it all comes down to personal choice on what you write or choose to display .if u have enjoyed. Someone's company I don't see any harm in saying so ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think it all comes down to personal choice on what you write or choose to display .if u have enjoyed. Someone's company I don't see any harm in saying so .."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I've lost count of my veris, and recently a few of my male friends thought they would advise me that I should maybe take some off!! I have found some males take offence if you don't show their veris, most of the ones I have displayed are all m&gs, and social affairs, it really is no one's business how well I suck cock etc that's my business, so I think my moto is don't judge the obook by the cover !!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Very good points ladies, and glad to see....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's pretty much all been said, my (few) veris show I've had fun, and that's partially what they are there for.. I suppose people don't need to put in the step by step of what went down either but again, why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about when man ask u to leave a verification and they know they were shiet but still ask u to do it.I will not do it i just leave a verification when i had a good time and i met the person as no poin lying then the next person who meet them not going to enjoy

But every person is diferent mayeb if i dont click with someone that dont mean u dont either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about when man ask u to leave a verification and they know they were shiet but still ask u to do it.I will not do it i just leave a verification when i had a good time and i met the person as no poin lying then the next person who meet them not going to enjoy

But every person is diferent mayeb if i dont click with someone that dont mean u dont either "

All depends if they were shit but a nice guy I would leave a veri it wud be vague but suppose he cud b someone else's cup of tea xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex....

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

But every person is diferent mayeb if i dont click with someone that dont mean u dont either "

Exactly this. A veri should be that the person is genuine and not a messer, after that its up to the individual to make up their own mind.

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By *excockMan
over a year ago

waterford

But every person is diferent mayeb if i dont click with someone that dont mean u dont either

Exactly this. A veri should be that the person is genuine and not a messer, after that its up to the individual to make up their own mind."

Agree 100%... were all different people...we may click we may not.. a veri can mean different things... I think the main one is that the person is real and actually turned up for a meet when they agreed too... there are a lot of time wasters about..so that's a big plus for me.

The rest I like to find out for myself

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over a year ago

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By *onyg4funMan
over a year ago

South

Some verifications are so fake also, there are people who have offered to verify others on here to make them more "marketable". Ever see contradictory information in mutual verifications? One person says something, the other says the opposite, makes you wonder if they ever met! Anyway, most verifications are genuine. But am not into looking at profiles where they have verifications almost every day! Too desperate for my liking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well can I just say sometimes I would get 3 or 4 verifications in one day if I've been to a m&g or a party or on my day off and have had coffee with a few ppl......And I'm far from desperate !! Lol

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Well can I just say sometimes I would get 3 or 4 verifications in one day if I've been to a m&g or a party or on my day off and have had coffee with a few ppl......And I'm far from desperate !! Lol "

Exactly! Because some people got to socials or are lucky enough to have regular fun it makes them desperate? Hardly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well can I just say sometimes I would get 3 or 4 verifications in one day if I've been to a m&g or a party or on my day off and have had coffee with a few ppl......And I'm far from desperate !! Lol

Exactly! Because some people got to socials or are lucky enough to have regular fun it makes them desperate? Hardly."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If ppl took the time to read a few of the verifications they might realise that !!

As I said before don't judge the book by the cover but hey.....its their loss

I love fab and having a ball so really don't care what people think .... and have met such lovely people

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By *excockMan
over a year ago

waterford

"Well can I just say sometimes I would get 3 or 4 verifications in one day if I've been to a m&g or a party or on my day off and have had coffee with a few ppl......And I'm far from desperate !! Lol

Exactly! Because some people got to socials or are lucky enough to have regular fun it makes them desperate? Hardly.

agree 100%

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Does it really matter how many verifications some one has.Surly if your chatting & meet up with someone & get on just take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much emphasis on veri's I think. Best meeting someone and see for yourself what they're like.

All I expect in my own veri's is honesty, and I return the same with guys I've met. I'll always be honest.

I've no desire to read 'that I can suck like a Dyson', no one believes that rubbish anyway!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I've no desire to read 'that I can suck like a Dyson', no one believes that rubbish anyway!

you mean you DON'T?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too much emphasis on veri's I think. Best meeting someone and see for yourself what they're like.

All I expect in my own veri's is honesty, and I return the same with guys I've met. I'll always be honest.

I've no desire to read 'that I can suck like a Dyson', no one believes that rubbish anyway!

Yes I would agree with that Red .....that's just crap if I get one like that I don't display it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no desire to read 'that I can suck like a Dyson', no one believes that rubbish anyway!

you mean you DON'T?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too much emphasis on veri's I think. Best meeting someone and see for yourself what they're like.

All I expect in my own veri's is honesty, and I return the same with guys I've met. I'll always be honest.

I've no desire to read 'that I can suck like a Dyson', no one believes that rubbish anyway!

Yes I would agree with that Red .....that's just crap if I get one like that I don't display it!"

I'd rather keep it real!

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By *excockMan
over a year ago

waterford

"Too much emphasis on veri's I think. Best meeting someone and see for yourself what they're like.

All I expect in my own veri's is honesty, and I return the same with guys I've met. I'll always be honest.

I've no desire to read 'that I can suck like a Dyson', no one believes that rubbish anyway!

Yes I would agree with that Red .....that's just crap if I get one like that I don't display it!

I'd rather keep it real! "

Real is always better

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Too much emphasis on veri's I think. Best meeting someone and see for yourself what they're like.

All I expect in my own veri's is honesty, and I return the same with guys I've met. I'll always be honest.

I've no desire to read 'that I can suck like a Dyson', no one believes that rubbish anyway!

Yes I would agree with that Red .....that's just crap if I get one like that I don't display it!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own..... Real swinging is about freedom of expression and if u want to share or not share ur decision surely ?

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By *excockMan
over a year ago

waterford

"Each to their own..... Real swinging is about freedom of expression and if u want to share or not share ur decision surely ?"

Agree 100%

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By *ony_cluedoMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Verifications by webcam are pointless. I only look at ones for meeting in real life. If someone I've met has verified someone new I'm talking to then I put a lot of weight in that. If I don't know any of the people who have verified someone then I look at who verified the verifier and hopefully I'll see someone I know. I get verified in bunches as I play mostly at parties now so may get 5 or 6 from one night. So the number of verifications someone has doesn't bother me. I've also been on the site a while so the number will build up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes verifications dont mean they had fun, and sometimes fun doesn't mean verifications.

I like my verifications to look like they were only coffee meets, cos its nobody's business what went on.

For all ye know I might not have had sex with anyone here. It could all be coffee!

I don't get y ones judge others on here it's an effin swing site !! Live and let live and if u don't like it log off and go to Facebook !!"
very well said ,,, agree totally ,,,!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes verifications dont mean they had fun, and sometimes fun doesn't mean verifications.

I like my verifications to look like they were only coffee meets, cos its nobody's business what went on.

For all ye know I might not have had sex with anyone here. It could all be coffee!

I don't get y ones judge others on here it's an effin swing site !! Live and let live and if u don't like it log off and go to Facebook !!

A certain type of swinger is always judging others because its the only way they feel comfortable with what they do.

Scene would be a whole lot better if people just stuck to looking for compatible playmates rather than sneer about what others got up to when they arent around."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get y ones judge others on here it's an effin swing site !! Live and let live and if u don't like it log off and go to Facebook !!

A certain type of swinger is always judging others because its the only way they feel comfortable with what they do.

Scene would be a whole lot better if people just stuck to looking for compatible playmates rather than sneer about what others got up to when they arent around.

so true...

old profiles with no verifications are a scary stuff...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few weeks ago somebody mailed me saying...

"wow have you really fucked 100 people"

Needless to say I won't be "fucking them" Twats

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"Fair play to anyone with lots of verifies we are all here to have fun and it shows that maybe they're having fun?????

Did we just become best friends there? I think so!

Mines read quite graphic lol but who's to judge anyone !!

I got a message saying have u no respect fir urself lol and this was from a married man pmsl yeah dead on what would ur wife think if she knew how much of a perv u were !! Dickwad !! Rant over "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She still met me. (Just for coffee mind you)

A man whore...... love it!!

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By *amien88Man
over a year ago

wicklow

Im still stuck on one

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

I never get the issue with this!

.... Maybe people should read veris rather than judge on the number of them. .I have loads of social ones because I love going to m&gs and I like to have coffee with people before I would usually consider playing with them. ... But it's pretty obvious (without being graphic! If I have played) .....In my book coffee means coffee. .. It's not code. .I don't play with everyone I meey or everyone who has verified me..

But why should it actually matter to anyone anyway! !

..I play safe... I don't judge. . And I don't expect to be judged tbh....

Maybe people should spend more energy getting on with their lives instead of judging others

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By *onyg4funMan
over a year ago

South

"Well can I just say sometimes I would get 3 or 4 verifications in one day if I've been to a m&g or a party or on my day off and have had coffee with a few ppl......And I'm far from desperate !! Lol

Exactly! Because some people got to socials or are lucky enough to have regular fun it makes them desperate? Hardly.

agree 100%

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Actually I do know the difference between social meets at a M&G and 1 on 1s! I am referring to verifications of supposedly 1 on 1s, where inconsistent information exists between the "mutual" verifications, one contradicts the other! It is so obvious that hey are fake.

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