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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you send face pictures over the internet (email or upload here) / text or kik etc etc to a prospective meet?

If not, what is your reasoning?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course. .. id never meet without sending/receiving

I admit there are risks but life is a risk anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, we don't do nor expect others to do blind dates, pics or webchat required first......

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Totally agree have to see the other person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not like sending it through the site. No problems with sharing through different channels.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Our opinion is:

When first contacting a potential meet, we like to send a few mails here, then kik and chat a while to build up a certain “trust” and to see if we are all on the same page.

We don’t and wont send face pictures . there are various reasons for this:

Some are:

1. We might be known to the other person(s) and the other person backs out and there is always an uncertainty where the pictures might end up.

2. Phones and PC’s can get virus and the other person could be sending pictures etc without their knowledge.

3. Pictures by text etc mostly do not give an accurate picture of what a person is like.

We like to chat first for a while, then arrange a coffee face to face meet and see what happens. Then everyone has the same level of exposure to everyone else, with no surprises. (hardly a "blind date" as we have chatted awhile)

Generally this has worked well for us . ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Our opinion is:

When first contacting a potential meet, we like to send a few mails here, then kik and chat a while to build up a certain “trust” and to see if we are all on the same page.

We don’t and wont send face pictures . there are various reasons for this:

Some are:

1. We might be known to the other person(s) and if the other person backs out and there is always an uncertainty where the pictures might end up.

2. Phones and PC’s can get virus and the other person could be sending pictures etc without their knowledge.

3. Pictures by text etc mostly do not give an accurate picture of what a person is like.

We like to chat first for a while, then arrange a coffee face to face meet and see what happens. Then everyone has the same level of exposure to everyone else, with no surprises. (hardly a "blind date" as we have chatted awhile)

Generally this has worked well for us !

"

sorry : there were a couple of typos in the above

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

U do what ever works for u and use the site to ur best advantage but I do agree that a coffee puts ever one on a level playing field I don't know how many times i have chatted to some one and they asked a fave pic and decide that I am not for them but they do return the favour and resecently seen a post where some one passed on another's face pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"U do what ever works for u and use the site to ur best advantage but I do agree that a coffee puts ever one on a level playing field I don't know how many times i have chatted to some one and they asked a face pic and decide that I am not for them but they do return the favour and recently seen a post where some one passed on another's face pic "

I know of several instances of this where "some one passed on another's face pic" .... the temptation is always there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't meet someone if I didn't see a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet anyone before exchanging pictures first. If they want to use my face pic and pass it on, good luck to them. There are prettier face pics to be stolen lol

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

What I hate is people demanding face pics with a first msg like we can trust it would not end up on the local rag

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

I very rarely send face pics. Have a coffee meet, go your separate ways and then decide on meeting later if both want to. No harm done.

I've been guilty of sending face pics once or twice though. Thankfully they've worked out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decided no more face pictures unless they are well verified people,it's just too risky

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

We always send face pics to anyone that we are hoping to meet, might be a bit of a gamble but so far so good

Not really into the whole blind date thing.

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always send face pics to anyone that we are hoping to meet, might be a bit of a gamble but so far so good

Not really into the whole blind date thing.

Miss Mcjoy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't meet anyone before exchanging pictures first. If they want to use my face pic and pass it on, good luck to them. There are prettier face pics to be stolen lol"

You never exchanged face pics with me before we met!..........

Wait, we haven't met since!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't meet anyone before exchanging pictures first. If they want to use my face pic and pass it on, good luck to them. There are prettier face pics to be stolen lol

You never exchanged face pics with me before we met!..........

Wait, we haven't met since!! "
my ugly face sure has scared you away for good!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't meet anyone before exchanging pictures first. If they want to use my face pic and pass it on, good luck to them. There are prettier face pics to be stolen lol

You never exchanged face pics with me before we met!..........

Wait, we haven't met since!! my ugly face sure has scared you away for good!! "

It was meant the other wa....... Oh never mind!

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"Our opinion is:

When first contacting a potential meet, we like to send a few mails here, then kik and chat a while to build up a certain “trust” and to see if we are all on the same page.

We don’t and wont send face pictures . there are various reasons for this:

Some are:

1. We might be known to the other person(s) and the other person backs out and there is always an uncertainty where the pictures might end up.

2. Phones and PC’s can get virus and the other person could be sending pictures etc without their knowledge.

3. Pictures by text etc mostly do not give an accurate picture of what a person is like.

We like to chat first for a while, then arrange a coffee face to face meet and see what happens. Then everyone has the same level of exposure to everyone else, with no surprises. (hardly a "blind date" as we have chatted awhile)

Generally this has worked well for us . ?

"

I do pretty much the same. .. Never really had a problem with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally agree have to see the other person"

Not only that. A phone call should also be possible, after a short conversation you can arrange a meeting ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you send face pictures over the internet (email or upload here) / text or kik etc etc to a prospective meet?

If not, what is your reasoning?

"

Yes I'll send a face pic if asked for one but only to people that have verifications and there's a chance we might meet. If they have verifications then you know you're all here for the same reason and not messers.

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By *oupleforfun1323Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

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By *oupleforfun1323Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

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By *oupleforfun1323Couple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Our opinion is:

When first contacting a potential meet, we like to send a few mails here, then kik and chat a while to build up a certain “trust” and to see if we are all on the same page.

We don’t and wont send face pictures . there are various reasons for this:

Some are:

1. We might be known to the other person(s) and the other person backs out and there is always an uncertainty where the pictures might end up.

2. Phones and PC’s can get virus and the other person could be sending pictures etc without their knowledge.

3. Pictures by text etc mostly do not give an accurate picture of what a person is like.

We like to chat first for a while, then arrange a coffee face to face meet and see what happens. Then everyone has the same level of exposure to everyone else, with no surprises. (hardly a "blind date" as we have chatted awhile)

Generally this has worked well for us . ?

"

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By *xpandmyhorizonsMan
over a year ago

Co. Antrim

Personally I'd be very dubious about meeting people who won't show their face first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I'd be very dubious about meeting people who won't show their face first."

That's us ruled out then sweetie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our opinion is:

When first contacting a potential meet, we like to send a few mails here, then kik and chat a while to build up a certain “trust” and to see if we are all on the same page.

We don’t and wont send face pictures . there are various reasons for this:

Some are:

1. We might be known to the other person(s) and the other person backs out and there is always an uncertainty where the pictures might end up.

2. Phones and PC’s can get virus and the other person could be sending pictures etc without their knowledge.

3. Pictures by text etc mostly do not give an accurate picture of what a person is like.

We like to chat first for a while, then arrange a coffee face to face meet and see what happens. Then everyone has the same level of exposure to everyone else, with no surprises. (hardly a "blind date" as we have chatted awhile)

Generally this has worked well for us . ?

I do pretty much the same. .. Never really had a problem with it. "

This is us also

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By *xpandmyhorizonsMan
over a year ago

Co. Antrim


"Personally I'd be very dubious about meeting people who won't show their face first.

That's us ruled out then sweetie"

No problem...the thought was good while it lasted lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I'd be very dubious about meeting people who won't show their face first.

That's us ruled out then sweetie

No problem...the thought was good while it lasted lol"

It was

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By *ay and DeborahCouple
over a year ago

Co. Down

For us a pic is a must, saves time in the long run...If people are sad enough to abuse this trust then that's up to them...so far, and fingers crossed, it hasn't been a problem. Has to be an attraction before anything else can happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

super concerned about the face pic thing, i defo feel that some pics i have been recieving are not genuine. a person who has been on here a year with no pic public/gallery with no veris said no face pic no reply. we agreed to swap they got my pic but no reply. was wondering what damage they could do, one of the above posts said something about local rag, WTF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sick of sending my face pics and getting nowhere mays well not have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"super concerned about the face pic thing, i defo feel that some pics i have been recieving are not genuine. a person who has been on here a year with no pic public/gallery with no veris said no face pic no reply. we agreed to swap they got my pic but no reply. was wondering what damage they could do, one of the above posts said something about local rag, WTF?

"

But you already have your face pic on show??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do??"

No, Tez, the guy above you on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phew!!! So what am i doing wrong sending my face pic and getting nowhere and im not shrek either

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby

We never meet without sending face pics beforehand. For the simple reason we hate walking into a meet looking round at ppl wondering "is that them". Better to know who ur looking for lol

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By *amien88Man
over a year ago

wicklow

only after a phone call to rule out fakes

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By *uaveGentMan
over a year ago

dublin

Send a face pic that looks like it belongs on facebook... That way nothing embarrassing can be leaked and no flack can come your way.

'Yes, thats a picture of me in a suit... What was this site you found it on? And whats that? Swingers? Really? What were you doing there?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send a face pic that looks like it belongs on facebook... That way nothing embarrassing can be leaked and no flack can come your way.

'Yes, thats a picture of me in a suit... What was this site you found it on? And whats that? Swingers? Really? What were you doing there?' "
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send a face pic that looks like it belongs on facebook... That way nothing embarrassing can be leaked and no flack can come your way.

'Yes, thats a picture of me in a suit... What was this site you found it on? And whats that? Swingers? Really? What were you doing there?' "

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I been saying send a facebook pic for years.

Does it really matter, guys on here will fuck girls they think are ugly. Even brag about it.

Also, a lot of photo swapping goes on, a lot of guys specifically will just kik or whatsapp photos of themselves with someone else to people.

Anyway, this is the only site online I have used where i know for fact my photos were stolen and used elsewhere. So be careful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

didnt think the small avatar pic could be copied tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send face pics....it is the minimum requirement to start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always send a face pic. If there's no attraction there is no point meetin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

more faces than the albert clock some yokes on here

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I have more luck when I meet people at social events than I do with my face pics I have been told by lots of people (some I was pretty close to) that I dont take good pics lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are getting very cautious about who we send our face pictures to after some comments have been passed by people we don't know or chatted to. If we get face pics we will respond if interested in that person, if not we will delete the mail containing them. No point hanging on to face pics of people we have no interest in meeting unlike some.

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over a year ago

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"I have more luck when I meet people at social events than I do with my face pics I have been told by lots of people (some I was pretty close to) that I dont take good pics lol"

Same here tbh..I hate getting my face pic taken so it's always under duress or the influence. . Neither good m&g definitely the best way to meet people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont have much faith in any pics sent we received pics from a guy that were about 15 years out of date. Better meet after a chat on the phone and if you dont like walk away.

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