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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you agree to swap pictures and then don't get a reply...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a horrible one... I was chatting to a lady here yesterday and she told me her old username and instantly I remembered that she was the first person that did that to me

You'll always remember your first

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

Oh yes, I know it well. A minute seems like an hour....sitting there waiting, waiting, waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I could handle the amount of rejections you boys get.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"When you agree to swap pictures and then don't get a reply...

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had it last night, she mailed me with pictures in the first mail...sounding very eager. did a google image search and no results, but was wary. she had one published veri on the profile so when i suggested we speak on cam/phone the replies then.....stopped....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I could handle the amount of rejections you boys get. "

Me neither!! I know you need a tough skin on here but it hurts when you get mails back sayin you have weird shadows on ur face or no reply at all!! We can't all be everyone's cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I could handle the amount of rejections you boys get.

Me neither!! I know you need a tough skin on here but it hurts when you get mails back sayin you have weird shadows on ur face or no reply at all!! We can't all be everyone's cup of tea "

This is why I'm selective anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I could handle the amount of rejections you boys get. "
. . . I don't mind being told " no thanks " cos its understandable that not everyone is for everyone else. . But when it is agreed that pics will be swopped both parties should honor this even if things go no further. . . Its only fair. . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I could handle the amount of rejections you boys get. . . . I don't mind being told " no thanks " cos its understandable that not everyone is for everyone else. . But when it is agreed that pics will be swopped both parties should honor this even if things go no further. . . Its only fair. . . "

I used to but then stopped doing it when I realised I was sending it out to so many unverified profiles, as loads send me their face pic in a first message so I got suspicious then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I could handle the amount of rejections you boys get. . . . I don't mind being told " no thanks " cos its understandable that not everyone is for everyone else. . But when it is agreed that pics will be swopped both parties should honor this even if things go no further. . . Its only fair. . .

I used to but then stopped doing it when I realised I was sending it out to so many unverified profiles, as loads send me their face pic in a first message so I got suspicious then!"

Lots of guys send face pics in first mails and assume I'll send one straight back...on your bike!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red... ive yet to see that mug of yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I could handle the amount of rejections you boys get. "

We can get more rejections than ye get mail !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I could handle the amount of rejections you boys get. . . . I don't mind being told " no thanks " cos its understandable that not everyone is for everyone else. . But when it is agreed that pics will be swopped both parties should honor this even if things go no further. . . Its only fair. . .

I used to but then stopped doing it when I realised I was sending it out to so many unverified profiles, as loads send me their face pic in a first message so I got suspicious then!

Lots of guys send face pics in first mails and assume I'll send one straight back...on your bike! "

Sending in first msg !! Fair enough , but it's when you agree to swop them and get nada back , grrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happened to me but find face pics in profiles or sent too soon a huge red light. Instant bye bye but politely so. Once a Gentleman, always a......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely send my face picture and lees so the more experience I get

I send when there is a meet/party etc in the pipeline

I have never been knocked back on her yet .. I'm sure it will happen though ! Lol

That sounds big headed I know but that's my experience so far .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Red... ive yet to see that mug of yours "

You've seen my mug, lol. Clearly I'm forgettable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I could handle the amount of rejections you boys get. "

It used to bother me but now i take it with a pinch of salt hun and shout out next the way i see it is they are missing out on a great night and a good friend but what i hate the most is the mind games I know we are guilty of that but there is no need for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I could handle the amount of rejections you boys get. . . . I don't mind being told " no thanks " cos its understandable that not everyone is for everyone else. . But when it is agreed that pics will be swopped both parties should honor this even if things go no further. . . Its only fair. . .

I used to but then stopped doing it when I realised I was sending it out to so many unverified profiles, as loads send me their face pic in a first message so I got suspicious then!

Lots of guys send face pics in first mails and assume I'll send one straight back...on your bike!

Sending in first msg !! Fair enough , but it's when you agree to swop them and get nada back , grrrrrrrr "

I agree that'd piss me off too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Red... ive yet to see that mug of yours

You've seen my mug, lol. Clearly I'm forgettable! "

I don't forget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Red... ive yet to see that mug of yours

You've seen my mug, lol. Clearly I'm forgettable!

I don't forget "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you agree to swap pictures and then don't get a reply...

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I've come to the conclusion that I'm just not photogenic with the number of times this has happened so now I just send pics of Taylor Swift...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Red... ive yet to see that mug of yours

You've seen my mug, lol. Clearly I'm forgettable!

I don't forget

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But I also can't send any red !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same as Red, I feel in no way obliged to send a face pic when they send one to me without agreeing to swap beforehand.

It happened to me once that I was blocked after sending my face pic (after he had sent his) - I'm still having nightmares about it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you agree to swap pictures and then don't get a reply...

I've come to the conclusion that I'm just not photogenic with the number of times this has happened so now I just send pics of Taylor Swift..."

Just shake it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fortunate enough to say this hasn't happened me.. things don't always go smoothly and meets go unmet, but so far everyone I showed a face pic to was polite enough to send one back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you agree to swap pictures and then don't get a reply...

I've come to the conclusion that I'm just not photogenic with the number of times this has happened so now I just send pics of Taylor Swift...

Just shake it off "

I couldn't imagine your top horrible looking :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you agree to swap pictures and then don't get a reply...

I've come to the conclusion that I'm just not photogenic with the number of times this has happened so now I just send pics of Taylor Swift...

Just shake it off "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you agree to swap pictures and then don't get a reply...

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welcome in the world of Fab...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd always send one back just out of politeness if nothing else

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor


"but it's when you agree to swop them and get nada back , grrrrrrrr "

That says more about the recipient than it does the giver.

That basic lack of respect defines who they are not who you are. I believe they just did you a tremendous favour by displaying that dishonour so early. There is nothing more unappealing and unattractive than incivility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but it's when you agree to swop them and get nada back , grrrrrrrr

That says more about the recipient than it does the giver.

That basic lack of respect defines who they are not who you are. I believe they just did you a tremendous favour by displaying that dishonour so early. There is nothing more unappealing and unattractive than incivility. "

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

If agreed to swap pics id send 1 but if i got a no thanks back it wouldn't enter my head that i didn't get face pic back,what's the point?

I don't let the rejection get to me,but then again its not constant rejection,which would get to anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send one back coz fair is fair no matter wat.. its happened to me where I got no reply it's not a nice feeling at all

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"If agreed to swap pics id send 1 but if i got a no thanks back it wouldn't enter my head that i didn't get face pic back,what's the point?"

yeah, it reminds me of when you'd watch bullseye in the 80's and jim bowen would rub salt in the wound by saying "let's look at what you could have won!!"

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor


"If agreed to swap pics id send 1 but if i got a no thanks back it wouldn't enter my head that i didn't get face pic back,what's the point?

yeah, it reminds me of when you'd watch bullseye in the 80's and jim bowen would rub salt in the wound by saying "let's look at what you could have won!!""

Classic wisdom gentlemen! You made me burst out laughing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If agreed to swap pics id send 1 but if i got a no thanks back it wouldn't enter my head that i didn't get face pic back,what's the point?

yeah, it reminds me of when you'd watch bullseye in the 80's and jim bowen would rub salt in the wound by saying "let's look at what you could have won!!""

really? and I always thought, it would only be polite to send one back even though I said no... I thought it would only be fair...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I could handle the amount of rejections you boys get.

Me neither!! I know you need a tough skin on here but it hurts when you get mails back sayin you have weird shadows on ur face or no reply at all!! We can't all be everyone's cup of tea "

Who had shadows on the their face and what sort of idiot would use that as an excuse for putting his foot in it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I could handle the amount of rejections you boys get.

Me neither!! I know you need a tough skin on here but it hurts when you get mails back sayin you have weird shadows on ur face or no reply at all!! We can't all be everyone's cup of tea

Who had shadows on the their face and what sort of idiot would use that as an excuse for putting his foot in it! "

Ah well least he's made it up since!!! And I still use the pic lol

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"If agreed to swap pics id send 1 but if i got a no thanks back it wouldn't enter my head that i didn't get face pic back,what's the point?

yeah, it reminds me of when you'd watch bullseye in the 80's and jim bowen would rub salt in the wound by saying "let's look at what you could have won!!"

really? and I always thought, it would only be polite to send one back even though I said no... I thought it would only be fair... "

i dunno, part of me would like to see what turns me down....but another part of me doesnt want undue frustration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I could handle the amount of rejections you boys get.

Me neither!! I know you need a tough skin on here but it hurts when you get mails back sayin you have weird shadows on ur face or no reply at all!! We can't all be everyone's cup of tea

Who had shadows on the their face and what sort of idiot would use that as an excuse for putting his foot in it!

Ah well least he's made it up since!!! And I still use the pic lol "

It's why I never trust pics sent..... some turn out to be much more good looking in person lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I could handle the amount of rejections you boys get.

Me neither!! I know you need a tough skin on here but it hurts when you get mails back sayin you have weird shadows on ur face or no reply at all!! We can't all be everyone's cup of tea

Who had shadows on the their face and what sort of idiot would use that as an excuse for putting his foot in it!

Ah well least he's made it up since!!! And I still use the pic lol

It's why I never trust pics sent..... some turn out to be much more good looking in person lol

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So true!! Especially 99 year old grannies!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99 year old grannies have rights too ya know !

Down with this sort of thing. ...

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