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By *oughandCurvy OP   Couple
over a year ago

galway

Apologies if this has been asked a million times, the forum search didn't come up with much.

How many of the couples here play separately? Was it something you always did or just naturally progressed to? Or how did you come to the decision?

Mrs. C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you/ye interested in playing separately. ..

Good Question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find meeting a couple that you both agree on its often difficult,that's why parties suit us best,meeting alone is something you should discuss with your partner and not on a forum tho

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By *s. AppletreeWoman
over a year ago

curtain twitching sleepy village

My thoughts would be and especially from what i have seen is that couples who play together tend to stay together....out side of that unless you are in a really solid relationship, it can be a mind melt ...trust is everything

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By *oughandCurvy OP   Couple
over a year ago

galway


"I find meeting a couple that you both agree on its often difficult,that's why parties suit us best,meeting alone is something you should discuss with your partner and not on a forum tho "

Oh don't worry we have discussed it In great length just interested in hear other people's opinions on the matter.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Same as party monster's here... Party's are our first choice of meet for the same reason hard for 4 ppl to click....if it suites both there's no reason why cpls should not meet alone its just another swinging experience.... But be sure its something you are both OK with... And be aware you might not know how ye feel untill it happens regardless how much you've discussed it

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Having read a good few stories on here it seems there a lot of people who like the fact that the other half is playing away sending texts and pics to each other or relating their experience afterwards. Some even sit down stairs as the other half play up stairs just a thought if ur thinking of going down this route then if one or the other feels uncomfortable they are near by to join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I would say is that if you do...theres probably no going back..so be sure

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By *oughandCurvy OP   Couple
over a year ago

galway


"Same as party monster's here... Party's are our first choice of meet for the same reason hard for 4 ppl to click....if it suites both there's no reason why cpls should not meet alone its just another swinging experience.... But be sure its something you are both OK with... And be aware you might not know how ye feel untill it happens regardless how much you've discussed it"

That's exactly why we like to discuss and research because it's so true that you don't know how your going to feel untill it's happening!

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"All I would say is that if you do...theres probably no going back..so be sure "

Don't think that's true....no need to take it serious if its not for ye just don't do it again

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By *reddieRaeCouple
over a year ago

Banbridge

Not for us..... Fair play to the couples that do, though!

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Not for us..... Fair play to the couples that do, though! "

not for us either , as we both in this together ,so we play together only , defo not swing alone , then it just becomes messy as one will prob find much easier to play then the other , usually the fem just our tupence worth

mrs crazy

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By *oughandCurvy OP   Couple
over a year ago

galway


"Not for us..... Fair play to the couples that do, though!

not for us either , as we both in this together ,so we play together only , defo not swing alone , then it just becomes messy as one will prob find much easier to play then the other , usually the fem just our tupence worth

mrs crazy "

Good advice we had discussed that too that if we were to do it, it would probably be him the one to play on his own but since it's so hard on the single guys around here then is there any point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting topic as this is something we are experimenting with. We have both played alone a few times but only with people we both know and have met before. Trust and honest communication is key as always.

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By *igglesAndGeekCouple
over a year ago

Galway

Have we done it yes, but not at the start and only rarely. As Belle and Hunter have said its all about trust, honesty and good communication as they are the corner stones of any secure relationship. If you two have talked about it and are sure its something you want to try then its your decision at the end of the day.

But on the flip side... most here won't believe it is the case. And who can blame them. As many of the single profiles are not really single, some have permission but some don't. On top of that there is the fear of fall out coming back on them even when there is permission.

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By *allfungent24Man
over a year ago

city

I personally would t worry about other peoples views or opinions. Only ye 2 know if it'll work or not.

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By *oughandCurvy OP   Couple
over a year ago

galway

Thanks for all the advice guys

Still not sure if it's for us but we'll figure it out when the time is right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play separately but only if we both have a meet the same night. If otherwise it be me trailing behind with very little meets ha. But trust is everything...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We play separately but only if we both have a meet the same night. If otherwise it be me trailing behind with very little meets ha. But trust is everything..."

Jaysus..that sounds harder then selling houses..what if the 'chain' breaks down last minute

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

We know of couples who play separately but after many chats about it we know it's definitely not for us.

Most of the excitement for us is seeing each other enjoying themselves.

It's nothing to do with trust for us, we have no concerns there but we just don't think that we would get the same thrill from it if we played separately.

Just our tuppence worth

Miss Mcjoy

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By *ameraWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

My husband and me Separately is more spice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We know of couples who play separately but after many chats about it we know it's definitely not for us.

Most of the excitement for us is seeing each other enjoying themselves.

It's nothing to do with trust for us, we have no concerns there but we just don't think that we would get the same thrill from it if we played separately.

Just our tuppence worth

Miss Mcjoy "

Our thought aswell MissMcjoy

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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago

Belfast

You guys will figure it out to fit in with your own life.

My advice is to keep talking about no matter what. Plenty of couples in fab have played alone without their partners consent and it always ends in trouble.

And it will always be harder for your hubby to get meets than you, its simple maths, so many men to so few women!

Good luck and have fun you will know what you want when the time comes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We play separately but only if we both have a meet the same night. If otherwise it be me trailing behind with very little meets ha. But trust is everything...

Jaysus..that sounds harder then selling houses..what if the 'chain' breaks down last minute "

We compromise we don't use it as a free for all. Just if she gets a meet and I don't then I'm owed a meet alone. Keeps it even enough. Works for us.

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