FabSwingers.com forum: So lads......

By *illow1972 OP Man
over a year ago

Naas

I was recently asked why I haven't had a meet yet, no veries yet etc etc. I thought that the "Joined: 5 weeks ago" might have been a little give away but maybe not.

Anyway, how long did it take ye lads to get your first gold star?

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

gold star ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"gold star ? "

Meet I think he means

Veri ect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took me 6 weeks to get my first green tick.

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

I think it was over a year for us to be honest! Maybe we're just slow starters!

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

about 3 months

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Joined Sunday scored Thursday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 weeks and counting, I feel your pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a first guy afrer a couple of weeks. Disaster! He was a total twat. I never made that mistake again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry Red I was young and foolish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2days... Lovely guy.still chat to him.

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By *oci1Couple
over a year ago

Trim

2months for us

excitement was epic for the 1st time slightly disappointed though been nervous drank way to much alcohol ..lesson learned

miss toci

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

That night. Couldn't have gone better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sorry Red I was young and foolish!

You're still foolish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it was about a month for me before first one, spur of the moment meet. Now prefer it to be planned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sorry Red I was young and foolish!

You're still foolish!

Took me about 2 weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was on the site 2 days.....gr meet

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

I think it took about 4 weeks for us to have our first meet....... I can still remember how unbelievably nervous I was

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2months for us

excitement was epic for the 1st time slightly disappointed though been nervous drank way to much alcohol ..lesson learned

miss toci "

Sounds like our first experience also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was on the site a few weeks before we had our first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a month until I had my first meet off here. I was verified on the same day I joined though as I knew a few people on here from a different site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In still waiting ffs, it's not easy being a bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In still waiting ffs, it's not easy being a bloke

Perhaps it's your outfit

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Cpl of months i think this time,had been here as a cpl for few years but was a different ball game as single guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In still waiting ffs, it's not easy being a bloke

Perhaps it's your outfit

Few gropes last night but no one was game enough to take on the 99 year old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In still waiting ffs, it's not easy being a bloke

You could have asked me first before dressing up as me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In still waiting ffs, it's not easy being a bloke

Perhaps it's your outfit

Few gropes last night but no one was game enough to take on the 99 year old

Wimps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In still waiting ffs, it's not easy being a bloke

Perhaps it's your outfit

Few gropes last night but no one was game enough to take on the 99 year old

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you still looked sexy Duffer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In still waiting ffs, it's not easy being a bloke

You could have asked me first before dressing up as me!!!"

After last night I'm sure you ain't shirt of meets if you look like I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In still waiting ffs, it's not easy being a bloke

Perhaps it's your outfit

Few gropes last night but no one was game enough to take on the 99 year old

Wimps

Tell me about it, home and horny and need sorted out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In still waiting ffs, it's not easy being a bloke

Perhaps it's your outfit

Few gropes last night but no one was game enough to take on the 99 year old

you still looked sexy Duffer!"

I tried my best, sure it took hours to do my makeup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knew someone from here before joining, so had one pretty soon, then maybe a month or so until I had my first actual meet :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In still waiting ffs, it's not easy being a bloke

You could have asked me first before dressing up as me!!!

After last night I'm sure you ain't shirt of meets if you look like I did

You look like a younger version of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In still waiting ffs, it's not easy being a bloke

You could have asked me first before dressing up as me!!!

After last night I'm sure you ain't shirt of meets if you look like I did

You look like a younger version of me"

I did think our profile pics looked similar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In still waiting ffs, it's not easy being a bloke

Perhaps it's your outfit

Few gropes last night but no one was game enough to take on the 99 year old

Wimps

Tell me about it, home and horny and need sorted out

I hear you, same boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was here two weeks.

But had to travel far to get it. Amazing girl, and a good friend.

But was here before that with one regular meet for six months. Neither of us were verified at that stage.

However, I would say that if someone is going to judge you for not being verified, it's probably not worth the bother.

Yeah I know that all you girls are bombarded by countless messages, but sometimes you have to take a chance.

Verified members can be idiots too.

Not me obviously. I'm clearly amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly a few hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should probably clarify that this is a joke!

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By *illow1972 OP Man
over a year ago

Naas

Thanks for all the replies lads and lassies, 'twas very informative.

Ye're not a bad auld bunch here, fair play agus go raibh maith agaibh

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By *amien88Man
over a year ago

wicklow

Im now stuck on one verification

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

"In still waiting ffs, it's not easy being a bloke

Perhaps it's your outfit

Few gropes last night but no one was game enough to take on the 99 year old

you still looked sexy Duffer!

I tried my best, sure it took hours to do my makeup

that'll teach to go dressed as me lol !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In still waiting ffs, it's not easy being a bloke

Perhaps it's your outfit

Few gropes last night but no one was game enough to take on the 99 year old

you still looked sexy Duffer!

I tried my best, sure it took hours to do my makeup

that'll teach to go dressed as me lol !!

Lol sure we looked like twins

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

there is not set time frame for people to get meets if you are a guy think this site is an easy way to get your hole then you are greatly mistaken yes it can happen quickly but most of them time its a few months to get yourself noticed on the site etc but the one thing i can say is if you have been sending "wanna fuck messages" you are screwed as alot of the women on here are good friends with each other and they do talk about whos a time waster, pushy or just rude so remember it just takes time and manners and you will be flying in no time

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

"In still waiting ffs, it's not easy being a bloke

Perhaps it's your outfit

Few gropes last night but no one was game enough to take on the 99 year old

you still looked sexy Duffer!

I tried my best, sure it took hours to do my makeup

that'll teach to go dressed as me lol !!

Lol sure we looked like twins

that thin ice getting thinner twinnie lol

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By *illow1972 OP Man
over a year ago

Naas

"there is not set time frame for people to get meets if you are a guy think this site is an easy way to get your hole then you are greatly mistaken yes it can happen quickly but most of them time its a few months to get yourself noticed on the site etc but the one thing i can say is if you have been sending "wanna fuck messages" you are screwed as alot of the women on here are good friends with each other and they do talk about whos a time waster, pushy or just rude so remember it just takes time and manners and you will be flying in no time"

Thanks for taking the time to reply. I'm sure it was a general address to all single lads on here and you're right in everything you say.

Just so that its on the record:

1. I'm not a guy who thinks that this site is "an easy way to get your hole". I've been swinging for too long to think that.

2. I would never be so insulting or disrespectful as to send anyone a "wanna fuck" message.

3. I've both time and manners, am neither pushy nor rude. I can take or leave meeting someone. It's not the be all and end all for me.

Anyway, thanks again for your contribution.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

it wasn't just for you but for all the lads that ask the same questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When was on with my ex a couple of years ago it took 1 day lol but as a single guy I'm still waiting lol

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By *xhibitACouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Had our first meet before joining!

Beat that

We met a couple out dogging who told us about the place, we signed up and they found us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was recently asked why I haven't had a meet yet, no veries yet etc etc. I thought that the "Joined: 5 weeks ago" might have been a little give away but maybe not.

Anyway, how long did it take ye lads to get your first gold star?"

it took a couple of months, ok, am much abroad and I met not as much ladies .. a handful, and they was all been lovely and nice girls .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been here over a year, no score yet!

pathetic!

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

Took me a few months to have my first coffee meet. ... Never looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for taking the time to reply. I'm sure it was a general address to all single lads on here and you're right in everything you say.

Just so that its on the record:

1. I'm not a guy who thinks that this site is "an easy way to get your hole". I've been swinging for too long to think that.

2. I would never be so insulting or disrespectful as to send anyone a "wanna fuck" message.

3. I've both time and manners, am neither pushy nor rude. I can take or leave meeting someone. It's not the be all and end all for me.

Anyway, thanks again for your contribution.

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By *ig A300Man
over a year ago

North. love to chat please.

It was a week for me and what a lady. She took a chance on me cause I wasn't verified. We had amazing time and the verification was complimentary too so very pleased. Thanks Miss Wayne.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im on 8 months this time and not in any rush tbh to post veris or that. i was here before veris and all a good while back now with a partner and it was about the same. and had 2 no shows in the first month. thats the way it goes. new start no rush

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