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By *avie t OP   Couple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Most single guys have women and cpls on their profiles..... But we have found that most are reluctant to meet us as a cpl....Mr Davie t is straight so that's not the problem....just wondered if other ppl found this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'd meet couples but only play with female.

I enjoy meeting couples as its better craic 3-4 people is always great conversation/craic wise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think that could be the norm. And for the life of me just cannot believe how that could be true of you: especially if they looked at your photos. Great pics and a gorgeous body.

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By *ceryMan
over a year ago

Malahide & Waterford

Meeting couples has been just a good and exciting as meeting singles. So I defo would not have a problem meeting you, you have great profile.

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By *avie t OP   Couple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"Well I'd meet couples but only play with female.

I enjoy meeting couples as its better craic 3-4 people is always great conversation/craic wise"

Yes I agree the few 3 sums we have had were a lot of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeting couples has been just a good and exciting as meeting singles. So I defo would not have a problem meeting you, you have great profile.

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One thing that turns me off couples is thier lack of communication (with each other)

One replies to your mail and its flowing then the other comes back hours later and confuses things lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'd meet couples but only play with female.

I enjoy meeting couples as its better craic 3-4 people is always great conversation/craic wise

Yes I agree the few 3 sums we have had were a lot of fun"

Organise another

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By *avie t OP   Couple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"I don't think that could be the norm. And for the life of me just cannot believe how that could be true of you: especially if they looked at your photos. Great pics and a gorgeous body. "

Believe it lol....find at the start but cold feet seems to set in....thanks for the complement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got messaged by a couple who had a bi male but their profile said he was straight. . When i said i would not play with the male i got the reply "sure most guys here are bi " . . So even though i would like to meet a couple i am a little wary. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'd meet couples but only play with female.

I enjoy meeting couples as its better craic 3-4 people is always great conversation/craic wise

Yes I agree the few 3 sums we have had were a lot of fun

yea id love to join a Cpl ,,never had a 3some

Organise another "

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By *avie t OP   Couple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"Meeting couples has been just a good and exciting as meeting singles. So I defo would not have a problem meeting you, you have great profile.

"
thank you nice to see I just might be wrong

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By *avie t OP   Couple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"Meeting couples has been just a good and exciting as meeting singles. So I defo would not have a problem meeting you, you have great profile.

One thing that turns me off couples is thier lack of communication (with each other)

One replies to your mail and its flowing then the other comes back hours later and confuses things lol"

Can see how that would be a downer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeting couples has been just a good and exciting as meeting singles. So I defo would not have a problem meeting you, you have great profile.

thank you nice to see I just might be wrong"

Yeah you're wrong lol if yer genuine and are willing to meet there are PLENTY of male profiles here who would jump at meeting ye

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By *avie t OP   Couple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"I got messaged by a couple who had a bi male but their profile said he was straight. . When i said i would not play with the male i got the reply "sure most guys here are bi " . . So even though i would like to meet a couple i am a little wary. . "

Can understand that completely but that was very unfair of that cpl...ppl should be truthfull...saves time

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"Well I'd meet couples but only play with female.

I enjoy meeting couples as its better craic 3-4 people is always great conversation/craic wise"

totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me. I ve have my fair share of 3 somes with couples and have loved every min of them. After all it is a swinging site and there letting you in on there fantasy / fun

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By *avie t OP   Couple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"Meeting couples has been just a good and exciting as meeting singles. So I defo would not have a problem meeting you, you have great profile.

thank you nice to see I just might be wrong

Yeah you're wrong lol if yer genuine and are willing to meet there are PLENTY of male profiles here who would jump at meeting ye"

Must be going about it the wrong way...always thought it was best to block all males and look at profiles ourselves thought it less rude then not answering messages but maybe its time to change strategy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most single guys have women and cpls on their profiles..... But we have found that most are reluctant to meet us as a cpl....Mr Davie t is straight so that's not the problem....just wondered if other ppl found this"

Don't know what's wrong with them, I so would!

Get that kettle on neighbour!

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By *avie t OP   Couple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"Most single guys have women and cpls on their profiles..... But we have found that most are reluctant to meet us as a cpl....Mr Davie t is straight so that's not the problem....just wondered if other ppl found this

Don't know what's wrong with them, I so would!

Get that kettle on neighbour! "

Hi there ....yes were so close it would be rude not to lol

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By *ungdublinguyMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

Majority of couples I encounter fall into two categories.

1 - the male half only ever speaks/communicates and knows what she wants and google image search usually pokes a big hole in his story.

2 - the couples can't accommodate and state the other party of the meet "must", I ain't trusting of couples that insist on the meet being at my place.

This is from my experience and my opinion I meet with couples in the UK on occasion and it was fun, but find it hard to built trust when there's only communication with the guy or rules and requirements before a hello.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

we find it can be hard to meet single guys too as we would only meet them if were away for a weekend as its much easier as we can accom then , but it can be tough as alot of guys just talk the talk and dont walk the walk so thats why we just hook up with single guys as at parties , much easier

mrs crazy

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By *avie t OP   Couple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"Majority of couples I encounter fall into two categories.

1 - the male half only ever speaks/communicates and knows what she wants and google image search usually pokes a big hole in his story.

2 - the couples can't accommodate and state the other party of the meet "must", I ain't trusting of couples that insist on the meet being at my place.

This is from my experience and my opinion I meet with couples in the UK on occasion and it was fun, but find it hard to built trust when there's only communication with the guy or rules and requirements before a hello."

Time for a new category .....my husband is seldom on and have to say he prefers to chat to women when he is on...

We would never insist on someone accommodating cause that's a huge ask hotel is best

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By *ungdublinguyMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

The category one guys are usually easy to spot "tell me what you want to do to my wife" if that's one of there opening lines I just block them

And I'm sure there are genuine rational couples I'm not generalising just going by my experience so far

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By *avie t OP   Couple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"we find it can be hard to meet single guys too as we would only meet them if were away for a weekend as its much easier as we can accom then , but it can be tough as alot of guys just talk the talk and dont walk the walk so thats why we just hook up with single guys as at parties , much easier

mrs crazy "

Exactly the same for us Mrs crazy there for a while I thought we were the only cpl finding this....we do the same at parties but have found on the few occasions when we met alone it was much better more time to enjoy ...but I agree a lot like the idea but difficult getting them to follow through

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Most single guys have women and cpls on their profiles..... But we have found that most are reluctant to meet us as a cpl....Mr Davie t is straight so that's not the problem....just wondered if other ppl found this"
. Most of my meets are couples as there are a lot more on the site than singles . However I always read their profile carefully and only contact them if I am a match. Meeting couples can often be better than singles .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'd meet couples but only play with female.

I enjoy meeting couples as its better craic 3-4 people is always great conversation/craic wise

totally agree "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am straight, I would meet a mf couple. I would be there for the girl, but if they wanted me to slap the guy around and pee on him I probably would. As long as he was into it.

Most couples who message me are short notice, I don't know them, its normally a bit far away.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"I am straight, I would meet a mf couple. I would be there for the girl, but if they wanted me to slap the guy around and pee on him I probably would. As long as he was into it.

Most couples who message me are short notice, I don't know them, its normally a bit far away."

we be dublin a bit

mrs crazy

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By *avie t OP   Couple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"I am straight, I would meet a mf couple. I would be there for the girl, but if they wanted me to slap the guy around and pee on him I probably would. As long as he was into it.

Most couples who message me are short notice, I don't know them, its normally a bit far away."

Don't fancy your chances of getting away with it if he wasn't lol....but ya distance is usually a problem as a coffee meet is always a must for us first and its a big ask for someone to travel just for a coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing that turns me off couples is thier lack of communication (with each other)

One replies to your mail and its flowing then the other comes back hours later and confuses things lol"

That's why myself mark do the mailing and show her the interested. Saves confusion.

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By *hillMan
over a year ago

cobh


"I am straight, I would meet a mf couple. I would be there for the girl, but if they wanted me to slap the guy around and pee on him I probably would. As long as he was into it.

Most couples who message me are short notice, I don't know them, its normally a bit far away.

Don't fancy your chances of getting away with it if he wasn't lol....but ya distance is usually a problem as a coffee meet is always a must for us first and its a big ask for someone to travel just for a coffee"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*chuckles* I just find it funny that davie_t has blocked all males from contacting them

anyhoo, ping me, I'll "bother" with a 3some

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"Most single guys have women and cpls on their profiles..... But we have found that most are reluctant to meet us as a cpl....Mr Davie t is straight so that's not the problem....just wondered if other ppl found this"
have to agree lots of offers but a hell of a lot of let downs over the years too. Mostly due to being nervous course other sudden death of grannies uncles cats dogs or weddings they forgot about lol

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By *urfdudeMan
over a year ago

WEXFORD

I have met couples in the past and every experience was different.

When chatting here you never know who you are chatting to whether is the m or f member, Does the other party know can be an issue too as meets can be sprung on them, Too many first timers and pushy people also.

I as a single guy prefer one on one fun with single females, its alot more straight forward, couples are too much drama for me.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Meeting couples has been just a good and exciting as meeting singles. So I defo would not have a problem meeting you, you have great profile.

One thing that turns me off couples is thier lack of communication (with each other)

One replies to your mail and its flowing then the other comes back hours later and confuses things lol"

we both on mobile all day every day so its both of us that would be in contact with others here as we just fowllow on with mails as so far we havent had any problems with it yet , so we know whats going on from the moment a conversation is going , if we have a problem we would contact by fone if not together , or if there are pics to be viewed so we would see them together

mrs crazy

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

90% of the meets I've had are with couples. I joined fab for group fun and I'm not about to have a mff anytime soon so couples are where its at. I love meeting them. Mfm is one of my fave things to do.

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway


"90% of the meets I've had are with couples. I joined fab for group fun and I'm not about to have a mff anytime soon so couples are where its at. I love meeting them. Mfm is one of my fave things to do. "

Mime too!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"90% of the meets I've had are with couples. I joined fab for group fun and I'm not about to have a mff anytime soon so couples are where its at. I love meeting them. Mfm is one of my fave things to do.

Mime too! "

I think we could help each other out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a fantasy of mine to meet a couple and play with her while the male watches so yes i would meet a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far so good for us. ,any guys that we made arrangements with turned up and all went well .Suppose it's just the luck of the draw but with you guys having. Such a great profile and pics it amazes us you haven't had better experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"90% of the meets I've had are with couples. I joined fab for group fun and I'm not about to have a mff anytime soon so couples are where its at. I love meeting them. Mfm is one of my fave things to do. "

Oh and mine

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By *timulationMan
over a year ago

sexerotica

On fab for various reasons, biggest one being able to meet couples for mutual pleasure, being a straight voyeuristic exhibitionist playing with couples ticks all the boxes , but one on ones are good too!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"90% of the meets I've had are with couples. I joined fab for group fun and I'm not about to have a mff anytime soon so couples are where its at. I love meeting them. Mfm is one of my fave things to do. "

Ours too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

actually, if a single guy says he wants to meet a couple, and then develops mononucleosis in the process, and does it repeatedly, that is just pure plain false advertising. right?

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Candy and Goldie, you're on my list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most single guys have women and cpls on their profiles..... But we have found that most are reluctant to meet us as a cpl....Mr Davie t is straight so that's not the problem....just wondered if other ppl found this"

Prob because u have males blocked.... Numnuts lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Candy and Goldie, you're on my list "

Ur naughty list John??

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Candy and Goldie, you're on my list

Ur naughty list John??"

Yes I'm hoping there's some naughtiness

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas

I've met a few couples in my time. I quiet enjoy it as its up there with my favourite scenarios. Single guys cant mail ye though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Candy and Goldie, you're on my list

Ur naughty list John??

Yes I'm hoping there's some naughtiness "

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By *avie t OP   Couple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

To those guys that pointed out we have guys blocked....we already know that but if you read the profile you will see why....its always better to read the profile never know what you might learn....

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By *avie t OP   Couple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"I've met a few couples in my time. I quiet enjoy it as its up there with my favourite scenarios. Single guys cant mail ye though. "

Yes that's right we rather read profiles and hopefully see someone that we might get along with....we think it saves everyone's time...but thanks for taking the trouble to post

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By *avie t OP   Couple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"So far so good for us. ,any guys that we made arrangements with turned up and all went well .Suppose it's just the luck of the draw but with you guys having. Such a great profile and pics it amazes us you haven't had better experiences."

We have had some great meets with guys...just surprised at the number who have cpls on their profiles but have zero interest in meeting them

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By *illow1972Man
over a year ago

Naas


"I've met a few couples in my time. I quiet enjoy it as its up there with my favourite scenarios. Single guys cant mail ye though.

Yes that's right we rather read profiles and hopefully see someone that we might get along with....we think it saves everyone's time...but thanks for taking the trouble to post"

No worries at all. I take your point.

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By *avie t OP   Couple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"Most single guys have women and cpls on their profiles..... But we have found that most are reluctant to meet us as a cpl....Mr Davie t is straight so that's not the problem....just wondered if other ppl found this have to agree lots of offers but a hell of a lot of let downs over the years too. Mostly due to being nervous course other sudden death of grannies uncles cats dogs or weddings they forgot about lol "

I think cold feet is a big problem

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Actually...Davie can I add ye to my list?

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By *avie t OP   Couple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"Actually...Davie can I add ye to my list? "

With pleasure...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U can add me 2 dave i havent a proa meeting cpls and u can mail me any time.here is one guy that wount back down or shy out.

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By *hite NoiseMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Have to say personally i love meeting with couples. Really enjoy seeing a lady completely satisfied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My preference is couples - so love having 2 guys pleasure 1 lady.

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By *orseofmang2Man
over a year ago

Tuam

Yes I like to play with couples I find it a turn on

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By *amien88Man
over a year ago

wicklow


"Yes I like to play with couples I find it a turn on "

Im still looking for a couple

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By *arkside24Man
over a year ago

monkstown

My fav meet is a mmf and when you click with the cpl it can be fantastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi an so far not met with cpl but have to say if male was straight in cpl I would respect that but if he was bi or bi curious then happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ll meet anytime xx

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By *oci1Couple
over a year ago

Trim

We've had similar prob when organising a mmmf 2days talking to lads and 2 chickened out last min just aswel mr toci had a reserve list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually prefer couples. MMF is the ultimate for me.

Gladly put myself forward to restore the good name of single males

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By *alwaymandyTV/TS
over a year ago

galway

when i meet as a bloke i love to meet couples.i find i can pleasure bothe parties pretty well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My preference is to meet with couples. Love good mfm. So much less drama in that configuration and so much of fun.

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By *itreMan
over a year ago

killarney

Interesting post. Have met some great couples in my time..and perhaps one or two.."others". Always read profile carefully to make sure i fit what couple are looking for. Then, whatever the distance, coffee meet is essential. That way both parties will know if there is a further. , more intimate meeting possible.

In my age, however, find that i cannot now seem to contact couples who may appeal.. Travel occasionally to England and do find that couples look for the mature man more.. but, as we have always said...each to their own.

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By *oey3Man
over a year ago

galway

love meeting couples some of my best meets were with couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantasy V. Reality

For us the 'fantasy' is not the meet. For us the fantasy begins when what we have in our minds comes to fruition.

Nothing deflates us more than a meet that doesn't do what it says on the tin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fantasy V. Reality

For us the 'fantasy' is not the meet. For us the fantasy begins when what we have in our minds comes to fruition.

Nothing deflates us more than a meet that doesn't do what it says on the tin.

"

Hi...xxplicit here...friends call me ronseal

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By *olinn3000Man
over a year ago

Carlow

Hi Davie,

From my experience, I have found it very difficult to meet with couples and they would be my first choice. I often thisnk th my bi status must be putting couples off ...but most times I dont get a chance to find out!

I would love to have chat and see where it leads....just to prove there are genuine guys on here...Jay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple answer is yes. Some lovely ladies in couples and it would be a shame to ignore them 8)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing I would say is that on a couples profile it's not always easy to distinguish between which profile is for male and which is for female profile...and if one is set to bi or bicurious then your in no mans land...so to speak

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