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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There are always guys on here wondering why women won't message them back. And I was one of them.

So I changed my approach. Now I read the profiles carefully and put time into each message to actually write to the woman about what she has outlined in her profile.

If I don't match what they want I don't message chancing my arm.

I know am having conversations with some cool women.

It might sound like a clinical approach but it's respectful to their wishes so maybe more guys should be the same

Tip for the day complete!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are always guys on here wondering why women won't message them back. And I was one of them.

So I changed my approach. Now I read the profiles carefully and put time into each message to actually write to the woman about what she has outlined in her profile.

If I don't match what they want I don't message chancing my arm.

I know am having conversations with some cool women.

It might sound like a clinical approach but it's respectful to their wishes so maybe more guys should be the same

Tip for the day complete!"

It's not a clinical approach it's a sensible one!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ya well instead of sending 20 messages and getting no replies I'm sending maybe 3 and getting 2! So far more productive use of my time on here haha

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

So actually reading profiles and only messaging those who you think you'd suit works? Who'd a thunk it?

As already said, sensible approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ya well instead of sending 20 messages and getting no replies I'm sending maybe 3 and getting 2! So far more productive use of my time on here haha"

It's good to see some guys making the effort!! Well done you! Onwards & upwards!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like anything guys I suppose you get out of it what you put into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like anything guys I suppose you get out of it what you put into it "

Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it is difficult to get something out unless you have put it in . . Unless you get someone to put it in for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh ya lowering the tone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh ya lowering the tone "
. . God forbid . . My apologies . . I shall now revert back to my cave and study "Appropriate Timing of Humor and its Effects on the Wide Ranging Population". . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finally a single man who reads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are always guys on here wondering why women won't message them back. And I was one of them.

So I changed my approach. Now I read the profiles carefully and put time into each message to actually write to the woman about what she has outlined in her profile.

If I don't match what they want I don't message chancing my arm.

I know am having conversations with some cool women.

It might sound like a clinical approach but it's respectful to their wishes so maybe more guys should be the same

Tip for the day complete!"

An there was me thinkin i was the only special one!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finally a single man who reads "

In fairness, a lot of us do. It's just the minority that make up all look like idiots.

Tarred with the one brush sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finally a single man who reads "

Here here, I can read...I just read your b.s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah..i don't bother..just send out shit loads cock pics and hope for the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah..i don't bother..just send out shit loads cock pics and hope for the best "

Works for u!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah..i don't bother..just send out shit loads cock pics and hope for the best

Works for u!!!!! "

ROADTRIP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah..i don't bother..just send out shit loads cock pics and hope for the best

Works for u!!!!!

ROADTRIP "

Bout time for ya... ive been waiting about 3 years for u to say that!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah..i don't bother..just send out shit loads cock pics and hope for the best

Works for u!!!!!

ROADTRIP

Bout time for ya... ive been waiting about 3 years for u to say that!!!! "

View it like a meet in the bank...its gaining interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah..i don't bother..just send out shit loads cock pics and hope for the best

Works for u!!!!!

ROADTRIP

Bout time for ya... ive been waiting about 3 years for u to say that!!!!

View it like a meet in the bank...its gaining interest "

They would surely have me arrested if i hung around for 3 years! They be expecting to be held at gun point!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah..i don't bother..just send out shit loads cock pics and hope for the best

Works for u!!!!!

ROADTRIP

Bout time for ya... ive been waiting about 3 years for u to say that!!!!

View it like a meet in the bank...its gaining interest

They would surely have me arrested if i hung around for 3 years! They be expecting to be held at gun point!!! "

Stalking the bank teller...tsk tsk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah..i don't bother..just send out shit loads cock pics and hope for the best

Works for u!!!!!

ROADTRIP

Bout time for ya... ive been waiting about 3 years for u to say that!!!!

View it like a meet in the bank...its gaining interest

They would surely have me arrested if i hung around for 3 years! They be expecting to be held at gun point!!!

Stalking the bank teller...tsk tsk"

Just get in the bloody car already...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gud for u dude..nice to see someone useing their heads for once!!...enjoy

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Finally a single man who reads "

Excuse me, you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah..i don't bother..just send out shit loads cock pics and hope for the best "

Are ya holdin back on.me there dude?? Lol

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Well done

You've come round to the decent bloke mentality

Now we just need to convert the other 99,998 blokes to do the same

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah..i don't bother..just send out shit loads cock pics and hope for the best

Are ya holdin back on.me there dude?? Lol"

Ahh Jodie..u shudda said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah..i don't bother..just send out shit loads cock pics and hope for the best

Are ya holdin back on.me there dude?? Lol

Ahh Jodie..u shudda said "

Er hello...is it not the norm?? Meanie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah..i don't bother..just send out shit loads cock pics and hope for the best

Are ya holdin back on.me there dude?? Lol

Ahh Jodie..u shudda said

Er hello...is it not the norm?? Meanie "

Sure I'm a real tight-ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's this messaging women thing? Every time I try it says I'm blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are always guys on here wondering why women won't message them back. And I was one of them.

So I changed my approach. Now I read the profiles carefully and put time into each message to actually write to the woman about what she has outlined in her profile.

If I don't match what they want I don't message chancing my arm.

I know am having conversations with some cool women.

It might sound like a clinical approach but it's respectful to their wishes so maybe more guys should be the same

Tip for the day complete!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are always guys on here wondering why women won't message them back. And I was one of them.

So I changed my approach. Now I read the profiles carefully and put time into each message to actually write to the woman about what she has outlined in her profile.

If I don't match what they want I don't message chancing my arm.

I know am having conversations with some cool women.

It might sound like a clinical approach but it's respectful to their wishes so maybe more guys should be the same

Tip for the day complete!"

dude try getting married ffs then youll really not have a clue

my tip to you is go gay you cant lose! But thats kinda lile being married too ( pain in the ass )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are always guys on here wondering why women won't message them back. And I was one of them.

So I changed my approach. Now I read the profiles carefully and put time into each message to actually write to the woman about what she has outlined in her profile.

If I don't match what they want I don't message chancing my arm.

I know am having conversations with some cool women.

It might sound like a clinical approach but it's respectful to their wishes so maybe more guys should be the same

Tip for the day complete!

dude try getting married ffs then youll really not have a clue

my tip to you is go gay you cant lose! But thats kinda lile being married too ( pain in the ass ) "

Ha ha

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"There are always guys on here wondering why women won't message them back. And I was one of them.

So I changed my approach. Now I read the profiles carefully and put time into each message to actually write to the woman about what she has outlined in her profile.

If I don't match what they want I don't message chancing my arm.

I know am having conversations with some cool women.

It might sound like a clinical approach but it's respectful to their wishes so maybe more guys should be the same

Tip for the day complete!

"

exactly the right approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best way to get girls has and always will be, to find out what a girl wants and no matter what it is, tell her you offer it.

Its the approach teenagers use, kids, who want to get laid and dont really care about the other person.

Men should just be men and just portray themselves in an accurate fashion and realise this will mean they will not get as many responses, but the ones that do respond will be a better, happier match.

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