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By *earoid OP   Man
over a year ago

Leinster/Munster/Will Travel

Curious:

Ageism in profile preferences; covered before? I don't know...?

What is the upper limit for men?

Average seems to be 45?

Thinking of celebs over 50 who are excluded/discriminated against here... For example : Bono, George, many more...For the most part... What is your opinion?

My first post here!

No agenda, so go easy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all balls..ppl differ u can be 40 but look in ur early 30s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not ageism, just personal preferences

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By *earoid OP   Man
over a year ago

Leinster/Munster/Will Travel

Yes, I understand personal preferences; We all make exceptions, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I understand personal preferences; We all make exceptions, surely?"

I'm sure people do, I have myself in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find Betty White kinda hot that doesnt mean id jump her bones

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By *earoid OP   Man
over a year ago

Leinster/Munster/Will Travel

Me too!

That's why I'm curious why we label people with numbers in this arena!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all about personality and attitude. You have to click, age is just a digit.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Bono's a dick anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bono's a dick anyway! "

I agree

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

It keeps my messages down. .. Most guys age preference stops at 45 lol

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By *earoid OP   Man
over a year ago

Leinster/Munster/Will Travel

That's the best answer!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"It keeps my messages down. .. Most guys age preference stops at 45 lol "

There loss would u look at those legs ffs any 21y old would love them

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"It keeps my messages down. .. Most guys age preference stops at 45 lol

There loss would u look at those legs ffs any 21y old would love them "

awww cj you made me blush

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By *earoid OP   Man
over a year ago

Leinster/Munster/Will Travel

Of course, I agree, & people say I look 10 years younger than I am...( feel it too - long may it last!) that's not my point...

I'm just curious how we put age limits on who we wish to meet on our profiles and perceive people whom we best in our daily lives differently?

It's a contradiction?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course, I agree, & people say I look 10 years younger than I am...( feel it too - long may it last!) that's not my point...

I'm just curious how we put age limits on who we wish to meet on our profiles and perceive people whom we best in our daily lives differently?

It's a contradiction? "

I said it In a thread earlier today. My upper limit is because I don't want to be with anyone older than my parents. In my head it's just weird. My lower limit is because generally, and yes there are the exceptions but mainly, guys my age and younger are Eejets and I prefer the older man anyway.

There have been exceptions either way but few and far between

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork


"Bono's a dick anyway! "

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By *earoid OP   Man
over a year ago

Leinster/Munster/Will Travel

Hi friends!

Trying to figure out posts... A bit confused... In the navigation department!

The consensus seems to be that .Bono is a dick...

Okay, he was just an example of an over 50's whom one might not discriminate against if encountered in another forum ...but if he posted here as a 50y/I then ... No chance! Yet , all the attributes?

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By *urferniMan
over a year ago

Antrim

Definitely, ageism on fab should be banned. It should be compulsory when joining for every woman to agree to go on a meet with an over 50 for every under 50 that they meet.

I have absolutely no vested interest - honestly

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By *earoid OP   Man
over a year ago

Leinster/Munster/Will Travel

50/50cash back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its all balls..ppl differ u can be 40 but look in ur early 30s "

True. ... no one ever believes im only 32 you. folks have aged me

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By *udaviroMan
over a year ago

Grimsby

As a 68 year old single male who has been a member for 1 year I am in complete agreement that this site UNINTENTIONALLY encourages age & gemder discrimination for the following reasons - 1 The complicated & restrictive way that filters need to be applied on profiles. I have attended parties & clubs where people who had agreed to have me as a Friend did not realise that the way they had set their profile preferences prevented people of my age / gender messaging them, expressing interests in attending future events ,replying to messages & verifying them etc. 2 Due to media & other pressures a lot of people consider males over 60 as having ' One Foot in the Grave' How old was Nelson Mandela when he became President of South Africa ? While I am no Mandela since my 65th birthday I am proud to have done all of the following - Been a Gamesmaker at the London Olympic & Paralympic Games, & helped at other major events since including this years unforgettable Gramd Départ of the Tnur de France in Yorkshire. Achieved Levels 1 & 2 in IT at my local Learning Centre, passing all 14 assessment papers at the FIRST attempt. I am also multilingual being able to more than get by en Francais, Auf Deutsch, En Espagnol, In Italiano, Po Polsku. Discuss !

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By *UCKOR2CLUBWoman
over a year ago

Beeston

And you've been to my parties too and people of all ages have mingled with and listened to your fascinating stories lol

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Think it doesn't look good when guys do post in forums asking girls to change their preference,do they think if she only met them she would see what a mistake she made?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think it doesn't look good when guys do post in forums asking girls to change their preference,do they think if she only met them she would see what a mistake she made? "

LOL as if the age limit was the only thing standing in their way. Riiight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are entitled to have their preferences in regards to with whom they are happy to play. Looks (body build, face, age, race, etc) play a huge role in all this. If someone does not fit the fantasy that others have in mind, there is no need to try to convince them that they are wrong, because they are not. It is their fantasy after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's Sean Connery I'd have a go but had a peek and he's definitely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think it doesn't look good when guys do post in forums asking girls to change their preference,do they think if she only met them she would see what a mistake she made? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had a few people tell us to change our age preference on here. Its our preference at the end of the day. Telling a user what they are looking for reeks of rudeness to us.

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By *UCKOR2CLUBWoman
over a year ago

Beeston

Most males profiles of any age only seem to have cock pics in all shapes and size and spunking all down it. And they expect us women to want to get to know them if the want a genuine female then put decent pics of you on the profile as sum naked men can have good body's for their ages or good looking in the face and some not that s how I decide to who I want to meet with but I do give guys a chance if I'm not into the over 50s

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

i look about 80 - 75 maybe on a good day should i put that down as my age?

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