FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What is it with people...you meet them and leave a verification for them, they display and then dont leave one back....its happened twice this month wtf

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By *oci1Couple
over a year ago

Trim

Strange are they on the friends list now if they are perhaps ask why and if your not happy block them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not any more guys..just find it a bit off..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup...happens tho..probably best to have a chat whether to veri or not at the meet..but now I 'return' veris only

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think thats what we will do from now on..

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By *allfungent24Man
over a year ago

city

I think it's basic manners to leave a verification but I wouldn't go into detail like some do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I not too sure about the whole verification thing. I keep mine hidden as I often come across ladies who won't meet because you have met so and so. Don't understand but each too the own. I do always leave one though so don't get that sac.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah we dont display all only for a short time, who you meet is your own business...but we ALWAYS leave one..

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

well im guilty of not writing verifications in a timely manner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always discuss the verifications on a meet.there's some things you want kept private but I will always write one.doesn't matter if I write it first or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well im guilty of not writing verifications in a timely manner

I'm still waiting on yours from Sean's m&g

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate graphic verifications,social meets I thunk are best

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"well im guilty of not writing verifications in a timely manner

I'm still waiting on yours from Sean's m&g

oooppps

but you had a differnt profile then lol so id have to meet you under this one to verify you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send and received veries but just show what I want to. Its up to me what I show.

If theres no veri sent back then I block them so mine doesn't show on theirs. If I went to the trouble then they should as well

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

I hate leavin them I don't no what to be sayin unless somethin funny came up in the conversation that would make me remember or else I really liked them I wouldn't b arsed especially at party's it's hard to remember everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well im guilty of not writing verifications in a timely manner

I'm still waiting on yours from Sean's m&g

oooppps

but you had a differnt profile then lol so id have to meet you under this one to verify you lol"

Lol...I suppose I will let you away with that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't display mine cos I'm sick of mails asking questions about Either the verification or change in summary

"oh how was your meet last night?"

Eh fuck off its none of your business.....

I'll leave one happily and gladly receive one but keep it for my own pleasure from now on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last 2 meets haven't verified me so I wasn't gonna verify them either..Feckin Brats..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My last 2 meets haven't verified me so I wasn't gonna verify them either..Feckin Brats..

there was me thinking I was your last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My last 2 meets haven't verified me so I wasn't gonna verify them either..Feckin Brats..

there was me thinking I was your last

Grass doesn't grow on a busy street...

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

I always try to do a veri and I display them as most of them social/m&g/coffee meets.... If I just did summary I would be worried people would think I had slept with them all! !

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By *uaveGentMan
over a year ago

dublin

"I always try to do a veri and I display them as most of them social/m&g/coffee meets.... If I just did summary I would be worried people would think I had slept with them all! !

Its only worrying if you have 20 graphic stories from the one night.

And then not really that worrying...

Actually sorta hot.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

we have had it happen a few times now too , but we do think that sum people will only verify people they play with , but wont if its a social meet , that what we have come accross in here

mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theeeee most annoying thing is when someone comes back on the site with their 5th/6th/7th profile and asks you to verify each time... I think that's a bit disrespectful

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I send and received veries but just show what I want to. Its up to me what I show.

If theres no veri sent back then I block them so mine doesn't show on theirs. If I went to the trouble then they should as well

Didnt realise that..didnt want to block but will if they dont reply to the mail..(which they havent)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got a verification the other week we didnt give one back as he seems to remember us but we dont remember him. So we didnt leave him one. If someone choose not to leave one we assume they didnt like the play time and thats why we didnt get one. We just move on. Also most people we have met dont leave one on a social meet only when playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you send a verification and you don't get one in return well then maybe the other party just didn't "feel it" and didn't want to wrote you a bad veri/have to lie

No?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I would leave a verify too.

I don't like the graphic ones wwho too much information .

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By *xybrianMan
over a year ago

Baldoyle

Bit new to meeting on here, but I wouldn't post a veri unless specifically asked. Noticed some of the ladies here specifically say they won't meet people with loads of them, and I think who we all meet is private. Though if asked I have no issue with posting one, as long as I can say something nice. Or am I missing how the system works?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you send a verification and you don't get one in return well then maybe the other party just didn't "feel it" and didn't want to wrote you a bad veri/have to lie

No?

Yeah we cant see that..but then dont display the one we left..if they were not ashamed to show they met us then we couldnt have bad enough not to leave one for....no?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"we have had it happen a few times now too , but we do think that sum people will only verify people they play with , but wont if its a social meet , that what we have come accross in here

mrs crazy

One of them had left social veris before and they even messaged to say they would meet again..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you send a verification and you don't get one in return well then maybe the other party just didn't "feel it" and didn't want to wrote you a bad veri/have to lie

No?

Yeah we cant see that..but then dont display the one we left..if they were not ashamed to show they met us then we couldnt have bad enough not to leave one for....no?"

I'm sorry , you've lost me.. WHAT???!!!?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you send a verification and you don't get one in return well then maybe the other party just didn't "feel it" and didn't want to wrote you a bad veri/have to lie

No?

Yeah we cant see that..but then dont display the one we left..if they were not ashamed to show they met us then we couldnt have bad enough not to leave one for....no?"

I'm sorry , you've lost me.. WHAT???!!!?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have tons to write so

I'm slow to write

But always do if asked directly

I have meet a particular guy 3 times and didn't write one yet !!

He shows a summary on his profile so I'm thinking why bother !

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Imo whats worse than graphic veries is deliberately vague veries from a social meet

if its a social meet verie should state that clearly and not leave ppl with the impression its a tactful verie from a meet meet

obviously its usually guys who do this

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"If you send a verification and you don't get one in return well then maybe the other party just didn't "feel it" and didn't want to wrote you a bad veri/have to lie

No?

Yeah we cant see that..but then dont display the one we left..if they were not ashamed to show they met us then we couldnt have bad enough not to leave one for....no?

I'm sorry , you've lost me.. WHAT???!!!?!?!"

if they didnt feel it and didnt leave a verie why display 1 op left? I think she means

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you send a verification and you don't get one in return well then maybe the other party just didn't "feel it" and didn't want to wrote you a bad veri/have to lie

No?

Yeah we cant see that..but then dont display the one we left..if they were not ashamed to show they met us then we couldnt have bad enough not to leave one for....no?

I'm sorry , you've lost me.. WHAT???!!!?!?!

if they didnt feel it and didnt leave a verie why display 1 op left? I think she means"

thats my point exactly.....if they did not like what they saw and dont intend to return a veri then dont display the one we sent.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have tons to write so

I'm slow to write

But always do if asked directly

I have meet a particular guy 3 times and didn't write one yet !!

He shows a summary on his profile so I'm thinking why bother ! "

i know what you mean but when the fem stated she was at home most of the time and they are on and off the site all day its a bit annoying as you know they have the time to veri you back....but hey not everyone thinks that way i suppose

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

I have no idea why. I think that iv clicked enough with most of my meets to be able to message them after n chat about it tho if it was bugging me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Did send a message hal but they are not reading it...lol..have taken katie's advice and blocked them now so at least they cant display ours..still shows in there summary though..everybody was happy leaving so we really dont understand lol

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By *igglesAndGeekCouple
over a year ago

Galway

Ah forget about it people do or don't do things for their own reasons. No point dwelling on it.

To second something already said we have know lots of people over the years where they would only verify after play. We have been known to be slow writing veri's sometimes its just getting around to it, sometimes its trying to think of a good one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah forget about it people do or don't do things for their own reasons. No point dwelling on it.

lol

I see

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By *igglesAndGeekCouple
over a year ago

Galway

lol

I see"

And yes we're thinkin about yours...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol

I see

And yes we're thinkin about yours...

That's either VERY good or VERY BAD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My last 2 meets haven't verified me so I wasn't gonna verify them either..Feckin Brats..

there was me thinking I was your last

Grass doesn't grow on a busy street...

I'm using that from now on..love it

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By *heelofTimeCouple
over a year ago

Two Rivers

Ah sexy people sackandcrack

xx Their loss, usually its the single men who don't leave one back after pestering us to get one for their little collections lol. Maybe say it to them some people don't verify on a first meet or for social ones. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My last 2 meets haven't verified me so I wasn't gonna verify them either..Feckin Brats..

there was me thinking I was your last

Grass doesn't grow on a busy street...

I'm using that from now on..love it"

Aye its an old saying my Nana uses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My last 2 meets haven't verified me so I wasn't gonna verify them either..Feckin Brats..

there was me thinking I was your last

Grass doesn't grow on a busy street...

I'm using that from now on..love it

Aye its an old saying my Nana uses"

Its great..lol

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By *un4fun23456Man
over a year ago

ennis

"What is it with people...you meet them and leave a verification for them, they display and then dont leave one back....its happened twice this month wtf"
well u look amazing I'd b proud to verify you

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By *un4fun23456Man
over a year ago

ennis

"Ah sexy people sackandcrack

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol fun...ty x

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

I dont tend to leave verifications to be honest unless someone is new and wants one or someone sends me one. Most of the people i meet either have lots so they dont need one from me or we keep it quiet that we have met in the first place.

I like to keep stuff on a need to know basis and most people dont need to know, and i never leave graphic ones.

I know people here who have left verifications for people even thought they didnt like them or have a good time with them which makes me wonder why people put so much faith in them.

Sometimes you have to read between the lines as much as what's written in the first place.

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By *heelofTimeCouple
over a year ago

Two Rivers

"I dont tend to leave verifications to be honest unless someone is new and wants one or someone sends me one. Most of the people i meet either have lots so they dont need one from me or we keep it quiet that we have met in the first place.

I like to keep stuff on a need to know basis and most people dont need to know, and i never leave graphic ones.

I know people here who have left verifications for people even thought they didnt like them or have a good time with them which makes me wonder why people put so much faith in them.

Sometimes you have to read between the lines as much as what's written in the first place."

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By *heelofTimeCouple
over a year ago

Two Rivers

"Ah sexy people sackandcrack

Mwah thanks xx

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

I think the verification system should be changed to just a few options ....for example ..cam,coffee or play...most ppl just want to know ppl are genuine and will show up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the verification system should be changed to just a few options ....for example ..cam,coffee or play...most ppl just want to know ppl are genuine and will show up"

which defeats the purpose of cam verification. ..

Its silly, it used to be an option a few years ago

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"I think the verification system should be changed to just a few options ....for example ..cam,coffee or play...most ppl just want to know ppl are genuine and will show up

which defeats the purpose of cam verification. ..

Its silly, it used to be an option a few years ago"

By cam ppl can see if who they are chatting to are actually female/male or cpl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well im guilty of not writing verifications in a timely manner

I'm still waiting on yours from Sean's m&g

oooppps

but you had a differnt profile then lol so id have to meet you under this one to verify you lol"

were you there????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well im guilty of not writing verifications in a timely manner

I'm still waiting on yours from Sean's m&g

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lol me too ms Cc only kidding

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I only display social meets.....what I get up to on my other meets is between me and the other person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it with people...you meet them and leave a verification for them, they display and then dont leave one back....its happened twice this month wtf"

... Its a wee bit as ebay .. the most gives no positive feedback back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the verification system should be changed to just a few options ....for example ..cam,coffee or play...most ppl just want to know ppl are genuine and will show up"

Thats my point Davie..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adverts ie has feedback Donedeal doesnt Donedeal appears to be much more popular. Don't know what that tells anyone but just had the urge to say it. Now....where did I hide that chicken?....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Adverts ie has feedback Donedeal doesnt Donedeal appears to be much more popular. Don't know what that tells anyone but just had the urge to say it. Now....where did I hide that chicken?...."

Ohh your a few days late the Done deal thread was the other day..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told i was on donedeal before i wasnt sold tho lol still here ha ha ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always discuss the verifications on a meet.there's some things you want kept private but I will always write one.doesn't matter if I write it first or not."

I couldn't agree more.

That's the plan for next meet!!

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By *ean299Man
over a year ago

Lucan

"well im guilty of not writing verifications in a timely manner

I'm still waiting on yours from Sean's m&g

Hey MssCC. We did exchange verfications after my m&g but I cannot message you now as you have changed your profile and I am outside your age range.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well im guilty of not writing verifications in a timely manner

I'm still waiting on yours from Sean's m&g

Hey MssCC. We did exchange verfications after my m&g but I cannot message you now as you have changed your profile and I am outside your age range. "

I mailed you there Sean..xxxxx

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