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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Being a single male on here I have to admit its damn hard to make that decent first impression when sending a message, what do you ladies usualy look for when it comes to that first message, I must admit the forums have really changed the way the site works, and for any other single males out there get connecting through the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums are fun, however it is the messages that really work for me, messages and the M&Gs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We women are such complex characters that what we're looking for usually changes on a daily bases.

I tend to read the message then have a look at the profile before messaging back. It goes from on from there for me. Empty profiles are a huge disappointment.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"Being a single male on here I have to admit its damn hard to make that decent first impression when sending a message, what do you ladies usualy look for when it comes to that first message, I must admit the forums have really changed the way the site works, and for any other single males out there get connecting through the forums "

dont send messages i just attend social events and get to know people as word of mouth get around here like wild fire (good or bad) so if you make an impression on someone the world will get out you and before you know it you have lots of friends and get more invites than you can handle thats how i do it but the other way is to be ridiculously hot and let the women chase you lol

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Pretty much what laid said, I don't send too many cold messages but will chat with people I've had banter with here on the forums via PM. I also attend as many social events as I can but as I'm heading into my busy time of year for work I won't be able to get to as many as I'd like.

Apart from that, a couple of genuine non graphic veris too.

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

For us its a decent lengthy message if we get a good polite message stating what your into, why you messaged etc that will always get a reply. There is nothing worse than a messgae that says "hi how r u?" Or "nice tits ne fun 2nite" they get deleted instantly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For us its a decent lengthy message if we get a good polite message stating what your into, why you messaged etc that will always get a reply. There is nothing worse than a messgae that says "hi how r u?" Or "nice tits ne fun 2nite" they get deleted instantly!"

Nice Breasts

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway


"For us its a decent lengthy message if we get a good polite message stating what your into, why you messaged etc that will always get a reply. There is nothing worse than a messgae that says "hi how r u?" Or "nice tits ne fun 2nite" they get deleted instantly!

Nice Breasts"

I should probably specify that it's not the boob complement we have issues with

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"We women are such complex characters that what we're looking for usually changes on a daily bases.

I tend to read the message then have a look at the profile before messaging back. It goes from on from there for me. Empty profiles are a huge disappointment. "
and asking questions that's plain on our profile. It us a bit annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For us its a decent lengthy message if we get a good polite message stating what your into, why you messaged etc that will always get a reply. There is nothing worse than a messgae that says "hi how r u?" Or "nice tits ne fun 2nite" they get deleted instantly!

Nice Breasts

I should probably specify that it's not the boob complement we have issues with "

I'm joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If taking the time to message, make it interesting enough to read, you need to stand out from the masses.. the ratio is not in favour of the single guys, but those that make the effort reap the rewards usually....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If taking the time to message, make it interesting enough to read, you need to stand out from the masses.. the ratio is not in favour of the single guys, but those that make the effort reap the rewards usually.... "

Speaking of ratios•••••

Last nights spontaneous galway social meet up there was:

3 Couples

3 Single Fems &

2 Single Males

#ratio

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