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By *obbie65 OP   Man
over a year ago

kildare

I wonder if it is a mistake to meet the same person more than a couple of times.

I met someone on here 6 or 7 times - and while things never got messy - certainly feelings and emotions were stirred for a time.

It's hard to totally separate sex from emotion and sex without any feeling is fairly crap

How do others manage it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problems with meeting the same person multiple times at all.

It is what it is. I keep my fab stuff separate from my real life. I don't have feelings for them like that. Just good sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to have a sexy lady from here for a few regular meets.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I have met someone mote than once and no attachments there.

Not sounding harsh but it's not the site for you if get attached to them other than friendship.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

If I have great fun with someone and the chemistry is great seeing someone multiple times isn't a problem. It means there is a strong mutual attraction and the more you get to know what each Other likes the better it can be. But I have no difficulty separating lust from anything else

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By *obbie65 OP   Man
over a year ago

kildare


"I have met someone mote than once and no attachments there.

Not sounding harsh but it's not the site for you if get attached to them other than friendship. "

No - not harsh. There was some feeling on both sides - well over now and it was never much of an issue but it was there.

You women on here can be so cold hearted !

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"I have met someone mote than once and no attachments there.

Not sounding harsh but it's not the site for you if get attached to them other than friendship.

No - not harsh. There was some feeling on both sides - well over now and it was never much of an issue but it was there.

You women on here can be so cold hearted !

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not cold hearted if both have feelings and u both want that than who are we to say don't go for it .

But for me I'm saying I don't have that maybe I am a cold hearted so and so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not been cold harted in any scence at all.this is a site 4 fun and good sex if it comes our way.and yes we all have feelings and 2 feel attractive 2 the person u meet.well all the better then its going 2 b good sex.or a good coffee meet.with me its mostley coffee meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you were lucky -follow your heart next time - whatever you do !

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By *auraxxWoman
over a year ago

east


"I have no problems with meeting the same person multiple times at all.

It is what it is. I keep my fab stuff separate from my real life. I don't have feelings for them like that. Just good sex.

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I feel the same. I love the feelings that come with regular meets. The strange relationship that is and the friendships that develop are wonderful but im not going to elope. Part of being here is knowing the separation. If it got to a point where serious feelings were starting to develop you'd have to take a break for a while and reevaluate what you are looking for.

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By *obbie65 OP   Man
over a year ago

kildare

There are some lovely ladies on this site - I received a few messages. I feel a bit of a fraud though.

It was nothing more than a bit of light infatuation with a lovely woman a while back.

In fact I enjoyed it - I hadn't had those " butterflies in tummy " feelings for many years.

I was just wondering how others dealt with it if it arose.

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