FabSwingers.com forum: how to spot a fake profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Chatting to a female on here but suspect its a male behind profile. Has this happened to many people on here? Fake profiles are ruining fab for all us genuine people on here. Feel free to comment

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By *uaveGentMan
over a year ago

dublin

- profile on over three months and no validations

- new profile on and validated on the same day

- profile on ages and only one validations from around same start date

- profile wanting 'couples and single females' but validated only by one single male.

- follow the validations - if they are 'circular' (ie A validated B and B validated A but nobody else has every validated either..)

- if their profile has face pics in public

- if their profile is too hot to be credible

- if its a couple and no new validations in long time

- if its all cam validations

- if its a couple but the validations are all 'we met MR x'

Everything is a matter of degrees, there is no hard and fast rule as to what is / isnt fake... Its more an accumulation of suspicions.. However if that girl who looks like Denise Richards mails you first going 'i want fucking now'.... Its probably a bloke masturbating.... There are very hit real couples / females on here but they tend to have some class and be a bit more discreet with a complete stranger. Good luck!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Lol. You can't win around here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to be suspicious of those that refer to "genuine people"

surely everyone is genuine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Genuine profiles I mean this supposedly female is a guy pretending for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

EVERYDAY

Until I can:

•chat on phone

•See they've verifications from someone I know & trust here I never give too much info away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a couple of female profiles that have fake pics, and a few couples have messaged me but think it's just a dude to be honest, go with your gut I think

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

"- profile on over three months and no validations

- new profile on and validated on the same day

- profile on ages and only one validations from around same start date

- profile wanting 'couples and single females' but validated only by one single male.

- follow the validations - if they are 'circular' (ie A validated B and B validated A but nobody else has every validated either..)

- if their profile has face pics in public

- if their profile is too hot to be credible

- if its a couple and no new validations in long time

- if its all cam validations

- if its a couple but the validations are all 'we met MR x'

Good answer !

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

Sometimes I think too many get bogged down in the paranoia of suspecting if a profile is fake or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never think about a profile being genuine or not unless the person intrigues me and as that doesn't happen very often lately......I have no idea who is genuine and who is not!!

Lacey

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Sometimes I think too many get bogged down in the paranoia of suspecting if a profile is fake or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you people put a lot of trust in validations lol.

You can usually spot a fake profile because they talk like a guy thinks a girl would talk like.

I dont mind them so much, not many people chat to me so Ill take a chat off them now and again.

I met a girl before as a friend not as swinging or for sex, who looks like a page 3 model. Perfect body/face/big boobs. Everyone called her fake online, everyone!

It only really becomes an issue if you are being intimate online with them and think they might be a man. I guess in that point ask for photos/cam.

If they dont have a cam ask for a photo. But ask for it to be taken now, doing something you asked for. Make it something random or unique. Holding a toothbrush, with your name on her cleavage etc etc.

If they still dont want to ask them to snapchat you. You can snapchat without giving phone number.

Usually I can just tell, I still chat to them though but wouldnt meet them.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"Chatting to a female on here but suspect its a male behind profile. Has this happened to many people on here? Fake profiles are ruining fab for all us genuine people on here. Feel free to comment "
. How much effort has gone into preparing the profile ?. If there is very little information , possibly a fake . Are there pictues on the profile .If your own profile is interesting and informative they will need to illipustrate that they have read it in detail. Would fakers bother. ?. If you are only chatting does it matter if you think the profile is fake ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was asked to meet with her & the guy who I think has the female profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I think too many get bogged down in the paranoia of suspecting if a profile is fake or not.

These that are active and meet should be slightly paranoid/cautious so as to not "get stung" Simple!

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By *outhbelMan
over a year ago

Near Carryduff

I was going to meet a cpl, then suddenly before meet a message saying only that the male could make it. With the caveat "we could play instead " yeah right!!

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

"Sometimes I think too many get bogged down in the paranoia of suspecting if a profile is fake or not.

These that are active and meet should be slightly paranoid/cautious so as to not "get stung" Simple! "

Hence why I said too many get BOGGED down in the paranoia. Difference between slightly paranoid and spending too much time trying to prove a profile is fake if your gut tells you it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was going to meet a cpl, then suddenly before meet a message saying only that the male could make it. With the caveat "we could play instead " yeah right!!"

Hahahaha seems I had an appointment with the same couple a few months ago. I canceled it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to avoid anyone who is here for a year and as no pics or verifies.I sometimes keep an eye for any strange update status or if they have any kind of email add asking u to contact them there instead.They are getting more clever tho i have to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I think too many get bogged down in the paranoia of suspecting if a profile is fake or not.

This.....

Yet before I got verified on this profile I was shocked at the amount of guys, well verified guys who really should know better, that mailed me, some even included face pics!

If you're gonna be silly and mail a profile that's set up 5 mins and no pic or meet verification then I'm sorry but more fool you.....

Ps I'm totally real

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

"Sometimes I think too many get bogged down in the paranoia of suspecting if a profile is fake or not.

This.....

Yet before I got verified on this profile I was shocked at the amount of guys, well verified guys who really should know better, that mailed me, some even included face pics!

If you're gonna be silly and mail a profile that's set up 5 mins and no pic or meet verification then I'm sorry but more fool you.....

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the ones who are here over a year .. No veris ... No friends ... And put up the status saying ... Still recovering from last nights meet .. What a seeing to etc etc ....

Right !!!

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

I've encountered a few. . Mostly guys pretending to be girls! ..... and I am regularly accused of being a fake especially when I don't ans messages ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I think too many get bogged down in the paranoia of suspecting if a profile is fake or not.

This.....

Yet before I got verified on this profile I was shocked at the amount of guys, well verified guys who really should know better, that mailed me, some even included face pics!

If you're gonna be silly and mail a profile that's set up 5 mins and no pic or meet verification then I'm sorry but more fool you.....

Exactly

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

Hey kinky ..... waves Hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey kinky ..... waves Hello

Hiya...waves back

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

I was here a year before I was verified so I don't think they make a difference some people are nervous and unsure about meeting so they take there time doesn't mean there fake!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I havnt met anyone ash & im here a few months Ive had few offers but didnt feel an attraction with them so I was glad only had social meets 1st

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im just after coppin a one so becareful lads.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

"I havnt met anyone ash & im here a few months Ive had few offers but didnt feel an attraction with them so I was glad only had social meets 1st"

social meets first definitely the best way! Or go to the m&gs they are good fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im hopen to get a meet soon to meet ye all for a drink.

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

"I havnt met anyone ash & im here a few months Ive had few offers but didnt feel an attraction with them so I was glad only had social meets 1st"
I think social meets and party's are a great way to get to know people first and I still won't do random meets with anyone even tho I'm here so long I'd hav to meet up first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should come to cork biggles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should come to cork biggles "

i actually have my little boy that weekend hun but i will def go to the next one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I havnt met anyone ash & im here a few months Ive had few offers but didnt feel an attraction with them so I was glad only had social meets 1st

social meets first definitely the best way! Or go to the m&gs they are good fun"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo the next one it's the best way to meet people

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By *eise68Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Another way is to check sent emails. If there is a pattern of emails beeing deleted by different profiles at same time is sign.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"- profile on over three months and no validations

- new profile on and validated on the same day

- profile on ages and only one validations from around same start date

- profile wanting 'couples and single females' but validated only by one single male.

- follow the validations - if they are 'circular' (ie A validated B and B validated A but nobody else has every validated either..)

- if their profile has face pics in public

- if their profile is too hot to be credible

- if its a couple and no new validations in long time

- if its all cam validations

- if its a couple but the validations are all 'we met MR x'

Another one is 'straight' females looking to meet females & couples only. No single men. Those ones are very confused about themselves

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By *o pants partyCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Half the stuff you put up as fake is what is like our profile sounds ... So does that mean we're fake ....

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By *uaveGentMan
over a year ago

dublin

You've been on here 7 days and have a validation by a couple with multiple meet validations running for many years.

Reading the validation it seems to infer that they haven't actually met you in the seven days since you joined (rejoined?) but remember you from before.

If so there is a SMALL chance that you aren't the person who was previously '_o pants party' and are just using their pics to get a validation knowing they have left the scene. Obviously that would be a lot of work and hard to do convincingly if the people who validated you talked to you for more than a few minutes (easy to steal pictures, hard to steal past shared experiences).

On the whole tho what has been discussed in the thread doesnt really sound like your profile and, given you are a hot young couple, no doubt your profile will have more validations quick enough.

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