FabSwingers.com forum: Dilemma

By *oxic1998 OP Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

For the last 2 to 3 years my friends and I arrange a night away for my birthday. Now its in December and know family commitments are high but every year they all slowly pull out. Guest what? They've done it again this year. Now not sure what to do. Would love to go to London for 2 days but it means going by myself. Now normally that wouldn't be a problem. Love heading away by myself....always find company.

But its my birthday and just think it might be abit sad to go then. Long weekend booked off already. What should I do?

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

Aww toxic. . That's a pretty shitty thing for friends to do! ! If they are going to struggle to make it why arrange it. . Surely it would be better to arrange it when everyone can.... even if it's not at the actual time of your birthday. We do this for my friend as her birthday a few days before xmas.. We have a big girls night out end of Jan.. When everyone's bored and fed up. It's so good to have it to look forward to!

Have a fab party instead! !

Hugs xx

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By *oxic1998 OP Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Aww toxic. . That's a pretty shitty thing for friends to do! ! If they are going to struggle to make it why arrange it. . Surely it would be better to arrange it when everyone can.... even if it's not at the actual time of your birthday. We do this for my friend as her birthday a few days before xmas.. We have a big girls night out end of Jan.. When everyone's bored and fed up. It's so good to have it to look forward to!

Have a fab party instead! !

Hugs xx

Always end up doing something for my birthday but the pull of London at xmas is a big draw. Havent been at that time of years for along time

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By *idpunkMan
over a year ago

carrickfergus

All this talk of xmas

Not halloween yet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not see this as an opportunity to do something you have never done before but have always wanted to try. Birthdays are not just a day but a celebration of leaving the womb and becoming your own person. Have fun whatever you decide and look back for the rest of the year and smile at the memory.

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By *oxic1998 OP Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"All this talk of xmas

Not halloween yet lol"

I know but have to make up my mind soon otherwise the cheap flights will disappear

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By *idpunkMan
over a year ago

carrickfergus

I know what you mean,i was just kidding,xmas is close enough fs

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By *urferniMan
over a year ago

Antrim

"For the last 2 to 3 years my friends and I arrange a night away for my birthday. Now its in December and know family commitments are high but every year they all slowly pull out. Guest what? They've done it again this year. Now not sure what to do. Would love to go to London for 2 days but it means going by myself. Now normally that wouldn't be a problem. Love heading away by myself....always find company.

But its my birthday and just think it might be abit sad to go then. Long weekend booked off already. What should I do?

That's so annoying when people don't fully commit, and you deserve better. I know you enjoy time on your own, but that shouldn't be an excuse for people to cop out and let you down.

Maybe you should look to others that value your wonderful company, would appreciate getting an invite to your weekend, and would therefore happily commit to going. what about some of your fab girlfriends? X

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