FabSwingers.com forum: right or wrong?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We received an invite to party so I (Mr) asked what you think babe she was unsure so I asked the person who asked us for some details. In the response i was asked for picture cause only attractive people can go.

In my opinion what you see as attractive is not what I see as attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Personally I (now that's my opinion) think this is wrong and would rather not mingle or be in the company of that kind of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My question would be why send an invite if they didn't like the look of you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My question would be why send an invite if they didn't like the look of you?

Good Q.

I asked myself same thing.

(still scratching my head)

lol

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"My question would be why send an invite if they didn't like the look of you?

Exactly!!!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Only attractive people can go that's what they said. .

OMG well if they mailed me that he could look like brad pitt and her Angelina Jolie. I would then think that they are the most unattractive people ever.

Looks ain't everything no point having

A pretty face personality of a wet fish.

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

"We received an invite to party so I (Mr) asked what you think babe she was unsure so I asked the person who asked us for some details. In the response i was asked for picture cause only attractive people can go.

In my opinion what you see as attractive is not what I see as attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Personally I (now that's my opinion) think this is wrong and would rather not mingle or be in the company of that kind of people.

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no fear of us getting an invite so lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some very shallow people in this place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure looks is a bonus I'm more interested in someone's personality an can they have laugh an some fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In my opinion what you see as attractive is not what I see as attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Personally I (now that's my opinion) think this is wrong and would rather not mingle or be in the company of that kind of people.

no fear of us getting an invite so lol"

Well your invited to our party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion what you see as attractive is not what I see as attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Personally I (now that's my opinion) think this is wrong and would rather not mingle or be in the company of that kind of people.

But as the host/ess of any party haven't you got the right to decide who goes or not regardless of reason?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

In my opinion what you see as attractive is not what I see as attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Personally I (now that's my opinion) think this is wrong and would rather not mingle or be in the company of that kind of people.

But as the host/ess of any party haven't you got the right to decide who goes or not regardless of reason?"
yeah the host does but to come up with you have to be attractive to attend is a bit shallow

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

In my opinion what you see as attractive is not what I see as attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Personally I (now that's my opinion) think this is wrong and would rather not mingle or be in the company of that kind of people.

no fear of us getting an invite so lol

Well your invited to our party.

sweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that my god some people are just so vain and shallow sometimes unreal.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

In my opinion what you see as attractive is not what I see as attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Personally I (now that's my opinion) think this is wrong and would rather not mingle or be in the company of that kind of people.

But as the host/ess of any party haven't you got the right to decide who goes or not regardless of reason?yeah the host does but to come up with you have to be attractive to attend is a bit shallow"

......quite offensive way off putting it to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry to hear that my god some people are just so vain and shallow sometimes unreal."

Don't be sorry we would have got the invite. Im glad i knew before i went. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In my opinion what you see as attractive is not what I see as attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Personally I (now that's my opinion) think this is wrong and would rather not mingle or be in the company of that kind of people.

But as the host/ess of any party haven't you got the right to decide who goes or not regardless of reason?"

Yes the host does and by all means BUT.... This is the type of world we live in. A world of judgement. Yes i judge ppl but there is no way i would judge by the way someone looks. I spent 8 hrs today brain storming ideas on how to stop the world doing this or even try fizzle it out. Still don't know. In my opinion its kinda sick.

You only want to fuck (in your eyes) sexy ppl well say no to the ones you don't want to fuck. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Id love to debate this all night but darts are calling.

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

I hate these kinda messages I get a few sayin awh u can come to are party cause u hav a nice body I could hav a pig like a bulldog chewin on a nettle and I suck my belly in in a lot of my pics so they look nicer I'd love to turn up with my belly hangin out and face paint all over me wonder would they ask me to leave haha

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

Ment face like a pig

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion what you see as attractive is not what I see as attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Personally I (now that's my opinion) think this is wrong and would rather not mingle or be in the company of that kind of people.

But as the host/ess of any party haven't

you got the right to decide who goes or not regardless of reason?yeah the host does but to come up with you have to be attractive to attend is a bit shallow

......quite offensive way off putting it to be honest"

Just out of interest, were they attractive?

I would never tell anyone they were not attractive as it is such an ignorant thing to say. I was told a few months ago by a guy that 'as you can see from my verifs, I only meet stunning women' so

needless to say I stopped chatting to him as his arrogance was amazing......and he was just OK himself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id love to debate this all night but darts are calling.

Score a double for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But as the host/ess of any party haven't you got the right to decide who goes or not regardless of reason?"

I completely agree with you,but we personally would be arsed going to a party held by someone with an attitude like that.what makes them the judge of who's attractive?what they really mean is only people THEY find attractive

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

I think its way OTT to be calling ppl shallow for wanting to meet attractive ppl.its their party so they can have who they wish at it

do ppl not ask for face pics here and judge on that? Whats the dif?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But as the host/ess of any party haven't you got the right to decide who goes or not regardless of reason?

Yeah, sounds like it. NEXT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think its way OTT to be calling ppl shallow for wanting to meet attractive ppl.its their party so they can have who they wish at it

do ppl not ask for face pics here and judge on that? Whats the dif?"

A fair point Hal but everyone finds different things attractive I'd rather go to a party with a good mix of people than one where its only the type of people that the host is interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes that's why its important people get face pics and if someone is not to your taste you don't meet them but you certainly don't tell them they are not attractive enough for you.

After all what is attractive to one may not be attractive to another.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I am a dashing looking huar I have being told and I got no invite

What I find funny is u got the invite but when u asked details they asked pics, what were they doing sending random invites if looks were the only critera to attend the mind boggles

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think its way OTT to be calling ppl shallow for wanting to meet attractive ppl.its their party so they can have who they wish at it

do ppl not ask for face pics here and judge on that? Whats the dif?"

Fair point but really if i go what's to say ill find anyone there attractive if it is the host choice of who is attractive.

I wouldn't be with someone if i didn't find something attractive but it is usually the personality that attracts me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am a dashing looking huar I have being told and I got no invite

What I find funny is u got the invite but when u asked details they asked pics, what were they doing sending random invites if looks were the only critera to attend the mind boggles"

What's funnier is upon REJECTING the invite i was told but its not models or anything.

That part seemed as if they wanted us to go.

Sure we are hot stuff so why wouldn't they want us for the sexy ppl party.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

In my opinion what you see as attractive is not what I see as attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Personally I (now that's my opinion) think this is wrong and would rather not mingle or be in the company of that kind of people.

think the host has the right to choose who they want there, however the making of a good party is having a mix of all types of people there as some like us are attracted to personaltiy more than looks. but have never been asked for face pics to attend a party, thank god or we would nevet get to a party lol

mr crazy

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I am a dashing looking huar I have being told and I got no invite

What I find funny is u got the invite but when u asked details they asked pics, what were they doing sending random invites if looks were the only critera to attend the mind boggles

What's funnier is upon REJECTING the invite i was told but its not models or anything.

That part seemed as if they wanted us to go.

Sure we are hot stuff so why wouldn't they want us for the sexy ppl party.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fem here and well we have all heard about the 'beautiful people' who operate here and on s4 .. just a tad clicky and up there arses ... on meeting a few of the beautiful people for coffee meets over the years I was severely not attracted .. I prefer the normal good looking peeps with savage personalities and a good personality to entertain me before during and after the boldness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are vain but so what. They are up front about it.

Who really cares if someone is having a party and wants some fun with some people they find attractive?

The whole concept of "i prefer ordinary people" is just as off putting to me.

Either way the whole party/m&g thing is lost on me, no idea why people go to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok folks I'm thinking of holding a party, invites only for the soooper fit, if you have actually ever had sex in this website then I'm sorry, your not the right sort, please have a profile at least 9 months old with a maximum of 1 verification,clever impossibly hot pics of uber tanned bodies , also helps if your profile contains statements like, if you don't look after yourself, we are totally shaved and expect the same, please be realistic if your going to mail us. We will expect all party goers to b exceptionally beautiful, but unable to hold conversation so that nobody actually gets friendly with each other....god forbid...if you think your are the right sort please send your facepics to upurownarse.com .

Ps..dont worry uf you don't think your ego is big enough for the party...there will be PLENTY to go around!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok folks I'm thinking of holding a party, invites only for the soooper fit, if you have actually ever had sex in this website then I'm sorry, your not the right sort, please have a profile at least 9 months old with a maximum of 1 verification,clever impossibly hot pics of uber tanned bodies , also helps if your profile contains statements like, if you don't look after yourself, we are totally shaved and expect the same, please be realistic if your going to mail us. We will expect all party goers to b exceptionally beautiful, but unable to hold conversation so that nobody actually gets friendly with each other....god forbid...if you think your are the right sort please send your facepics to upurownarse.com .

Ps..dont worry uf you don't think your ego is big enough for the party...there will be PLENTY to go around!!!"

brilliant ha

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By *ugarcplCouple
over a year ago

Sugartown

We got an invite to that same party too. When we asked for more details we were given them and we werent asked for any pics. So does that make us "hot/gorgeous/beutiful" etc? I think not.

Anyone that has met us will tell you we are so not the vain type. And in our own honest opinion we would say we arent bad looking, we are alright looking I guess, but we are certainly no models. For those who stated earlier that personality is key to attraction, we would absolutely agree with that 100%.

As for "the beautiful people from S4" that were mentioned earlier, yeah we know who you mean, some of them being mods over there, they arent so beautiful, some of them are the most horrible people in this lifestyle hence the reason that site is doing so badly at the moment in regards to both the massive exodus and the lack of new membership.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

Ps..dont worry uf you don't think your ego is big enough for the party...there will be PLENTY to go around!!!"

is there room for a normal person in amongst the egos lol...

I have to say i do think it was a little rude and off putting but i also take on board its their party etc. I'm not a great face pic fan as anyone who knows me knows. .I prefer people with some personality and a bit of life and dare i say it banter about them tbh, and everyone's taste is so different! I like a party or social because of the mix of people .. It's not like anyone is forced to play with someone ffs

Personally I think attractiveness is way more than just a pretty/handsome face

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By *isa2480TV/TS
over a year ago

Dublin

Ahh now i think you took the girl up wrong.She just means she would like to see your pics etc.Shes portugese and if you dont know her you could take her up wrong.Iv been to a few of her partys and i have to say they are the best iv ever been too.So lets not go over board giving people you dont know a bad name.I personally cant wait for this party they are hot, wild and the real thing

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By *osey petalsWoman
over a year ago

City centre

Hello all, I was just reading this thread, and I wanted to comment. I think everybody is attractive in their own way. I bet that is what this organiser meant. I'm sure that they wanted you to feel sexy about who you were, that is how I would take it. Nothing should ever stop you going to events/meets, I know I look completely different during every day things rather than going out gear, or being dressed up, so go to all you want to go to and feel sexy in yourself. xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes its their party But.... How are they to know the ppl that go won't find someone they think is not attractive enough attractive.

This Will be controversial but its cop on.

I don't think your hot but hey that person mite. Come on folks.

Ps male here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think ye are reading too much into this. Many people are saying they are more attracted to personality than looks, but are ye insinuating that "attractive" people have bad personalities? Surely there's an equal chance that you would find someone with an attractive personality at this party than at any other.

We personally know the host and she is a really nice girl. She runs so many parties, and just wants to run a different type of party as there is obviously a market for this type of thing. I think ye are all just taking her up wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well put it this way.

You get invite to party But.... Only if you send a picture and they think your attractive enough.

Put it out there that your having a party and ppl can contact you. Don't ask ppl then basically say send pic and if we think your attractive enough.

Look each to there own just don't ask ppl that as its REALLY offensive.

On a lighter note i feel like a major sexy boom that i was to good for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ps for those that know the host you can ask I was not offensive i didn't "name and shame" they are that person views they can have them. I was nice polite and only gave a suggestion.

Much love to all you fabbers.

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By *unfella 1Man
over a year ago

dublin

Face pics can be so misleading. The camera hates me and the feeling is mutual! Get told all the time I meet a lady that I so much better in the flesh, which is a good thing. Personality is so much more important then looks but u do eat with ur eyes first!!

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

"I think ye are reading too much into this. Many people are saying they are more attracted to personality than looks, but are ye insinuating that "attractive" people have bad personalities? Surely there's an equal chance that you would find someone with an attractive personality at this party than at any other.

fair point. . Always good to have some feedback and a few have said this. . Things can easily be lost in messaging/text and they can often be misinterpreted.. Maybe that's what happened

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

fair point. . Always good to have some feedback and a few have said this. . Things can easily be lost in messaging/text and they can often be misinterpreted.. Maybe tha

t's what happened

No its not what happened. Nothing misinterpreted. It clear to see in the mails and on the host page.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

fair point. . Always good to have some feedback and a few have said this. . Things can easily be lost in messaging/text and they can often be misinterpreted.. Maybe tha

t's what happened

No its not what happened. Nothing misinterpreted. It clear to see in the mails and on the host page.

aaw that's a shame.... nicer to think it might have been .. ah well get yourself to Cork its gonna be a belter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id love to debate this all night but darts are calling.

Has darts been on x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Id love to debate this all night but darts are calling.

Has darts been on x

On in city west. But i play myself i had a match tonight. Lol

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By *ugarcplCouple
over a year ago

Sugartown

Wow mrmsbeav this issue has really gotten to you hasnt it? If the host wants to run their party as they see fit that is their perogative.

If you are not happy with it then just dont go. Harping on and on like a broken record makes you seem that a) you may be jealous and b) you dont really have much else to do.

If you dont agree with the hosts terms then just say so once and move on, not keep crowing and pussing and moaning like a crybaby

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ss can't mail you.

Yeah can't wait for cork its were we became a cpl. Back in Feb jack and nora always give a good night.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

"Ss can't mail you.

Yeah can't wait for cork its were we became a cpl. Back in Feb jack and nora always give a good night.

aww that's so sweet! I will pm ya

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wow mrmsbeav this issue has really gotten to you hasnt it? If the host wants to run their party as they see fit that is their perogative.

If you are not happy with it then just dont go. Harping on and on like a broken record makes you seem that a) you may be jealous and b) you dont really have much else to do.

If you dont agree with the hosts terms then just say so once and move on, not keep crowing and pussing and moaning like a crybaby"

Hahaha. Yeah ok so.

I/we rejected the offer the reason im "harping on" is this world (fab) is based on attraction but there is away to go about it.

Im guessing im still a crybady??

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By *ugarcplCouple
over a year ago

Sugartown

16 posts on a thread is quite a lot even for the Original Poster. You made your point perfectly clear in the first post of the thread and yet you continue to piss and moan throughout the whole thread.

And looking through the thread it seems when anytime someone disagrees with you, you take offense and rubbish their point of view and dismiss them.

If you are hosting a party and you set the criteria that is your right, just like it is the right of the party organiser you are trying to disgrace

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"16 posts on a thread is quite a lot even for the Original Poster. You made your point perfectly clear in the first post of the thread and yet you continue to piss and moan throughout the whole thread.

And looking through the thread it seems when anytime someone disagrees with you, you take offense and rubbish their point of view and dismiss them.

If you are hosting a party and you set the criteria that is your right, just like it is the right of the party organiser you are trying to disgrace"

Could we not say that if you don't like seeing this debate then just move on yourself instead of whinging about it?

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

And looking through the thread it seems when anytime someone disagrees with you, you take offense and rubbish their point of view and dismiss them.

If you are hosting a party and you set the criteria that is your right, just like it is the right of the party organiser you are trying to disgrace

Could we not say that if you don't like seeing this debate then just move on yourself instead of whinging about it?

now be good Micheal

mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well said Mr mac.

I thought it was quite clear that it was on the debate side and all im doing is giving my side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since everyone is reposting original opinions just to reiterate the main points:

A) we know this girl personally, she throws a load of parties and wanted to do something a bit different which is totally fine

B) there is nothing wrong about being upfront with your intentions!! Why not? If it's not the type of party you wanna go to then posting in a thread is kinda pointless, not going is comment enough. I think a thread is a bit much.

C)All of us here have preferences. Private parties have them all the time and it's okay!! In fact it's better to know, some parties will be a open invite and some will be more private or picky (with whatever preferences e.g. A "swink", a combination of a kink and swing party) at least you know.

I don't think we should bash this. It's like going for a night out, sometimes you'll go to your local for chats, sometimes you'll go to a salsa bar to dance, sometimes you will go to an invite only party for the craic it's about verity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And this goes on and on and on but you know what the party is gonna be a blush so thanks for this forum kinda helped a bit sorry to say but my partys are just too good and is not about the good looking atractive people as im not anyone to judge is about the good people that comes and makes the partys.Just two weeks to go bring the PARTY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all, I've been to a few of Bia's parties & they have always been fun. Something is getting lost in misunderstandings..I wouldn't get hung up on pics etc etc..Its just nice to know who is coming. I'm no oil painting nor am I the worst looking "girl" & B always makes me welcome. She's friendly, attentive, caring, great hostess & doesn't drink while serving her guests. The guests whom I've met have all been welcoming & friendly & sexy. I've always had the best of sexy fun.

Lets all enjoy Bia's fun fun parties. I only wish that I was able to get up to more of them. Francesca xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is to this drinking thing ha ha maybe the partys u guys been i was sober but i do love me drink IM IRISH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhhhh...

The beautiful people....

There's no fatties at our party ones too....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ha ha ha poor faties all i want is people who looks after themselfs when i mean not atractive i dont mean im looking like for skiny super model people

I just want people that look ok dont want them to be left in the conor say i didnt play because no one felt atractive to me

Is all about having fun and lots of CUMMMMM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking after one self...???

Clean...

Respectful...

Able to hold a conversation...

Possibly even be funny...

Everyone attractions are different!

It's all about chemistry between 2 or more people at the end of the day...

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By *auraxxWoman
over a year ago

east

Whether I am "attractive enough" or not, as someone who is very self conscious about themselves I was completely turned off by the addition of the words 'attractive people' in the invite. It is personal choice I know but for me it brought up anxieties of being judged on my appearance. I know it happens all the time on this site obviously but being so open about it instead of simply being a bit more subtle about it all made me recoil.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Clearly my invite to this little shindig got lost in the post...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was at this beautiful lady's house for a party she is an amazing hostess full of energy always making sure everyone is having a good time lovely to talk to and very kinky don't miss this party wish I had someone to bring to go

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By *arkandEm14Couple
over a year ago

dublin

I was wondering what party this refered to then I copped it was the one I was mailed about lol. Honestly I think the seriousness in this thread is over exaggerated. I think it's easy to find fault with perfection if u want to.

I thought the invitation was ok, no issues, if I wanted to disect it I would feel complimented that from the small bit of my self seen through my profile this host thought I was attractive.

Personal opinion obviously

I probably would have gone too only for its midweek and it doesn't suit.

You have to remember that these type of mails are generic and sent to a range of profiles if the host was mailing u solely and specifically and tailored the message to ur profile u may not have seen an issue with it but she didn't she had to be polite informative and complimentative without loosing her personality and individuality to a range of profiles with different opinions and views. Impossible to please everyone.

and the fact she requested pics was prob to reassure that u were u say u are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And this still go on and on and on what is the problem about some people in this site is only a party who dont want to go dont go as easy as that i still laught at the person who put this forum up lets just all have fun and move on and talk about something else what about that??

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"And this still go on and on and on what is the problem about some people in this site is only a party who dont want to go dont go as easy as that i still laught at the person who put this forum up lets just all have fun and move on and talk about something else what about that??

If it's really bothering you that much went don't you just ignore it? Aren't people entitled to express their opinions, even if you don't agree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone free to speak them mind i heard peoples opinions every day in my life and have to say i do liscen them i just dont see why some people take things so serious life is about having fun and this is why this site is for .Not to be talking about others i my point of view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP,

You never named or shamed anyone and your discussion and points were in a rational debateable manner. Good on yas !!

Fuck, if theres no fatties or ugly people allowed at parties anymore, we may fuck off and go to another site.. Jayyyysus,, were fucked !

Real beauty is from a connection with someone.. whats on inside will come through..

a smile.. a touch.. a kiss.. a conversations.. a bita craic... etc etc etc..

I hope the beautiful party went well, and theres nothing wrong with being beautiful and attractive.. but, when you start to call other people ugly then.. well, theres a point for discussion, and that's what the OP did..

Come here all ugly people and hug me !! xx

Now... fuck off cus your migning !! xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey hope peeps realise I was completely taking the piss..lol..dont get invites to parties me...so I've no experience...funny how things blow up out of proportion tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah that's it another case of send all the "fatties" to the leaper colony just incase they infect us... Well you know what put whatever label you want to on it but I'd rather be a fat beautiful classy lady any day of the week then a skinny and classless one with a rancid cunt cause her self respect life the building years ago the same applies to the male variety..... We are all different but its continually judgement bs that makes me every so often join in briefly to voice my opinion...... If we were all the same the world would be very boring but to be far it's almost as bad cause so much time is spend judging other when he could be more wisely used getting to know people that you generally wouldn't have bothered...

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By *ugarcplCouple
over a year ago

Sugartown

Why is it that when people want to invite what they term "Attractive" people to parties on here, all of a sudden the naysayers start throwing the word "Fatties" around like a frisbee?

The invite we received never said no fat people or no ugly people it just stated it was a party for attractive people. Personally I dont find obese people attractive, curvy girls are hot but I would be turned off by obesity. Thats my choice and preference. Doesnt matter if your personality is sound as a pound, physical attraction coupled with a good personality is what is most sought after by us.

If all the self professed "Fatties" (and you called yourselves that, not me) are so self concsious about your weight you can always work out and shed a few pounds if it will make you feel better about your appearance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blah blah blah yes very true there is always the option to go to a weight loss programe if one is self conscience about ones weight... Not everyone is...... As you so eloquently pointed out there is a cure for obesity but unfortunately there is no cure for ignorance judgemental people with personalities that's strip paint like acid

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By *ugarcplCouple
over a year ago

Sugartown

Wow these forums are so full of negativity!

As much as I disagree with Ikandi and the banner on their website for being unprofessional and downright childish, Im starting to see maybe why they resorted to such stupid antics.

If a person wants to meet people who keep themselves in shape here on Fab they are bullied, mocked, tagged and branded as being vain and shallow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is absolutely nothing wrong with having a preference it's the manner in which it's put out there that is disgusting and is what puts people's back up....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a person wants to meet people who keep themselves in shape here on Fab they are bullied, mocked, tagged and branded as being vain and shallow."

Cause it is vain and shallow. The problem is vain people (and cheaters) try to justify themselves.

Just accept it, don't try justify it.

"I'm here to have sex with people i find attractive. It's vain, I have no intention of making a deeper connection, I am not looking for a girlfriend or partner. Your personality is only partially important".

Vain and shallow people are okay, a bit boring for me, but okay.

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By *ugarcplCouple
over a year ago

Sugartown

So if a person wants to meet out of shape people only, are they also vain?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant believe this post has gone on so long...surely..even tho I was trying to b funny earlier..trying I said...but surely people have a right to meet whoever in gods name they want to..without any form of judgement!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day people are people the only thing that makes us different is the way we conduct ourselves and the level of respect we have for each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So if a person wants to meet out of shape people only, are they also vain?"

Would I be right in thinking you guys are regulars of IKANDI ?

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By *ugarcplCouple
over a year ago

Sugartown

No you would be wrong in thinking that actually

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By *ugarcplCouple
over a year ago

Sugartown

And if we were so what? What difference would that make to you and all the other cyber warriors who bully and hassle the people that do attend that club?

The "Oh they attend Ikandi, they think they are prettier than us" concept on here is pretty lame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And if we were so what? What difference would that make to you and all the other cyber warriors who bully and hassle the people that do attend that club?

The "Oh they attend Ikandi, they think they are prettier than us" concept on here is pretty lame"

I beg your pardon !

How very dare you !

You should look into a membership at IKANDI, theyre looking ppl like you

xxx

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By *ugarcplCouple
over a year ago

Sugartown

Begging aint sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet you cant turn to the left ?

google it if you need to xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bet you cant turn to the left ?

google it if you need to xxx"
I'm pretty sure there's a lot more to life than being really, really, ridiculously good looking. And I plan on finding out what that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lolol... smashing film

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