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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What % of ( single guys ) on fab are really single ? over the last 2 weeks only one of the so called single males that messaged us is really single .as a couple we decided from the start we won't meet people playing away . But most guys seem to be playing away

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

I'm 100% single sure what fucking headcase would have me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say you'd need factual numbers to work that out & apart from a few dotted here & there you won't get those here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm 100% single sure what fucking headcase would have me"

at least your honest lol . It's head wrecking messaging and after loads of mail back and forth you get . Oh I can only meet mornings . When the wife is out doing the shopping etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK I'm married, happily married as it goes but curious, but down as single. I had married in my profile but was getting no where. When people get to know you, the fact that you're married doesn't seem to be as much of an issue. Let the stoning begin

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OK I'm married, happily married as it goes but curious, but down as single. I had married in my profile but was getting no where. When people get to know you, the fact that you're married doesn't seem to be as much of an issue. Let the stoning begin"

Fair play for your honesty . But no matter how nice you are as long as your attached we would not meet you . That's just us every one to them selves live and let live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 100% single now 2 years badly hurt and let down the last time dont think i go there again.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

100% single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK I'm married, happily married as it goes but curious, but down as single. I had married in my profile but was getting no where. When people get to know you, the fact that you're married doesn't seem to be as much of an issue. Let the stoning begin

Fair play for your honesty . But no matter how nice you are as long as your attached we would not meet you . That's just us every one to them selves live and let live "

Exactly, live and let live, and of course everybody has there own moral standards. I am, and always have been pro choice, but society dictates that playing away from home is wrong, more so admittedly, but in the same way it dictates that swinging is wrong. Just saying. Is that a bit strong lol

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By *onny26IrishMan
over a year ago

cork

I'm Single =)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We just think it shows a total lack of respect for your other half .and we would not like to be part of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK I'm married, happily married as it goes but curious, but down as single. I had married in my profile but was getting no where. When people get to know you, the fact that you're married doesn't seem to be as much of an issue. Let the stoning begin

Fair play for your honesty . But no matter how nice you are as long as your attached we would not meet you . That's just us every one to them selves live and let live

Exactly, live and let live, and of course everybody has there own moral standards. I am, and always have been pro choice, but society dictates that playing away from home is wrong, more so admittedly, but in the same way it dictates that swinging is wrong. Just saying. Is that a bit strong lol"

Society does not dictate it's wrong to cheat on someone, a lack of respect however, does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And again each to their own but you have to respect your own desires also. They say, when on your death bed, you regret the things you didn't do more than the things you did and if your partner won't join you here, what do you do??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And again each to their own but you have to respect your own desires also. They say, when on your death bed, you regret the things you didn't do more than the things you did and if your partner won't join you here, what do you do??"

maybe try harder in your relationship . Instead of putting time into swinging behind your partners back . Often wonder how the guys would feel if the shoe was on the other foot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK I'm married, happily married as it goes but curious, but down as single. I had married in my profile but was getting no where. When people get to know you, the fact that you're married doesn't seem to be as much of an issue. Let the stoning begin

Fair play for your honesty . But no matter how nice you are as long as your attached we would not meet you . That's just us every one to them selves live and let live

Exactly, live and let live, and of course everybody has there own moral standards. I am, and always have been pro choice, but society dictates that playing away from home is wrong, more so admittedly, but in the same way it dictates that swinging is wrong. Just saying. Is that a bit strong lol

Society does not dictate it's wrong to cheat on someone, a lack of respect however, does."

Would it be more respectful to throw away a great family and home in order to satisfy your sexual needs when your partner has no interest in joining you here??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And again each to their own but you have to respect your own desires also. They say, when on your death bed, you regret the things you didn't do more than the things you did and if your partner won't join you here, what do you do??

maybe try harder in your relationship . Instead of putting time into swinging behind your partners back . Often wonder how the guys would feel if the shoe was on the other foot "

They'd leave, immediately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I would rather be on my death bed,and know that I have not knowingly hurt the one I love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end off d day i think no one on here as a right to judge anyone else been married or not for we are all not perfect on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK I'm married, happily married as it goes but curious, but down as single. I had married in my profile but was getting no where. When people get to know you, the fact that you're married doesn't seem to be as much of an issue. Let the stoning begin

Fair play for your honesty . But no matter how nice you are as long as your attached we would not meet you . That's just us every one to them selves live and let live

Exactly, live and let live, and of course everybody has there own moral standards. I am, and always have been pro choice, but society dictates that playing away from home is wrong, more so admittedly, but in the same way it dictates that swinging is wrong. Just saying. Is that a bit strong lol

Society does not dictate it's wrong to cheat on someone, a lack of respect however, does.

Would it be more respectful to throw away a great family and home in order to satisfy your sexual needs when your partner has no interest in joining you here??"

But you're living a lie, how great will it be when your wife finds out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And again each to their own but you have to respect your own desires also. They say, when on your death bed, you regret the things you didn't do more than the things you did and if your partner won't join you here, what do you do??

maybe try harder in your relationship . Instead of putting time into swinging behind your partners back . Often wonder how the guys would feel if the shoe was on the other foot "

Statistically, the shoe is on the other foot as much. Men, in Ireland are 55% likely to cheat during the course of their marriage while women are 45%. And again I have a strong marriage and my wife can't, even if she wanted to, fulfil my curiosities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the end off d day i think no one on here as a right to judge anyone else been married or not for we are all not perfect on here."

I'm not judging anyone Biggles, he offered his position for discussion, that's what we're doing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At the end off d day i think no one on here as a right to judge anyone else been married or not for we are all not perfect on here."

I am not judging any one . Just giving my opinion . My op was more about guys been honest about there relationship status . Just find when they are honest it waste a lot less of our time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And again each to their own but you have to respect your own desires also. They say, when on your death bed, you regret the things you didn't do more than the things you did and if your partner won't join you here, what do you do??

maybe try harder in your relationship . Instead of putting time into swinging behind your partners back . Often wonder how the guys would feel if the shoe was on the other foot

They'd leave, immediately."

Very simplistic view but everyone is entitled to their opinion. By leaving, your partner, your family and you are hurt. For what, sexual experimentation, I don't think so

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"What % of ( single guys ) on fab are really single ? over the last 2 weeks only one of the so called single males that messaged us is really single .as a couple we decided from the start we won't meet people playing away . But most guys seem to be playing away "

we dont play with males that are attached but also we dont play with women who are attached either its just the way we work, however we have met attached people for coffee and at parties and had great banter with them so we dont judge them , everyone is here for there own reason and everyone is entitled to choose what they want from here

mr crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I would rather be on my death bed,and know that I have not knowingly hurt the one I love."

I've no intentions of hurting my wife. If I wanted to do that I'd leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK I'm married, happily married as it goes but curious, but down as single. I had married in my profile but was getting no where. When people get to know you, the fact that you're married doesn't seem to be as much of an issue. Let the stoning begin

Fair play for your honesty . But no matter how nice you are as long as your attached we would not meet you . That's just us every one to them selves live and let live

Exactly, live and let live, and of course everybody has there own moral standards. I am, and always have been pro choice, but society dictates that playing away from home is wrong, more so admittedly, but in the same way it dictates that swinging is wrong. Just saying. Is that a bit strong lol

Society does not dictate it's wrong to cheat on someone, a lack of respect however, does.

Would it be more respectful to throw away a great family and home in order to satisfy your sexual needs when your partner has no interest in joining you here??

But you're living a lie, how great will it be when your wife finds out?"

That's not my expectation. Being living a lie for a long time now and all's ok. Won't be here long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to go. It's been interesting chatting. Have a good day and keep smiling we're only here for a short time

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"I'm 100% single sure what fucking headcase would have me

at least your honest lol . It's head wrecking messaging and after loads of mail back and forth you get . Oh I can only meet mornings . When the wife is out doing the shopping etc"

Your profile text says ye are not looking for singles. Judging by this thread ye should perhaps consider amending that, I read profiles and wouldn't email if I saw that.... I'm single by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 100% single sure what fucking headcase would have me

at least your honest lol . It's head wrecking messaging and after loads of mail back and forth you get . Oh I can only meet mornings . When the wife is out doing the shopping etc

Your profile text says ye are not looking for singles. Judging by this thread ye should perhaps consider amending that, I read profiles and wouldn't email if I saw that.... I'm single by the way "

That's correct. I'm looking for a bi couple or Transsexual. Should make that more obvious. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the end off d day i think no one on here as a right to judge anyone else been married or not for we are all not perfect on here."

Well said biggles!!

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"At the end off d day i think no one on here as a right to judge anyone else been married or not for we are all not perfect on here."
but every one has the right to chose if they want to be with an attached person or not. Big difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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but every one has the right to chose if they want to be with an attached person or not. Big difference "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple profile and I have a single profile on here. Michelle knows about it and supports it does that mean I am cheating? ??

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By *arkandEm14Couple
over a year ago

dublin

Personally I am not bothered who does what with who and why, which is why I think lying on ur profile is just silly because I'm sure most adults on site have the same outlook

But I (Mrs and agreed by Mr) won't meet attached male or female, tv/ts/CD or bi/bi curious men for sexytimes.

But I'll talk to anyone without judgement on site chat rooms and at socials.

Everyone has their own reasons, likes and interest for being here and for their stays and preference, I Only Want to find couples similar to ourselves or sexy bi single females.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I am not bothered who does what with who and why, which is why I think lying on ur profile is just silly because I'm sure most adults on site have the same outlook

But I (Mrs and agreed by Mr) won't meet attached male or female, tv/ts/CD or bi/bi curious men for sexytimes.

But I'll talk to anyone without judgement on site chat rooms and at socials.

Everyone has their own reasons, likes and interest for being here and for their stays and preference, I Only Want to find couples similar to ourselves or sexy bi single females.

"

That pretty much sums it up for us too.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"I have a couple profile and I have a single profile on here. Michelle knows about it and supports it does that mean I am cheating? ??"
no cheating means that!!!!! Cheating if your other half is aware and happy it's hardly cheating. Cheating is without partners knowledge or concent hence cheating

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"Personally I am not bothered who does what with who and why, which is why I think lying on ur profile is just silly because I'm sure most adults on site have the same outlook

But I (Mrs and agreed by Mr) won't meet attached male or female, tv/ts/CD or bi/bi curious men for sexytimes.

But I'll talk to anyone without judgement on site chat rooms and at socials.

Everyone has their own reasons, likes and interest for being here and for their stays and preference, I Only Want to find couples similar to ourselves or sexy bi single females.

"

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

Most single guys I meet are actually single and would have more doubts about the % of couples that aren't just the guy!

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

We tend not to delve to deeply into anyone's life outside fab....we are only concerned with our own relationship but every one makes their own rules when they start this journey.....but if we meet a cpl then we always meet them as a cpl never one on the their own....sure this doesn't make sense to some but that's the way it is.....everyone needs to do what their comfortable with

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Reading this, I'm feeling a little , but also a little , as well as a bit . I'm sure that'll make someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading this, I'm feeling a little , but also a little , as well as a bit . I'm sure that'll make someone "

lol! I loved the way u put it to smiley & sad faces etc!!! It made me giggle!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im 100% single now 2 years badly hurt and let down the last time dont think i go there again."

I know the feeling buddy!

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


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but every one has the right to chose if they want to be with an attached person or not. Big difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find most are married or attached try get a meet at the wkends are impossible all playing happy famillies

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I find most are married or attached try get a meet at the wkends are impossible all playing happy famillies "

Lol....dead give away if they say their not married though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single.

You will just have to take my word for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They say, when on your death bed, you regret the things you didn't do more than the things you did and if your partner won't join you here, what do you do??"

Have you tried breathing under water yet? you might regret not trying.

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By *ocbrownMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny/Waterford

100% single

And when im dating someone, i always close my account.

But if it don't work out im back here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the end off d day i think no one on here as a right to judge anyone else been married or not for we are all not perfect on here."

Sorry for ruining your thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They say, when on your death bed, you regret the things you didn't do more than the things you did and if your partner won't join you here, what do you do??

Have you tried breathing under water yet? you might regret not trying."

Ha ha, no I haven't but you might be surprised to hear that I've never had any desire to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find most are married or attached try get a meet at the wkends are impossible all playing happy famillies

Lol....dead give away if they say their not married though"

I know I'm no angel but then how many perfect people are there in the world. I work with what I've been given and unfortunately, or fortunately some might say, my sexual orientation isn't clean cut but if chatting with anyone I will let them know in the first few messages that I'm married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We tend not to delve to deeply into anyone's life outside fab....we are only concerned with our own relationship but every one makes their own rules when they start this journey.....but if we meet a cpl then we always meet them as a cpl never one on the their own....sure this doesn't make sense to some but that's the way it is.....everyone needs to do what their comfortable with"

Well said and I know you're not taking sides. I normally sit on the fence myself (not literally before anyone gets any ideas) I've always been pro choice, live and let live and thoroughly believe (and this one's going to get me in trouble) that people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones, who's perfect??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the end off d day i think no one on here as a right to judge anyone else been married or not for we are all not perfect on here.but every one has the right to chose if they want to be with an attached person or not. Big difference "

Totalling agree and I'd never meet without all involved being aware of my marital status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married, says so on my profile and yes I'm playing away - no point hiding it.

I've met and chatted with cpls that don't play with married blokes, that's fine, I respect their wishes as they respect mine.

It comes down to honesty and trust between consenting adults.

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

Very few , they say they are single , then once they have their way they think it's ok to tell you they are married or have a partner or gf . Should be up front and honest from the start .

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

The same could be ask of single girls. But funny it never is. Guys get a raw deal all round. Though there are a few idiots most are nice and easy to chat too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im 100% single now 2 years badly hurt and let down the last time dont think i go there again."
awe was your little heart broken? Give him a sympathy shag guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What % of ( single guys ) on fab are really single ? over the last 2 weeks only one of the so called single males that messaged us is really single .as a couple we decided from the start we won't meet people playing away . But most guys seem to be playing away "

I'm 100% single but find it funny it's always guys playing away get the bad name a lot of females do the same and nothing said in fact it's the guys always the one in the wrong so it seems anyway.

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By *obbie65Man
over a year ago

kildare


"OK I'm married, happily married as it goes but curious, but down as single. I had married in my profile but was getting no where. When people get to know you, the fact that you're married doesn't seem to be as much of an issue. Let the stoning begin"

Hmm - married guy here as well - also happily married - not proud of being here but have my reasons - possibly not fully justified but last time I had oral sex with my wife was 1 month after marriage - 18 years ago !. She decided that she just doesn't like it - and that was that.

The first time I met a women on here - we had oral sex - she came a few times. The next day in the car - I cried - not from guilt but for what I had missed out on.

I am a much happier bunny at home.

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

Sign your wife up for " the bad girls bible " it's a monthly newsletter . She might change her mind .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And again each to their own but you have to respect your own desires also. They say, when on your death bed, you regret the things you didn't do more than the things you did and if your partner won't join you here, what do you do??

maybe try harder in your relationship . Instead of putting time into swinging behind your partners back . Often wonder how the guys would feel if the shoe was on the other foot "

Woman are equally as bad for it. Let's not turn it into M v F.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I would rather be on my death bed,and know that I have not knowingly hurt the one I love."

Exactly correct answer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What % of ( single guys ) on fab are really single ? over the last 2 weeks only one of the so called single males that messaged us is really single .as a couple we decided from the start we won't meet people playing away . But most guys seem to be playing away

we are and can only give our view from the mail we receive . And we are not bombarded with mail from single or married females .so not attacking one or the other

I'm 100% single but find it funny it's always guys playing away get the bad name a lot of females do the same and nothing said in fact it's the guys always the one in the wrong so it seems anyway. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK I'm married, happily married as it goes but curious, but down as single. I had married in my profile but was getting no where. When people get to know you, the fact that you're married doesn't seem to be as much of an issue. Let the stoning begin

Hmm - married guy here as well - also happily married - not proud of being here but have my reasons - possibly not fully justified but last time I had oral sex with my wife was 1 month after marriage - 18 years ago !. She decided that she just doesn't like it - and that was that.

The first time I met a women on here - we had oral sex - she came a few times. The next day in the car - I cried - not from guilt but for what I had missed out on.

I am a much happier bunny at home.

"

This makes me feel really

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