FabSwingers.com forum: FIrst Meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok guys I've been on this site a long time on and off had afew meets and I thought I'd share my experience and knowledge on the subject

I dont know everything and if you think you got some better advice please comment

First I'll start with Women

Single Ladies out there always meet in public place first. Have a friend you know from here or a friend from home just say your going on a first date if you dont want them to know your naughty intentions and have them call you at a certain time to check up on you. If the guy seems nervous thank him for meeting you tell him your nervous too. That should relax him somewhat anyway. bring condoms I've always got them but sure after the first time I'd none left for a second lucky enough she did.

Couples meeting a single guy. The rules here are usually made by the Lady of the Couple but always make sure you are both comfortable with whats going onand whats allowed. You are both better off making a set list of rules but this are just like no anal cumming on tits only not in mouth taking out before cumming incase condom breaks. But dont concentrate on it too much remember have fun.

Ok now Single guys be relaxed confident and dont think to yourself your meeting for sex your meeting for a conversation about desires and fantacies to see if you like this person and to check if there is a real attraction and not just an online fantasy. Stop sending cock pics unless requested I'm sick of women saying it to me when I meet them the amount of cock pics they get no wonder they just delete most messages.

Now guys that cant get meets try just liking there pictures. If you sent Them a mail make sure you have pictures put some thought into your message read there profile. I met a woman from here just because I read her profile it said I stop sending me messages and go on cam I went on cam for 5 minutes I got her Skype met her a couple of days later.

Ok would love to hear what you guys think of this any other ideas would be nice to hear be safe and have fun

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

That is all common sense, but the trouble with common sense is that it's not that common.

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By *outhbelMan
over a year ago

Near Carryduff

All reads good, pity some people just don't get the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've covered it really, maybe Punctuality. If you're running late let the person know, nobody likes to think "fuck they've bottled it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if you're not nervous? Should you lie to make the guy feel better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if you're not nervous? Should you lie to make the guy feel better? "

Relate a time you were nervous, to show him it happens to us all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if you're not nervous? Should you lie to make the guy feel better?

Relate a time you were nervous, to show him it happens to us all

Except for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if you're not nervous? Should you lie to make the guy feel better?

Relate a time you were nervous, to show him it happens to us all

Except for me

Make something up.....or just pounce on him, if he runs he was never game anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if you're not nervous? Should you lie to make the guy feel better?

Relate a time you were nervous, to show him it happens to us all

Except for me

Make something up.....or just pounce on him, if he runs he was never game anyway

I'll try it with a newbie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if you're not nervous? Should you lie to make the guy feel better?

Relate a time you were nervous, to show him it happens to us all

Except for me

Make something up.....or just pounce on him, if he runs he was never game anyway

I'll try it with a newbie

let me know how it goes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

True but not common sense for a person that has no meets under there belt

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's true great point should always keep contact but also remember if you don't hear from them they could be driving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Common sense tells me this thread won't make 175.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Now that's what I call an unexpected turn!

We should start betting on how many posts it gets to before the glorious bum of Jezebel appears. That bum though!

Mmmm, sorry, back in a minute!

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