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"I dont know if its just me, but as a single woman, i'm concious of the list of people i've slept with, especially if i settle down and the guy asks for that number! Would love to hear your opinions, especially from other single women, and from a guys perspective! " If your going settling down with a guy and of course the two of ye are very happy he's not going to judge u on how many men u slept with. | |||
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"We all have a past and anybody you would settle down with shouldn't hold your past against you" I agree with this... ![]() | |||
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"I lost count years ago........ ![]() ... she said, just before he went down on his knees.... | |||
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"Is this not daft to have on a swingers site? If your asking yourself such questions,or worried what some possessive old fashioned slackjaw guy thinks,i suggest your in the wrong place" I know what i want, but actions have consequences further down the line. | |||
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"The list this is something I have tought about since I was a young lad and its always being my believe that a woman as well as a guy should as they say play the field experiment so to speak. Find what they are happy with it was frouned upon for a girl to play around back then but a guy was appuladed on his conquests strange because without the ladies playing he couldn't have his conquest. If I had a daughter I would love to think she knew what she wanted and liked before settling down, its a bit late when shes in the honeymoon bed and ur man does a panda leaving her wondering is that it. If I had it over I think when the question was asked and she said ten / twenty I'd reply I hope u learnt well now get up them stairs ![]() I like that answer! So what makes a woman a slut? Dont take me up wrong, i do not consider anyone here a slut, i admire most of the women here, theyre confident and smokin hot, but when does being kinky turn into being a slag? How do i avoid that? | |||
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"I think the difference between a slut and a swinger is having standards and respect for yourself and your body Just my opinion ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"We all have a past and anybody you would settle down with shouldn't hold your past against you I agree with this... ![]() Because its true ![]() | |||
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"Why arent the men i know as open minded as you lot?! ![]() Ur hanging with the wrong men | |||
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"as far as im concerned its no ones business the amount of people ive slept with but my own. If a partner wants to get hung up over it,its his issue not mine" Totally agree with that.. I haven't been counting so don't know.. And don't care. | |||
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"Is this not daft to have on a swingers site? If your asking yourself such questions,or worried what some possessive old fashioned slackjaw guy thinks,i suggest your in the wrong place" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"So what makes a woman a slut? Dont take me up wrong, i do not consider anyone here a slut, i admire most of the women here, theyre confident and smokin hot, but when does being kinky turn into being a slag? How do i avoid that?" To the op, once you realise your past is just a story, it has no power over you. And never regret anything because at one time it was exactly what you wanted. You appear to be soul searching for some answers. I hope you find them, before trying to answer your last question, are you able to define whats "kinky", and then define whats a "slag". Slag is an ugly word, concubine is much more pleasant. ![]() | |||
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"If you ask me its not the number that worries me, but I would be more conscious on how well they got to know those individuals if any thing......its about a form of connection, some can connect better then others and I would understand that ![]() I read this several times and can make neither head nor tail of what you are saying sorry but I know your saying something but it doesn't go in line with the question maybe I am reading to deep and between the blurred lines ![]() | |||
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"Why is it that it's just the women that are called sluts!? What about the guys, they're as bad! We're all slappers on the site - men & women!" How very dare u I am a gentleman slapper huh ![]() | |||
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"Why is it that it's just the women that are called sluts!? What about the guys, they're as bad! We're all slappers on the site - men & women! How very dare u I am a gentleman slapper huh ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"The word slut is just a social construct to control women and pure nonsense in my mind. Saying that it can be fun to use in dirty talk.as in "bend over and take it you hot little slut " ?? " In that context i love it! ![]() | |||
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"You think you have problems. How do I explain my list?? ![]() ![]() never mind ur list,how do u explain ur cock to him? ![]() | |||
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"You think you have problems. How do I explain my list?? ![]() ![]() ![]() Now that is a bit tricky. On nights out when someone doesn't know the score (has happened ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Is it like a job interview where previous experience matters ? ![]() long as ur not too over qualified for the job !!! ![]() | |||
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"Wouldn't bother me how many women a guy had slept with, if it got to a stage where you were settling down, I'd actually almost prefer he'd been around the block and would be happy to commit, rather than someone who'd not had so much experience and decide a few yrs later he felt he'd missed out. Numbers mean nothing,it shouldn't detract from genuine feelings. " So so true ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I dont know if its just me, but as a single woman, i'm concious of the list of people i've slept with, especially if i settle down and the guy asks for that number! Would love to hear your opinions, especially from other single women, and from a guys perspective! " No guy should ask you your number and vice versa. All that matters is that ye are committed to each other. It seems to me that you have an issue with the amount of people you've slept with. Just my opinion, I may be wrong, it sounds like you feel guilty. At the end of the day it's no one's business and as long as you're happy that's all that matters. In my experience I would be wary of a guy that asks you how many guys you've slept with. They usually turn out to be the jealous ones ![]() | |||
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"I dont know if its just me, but as a single woman, i'm concious of the list of people i've slept with, especially if i settle down and the guy asks for that number! Would love to hear your opinions, especially from other single women, and from a guys perspective! No guy should ask you your number and vice versa. All that matters is that ye are committed to each other. It seems to me that you have an issue with the amount of people you've slept with. Just my opinion, I may be wrong, it sounds like you feel guilty. At the end of the day it's no one's business and as long as you're happy that's all that matters. In my experience I would be wary of a guy that asks you how many guys you've slept with. They usually turn out to be the jealous ones ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I dont know if its just me, but as a single woman, i'm concious of the list of people i've slept with, especially if i settle down and the guy asks for that number! Would love to hear your opinions, especially from other single women, and from a guys perspective! No guy should ask you your number and vice versa. All that matters is that ye are committed to each other. It seems to me that you have an issue with the amount of people you've slept with. Just my opinion, I may be wrong, it sounds like you feel guilty. At the end of the day it's no one's business and as long as you're happy that's all that matters. In my experience I would be wary of a guy that asks you how many guys you've slept with. They usually turn out to be the jealous ones ![]() Well said you!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"If you're in a relationship, it shouldn't matter how many people you'd been with before! A guy, if he likes u enough, should like u no matter what! He shouldn't judge u based on what everybody else says about u! " if 2 people love each other,the present & the future is all that matters.The past is where it is! | |||
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"If you're in a relationship, it shouldn't matter how many people you'd been with before! A guy, if he likes u enough, should like u no matter what! He shouldn't judge u based on what everybody else says about u! if 2 people love each other,the present & the future is all that matters.The past is where it is!" ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I dont know if its just me, but as a single woman, i'm concious of the list of people i've slept with, especially if i settle down and the guy asks for that number! Would love to hear your opinions, especially from other single women, and from a guys perspective! No guy should ask you your number and vice versa. All that matters is that ye are committed to each other. It seems to me that you have an issue with the amount of people you've slept with. Just my opinion, I may be wrong, it sounds like you feel guilty. At the end of the day it's no one's business and as long as you're happy that's all that matters. In my experience I would be wary of a guy that asks you how many guys you've slept with. They usually turn out to be the jealous ones ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Awh thanks ![]() | |||
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"I wouldn't bother telling my partner, it's in the past! Not my future, I have told exs my number and one was appauled!! But it's my youth I enjoyed it why should it bother him..." ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I wouldn't bother telling my partner, it's in the past! Not my future, I have told exs my number and one was appauled!! But it's my youth I enjoyed it why should it bother him... ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Personally I think the more important list should be how many since u were last tested? Maybe I'm a worrier or a bit of a prude but if I was getting into a new relationship I for one who gets regular testing would only be concerned with that list. I only had one on my full list until I joined fab earlier this year its slowly multiplying now but what ever the number I don't think anyone should be embarressed it's all about a bit of fun once ur safe and cautious. " I agree! Was going to post on my last post about it being worse when the doc askes that question as I am a firm believer of regular testing and it is a constant worry for me on here! Was accused of it being "too personal" to ask someone that question before. I don't think it is! If I'm going to have sex with someone I want to know if my health is at risk, condoms only do so much! | |||
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"Does anyone actually keep score? " i never did I wish I did be funny to look back on | |||
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"The word slut is just a social construct to control women and pure nonsense in my mind. Saying that it can be fun to use in dirty talk.as in "bend over and take it you hot little slut " ?? In that context i love it! ![]() ?? all the "bad" words can be extremely good in the right scenario.. for example "c'mere you hot bitch/whore/slut etc " may get the juices flowing in the bedroombut it's not advisable to use them in front of company.?? Saying that can be fun to whisper in a sexy ladies ear in anticipation of the fun to follow on a night out. | |||
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"I dont know if its just me, but as a single woman, i'm concious of the list of people i've slept with, especially if i settle down and the guy asks for that number! Would love to hear your opinions, especially from other single women, and from a guys perspective! " Mines not so bad, so very easy to tell future wives, ex wives etc. 1 and a half x | |||
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"I dont know if its just me, but as a single woman, i'm concious of the list of people i've slept with, especially if i settle down and the guy asks for that number! Would love to hear your opinions, especially from other single women, and from a guys perspective! Mines not so bad, so very easy to tell future wives, ex wives etc. 1 and a half x " Lol a half?? I'd like to hear that story ![]() | |||
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"I dont know if its just me, but as a single woman, i'm concious of the list of people i've slept with, especially if i settle down and the guy asks for that number! Would love to hear your opinions, especially from other single women, and from a guys perspective! Mines not so bad, so very easy to tell future wives, ex wives etc. 1 and a half x Lol a half?? I'd like to hear that story ![]() Well,,,, it involves a 87year old blind woman, a dwarf and a pumpkin lol x | |||
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"I dont know if its just me, but as a single woman, i'm concious of the list of people i've slept with, especially if i settle down and the guy asks for that number! Would love to hear your opinions, especially from other single women, and from a guys perspective! Mines not so bad, so very easy to tell future wives, ex wives etc. 1 and a half x Lol a half?? I'd like to hear that story ![]() Wowzers!! Now there's a kinky boy ![]() | |||
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"I dont know if its just me, but as a single woman, i'm concious of the list of people i've slept with, especially if i settle down and the guy asks for that number! Would love to hear your opinions, especially from other single women, and from a guys perspective! Mines not so bad, so very easy to tell future wives, ex wives etc. 1 and a half x Lol a half?? I'd like to hear that story ![]() Wouldn't surprise me! ![]() | |||
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"I dont know if its just me, but as a single woman, i'm concious of the list of people i've slept with, especially if i settle down and the guy asks for that number! Would love to hear your opinions, especially from other single women, and from a guys perspective! Mines not so bad, so very easy to tell future wives, ex wives etc. 1 and a half x Lol a half?? I'd like to hear that story ![]() Wouldn't surprise me! ![]() | |||
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"I dont know if its just me, but as a single woman, i'm concious of the list of people i've slept with, especially if i settle down and the guy asks for that number! Would love to hear your opinions, especially from other single women, and from a guys perspective! Mines not so bad, so very easy to tell future wives, ex wives etc. 1 and a half x Lol a half?? I'd like to hear that story ![]() ![]() She had red hair as well, but they were lower hairs. I'll bring a pumpkin over in November red lol x ![]() ![]() | |||
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