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By *-4pleasure OP   Couple
over a year ago

Belfast

Parties being hijacked on the hope of having them cancelled, profiles hacked and private pics stolen, and threats to ladies to have their pics and details plastered over Facebook.

So my question is - is this indeed just a series of unfortunate events or is there a possibility that something more sinister is at play ??

Personally, this has made me view friend invites/ pic displaying/messaging in a much more critical manner. I suppose that in itself is not such a bad thing but it just feels like, lately, the fun is being sucked out of us by persons and for reasons unknown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We heartily agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never give ur real name to no one!

Use ur porn name Lol

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"Parties being hijacked on the hope of having them cancelled, profiles hacked and private pics stolen, and threats to ladies to have their pics and details plastered over Facebook.

So my question is - is this indeed just a series of unfortunate events or is there a possibility that something more sinister is at play ??

Personally, this has made me view friend invites/ pic displaying/messaging in a much more critical manner. I suppose that in itself is not such a bad thing but it just feels like, lately, the fun is being sucked out of us by persons and for reasons unknown."

i hope its just a series of unfortunate events as i'd not like to think thing more sinister

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By *enandmollyCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"We heartily agree."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Parties being hijacked on the hope of having them cancelled, profiles hacked and private pics stolen, and threats to ladies to have their pics and details plastered over Facebook.

So my question is - is this indeed just a series of unfortunate events or is there a possibility that something more sinister is at play ??

Personally, this has made me view friend invites/ pic displaying/messaging in a much more critical manner. I suppose that in itself is not such a bad thing but it just feels like, lately, the fun is being sucked out of us by persons and for reasons unknown.

i hope its just a series of unfortunate events as i'd not like to think thing more sinister "

What laid said. I know there's muppets here but hopefully not somebody so twisted as to be doing all this

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By *reddieRaeCouple
over a year ago

Banbridge

Yip, we had pics stolen a while back and Rae's own stalker which annoyed us no end, but we're just much more careful who we chat to, add as friends etc....

Guess no matter what you're into, there are arseholes who want to ruin it

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Parties being hijacked on the hope of having them cancelled, profiles hacked and private pics stolen, and threats to ladies to have their pics and details plastered over Facebook.

So my question is - is this indeed just a series of unfortunate events or is there a possibility that something more sinister is at play ??

Personally, this has made me view friend invites/ pic displaying/messaging in a much more critical manner. I suppose that in itself is not such a bad thing but it just feels like, lately, the fun is being sucked out of us by persons and for reasons unknown."

Has it not always been thus? I remember when I joined a couple of years ago and almost left straight away when I heard about this sort of thing. That's not to suggest that it's acceptable, but it's certainly nothing new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea have to say fab is getting a scary place these days but I'm surprised that there hardly any moderators on here I think I have only seen one.

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever


"Is it scare mongering? Has it always been the case but people chat more in the forums about it ?

but in fairness its a free site for anyone to join ....so it will always be open to fruit loops ....

Apples"

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By *enandmollyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

Strict policies and rules is what's need to protect genuine people from these kind of individuals who prey on any vulnerability they can find. Sad but true there are people who prey on others and cause trouble

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Strict policies and rules is what's need to protect genuine people from these kind of individuals who prey on any vulnerability they can find. Sad but true there are people who prey on others and cause trouble "

Are there not strict policies and rules already?

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By *enandmollyCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"Strict policies and rules is what's need to protect genuine people from these kind of individuals who prey on any vulnerability they can find. Sad but true there are people who prey on others and cause trouble

Are there not strict policies and rules already? "

Clearly not from reading this sad thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give nothing to nobody anymore.I had to go to the extremes of changing my number because I stupidly gave it to someone who pestered me with calls and texts for a whole year.I'm free of all that now and have learned my lesson on giving out my number.

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By *enandmollyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

Just a thought though, when people are meeting with sex in mind unless there is clear communication and boundaries it can lead to bad feeling. I'm just basing this on the vanilla world and when relationships turn sour things can get nasty , it's sad but true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You really wonder, a man a woman or a cpl? And why the heck go in a crusade to affect other people fun! It would be nice to find who they are

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

Only so much a website's policies and rules can cover. Up to individuals to protect their privacy and personal information. This is not just a 'Fab' issue. This is how internet scam artists work.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Strict policies and rules is what's need to protect genuine people from these kind of individuals who prey on any vulnerability they can find. Sad but true there are people who prey on others and cause trouble

Are there not strict policies and rules already?

Clearly not from reading this sad thread "

Isn't it people breaking the rules?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Only so much a website's policies and rules can cover. Up to individuals to protect their privacy and personal information. This is not just a 'Fab' issue. This is how internet scam artists work. "

Yep, the world is a cruel place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You really wonder, a man a woman or a cpl? And why the heck go in a crusade to affect other people fun! It would be nice to find who they are "

Oh I so agree..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is Lemony Snickett on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time hearing of profiles being hacked but there has been a recurrence of facebook profile threats and parties getting cancelled. These people who do this are lowlife scum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I give nothing to nobody anymore.I had to go to the extremes of changing my number because I stupidly gave it to someone who pestered me with calls and texts for a whole year.I'm free of all that now and have learned my lesson on giving out my number. "

We are the same. No face pics, no verifs and no mobile number. We meet face to face or not at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say getting worried now im def going to be more careful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First time hearing of profiles being hacked but there has been a recurrence of facebook profile threats and parties getting cancelled. These people who do this are lowlife scum "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First time hearing of profiles being hacked but there has been a recurrence of facebook profile threats and parties getting cancelled. These people who do this are lowlife scum

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Have to say getting worried now im def going to be more careful."

Wear a condom at all times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what's going on but I don't have to.

It's like when something goes missing in work and people gossip about who it might have been. Sometimes its the person gossiping who did it, sometimes its the person everyone thinks, sometimes its someone no one would ever imagine. Sometimes it was the person who owned the item doing it for attention, pretending it was stolen.

If you don't know, and don't have proof then you don't make accusations or hint that someone might be in the wrong. Instead from that day forward you take more care with your personal belongings.

Same thing on here. People have had stuff stolen from their house, been black mailed, have had stuff posted to their facebook, have had stalkers, their personal info shared. It has happened a few different people. Who knows who does these things, but who cares, it does not really matter.

Take care with your info and carry on. Protect yourself from these things happening you as best you can and carry on.

Assume the worst, but hope for the best.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

....and don't let the terrorists win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know what's going on but I don't have to.

It's like when something goes missing in work and people gossip about who it might have been. Sometimes its the person gossiping who did it, sometimes its the person everyone thinks, sometimes its someone no one would ever imagine. Sometimes it was the person who owned the item doing it for attention, pretending it was stolen.

If you don't know, and don't have proof then you don't make accusations or hint that someone might be in the wrong. Instead from that day forward you take more care with your personal belongings.

Same thing on here. People have had stuff stolen from their house, been black mailed, have had stuff posted to their facebook, have had stalkers, their personal info shared. It has happened a few different people. Who knows who does these things, but who cares, it does not really matter.

Take care with your info and carry on. Protect yourself from these things happening you as best you can and carry on.

Assume the worst, but hope for the best."

Wise words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone wants you off the site bad enough, they'll do whatever they can to get you off it.

Some people are just the scum of the earth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone wants you off the site bad enough, they'll do whatever they can to get you off it.

Some people are just the scum of the earth "

This is very true

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I don't know what's going on but I don't have to.

It's like when something goes missing in work and people gossip about who it might have been. Sometimes its the person gossiping who did it, sometimes its the person everyone thinks, sometimes its someone no one would ever imagine. Sometimes it was the person who owned the item doing it for attention, pretending it was stolen.

If you don't know, and don't have proof then you don't make accusations or hint that someone might be in the wrong. Instead from that day forward you take more care with your personal belongings.

Same thing on here. People have had stuff stolen from their house, been black mailed, have had stuff posted to their facebook, have had stalkers, their personal info shared. It has happened a few different people. Who knows who does these things, but who cares, it does not really matter.

Take care with your info and carry on. Protect yourself from these things happening you as best you can and carry on.

Assume the worst, but hope for the best."

There's some sense in that alright!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Undoubtedly, there are a handful of twisted individuals, that are out to ruin everything they can, whilst safely hidden behind their multiple Fab persona's.

One might suspect that single males would be the prime suspects but it is my genuine belief, that the male halves, of at least 3 couples, have been responsible for some, if not all, of the happenings.

Proof? Totally circumstantial, to date but the more it happens, the more information is picked up on and the list of possibles, becomes smaller.

Regardless, people will still meet, still play and it's only in their tiny, penis driven minds, that they 'win'.

The irony being, that at least one, is a predatory and prolific party host, both North and South.

Guests will have to become used to tighter security around parties, with almost zero info being given out. That won't suit a lot but is the only way to minimise the chances of another ruined event.......people think, oh it's just a cancelled party BUT the hosts are out money, the guests have sitters booked, outfits bought and face the disappointment of their limited free time being wasted!!

How big are the scum that are doing this, really?? Not big enough to stand face to face with anyone....and that's the truth!!!

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"I don't know what's going on but I don't have to.

It's like when something goes missing in work and people gossip about who it might have been. Sometimes its the person gossiping who did it, sometimes its the person everyone thinks, sometimes its someone no one would ever imagine. Sometimes it was the person who owned the item doing it for attention, pretending it was stolen.

If you don't know, and don't have proof then you don't make accusations or hint that someone might be in the wrong. Instead from that day forward you take more care with your personal belongings.

Same thing on here. People have had stuff stolen from their house, been black mailed, have had stuff posted to their facebook, have had stalkers, their personal info shared. It has happened a few different people. Who knows who does these things, but who cares, it does not really matter.

Take care with your info and carry on. Protect yourself from these things happening you as best you can and carry on.

Assume the worst, but hope for the best.

There's some sense in that alright! "

Yep. .I agree having learned the hard way thanks to someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Undoubtedly, there are a handful of twisted individuals, that are out to ruin everything they can, whilst safely hidden behind their multiple Fab persona's.

One might suspect that single males would be the prime suspects but it is my genuine belief, that the male halves, of at least 3 couples, have been responsible for some, if not all, of the happenings.

Proof? Totally circumstantial, to date but the more it happens, the more information is picked up on and the list of possibles, becomes smaller.

Regardless, people will still meet, still play and it's only in their tiny, penis driven minds, that they 'win'.

The irony being, that at least one, is a predatory and prolific party host, both North and South.

Guests will have to become used to tighter security around parties, with almost zero info being given out. That won't suit a lot but is the only way to minimise the chances of another ruined event.......people think, oh it's just a cancelled party BUT the hosts are out money, the guests have sitters booked, outfits bought and face the disappointment of their limited free time being wasted!!

How big are the scum that are doing this, really?? Not big enough to stand face to face with anyone....and that's the truth!!!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Undoubtedly, there are a handful of twisted individuals, that are out to ruin everything they can, whilst safely hidden behind their multiple Fab persona's.

One might suspect that single males would be the prime suspects but it is my genuine belief, that the male halves, of at least 3 couples, have been responsible for some, if not all, of the happenings.

Proof? Totally circumstantial, to date but the more it happens, the more information is picked up on and the list of possibles, becomes smaller.

Regardless, people will still meet, still play and it's only in their tiny, penis driven minds, that they 'win'.

The irony being, that at least one, is a predatory and prolific party host, both North and South.

Guests will have to become used to tighter security around parties, with almost zero info being given out. That won't suit a lot but is the only way to minimise the chances of another ruined event.......people think, oh it's just a cancelled party BUT the hosts are out money, the guests have sitters booked, outfits bought and face the disappointment of their limited free time being wasted!!

How big are the scum that are doing this, really?? Not big enough to stand face to face with anyone....and that's the truth!!!"

Sorry just wondering what you mean by predatory? Surely if he's a threat to women or anyone else he shouldn't be on the site and should be reported

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Sorry just wondering what you mean by predatory? Surely if he's a threat to women or anyone else he shouldn't be on the site and should be reported

"

There are a lot of people, not just men, who are threats and shouldn't be on the site. Not much you can do though when they just come back easily....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Sorry just wondering what you mean by predatory? Surely if he's a threat to women or anyone else he shouldn't be on the site and should be reported

There are a lot of people, not just men, who are threats and shouldn't be on the site. Not much you can do though when they just come back easily...."

Personally I would keep reporting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Sorry just wondering what you mean by predatory? Surely if he's a threat to women or anyone else he shouldn't be on the site and should be reported

There are a lot of people, not just men, who are threats and shouldn't be on the site. Not much you can do though when they just come back easily....

Personally I would keep reporting them "

Surely there's a way of them being banned for good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Undoubtedly, there are a handful of twisted individuals, that are out to ruin everything they can, whilst safely hidden behind their multiple Fab persona's.

One might suspect that single males would be the prime suspects but it is my genuine belief, that the male halves, of at least 3 couples, have been responsible for some, if not all, of the happenings.

Proof? Totally circumstantial, to date but the more it happens, the more information is picked up on and the list of possibles, becomes smaller.

Regardless, people will still meet, still play and it's only in their tiny, penis driven minds, that they 'win'.

The irony being, that at least one, is a predatory and prolific party host, both North and South.

Guests will have to become used to tighter security around parties, with almost zero info being given out. That won't suit a lot but is the only way to minimise the chances of another ruined event.......people think, oh it's just a cancelled party BUT the hosts are out money, the guests have sitters booked, outfits bought and face the disappointment of their limited free time being wasted!!

How big are the scum that are doing this, really?? Not big enough to stand face to face with anyone....and that's the truth!!!

Sorry just wondering what you mean by predatory? Surely if he's a threat to women or anyone else he shouldn't be on the site and should be reported

"

By predatory, I mean one who targets new couples and blinds them with multiple party verifications, only to latch onto the, usually much younger, female. Unfortunately there are party whores out there, that will attend and verify and big up anyone that invites them to their parties, regardless of how well run and disregarding the behaviour of the 'host' towards others....that's why Fab is so fucked up at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Undoubtedly, there are a handful of twisted individuals, that are out to ruin everything they can, whilst safely hidden behind their multiple Fab persona's.

One might suspect that single males would be the prime suspects but it is my genuine belief, that the male halves, of at least 3 couples, have been responsible for some, if not all, of the happenings.

Proof? Totally circumstantial, to date but the more it happens, the more information is picked up on and the list of possibles, becomes smaller.

Regardless, people will still meet, still play and it's only in their tiny, penis driven minds, that they 'win'.

The irony being, that at least one, is a predatory and prolific party host, both North and South.

Guests will have to become used to tighter security around parties, with almost zero info being given out. That won't suit a lot but is the only way to minimise the chances of another ruined event.......people think, oh it's just a cancelled party BUT the hosts are out money, the guests have sitters booked, outfits bought and face the disappointment of their limited free time being wasted!!

How big are the scum that are doing this, really?? Not big enough to stand face to face with anyone....and that's the truth!!!

Sorry just wondering what you mean by predatory? Surely if he's a threat to women or anyone else he shouldn't be on the site and should be reported

By predatory, I mean one who targets new couples and blinds them with multiple party verifications, only to latch onto the, usually much younger, female. Unfortunately there are party whores out there, that will attend and verify and big up anyone that invites them to their parties, regardless of how well run and disregarding the behaviour of the 'host' towards others....that's why Fab is so fucked up at the moment. "

Why don't you give admin wat ya know!

Or name the cunt...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Undoubtedly, there are a handful of twisted individuals, that are out to ruin everything they can, whilst safely hidden behind their multiple Fab persona's.

One might suspect that single males would be the prime suspects but it is my genuine belief, that the male halves, of at least 3 couples, have been responsible for some, if not all, of the happenings.

Proof? Totally circumstantial, to date but the more it happens, the more information is picked up on and the list of possibles, becomes smaller.

Regardless, people will still meet, still play and it's only in their tiny, penis driven minds, that they 'win'.

The irony being, that at least one, is a predatory and prolific party host, both North and South.

Guests will have to become used to tighter security around parties, with almost zero info being given out. That won't suit a lot but is the only way to minimise the chances of another ruined event.......people think, oh it's just a cancelled party BUT the hosts are out money, the guests have sitters booked, outfits bought and face the disappointment of their limited free time being wasted!!

How big are the scum that are doing this, really?? Not big enough to stand face to face with anyone....and that's the truth!!!

Sorry just wondering what you mean by predatory? Surely if he's a threat to women or anyone else he shouldn't be on the site and should be reported

By predatory, I mean one who targets new couples and blinds them with multiple party verifications, only to latch onto the, usually much younger, female. Unfortunately there are party whores out there, that will attend and verify and big up anyone that invites them to their parties, regardless of how well run and disregarding the behaviour of the 'host' towards others....that's why Fab is so fucked up at the moment.

Why don't you give admin wat ya know!

Or name the cunt..."

Admin can't stop him throwing parties though?

If he's that we'll known he can easily keep doing this without Fab surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They/he rely on Fab for new blood....admin have no interest in anything off site.....ie parties, ruined, or not. They will do nothing!

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"They/he rely on Fab for new blood....admin have no interest in anything off site.....ie parties, ruined, or not. They will do nothing!"

Woody I know you personally and trust you so this makes for very interesting reading. Quite a seedy little thing he has going if this is right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They/he rely on Fab for new blood....admin have no interest in anything off site.....ie parties, ruined, or not. They will do nothing!

Woody I know you personally and trust you so this makes for very interesting reading. Quite a seedy little thing he has going if this is right "

He/they are well known but with every move, they show more of their hand....

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"They/he rely on Fab for new blood....admin have no interest in anything off site.....ie parties, ruined, or not. They will do nothing!

Woody I know you personally and trust you so this makes for very interesting reading. Quite a seedy little thing he has going if this is right

He/they are well known but with every move, they show more of their hand...."

Good they will get caught then. ..I know you will keep me safe as you always have. Shame these people get away with upsetting so many people!

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