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By *aid back OP   Man
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

it appears that someone has contacted the owners of the location and informed them that there is a swingers party on that night and they have cancelled my booking. so it this means that it only one of two things happened either someone who got an invite did this or someone who got an invite told others where it was being held....

i'm in the process of finding a new venue for that night so please bare with me thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fuck sake... what a bunch of wankers who did that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's bloody stupid thing to do, why on earth ruin it for people I don't understand people sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucks sake, why are people so ignorant and thoughtless?

Sorry for ur troubles laid, hope you get a new venue xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear your bad news guys, hope you find an alternate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asshole whoever did it, hope you get sorted

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Fucks sake, why are people so ignorant and thoughtless?

Sorry for ur troubles laid, hope you get a new venue xx"

Doesn't take columbo does it ???? Hope all works out laid mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm something very fishy there, sorry to hear that wrx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus its not a great start to the week is it...

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Site is getting worse.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Site is getting worse.

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By *enandmollyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

Sorry to hear your bad news guys, hope you find an alternate.

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

Bloody boo.....hope you get something organised

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Sorry to hear your bad news guys, hope you find an alternate. "

what is the story with people in this day and age

mr crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to hear your bad news guys, hope you find an alternate.

what is the story with people in this day and age

mr crazy "

So many spoilers. ...what need?

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Ah balls!!

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

ffs , what a pack of low life jelious fookers here , dont want others to have fun if they cant , im bloody fumming here as we are sooo looking forward to it

hope all works out for u laid as we know how much work u have put into this , and if you are able to sort out a diff venue , dont tell people til maybe a hour before hand , im sure the people on the list will understand

mrs crazy

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By *auraxxWoman
over a year ago

east

I'm not losing hope x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to hear your bad news guys, hope you find an alternate. "

Is there an echo in here???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm something very fishy there, sorry to hear that wrx"

I agree. I know where I would be looking if I was organising this party. I'm not saying I'm right but I know where I would start looking.

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By *oci1Couple
over a year ago

Trim

Nooooooo hotels booked

Absolute muppets

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Nooooooo hotels booked

Absolute muppets "

we have it booked too Toci , defo dont want to waste it , why dont u us and laid have our own party

mrs crazy

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

This is happening way too often for it too be jealousy or somebody with a grudge....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah for fuck sake. There's Some sad fuckers around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fuckin ireland 1950s its like....what year did we bring in condom machines to pub toilets....? thats how backwards we are...long way to go before we catch up on the rest of europe .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fuckin ireland 1950s its like....what year did we bring in condom machines to pub toilets....? thats how backwards we are...long way to go before we catch up on the rest of europe .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is happening way too often for it too be jealousy or somebody with a grudge...."

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"fuckin ireland 1950s its like....what year did we bring in condom machines to pub toilets....? thats how backwards we are...long way to go before we catch up on the rest of europe ....."

Really don't think it has anything to do with ppl being backward....

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Looks like we will have to go back to the cell system where one person meets ten others and only that person knows the venue so for a party of fifty only five know the location

Warped fooker that spoiled it for others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few could ring the venue just to confirm this......just saying that's all!

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By *enandmollyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

Or, you could simply be honest with the venue, and admit the folks attending are swingers! Worth a try!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear this has happened, but surely as this is a very select crowd of verified swingers who get an invite to this, why would somebody on the list want to spoil it? Or who ever did spoil it is leaving themselves open to acussation as they maybe haven't attended before but managed to get an invite to this one, leaving it a very small ratio of people not trusted from attending before?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What date was this party supposed to be on guys ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or, you could simply be honest with the venue, and admit the folks attending are swingers! Worth a try! "

Unfortunately for the organiser and the people going to it someone with your exact sentiment did exactly that !

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"fuckin ireland 1950s its like....what year did we bring in condom machines to pub toilets....? thats how backwards we are...long way to go before we catch up on the rest of europe .....

Really don't think it has anything to do with ppl being backward...."

Its nothing to do with backward thinking. It's either some bitter person that didn't get an invite and perhaps 'rang around' or perhaps some male or female that was cheated on in the past by a swinging partner and has a vandeta as a result, could be lots of different situations that'd drive someone to do that but it happens frequently enough. Alternatively they could just be a complete f*ckwit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No all for it at all .... But can i just ask how you are going to them out? .... If you change venue you are going ti be inviting the same people .... Whos to say they wont squeel again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any time we have been attending a party , we have had messages asking us where it is as they have seen us talking about it on the forums, now I know some people just want to be nosey but I would never give the location out to anyone, maybe someone just has not been as discerning and thought they were telling someone they consider to be a friend, it's easy enough for it to happen I'm sure.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Any time we have been attending a party , we have had messages asking us where it is as they have seen us talking about it on the forums, now I know some people just want to be nosey but I would never give the location out to anyone, maybe someone just has not been as discerning and thought they were telling someone they consider to be a friend, it's easy enough for it to happen I'm sure."

this has also happened on a few occassion but we would never tell them , not even our good friends here , if they want to know , they have to contact the host for an invite ,

mrs crazy

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

Thats just typical but think of this, it would have to be someone that knows you as they would need your full name so as to contact the hotel as there is more than one apartment there. We have our room booked and are still heading up so if anyone wants to meet for a drink sat night drop us a mail.

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor

Sorry to hear this and hope you get to the bottom of what happened.

Laid try not to be deflated, you and the Swink team are great people who make things happen. I have every confidence in you securing an alternative venue. You hit a wall and you push through, keep going, don't stop.

As mentioned earlier by Cj, and I appreciate people need to book rooms etc, but I always feel better when a location is only released hours before kick off.

If I can be of any assistance to either of you, just shout or call on me.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Thats just typical but think of this, it would have to be someone that knows you as they would need your full name so as to contact the hotel as there is more than one apartment there. We have our room booked and are still heading up so if anyone wants to meet for a drink sat night drop us a mail. "

we will there too

mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is this bmi thing about??? It's been mentioned several times and haven't an iota what it's supposed to mean. Also people her have a tendency to make under handed remarks I realise there are certain guidelines for the forums but anyone can message is if it can't be said on the forums , we will not be wronged and if what we read into was wrong we are mistaken and sorry but it's difficult when it's just text to actually tell"

Google is your friend. You should always be aware of your health guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its despicable that some people try to ruin it for others!

It makes me sick..

Im gutted Laid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bill and Ben the shitstiring man lol

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

So where is every one going sat night

Keep it in pm not on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bill and Ben the shitstiring man lol"
men! Touchsreen gets up my ass sometimes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha my post got reported

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats just typical but think of this, it would have to be someone that knows you as they would need your full name so as to contact the hotel as there is more than one apartment there. We have our room booked and are still heading up so if anyone wants to meet for a drink sat night drop us a mail.

we will there too

mrs crazy "

We will be there aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it appears that someone has contacted the owners of the location and informed them that there is a swingers party on that night and they have cancelled my booking. so it this means that it only one of two things happened either someone who got an invite did this or someone who got an invite told others where it was being held....

i'm in the process of finding a new venue for that night so please bare with me thanks"

You have mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Killjoys!!

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

Aww laid that's horrible! There are some very nasty people around obviously who don't care that people have arranged to get away. . Get babysitting. . Get hotels etc. Hope you get it sorted ...If anyone can you can. You should all go anyway and have your own party !!! Good luck

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By *aid back OP   Man
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

well i have exhausted all options and i'm afraid il have to cancel this party as i cant find a suitable location for this weekend at such short notice. but i may have found a much better place for the next one.

but from now on only people i know and trust will know the location anyone else will just be told a meeting point close by and ill meet everyone there and travel to the venue also i will no longer be posting when the parties are on in the forums only the people i know and trust will know and if they know anyone interested in the party they can mail me etc

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

So sorry to hear this laid. Fair play to ya for all the hard work you put in.

Looking forward to the next time.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

ah we so sorry to hear that laid, and we appreciate all the work uve put into this in trying to organise it. and as we were going we will still like to pay our money as we know uve probally lost ur deposit through no fault of ur own.

mr crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww that sucks sorry to hear this Laid. Chin up! Your next one will be bigger and better!

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

So disappointed here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats shit after all your hard work you put in organising it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffs what is it with some people hi no matter were you go or what you do there's always one grrrrr.

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare


"ah we so sorry to hear that laid, and we appreciate all the work uve put into this in trying to organise it. and as we were going we will still like to pay our money as we know uve probally lost ur deposit through no fault of ur own.

mr crazy "

Fair play crazy we are on the same page so laid if your about call over for a drink at least and between us we will make sure your not out of pocket, it's bad enough all the time you have lost to this.

D and M.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"well i have exhausted all options and i'm afraid il have to cancel this party as i cant find a suitable location for this weekend at such short notice. but i may have found a much better place for the next one.

but from now on only people i know and trust will know the location anyone else will just be told a meeting point close by and ill meet everyone there and travel to the venue also i will no longer be posting when the parties are on in the forums only the people i know and trust will know and if they know anyone interested in the party they can mail me etc "

aww I'm sorry you didn't get it sorted but I think that's probably the way to go which is a real shame as people who haven't tried parties before will miss out because of some dick who is just nasty! Good luck with the next one hun.. bigger and better all the way mmwwah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well i have exhausted all options and i'm afraid il have to cancel this party as i cant find a suitable location for this weekend at such short notice. but i may have found a much better place for the next one.

but from now on only people i know and trust will know the location anyone else will just be told a meeting point close by and ill meet everyone there and travel to the venue also i will no longer be posting when the parties are on in the forums only the people i know and trust will know and if they know anyone interested in the party they can mail me etc "
Such a crappy thing for someone to do, to ruin the fun for everyone else. I hope there's payback somewhere down the line for whoever it was. I think your plans for the next one sound good and secure. I wish you the best for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ffs , what a pack of low life jelious fookers here , dont want others to have fun if they cant , im bloody fumming here as we are sooo looking forward to it

hope all works out for u laid as we know how much work u have put into this , and if you are able to sort out a diff venue , dont tell people til maybe a hour before hand , im sure the people on the plist will understand

mrs crazy "

Im sickened by this what pleasure would someone get by doing this grrrr so mad agree with crazy laid hope u get it worked out ahhhhh so mad I could bust

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