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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A holiday with a friend is two days away, friend texts to say she may be too ill to travel but wants to wait until the travel day to see how she feels.

Another friend can step in but name change needs done 48 hrs pre-travel....so called sick frend will not respond to text or calls.....please advise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fig that waiting nonsense.....get the other friend to step in.....no one wants to ride solo lol......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frig

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh that's a tough one! Can you contact travel company and explain situation and see if you can get a name change extension?

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"A holiday with a friend is two days away, friend texts to say she may be too ill to travel but wants to wait until the travel day to see how she feels.

Another friend can step in but name change needs done 48 hrs pre-travel....so called sick frend will not respond to text or calls.....please advise "

Go round and see for yourself how ill they are and then you can decide

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A holiday with a friend is two days away, friend texts to say she may be too ill to travel but wants to wait until the travel day to see how she feels.

Another friend can step in but name change needs done 48 hrs pre-travel....so called sick frend will not respond to text or calls.....please advise

Go round and see for yourself how ill they are and then you can decide "

Yes maybe I will....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 20/09/14 16:07:55]"

Name change is only possible until pm today at the latest!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

How did it turn out?

I suppose your sick friend can be ill on holiday just as much as at home if you went that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the friend is too sick to travel now she won't be fully better in two days and prob will either end up making you sick or just not enjoying herself. Change the name and bring other friend and reschedule a trip with sick friend for another time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the friend is too sick to travel now she won't be fully better in two days and prob will either end up making you sick or just not enjoying herself. Change the name and bring other friend and reschedule a trip with sick friend for another time "

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

Friends choice I think. How much do you value the friendship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the friend is too sick to travel now she won't be fully better in two days and prob will either end up making you sick or just not enjoying herself. Change the name and bring other friend and reschedule a trip with sick friend for another time "

That's a perfect solution lollipop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take lollipops advise miss hunnietoes! You mustn't spoil your holiday or allow someone to spoil it for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If the friend is too sick to travel now she won't be fully better in two days and prob will either end up making you sick or just not enjoying herself. Change the name and bring other friend and reschedule a trip with sick friend for another time "

Yes that is true..it's not my holiday it's my daughter's and she won't listen to my name cyange advice. So either the holiday will go ahead on Monday to Magaluf or it won't!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Take lollipops advise miss hunnietoes! You mustn't spoil your holiday or allow someone to spoil it for you "

I know....it's not my holiday but my week s spoiled if the holiday doesn't go ahead!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How did it turn out?

I suppose your sick friend can be ill on holiday just as much as at home if you went that way. "

Name change outta the question now so it is a waiting game

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Just in case it goes horribly wrong, I do have a voodoo doll you can keep any knitting needles in, if you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If shs's a REAL friend she'll tell ur daughter to go on ahead n make other arrangements !!! Otherwise I'd go over to her house myself and tie her up with all that rope you have and leave her in the attic !!!! Then your daughter goes off on her holiday and more importantly , you get to have ur fun !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just in case it goes horribly wrong, I do have a voodoo doll you can keep any knitting needles in, if you like. "

Haha!! Wouldn't like to get on the wrong side of u ms Tina!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A holiday with a friend is two days away, friend texts to say she may be too ill to travel but wants to wait until the travel day to see how she feels.

Another friend can step in but name change needs done 48 hrs pre-travel....so called sick frend will not respond to text or calls.....please advise "

Names be changed and off I'd go!

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

Why doesn't the non sick friend see if she can add her name to the holiday. Therefore if the sick friend can't go your daughter will still have company.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why doesn't the non sick friend see if she can add her name to the holiday. Therefore if the sick friend can't go your daughter will still have company. "

It's an idea but the cost of a new holiday is double what the girls paid when they booked it in March....the step in friend would benefit from the low cost sick friend's deal x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why doesn't the non sick friend see if she can add her name to the holiday. Therefore if the sick friend can't go your daughter will still have company. "

Good call

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"If the friend is too sick to travel now she won't be fully better in two days and prob will either end up making you sick or just not enjoying herself. Change the name and bring other friend and reschedule a trip with sick friend for another time

That's a perfect solution lollipop "

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Why doesn't the non sick friend see if she can add her name to the holiday. Therefore if the sick friend can't go your daughter will still have company.

It's an idea but the cost of a new holiday is double what the girls paid when they booked it in March....the step in friend would benefit from the low cost sick friend's deal x"

Even just the flight??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why doesn't the non sick friend see if she can add her name to the holiday. Therefore if the sick friend can't go your daughter will still have company.

It's an idea but the cost of a new holiday is double what the girls paid when they booked it in March....the step in friend would benefit from the low cost sick friend's deal x

Even just the flight??"

I will check that out...truth be told I'm just reeling about the short time span involved...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A holiday with a friend is two days away, friend texts to say she may be too ill to travel but wants to wait until the travel day to see how she feels.

Another friend can step in but name change needs done 48 hrs pre-travel....so called sick frend will not respond to text or calls.....please advise

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Not being funny but she doesn't sound much of a friend

Unless she's a hospital case holidays are always a good idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A holiday with a friend is two days away, friend texts to say she may be too ill to travel but wants to wait until the travel day to see how she feels.

Another friend can step in but name change needs done 48 hrs pre-travel....so called sick frend will not respond to text or calls.....please advise

Not being funny but she doesn't sound much of a friend

Unless she's a hospital case holidays are always a good idea

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Yes I agree..how do we guide our kids to stick with suitable friends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not much off a friend there hun at least should off contacted u to let u know what was going on decent thing to do i think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not much off a friend there hun at least should off contacted u to let u know what was going on decent thing to do i think."

Yes I kno.....

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By *urferniMan
over a year ago

Antrim


"Not much off a friend there hun at least should off contacted u to let u know what was going on decent thing to do i think.

Yes I kno....."

Does she have holiday insurance? Might be worth checking if it covers cancellation due to illness of a travelling companion. At least then she would get money back and could re-book for another time, and potentially with a more reliable friend!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not much off a friend there hun at least should off contacted u to let u know what was going on decent thing to do i think.

Yes I kno.....

Does she have holiday insurance? Might be worth checking if it covers cancellation due to illness of a travelling companion. At least then she would get money back and could re-book for another time, and potentially with a more reliable friend!

"

Thankfully she has gold cover insurance and yea a relable friend would be better!

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By *urferniMan
over a year ago

Antrim


"Not much off a friend there hun at least should off contacted u to let u know what was going on decent thing to do i think.

Yes I kno.....

Does she have holiday insurance? Might be worth checking if it covers cancellation due to illness of a travelling companion. At least then she would get money back and could re-book for another time, and potentially with a more reliable friend!

Thankfully she has gold cover insurance and yea a relable friend would be better!"

Great! Hope things will work out OK in the long run

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"Not much off a friend there hun at least should off contacted u to let u know what was going on decent thing to do i think.

Yes I kno.....

Does she have holiday insurance? Might be worth checking if it covers cancellation due to illness of a travelling companion. At least then she would get money back and could re-book for another time, and potentially with a more reliable friend!

Thankfully she has gold cover insurance and yea a relable friend would be better!"

fingers crossed it all works out hun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not much off a friend there hun at least should off contacted u to let u know what was going on decent thing to do i think.

Yes I kno.....

Does she have holiday insurance? Might be worth checking if it covers cancellation due to illness of a travelling companion. At least then she would get money back and could re-book for another time, and potentially with a more reliable friend!

Thankfully she has gold cover insurance and yea a relable friend would be better!

fingers crossed it all works out hun! "

It looks like the sick friend might go to Magaluf after all I'm not one for prayer but here's hoping!!

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By *urferniMan
over a year ago

Antrim


"Not much off a friend there hun at least should off contacted u to let u know what was going on decent thing to do i think.

Yes I kno.....

Does she have holiday insurance? Might be worth checking if it covers cancellation due to illness of a travelling companion. At least then she would get money back and could re-book for another time, and potentially with a more reliable friend!

Thankfully she has gold cover insurance and yea a relable friend would be better!

fingers crossed it all works out hun!

It looks like the sick friend might go to Magaluf after all I'm not one for prayer but here's hoping!!"

Let's hope in a week's time they'll be having a great holiday and these hassles will be long in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope so too.....let us know for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope its alright on the night for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So who went on the holiday then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So who went on the holiday then? "

The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So who went on the holiday then?

The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!

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Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!

I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!!

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By *urferniMan
over a year ago

Antrim


"So who went on the holiday then?

The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!

Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!

I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!! "

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By *unduo000Couple
over a year ago

In and around

It's been cloudy and muggy all this last week. Lots of rain and thunder and lighting in Spain at the minute, hopefully they won't run into that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's been cloudy and muggy all this last week. Lots of rain and thunder and lighting in Spain at the minute, hopefully they won't run into that. "

Oh no! Though these two are party girls so out all night and sleep all day!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So who went on the holiday then?

The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!

Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!

I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!! "

They're there!! Wohoo I can breathe again!

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

I'm delighted for both of them. Out of curiosity what age is your daughter?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm delighted for both of them. Out of curiosity what age is your daughter?"

Thank u..it was touch and go there! Almost 20 so is her friend

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By *urferniMan
over a year ago

Antrim


"So who went on the holiday then?

The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!

Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!

I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!!

They're there!! Wohoo I can breathe again! "

Brilliant! Never easy being a parent and having to stand back and let them figure life out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So who went on the holiday then?

The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!

Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!

I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!!

They're there!! Wohoo I can breathe again! "

Great news!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So who went on the holiday then?

The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!

Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!

I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!!

They're there!! Wohoo I can breathe again!

Brilliant! Never easy being a parent and having to stand back and let them figure life out! "

True..the standing back bit is the one I struggle with!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So who went on the holiday then?

The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!

Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!

I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!!

They're there!! Wohoo I can breathe again! "

glad to hear it!!!! U'll need a holiday urself after all that. Hope they remember to bring u something nice.....

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By *urferniMan
over a year ago

Antrim


"So who went on the holiday then?

The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!

Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!

I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!!

They're there!! Wohoo I can breathe again!

Brilliant! Never easy being a parent and having to stand back and let them figure life out!

True..the standing back bit is the one I struggle with!!"
not easy, especially when you think of the stuff you got up to yourself at that age!

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"So who went on the holiday then?

The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!

Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!

I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!!

They're there!! Wohoo I can breathe again!

Brilliant! Never easy being a parent and having to stand back and let them figure life out!

True..the standing back bit is the one I struggle with!! not easy, especially when you think of the stuff you got up to yourself at that age! "
or the stuff your still getting up to now!!

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By *urferniMan
over a year ago

Antrim


"So who went on the holiday then?

The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!

Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!

I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!!

They're there!! Wohoo I can breathe again!

Brilliant! Never easy being a parent and having to stand back and let them figure life out!

True..the standing back bit is the one I struggle with!! not easy, especially when you think of the stuff you got up to yourself at that age! or the stuff your still getting up to now!! "

I was thinking that we're all now mature, sensible people who never get up to anything naughty

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"So who went on the holiday then?

The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!

Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!

I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!!

They're there!! Wohoo I can breathe again!

Brilliant! Never easy being a parent and having to stand back and let them figure life out!

True..the standing back bit is the one I struggle with!! not easy, especially when you think of the stuff you got up to yourself at that age! or the stuff your still getting up to now!!

I was thinking that we're all now mature, sensible people who never get up to anything naughty "

Yes definitely very mature

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So who went on the holiday then?

The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!

Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!

I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!!

They're there!! Wohoo I can breathe again!

glad to hear it!!!! U'll need a holiday urself after all that. Hope they remember to bring u something nice....."

I know! Though a free house is quite a treat!

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By *ornyandwellhungMan
over a year ago

belfast

Free house? Can I make a suggestion? You know I wouldn't like you to be lonely hunnitoes.

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