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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi I'm just wondering if women ever message a guy they like the look of first or just wait and hope he sends one first. Just a query. I'm not having a go luckily women most if them reply to my messages but just curious as to do the ladies take the initiative and go for it ??

Be interesting to hear some ladies replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep! Some women do, some gals find it easier to block all single guys and then mail the ones they like the look of

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I can imagine alot of men are glad to hear it as I've spoken to some and they barely get a reply nevermind a first msg. Good on you Candy store.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well in fairness lollipop that makes sense. I know women get harassed in here too so ye can side with your there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here a while so don't get as many messages as I used to so no need for filters, but a single fem told me she does this recently and I thought it was genius!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They mostly wink I've found.

Now that wouldn't work for a single male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it on the chin mate and shout next ive been blocked four times for sending a respectfull message and a face pic jaysis i must look like shrek lol.Anyway the way i see it is if they block yea there not worth bothering with move onwards and upwards,loads off lovely ladys here to chat too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, i never write to people first! I dont have the time to go browsing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And Lucy would you have to time to reply to most men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm here a while so don't get as many messages as I used to so no need for filters, but a single fem told me she does this recently and I thought it was genius!"

Great way to up you messages...

How many guys mailed you after this post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm here a while so don't get as many messages as I used to so no need for filters, but a single fem told me she does this recently and I thought it was genius!

Great way to up you messages...

How many guys mailed you after this post! "

Lol I'm part of the furniture here, don't think my profile attracts attention at all, had that convo with a lad earlier actually, plus I have not meeting on my profile so that killed the daily influx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm here a while so don't get as many messages as I used to so no need for filters, but a single fem told me she does this recently and I thought it was genius!"

In fairness they must have blinkers on nevermind filters your pics are dam sexy !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm here a while so don't get as many messages as I used to so no need for filters, but a single fem told me she does this recently and I thought it was genius!

Great way to up you messages...

How many guys mailed you after this post!

Lol I'm part of the furniture here, don't think my profile attracts attention at all, had that convo with a lad earlier actually, plus I have not meeting on my profile so that killed the daily influx "

The old "not meeting post" followed by some new veri's lol?

I'll waffle to you anytime!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm here a while so don't get as many messages as I used to so no need for filters, but a single fem told me she does this recently and I thought it was genius!

In fairness they must have blinkers on nevermind filters your pics are dam sexy !!!"

Well thank you

I have "not meeting" on my profile so in fairness most lads have respected that and stopped mailing me for meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm here a while so don't get as many messages as I used to so no need for filters, but a single fem told me she does this recently and I thought it was genius!

Great way to up you messages...

How many guys mailed you after this post!

Lol I'm part of the furniture here, don't think my profile attracts attention at all, had that convo with a lad earlier actually, plus I have not meeting on my profile so that killed the daily influx

The old "not meeting post" followed by some new veri's lol?

I'll waffle to you anytime! "

All my last veri's are from the meet and greet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm here a while so don't get as many messages as I used to so no need for filters, but a single fem told me she does this recently and I thought it was genius!

In fairness they must have blinkers on nevermind filters your pics are dam sexy !!!

Well thank you

I have "not meeting" on my profile so in fairness most lads have respected that and stopped mailing me for meets"

It's nice to know that we are being respectful to the sweetest ladies on here. I will keep an eye out for that not meeting sign to change.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

When we first joined 3 years ago I suggested to the single females that to avoids unwanted mails they block males and message men themselves....its not rocket science..but alas I see everyday ladies complaining about unwanted attention.... It fell on deaf ears I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

;)

I didn't mean you..... But it's more common than you would think.

Next meet and greet I'm going to buy you the 1st drink!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When we first joined 3 years ago I suggested to the single females that to avoids unwanted mails they block males and message men themselves....its not rocket science..but alas I see everyday ladies complaining about unwanted attention.... It fell on deaf ears I think"

I wish someone gave me that advice lol it's a great idea

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

"Yep! Some women do, some gals find it easier to block all single guys and then mail the ones they like the look of "

Best way tbh

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

Mind you im getting more messages now offering to suck my cock than I do as Mrs S ..... feeling a bit upset

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So in fairness I'm guessing the majority of women don't send the first message. Keep up the hard work lads lol

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

I've messaged a few first but alas to no avail. Boohoo. I do send winks too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've messaged a few first but alas to no avail. Boohoo. I do send winks too "

I find that strange that you don't get a reply. Try me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive never not replied to an initial mail, ...not hard to reply when u get about 3 a day!!...even the ones from guys and tv's

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

"I've messaged a few first but alas to no avail. Boohoo. I do send winks too

I find that strange that you don't get a reply. Try me

I will...when your profile matches my requirements

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mind you im getting more messages now offering to suck my cock than I do as Mrs S ..... feeling a bit upset

Whole lotta seductive is working for you then

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

I message people if they catch my eye with their profile pic. . Our if I read their profile and is witty or funny I message and tell them I thought it was funny x sure why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tis a good idea

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

"Mind you im getting more messages now offering to suck my cock than I do as Mrs S ..... feeling a bit upset

Whole lotta seductive is working for you then

new name to match lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mind you im getting more messages now offering to suck my cock than I do as Mrs S ..... feeling a bit upset

Whole lotta seductive is working for you then

new name to match lol

Yup, I think you should get your name changed to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got no messages tonight!

But I did get a wink & he's a cutie and he's from my neck of the woods!!

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

"Mind you im getting more messages now offering to suck my cock than I do as Mrs S ..... feeling a bit upset

Whole lotta seductive is working for you then

new name to match lol

Yup, I think you should get your name changed to it "

your cock goes to the wrong side of me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mind you im getting more messages now offering to suck my cock than I do as Mrs S ..... feeling a bit upset

Whole lotta seductive is working for you then

new name to match lol

Yup, I think you should get your name changed to it

your cock goes to the wrong side of me!

I was going to say you had the pic inverted....oh wait....should this convo be had in pm?????

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

"Mind you im getting more messages now offering to suck my cock than I do as Mrs S ..... feeling a bit upset

Whole lotta seductive is working for you then

new name to match lol

Yup, I think you should get your name changed to it

your cock goes to the wrong side of me!

I was going to say you had the pic inverted....oh wait....should this convo be had in pm?????

ha ha pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mind you im getting more messages now offering to suck my cock than I do as Mrs S ..... feeling a bit upset

Whole lotta seductive is working for you then

new name to match lol

Yup, I think you should get your name changed to it

your cock goes to the wrong side of me!

I was going to say you had the pic inverted....oh wait....should this convo be had in pm?????

ha ha pmsl

Yep move it along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mind you im getting more messages now offering to suck my cock than I do as Mrs S ..... feeling a bit upset

Whole lotta seductive is working for you then

new name to match lol

Yup, I think you should get your name changed to it

your cock goes to the wrong side of me!

I was going to say you had the pic inverted....oh wait....should this convo be had in pm?????

ha ha pmsl

Yep move it along

Sorry Ms Knots, nothing to see here

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By *unduo000Couple
over a year ago

In and around

"Mind you im getting more messages now offering to suck my cock than I do as Mrs S ..... feeling a bit upset

Told you they were good pics lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mind you im getting more messages now offering to suck my cock than I do as Mrs S ..... feeling a bit upset

Told you they were good pics lol

She's loving the attention really

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By *unduo000Couple
over a year ago

In and around

"Mind you im getting more messages now offering to suck my cock than I do as Mrs S ..... feeling a bit upset

Told you they were good pics lol

She's loving the attention really

Is she's getting a whole lotta love more than you now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mind you im getting more messages now offering to suck my cock than I do as Mrs S ..... feeling a bit upset

Told you they were good pics lol

She's loving the attention really

Is she's getting a whole lotta love more than you now

I know, I'm feeling kinda put out here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I'd definitely mail a guy first, have done and will continue to do so.

Think I said it on a previous thread about this subject, I'm not so big headed to think they'll mail me first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

VERY RARELY

99% say something like this:

'hey sxy nice page send me face foto I wana fuck u nw'

So you know straight away its a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

while we have messaged guys first, we usually send a wink to let the know we like their profile and leave it up to them to contact us if they were interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done but normally a wink to test the waters first.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I have messaged guys first if like a certain picture or something catches my eye on the profile.

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