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Most important trait a man must have?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is for the ladies in particular. What do you think the most important trait a man must have is in order to draw ur attention,keep it and maybe even turn you on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect for others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuinely being themselves

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Good sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good personality

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By *uelforlife74Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

The ability to breathe through his ears

Although that may be more of a talent than a trait

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would of thought women love a man that can lead, Some one they view as being strong and a leader rather then a follower especially when it comes to turning a woman on

Hopefully you get what i mean ha

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever


"I would of thought women love a man that can lead, Some one they view as being strong and a leader rather then a follower especially when it comes to turning a woman on

Hopefully you get what i mean ha "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would of thought women love a man that can lead, Some one they view as being strong and a leader rather then a follower especially when it comes to turning a woman on

Hopefully you get what i mean ha "

Haven't seen you on here in a while. Still looking for the 'little' lady I see.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would of thought women love a man that can lead, Some one they view as being strong and a leader rather then a follower especially when it comes to turning a woman on

Hopefully you get what i mean ha

Haven't seen you on here in a while. Still looking for the 'little' lady I see."

You have me blocked it seems so how can you "see" such info ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would of thought women love a man that can lead, Some one they view as being strong and a leader rather then a follower especially when it comes to turning a woman on

Hopefully you get what i mean ha

Haven't seen you on here in a while. Still looking for the 'little' lady I see.

You have me blocked it seems so how can you "see" such info ha "

Your tone hasn't changed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would of thought women love a man that can lead, Some one they view as being strong and a leader rather then a follower especially when it comes to turning a woman on

Hopefully you get what i mean ha

Haven't seen you on here in a while. Still looking for the 'little' lady I see.

You have me blocked it seems so how can you "see" such info ha

Your tone hasn't changed."

Nothing wrong with my tone, iam certainly not everyone's cuppa which is fine but if youu have nothing good to say why comment?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Someone with a gsoh but is respectful too

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

Really couldn't say one trait specifically is important. Its an accumulation, of the right balance, of numerous traits. Respect, intelligence, humour, loyalty, trust etc...

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I like humour, but in order to attract him, I find one with bad eyesight is useful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect for me is a huge thing...

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"I like humour, but in order to attract him, I find one with bad eyesight is useful. "
beer works too..lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Really couldn't say one trait specifically is important. Its an accumulation, of the right balance, of numerous traits. Respect, intelligence, humour, loyalty, trust etc...

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I get you but i mean in terms of turn ons? For example some women are turned on by men with hot bodies! What trait is the biggest turn on to u?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would of thought women love a man that can lead, Some one they view as being strong and a leader rather then a follower especially when it comes to turning a woman on

Hopefully you get what i mean ha

Haven't seen you on here in a while. Still looking for the 'little' lady I see.

You have me blocked it seems so how can you "see" such info ha

Your tone hasn't changed.

Nothing wrong with my tone, iam certainly not everyone's cuppa which is fine but if youu have nothing good to say why comment? "

I didn't say there was anything wrong with your tone, just that you have one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is for the ladies in particular. What do you think the most important trait a man must have is in order to draw ur attention,keep it and maybe even turn you on?

"

19 inch cock.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would of thought women love a man that can lead, Some one they view as being strong and a leader rather then a follower especially when it comes to turning a woman on

Hopefully you get what i mean ha

Haven't seen you on here in a while. Still looking for the 'little' lady I see.

You have me blocked it seems so how can you "see" such info ha

Your tone hasn't changed.

Nothing wrong with my tone, iam certainly not everyone's cuppa which is fine but if youu have nothing good to say why comment?

I didn't say there was anything wrong with your tone, just that you have one."

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Really couldn't say one trait specifically is important. Its an accumulation, of the right balance, of numerous traits. Respect, intelligence, humour, loyalty, trust etc...

I get you but i mean in terms of turn ons? For example some women are turned on by men with hot bodies! What trait is the biggest turn on to u? "

As i said not one specifically...

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"This is for the ladies in particular. What do you think the most important trait a man must have is in order to draw ur attention,keep it and maybe even turn you on?

19 inch cock."

There was once a chap on here with a 17.5" cock. He was also the world's shittest photoshopper. His arm next to the cock was in perfect focus, his cock was somehow blurry. Bizarre.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is for the ladies in particular. What do you think the most important trait a man must have is in order to draw ur attention,keep it and maybe even turn you on?

19 inch cock.

There was once a chap on here with a 17.5" cock. He was also the world's shittest photoshopper. His arm next to the cock was in perfect focus, his cock was somehow blurry. Bizarre. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Impossible to narrow it to one trait. I like intelligent men, but he's not gonna turn me on if he looks like Shrek, same as a really hot guy wouldn't turn me on if he's a dummy. It's down to a few traits not just one, for me personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is for the ladies in particular. What do you think the most important trait a man must have is in order to draw ur attention,keep it and maybe even turn you on?

19 inch cock.

There was once a chap on here with a 17.5" cock. He was also the world's shittest photoshopper. His arm next to the cock was in perfect focus, his cock was somehow blurry. Bizarre. "

cracker

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why even pretend your cock is that big lol no one would go near you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why even pretend your cock is that big lol no one would go near you lol"

Speak for yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jaysis hope i have some off this traits ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty and respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A GSOH without that he would not last 5 minutes in my company lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strength is a big thing with me, able to take control of both my body and mind

If you don't have the mind connection there is nothing

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By *itty14Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

Good sense of humour and a flirty glint in his eye!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what would happen them if you met a woman that was also more of a leader

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"Impossible to narrow it to one trait. I like intelligent men, but he's not gonna turn me on if he looks like Shrek, same as a really hot guy wouldn't turn me on if he's a dummy. It's down to a few traits not just one, for me personally. "

have to agree. .. But when you find that chemistry that's what keeps you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Impossible to narrow it to one trait. I like intelligent men, but he's not gonna turn me on if he looks like Shrek, same as a really hot guy wouldn't turn me on if he's a dummy. It's down to a few traits not just one, for me personally.

have to agree. .. But when you find that chemistry that's what keeps you "

as above but he also has to interest and intrigue me.....but the chemistry is a must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Impossible to narrow it to one trait. I like intelligent men, but he's not gonna turn me on if he looks like Shrek, same as a really hot guy wouldn't turn me on if he's a dummy. It's down to a few traits not just one, for me personally.

have to agree. .. But when you find that chemistry that's what keeps you "

Agreed, and when you find that extra special chemistry it's amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Impossible to narrow it to one trait. I like intelligent men, but he's not gonna turn me on if he looks like Shrek, same as a really hot guy wouldn't turn me on if he's a dummy. It's down to a few traits not just one, for me personally.

have to agree. .. But when you find that chemistry that's what keeps you

Agreed, and when you find that extra special chemistry it's amazing "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So it's not that he can make fire. A FFS I'm putting the matches away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Strength is a big thing with me, able to take control of both my body and mind

If you don't have the mind connection there is nothing "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

back to the original post.. the only fuckin trait any man on this site should have is....

GIVE THE BITCH FAIRY LIQUID rather than that CHEAP SHIT .....

gets the dishes done really quick lads.. and goes a long long away... so they say

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Impossible to narrow it to one trait. I like intelligent men, but he's not gonna turn me on if he looks like Shrek, same as a really hot guy wouldn't turn me on if he's a dummy. It's down to a few traits not just one, for me personally. "

Nothing wrong with shrek..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Impossible to narrow it to one trait. I like intelligent men, but he's not gonna turn me on if he looks like Shrek, same as a really hot guy wouldn't turn me on if he's a dummy. It's down to a few traits not just one, for me personally.

Nothing wrong with shrek.. "

Indeed, he just wouldn't do it for me.

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Impossible to narrow it to one trait. I like intelligent men, but he's not gonna turn me on if he looks like Shrek, same as a really hot guy wouldn't turn me on if he's a dummy. It's down to a few traits not just one, for me personally.

Nothing wrong with shrek..

Indeed, he just wouldn't do it for me. "
so you've said already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Impossible to narrow it to one trait. I like intelligent men, but he's not gonna turn me on if he looks like Shrek, same as a really hot guy wouldn't turn me on if he's a dummy. It's down to a few traits not just one, for me personally.

Nothing wrong with shrek..

Indeed, he just wouldn't do it for me. so you've said already "

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really couldn't say one trait specifically is important. Its an accumulation, of the right balance, of numerous traits. Respect, intelligence, humour, loyalty, trust etc...

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this

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By *imply me 1Woman
over a year ago

LONDONDERRY

in no particular order

confidence

experience

sense of fun

charisma

respect

honesty

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By *r MacmullyMan
over a year ago

Tarbert


"back to the original post.. the only fuckin trait any man on this site should have is....

GIVE THE BITCH FAIRY LIQUID rather than that CHEAP SHIT .....

gets the dishes done really quick lads.. and goes a long long away... so they say "

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By *ay and DeborahCouple
over a year ago

Co. Down

A clean body but filthy mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of humour, and respect. Too difficult to choose one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to anyone under 30 it's a beard!

Like grandad on only fools!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the ability to turn up would be a good startthe amount of single guys that ask us to meet up and then cancel the day (or sometimes hours) before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the ability to turn up would be a good startthe amount of single guys that ask us to meet up and then cancel the day (or sometimes hours) before "

Or to turn up with a Santa beard!

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By *reddieRaeCouple
over a year ago

Banbridge

Well I met Freddie online and it was his written profile that got me. He didn't take himself seriously at all, which is initially what would draw me in.

As for being turned on - obviously an attraction is needed and everyone will differ, but for me it was confidence.

Everyone will say they want fit and toned or big a muscly, I personally view that as someone too high maintenance for me and I'd be forever putting myself down and comparing myself! Lol

I remember purposely not shaving my legs before we first met so that I WOULDNT let it go further.... Freddie couldn't keep it in his pants and started stripping me off - confidence.

But in some weird way I'm drawn to shyness too.... the thought of completely destroying an innocent mind leaves some sense of accomplishment lol

Oh! Good kissing is a MUST. Nothing worse than being all geared up and turned on the BAM - skinny lipped pursed lip kisses. It annoys me so much.

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