FabSwingers.com forum: making the first move

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So Guys and girls we know men are hunters its in our DNA but its so refreshing when you are contacted first by a female, iv had the honure of this a few times,

I know you girls are unindated on here with messages but have you ever scanned over male profiles and messaged guy first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I've most males blocked so I message those that interest me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

il try keep on the non blocking side of u so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"il try keep on the non blocking side of u so

No public photos means you're already there I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I've most males blocked so I message those that interest me

spoken like a true predator! roooar!sounds like there's a cougar on the prowl!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I've most males blocked so I message those that interest me

spoken like a true predator! roooar!sounds like there's a cougar on the prowl!!!!

I thought cougars were more like old ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"il try keep on the non blocking side of u so

No public photos means you're already there I'm afraid"

Is this a voayer I see before me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I've most males blocked so I message those that interest me

spoken like a true predator! roooar!sounds like there's a cougar on the prowl!!!!

I thought cougars were more like old ladies "

hey have ya ever seen the damage one of them things can do to antelope!!! no little old lady capable of that!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if a profile catches my eye I will mail

I don't always get a answer

but I can take it I'm a big girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes if a profile catches my eye I will mail

I don't always get a answer

but I can take it I'm a big girl

pray tell how ya like ta take it?

sorry curvy couldn't resist it,please forgive me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll forgive you ...

But you will have to pay a forfeit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've often made first contact if someone catches my eye.

Don't see why I should be that big headed to assume that they'll contact me first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll forgive you ...

But you will have to pay a forfeit

that sounds fair enough!!!

but u'll have to pm the forfeit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've often made first contact if someone catches my eye.

Don't see why I should be that big headed to assume that they'll contact me first!"

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By *onyg4funMan
over a year ago

South

"I've often made first contact if someone catches my eye.

Don't see why I should be that big headed to assume that they'll contact me first!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv msgd guys first..equal rights an all that.lol..don't see why the men have to do all the work on here..but its only those that interest me with there profile.ones that actually make an effort. .instead off "fill in later" an there here a yr or so lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a cpl maild me and turned out they were fake.and an old friend on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv msgd guys first..equal rights an all that.lol..don't see why the men have to do all the work on here..but its only those that interest me with there profile.ones that actually make an effort. .instead off "fill in later" an there here a yr or so lol..

Still waiting for that msg ...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry if I haven't replied my box is full ta bursting

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

We have single guys blocked so I always message first....only one guy has said thanks but no thanks but in a polite way....don't know why more single ladies don't use this approach.... Works a dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've mailed lads first afew times, same as in a pub or nightclub I would always approach men and "try" chat them up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i said this to a girl just the other day, i genuinely think this place would be easier for you lot if u blocked all single males and just messaged those u either trusted were sane or quite liked the look of...would certainly stop threads about guys not getting replies!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some big headed women on fab with absolutely no right to be either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i said this to a girl just the other day, i genuinely think this place would be easier for you lot if u blocked all single males and just messaged those u either trusted were sane or quite liked the look of...would certainly stop threads about guys not getting replies!!!!

They would just start threads about not getting messages then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They would just start threads about not getting messages then

i never get messages...

whoop sorry..thought i was in crazy's thread bout sarcasm!!!!!

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By *leasureOrbitCouple
over a year ago

city centre

A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait."

I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting for that msg ...lol

I msgd but no reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've often made first contact if someone catches my eye.

Don't see why I should be that big headed to assume that they'll contact me first!"
us too and we dont get upset by no response either

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often message a guy first and if a guy doesn't reply back I don't get offended it's his loss!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont think i have ever not replied...well not on purpose...much prefer to get messaged first tbh..hinty mc hint...mhwaaaaaaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make the first move here (not that it works lol) but in real life I can chat all day an night but when it cums to makin the first move I'm a disaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting for that msg ...lol

I msgd but no reply

Not to me you didn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting for that msg ...lol

I msgd but no reply

Not to me you didn't

You're right I didn't but thanks for making first move this morning lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting for that msg ...lol

I msgd but no reply

Not to me you didn't

You're right I didn't but thanks for making first move this morning lol

Down right sneaky that was

But top marks for tactics

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Women tend to fab or wink to show bit of interest rather than message.i find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women tend to fab or wink to show bit of interest rather than message.i find"

I must be too obvious blundering in with messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've often made first contact if someone catches my eye.

Don't see why I should be that big headed to assume that they'll contact me first!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women tend to fab or wink to show bit of interest rather than message.i find

I must be too obvious blundering in with messages "

Nah..ive just learnt, one should never be too obvious on fab...speak ur mind folks, clarity is beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women tend to fab or wink to show bit of interest rather than message.i find

I must be too obvious blundering in with messages "

No we won't hold that against ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women tend to fab or wink to show bit of interest rather than message.i find

I must be too obvious blundering in with messages

No we won't hold that against ya

Lol ty my second favourite

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"Women tend to fab or wink to show bit of interest rather than message.i find

I must be too obvious blundering in with messages

No we won't hold that against ya

Lol ty my second favourite

and there was thinking I was second lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont make the first move in real life but would here

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I do and I dont most of the time I miss read signals so that can be a pain lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spend a lot of time trying to reply to mail so it doesn't give me much time to window shop. I've not messaged that many and some that I did didn't bother replying. Oh the irony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I've most males blocked so I message those that interest me

Where is the joke button ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spend a lot of time trying to reply to mail so it doesn't give me much time to window shop. I've not messaged that many and some that I did didn't bother replying. Oh the irony

Melody. ... are you not best to do ALOT of filters so you wouldn't have as many mails .. OR block men from mailing you and only mail a select few that you deem worthy enough (not being smart)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think maybe twice I've mailed a guy first, I don't really browse profiles that much, I just tend to reply, or not, to guys who've mailed me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think ive ever mailed a guy first, I can't cope with rejection!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always make the first contact i dont hardly get any first contact from ladys atall.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"I think maybe twice I've mailed a guy first, I don't really browse profiles that much, I just tend to reply, or not, to guys who've mailed me. "

"so have you found mr m yet?"

our first message.awww

mighty oaks from little acorns grow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spend a lot of time trying to reply to mail so it doesn't give me much time to window shop. I've not messaged that many and some that I did didn't bother replying. Oh the irony

Melody. ... are you not best to do ALOT of filters so you wouldn't have as many mails .. OR block men from mailing you and only mail a select few that you deem worthy enough (not being smart)

Yes I have my filters set and the been here over a year, one validation for showing my cock on cam and I also have a green flag "wanna fuck" brigade have been nicely adding up on my block list.

If I block all men I could be missing out on the few gems that are on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think maybe twice I've mailed a guy first, I don't really browse profiles that much, I just tend to reply, or not, to guys who've mailed me.

"so have you found mr m yet?"

our first message.awww

mighty oaks from little acorns grow

Who cares about Mr m, I found much much much better than him

I really should thank mr m, oh and Paolo for re igniting it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.

I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking

Did you finally get it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.

I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking

Did you finally get it ?

Nope not yet, hopefully sort it over the weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.

I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking

Did you finally get it ?

Nope not yet, hopefully sort it over the weekend

Ooo! An insanity workout weekend at Duffer's, bet that ends up ropey!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"n I could be missing out on the few gems that are on here

Gems? Only lumps of common rocks here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.

I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking

Did you finally get it ?

Nope not yet, hopefully sort it over the weekend

Ooo! An insanity workout weekend at Duffer's, bet that ends up ropey!!

Not sure about the rope, but will be the usual hot and sweaty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women tend to fab or wink to show bit of interest rather than message.i find

I must be too obvious blundering in with messages

No we won't hold that against ya

Lol ty my second favourite

and there was thinking I was second lol"

And who did you think was first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I've most males blocked so I message those that interest me

Where is the joke button ..

Don't be bitter just because I didn't message you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting for that msg ...lol

I msgd but no reply

Not to me you didn't

You're right I didn't but thanks for making first move this morning lol

Down right sneaky that was

But top marks for tactics

Lol while thank you..

Compliments an all now!!

Your working it hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I've most males blocked so I message those that interest me

Where is the joke button ..

Don't be bitter just because I didn't message you

Knowing what I know, he would have all the reasons to be bitter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.

I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking

Did you finally get it ?

Nope not yet, hopefully sort it over the weekend

Ooo! An insanity workout weekend at Duffer's, bet that ends up ropey!!

Not sure about the rope, but will be the usual hot and sweaty

Will you be clenching your buttocks in this insane workout?

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"Women tend to fab or wink to show bit of interest rather than message.i find

I must be too obvious blundering in with messages

No we won't hold that against ya

Lol ty my second favourite

and there was thinking I was second lol

And who did you think was first"

well I dont know I thought id be second

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.

I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking

Did you finally get it ?

Nope not yet, hopefully sort it over the weekend

Ooo! An insanity workout weekend at Duffer's, bet that ends up ropey!!

Not sure about the rope, but will be the usual hot and sweaty

Will you be clenching your buttocks in this insane workout?

Wanna watch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.

I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking

Did you finally get it ?

Nope not yet, hopefully sort it over the weekend

Ooo! An insanity workout weekend at Duffer's, bet that ends up ropey!!

Not sure about the rope, but will be the usual hot and sweaty

Will you be clenching your buttocks in this insane workout?

Wanna watch?

make a video, post it publicly for all buttock clenching lovers there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.

I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking

Did you finally get it ?

Nope not yet, hopefully sort it over the weekend

Ooo! An insanity workout weekend at Duffer's, bet that ends up ropey!!

Not sure about the rope, but will be the usual hot and sweaty

Will you be clenching your buttocks in this insane workout?

Wanna watch?

Only if you will be doing it naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.

I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking

Did you finally get it ?

Nope not yet, hopefully sort it over the weekend

Ooo! An insanity workout weekend at Duffer's, bet that ends up ropey!!

Not sure about the rope, but will be the usual hot and sweaty

Will you be clenching your buttocks in this insane workout?

Wanna watch?

make a video, post it publicly for all buttock clenching lovers there

Post it publicly? I'm a very private person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.

I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking

Did you finally get it ?

Nope not yet, hopefully sort it over the weekend

Ooo! An insanity workout weekend at Duffer's, bet that ends up ropey!!

Not sure about the rope, but will be the usual hot and sweaty

Will you be clenching your buttocks in this insane workout?

Wanna watch?

Only if you will be doing it naked

Will only be wearing sweat bands and trainers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.

I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking

Did you finally get it ?

Nope not yet, hopefully sort it over the weekend

Ooo! An insanity workout weekend at Duffer's, bet that ends up ropey!!

Not sure about the rope, but will be the usual hot and sweaty

Will you be clenching your buttocks in this insane workout?

Wanna watch?

Only if you will be doing it naked

Will only be wearing sweat bands and trainers

Ok I'm in

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By *idpunkMan
over a year ago

carrickfergus

I've had one or two ladies make the first move always with a wink though

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

I get unsolicited mails from ladies and couples from time to time. More frequently in the last few months I'm finding. I love getting those mails,a great buzz, Particularily if they are the 50% or so from legit people

(keep em coming by the way!)

Some guys hate getting approached in bars etc too but I've no problems with that either, that's much rarer though

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"I get unsolicited mails from ladies and couples from time to time. More frequently in the last few months I'm finding. I love getting those mails,a great buzz, Particularily if they are the 50% or so from legit people

(keep em coming by the way!)

Some guys hate getting approached in bars etc too but I've no problems with that either, that's much rarer though

So do you want another?....or better still what bar do you go to

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

(keep em coming by the way!)

Some guys hate getting approached in bars etc too but I've no problems with that either, that's much rarer though

So do you want another?....or better still what bar do you go to"

Not in Dublin this weekend but mail me next week and i can let you know where you might 'bump into' me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but I can take it I'm a big girl

Interssant .. tell more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So Guys and girls we know men are hunters its in our DNA but its so refreshing when you are contacted first by a female, iv had the honure of this a few times,

I know you girls are unindated on here with messages but have you ever scanned over male profiles and messaged guy first?"

Oh yes x I even asked out my oh x can't be arsed with waiting around for life to happen x gotta make it happen x

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

"Yes, I've most males blocked so I message those that interest me

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I've most males blocked so I message those that interest me

Same here

You do !!

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

"Yes, I've most males blocked so I message those that interest me

Same here

You do !!

Lol....I know I did fab your ass pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I've most males blocked so I message those that interest me

Same here

You do !!

Lol....I know I did fab your ass pic

Ahaaaa take all the sun you can get

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