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"Discretion to me is not sharing details of meets... Not sharing your face pic with other members... Comparing you with other ladys from here looks wise... Not Telling other members where you live or work... " For me no one I meet here would know where I live or where I work, that's leaving yourself wide open, but then I don't trust easily. | |||
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"Personally what happens on a meet should stay on a meet. Discretion for me is if we played and you see me in public in company.....keep walking.....text me hello later! And if you are going to gossip or judge me make sure your prefect yourself!!" Totally agree | |||
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"Discretion to me is not sharing details of meets... Not sharing your face pic with other members... Comparing you with other ladys from here looks wise... Not Telling other members where you live or work... For me no one I meet here would know where I live or where I work, that's leaving yourself wide open, but then I don't trust easily." i didnt tell anything they sent my face pic to somebody that knew me and found out where i work and live... | |||
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"Discretion to me is not sharing details of meets... Not sharing your face pic with other members... Comparing you with other ladys from here looks wise... Not Telling other members where you live or work... For me no one I meet here would know where I live or where I work, that's leaving yourself wide open, but then I don't trust easily. i didnt tell anything they sent my face pic to somebody that knew me and found out where i work and live..." Jebus that's not cool | |||
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"Discretion to me is not sharing details of meets... Not sharing your face pic with other members... Comparing you with other ladys from here looks wise... Not Telling other members where you live or work... For me no one I meet here would know where I live or where I work, that's leaving yourself wide open, but then I don't trust easily. i didnt tell anything they sent my face pic to somebody that knew me and found out where i work and live..." Were they a verified user? I do not send face photos to non verified users at all on this and other sites. The longer I am here the more I understand that even verified users can be unpleasant. | |||
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"Discretion to me is not sharing details of meets... Not sharing your face pic with other members... Comparing you with other ladys from here looks wise... Not Telling other members where you live or work... " Couldn't agree more. | |||
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"Discretion to me is not sharing details of meets... Not sharing your face pic with other members... Comparing you with other ladys from here looks wise... Not Telling other members where you live or work... For me no one I meet here would know where I live or where I work, that's leaving yourself wide open, but then I don't trust easily. i didnt tell anything they sent my face pic to somebody that knew me and found out where i work and live... Were they a verified user? I do not send face photos to non verified users at all on this and other sites. The longer I am here the more I understand that even verified users can be unpleasant. " Verified by a few people... paid member also | |||
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"Discretion to me is not sharing details of meets... Not sharing your face pic with other members... Comparing you with other ladys from here looks wise... Not Telling other members where you live or work... For me no one I meet here would know where I live or where I work, that's leaving yourself wide open, but then I don't trust easily. i didnt tell anything they sent my face pic to somebody that knew me and found out where i work and live... Were they a verified user? I do not send face photos to non verified users at all on this and other sites. The longer I am here the more I understand that even verified users can be unpleasant. Verified by a few people... paid member also " This is why I trust no one . | |||
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"Discretion to me is not sharing details of meets... Not sharing your face pic with other members... Comparing you with other ladys from here looks wise... Not Telling other members where you live or work... For me no one I meet here would know where I live or where I work, that's leaving yourself wide open, but then I don't trust easily. i didnt tell anything they sent my face pic to somebody that knew me and found out where i work and live... Were they a verified user? I do not send face photos to non verified users at all on this and other sites. The longer I am here the more I understand that even verified users can be unpleasant. Verified by a few people... paid member also This is why I trust no one ." So far I received few unpleasant emails from single guys and recently from verified and establish couple. I guess, that is why m&g meetings are so important, as you can actually have a chat with people (i am coming to next one with a notebook and a pen... as I didn't remember any nicknames from the last one... Which is a pity as I spoke with few nice people ). I also look now more carefully at the verifications, to see if I know the people that provided them. I know I am a single guy, but I am very careful about selecting the people I would like to meet with and will not go to a play with everybody (there are so many factors to be considered, mutual attraction, respect, fantasy, understanding of expectations, etc...). | |||
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"I tend to avoid people who are very vocal about there meets and experiences on this site. Sadly there are people who can't hold there piss when it comes to meets and what their doing. In my experience it's men who seem to be the worst. I know it's just bravado. Pic sharing I know is an ongoing problem and it's been made easier for them to do with screen shots. One guy told me he saves every photo he's sent so he knows and remembers who's who. Very annoying but that's what your up against. Those that have status updates of "had a great 3some last night" etc is just bragging and I find it very off putting as I'm looking for discreet playmates. People use the site how they want and are well entitled to write whatever status or forum posts they want. I personally find it a little off putting but that's just me. " I was once offered by another guy to exchange photos of girl I met with. That profile got reported. I would not agree to sharing photos I got on the site as I first of all delete them and second of all it would have been a huge privacy invasion. I actually do not expect to receive face photo, I only ask for a body shoot, like the ones I have on my profile. It is great that you can put comments on profiles here, so if you found mutual attraction, you can actually write this in the comment section, without keeping the photos as a reminder. I get your point about the status updates. I am guilty myself of putting similar comment before, due to the huge excitement of actually fulfilling that long waited for realisation and a big fantasy of mine (again, not people from this site). Right now, I am more careful about my status updates. I am glad I raised those questions here as these comments are really great and will definitely help many people to avoid mistakes. | |||
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"I wouldn't disclose anything about a meet (person or event) on forums or to anybody else, that just isn't cricket. I expect the same in return. Though if there's a funniest thing to happen on a meet thread and I have an anecdote that was funny as hell and I know the other party doesn't mind me telling I will. Obviously I name no names. For instance I nce got hit round the head with a black dildo on a meet.... " Couldn't agree more banabas.... Now I have heard that story. . But my lips are sealed lol! | |||
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"I wouldn't disclose anything about a meet (person or event) on forums or to anybody else, that just isn't cricket. I expect the same in return. Though if there's a funniest thing to happen on a meet thread and I have an anecdote that was funny as hell and I know the other party doesn't mind me telling I will. Obviously I name no names. For instance I nce got hit round the head with a black dildo on a meet.... " Oooo clever you grabbing it from the abuser and stuffing it down ur pants!! | |||
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" Its a bit obvious isnt it." I wouldn't necessary agree that it is so obvious. The issue is much more complex as you can appreciate from the above posts. From what I take, even if you and the person/people you played with are ok with you saying a little, the others will/might judge you for even saying that you had a meet that day and they will/might assume you are indiscrete. Or they will find any other reason to hold it against you, especially if you are a single man. It's people's right to do so. These people invite us to share their privacy and intimate moments, so obviously they want to make sure it is done safely. That also works in the other way. We also have our insecurities, privacy concerns and do not want to be compared against other men, etc. It is impossible to please everyone and I think the golden centre is to say as much as you are happy with other people knowing about yourself and keep whatever is related to others to an absolute minimum (those that told me about their fantasies or gave me other discrete info has never found the slightest hint of that in forums and that is discretion to me). Some people are very concerned about the fact that forum can be read by non users and the slightest info would get out of here and made it to the public. We all should respect that. | |||
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"First rule of Fab "Never talk about Fab"......... second rule anyone?? " | |||
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"I wouldn't disclose anything about a meet (person or event) on forums or to anybody else, that just isn't cricket. I expect the same in return. Though if there's a funniest thing to happen on a meet thread and I have an anecdote that was funny as hell and I know the other party doesn't mind me telling I will. Obviously I name no names. For instance I nce got hit round the head with a black dildo on a meet.... Oooo clever you grabbing it from the abuser and stuffing it down ur pants!! " Slander | |||
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"First rule of Fab "Never talk about Fab"......... second rule anyone?? " errmmm never talk about fab.... | |||
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"First rule of Fab "Never talk about Fab"......... second rule anyone?? errmmm never talk about fab.... " Nope - charm mrs _ecretly seductive | |||
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