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"I think there are clicks in the chatroom. Mainly women that feel they have to "back each other up". Why do women get away with being rude? Why is this? Am I wrong?" Some rude fecking blokes on here aswell lol....!!  | |||
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"I think there are clicks in the chatroom. Mainly women that feel they have to "back each other up". Why do women get away with being rude? Why is this? Am I wrong?" it seems more likely that rather than all the women being in a clique and ganging up on people , that the people are being so impossibly rude that they piss everyone off and they all share their ire | |||
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"I think there are clicks in the chatroom. Mainly women that feel they have to "back each other up". Why do women get away with being rude? Why is this? Am I wrong?" There are no "cliques" or clicks in the room at all. Manners and good grammar will get you chatting to them all. They have never been rude unless being pestered continuously. | |||
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"I think there are clicks in the chatroom. " People who talk regularly form friendships. This is normal "Mainly women that feel they have to "back each other up"" Because they are collectively verbally assaulted by males all the time "Why do women get away with being rude?" Women are held to the same standards as the men on the site, ie - the sites rules. If they break them then they will be disciplined. If they are speaking within the rules then they are free to say what they wish. "Why is this?" I think this is the same question as the last one "Am I wrong?" In my opinion yes | |||
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"I think there are clicks in the chatroom. People who talk regularly form friendships. This is normal Mainly women that feel they have to "back each other up" Because they are collectively verbally assaulted by males all the time Why do women get away with being rude? Women are held to the same standards as the men on the site, ie - the sites rules. If they break them then they will be disciplined. If they are speaking within the rules then they are free to say what they wish. Why is this? I think this is the same question as the last one Am I wrong? In my opinion yes" 
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"I think there are clicks in the chatroom. People who talk regularly form friendships. This is normal Mainly women that feel they have to "back each other up" Because they are collectively verbally assaulted by males all the time Why do women get away with being rude? Women are held to the same standards as the men on the site, ie - the sites rules. If they break them then they will be disciplined. If they are speaking within the rules then they are free to say what they wish. Why is this? I think this is the same question as the last one Am I wrong? In my opinion yes" this post and one above pretty much sums it up tbh | |||
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"I think there are clicks in the chatroom. People who talk regularly form friendships. This is normal Mainly women that feel they have to "back each other up" Because they are collectively verbally assaulted by males all the time Why do women get away with being rude? Women are held to the same standards as the men on the site, ie - the sites rules. If they break them then they will be disciplined. If they are speaking within the rules then they are free to say what they wish. Why is this? I think this is the same question as the last one Am I wrong? In my opinion yes" This has made my day  well answered! | |||
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"there are cliques on this, they literally hunt in packs once one of them gets hurt they all just pile in on the poor sod who annoyed the person in the first place sort of like a battle royal if u will" That chip on your shoulder is making you delusional  | |||
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"there are cliques on this, they literally hunt in packs once one of them gets hurt they all just pile in on the poor sod who annoyed the person in the first place sort of like a battle royal if u will That chip on your shoulder is making you delusional "hahahaha that made me laugh, plenty more people i chat too on this feel the same way bub | |||
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"there are cliques on this, they literally hunt in packs once one of them gets hurt they all just pile in on the poor sod who annoyed the person in the first place sort of like a battle royal if u will" As a very regular chat and forum user I find this rather rude, you know the amount of abuse that women get on this site is terrible, now I'm not saying men don't but the way you have put that, I don't think this place is cliquey at all, I think ye are just misinterpreting chats between friends, obviously If you know someone well your gonna chat differently, but you yourself have seen me in chat, I talk to everyone, so painting all women or men with the one brush is not very nice and shouldn't be done, there are a few people like that, but not everyone! The cliques you see are friendships! Nothing more! | |||
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"there are cliques on this, they literally hunt in packs once one of them gets hurt they all just pile in on the poor sod who annoyed the person in the first place sort of like a battle royal if u will As a very regular chat and forum user I find this rather rude, you know the amount of abuse that women get on this site is terrible, now I'm not saying men don't but the way you have put that, I don't think this place is cliquey at all, I think ye are just misinterpreting chats between friends, obviously If you know someone well your gonna chat differently, but you yourself have seen me in chat, I talk to everyone, so painting all women or men with the one brush is not very nice and shouldn't be done, there are a few people like that, but not everyone! The cliques you see are friendships! Nothing more!" ok thats a very valid point and yes indeedy i have seen u in the irish chatroom many times, u do try and chat to everyone, i suppose its hard saying something which is meant for some and not for others and everyone is annoyed by it etc | |||
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"there are cliques on this, they literally hunt in packs once one of them gets hurt they all just pile in on the poor sod who annoyed the person in the first place sort of like a battle royal if u will As a very regular chat and forum user I find this rather rude, you know the amount of abuse that women get on this site is terrible, now I'm not saying men don't but the way you have put that, I don't think this place is cliquey at all, I think ye are just misinterpreting chats between friends, obviously If you know someone well your gonna chat differently, but you yourself have seen me in chat, I talk to everyone, so painting all women or men with the one brush is not very nice and shouldn't be done, there are a few people like that, but not everyone! The cliques you see are friendships! Nothing more! ok thats a very valid point and yes indeedy i have seen u in the irish chatroom many times, u do try and chat to everyone, i suppose its hard saying something which is meant for some and not for others and everyone is annoyed by it etc" Look, it's people perceptions, even the way humour comes across over text, this site is what you make of it! | |||
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"there are cliques on this, they literally hunt in packs once one of them gets hurt they all just pile in on the poor sod who annoyed the person in the first place sort of like a battle royal if u will As a very regular chat and forum user I find this rather rude, you know the amount of abuse that women get on this site is terrible, now I'm not saying men don't but the way you have put that, I don't think this place is cliquey at all, I think ye are just misinterpreting chats between friends, obviously If you know someone well your gonna chat differently, but you yourself have seen me in chat, I talk to everyone, so painting all women or men with the one brush is not very nice and shouldn't be done, there are a few people like that, but not everyone! The cliques you see are friendships! Nothing more! ok thats a very valid point and yes indeedy i have seen u in the irish chatroom many times, u do try and chat to everyone, i suppose its hard saying something which is meant for some and not for others and everyone is annoyed by it etc Look, it's people perceptions, even the way humour comes across over text, this site is what you make of it! " gonna give a to that | |||
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"Women aren't rude when they "back each other up", it's hard enough being a woman on the site, why shouldn't women support each other on here. Nice to see it happening instead of bitching and back stabbings tbh. There are cliques in all forms of life - block or just ignore if you don't like it" I agree with some of what you said, but a lady can just block a guy instead of people ganging up, surely thats more sensible | |||
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"there are cliques on this, they literally hunt in packs once one of them gets hurt they all just pile in on the poor sod who annoyed the person in the first place sort of like a battle royal if u will That chip on your shoulder is making you delusional "Why do you assume I have a "chip". Actually its a subject that comes up regularly when I'm chatting to males and females. Its a topic for discussion, no biggy!! | |||
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"there are cliques on this, they literally hunt in packs once one of them gets hurt they all just pile in on the poor sod who annoyed the person in the first place sort of like a battle royal if u will As a very regular chat and forum user I find this rather rude, you know the amount of abuse that women get on this site is terrible, now I'm not saying men don't but the way you have put that, I don't think this place is cliquey at all, I think ye are just misinterpreting chats between friends, obviously If you know someone well your gonna chat differently, but you yourself have seen me in chat, I talk to everyone, so painting all women or men with the one brush is not very nice and shouldn't be done, there are a few people like that, but not everyone! The cliques you see are friendships! Nothing more! ok thats a very valid point and yes indeedy i have seen u in the irish chatroom many times, u do try and chat to everyone, i suppose its hard saying something which is meant for some and not for others and everyone is annoyed by it etc Look, it's people perceptions, even the way humour comes across over text, this site is what you make of it! " I don't agree with ANYONE receiving abuse, its very wrong | |||
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"Women aren't rude when they "back each other up", it's hard enough being a woman on the site, why shouldn't women support each other on here. Nice to see it happening instead of bitching and back stabbings tbh. There are cliques in all forms of life - block or just ignore if you don't like it I agree with some of what you said, but a lady can just block a guy instead of people ganging up, surely thats more sensible" I agree with u... It happened here before, one girl spread a lot of shit about a friend of mine and everyone backed her up.. But they eventually seen the truth in the end | |||
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"there are cliques on this, they literally hunt in packs once one of them gets hurt they all just pile in on the poor sod who annoyed the person in the first place sort of like a battle royal if u will As a very regular chat and forum user I find this rather rude, you know the amount of abuse that women get on this site is terrible, now I'm not saying men don't but the way you have put that, I don't think this place is cliquey at all, I think ye are just misinterpreting chats between friends, obviously If you know someone well your gonna chat differently, but you yourself have seen me in chat, I talk to everyone, so painting all women or men with the one brush is not very nice and shouldn't be done, there are a few people like that, but not everyone! The cliques you see are friendships! Nothing more! ok thats a very valid point and yes indeedy i have seen u in the irish chatroom many times, u do try and chat to everyone, i suppose its hard saying something which is meant for some and not for others and everyone is annoyed by it etc Look, it's people perceptions, even the way humour comes across over text, this site is what you make of it! I don't agree with ANYONE receiving abuse, its very wrong" I so agree but people can be abusive and not in a clique. ..I think I'm coming from the point that. .. As I'm friends with some people. . We keep getting grouped as a clique and I find that a little frustrating is portrayed as if we are unfriendly and abusive.which is so not the case. ...I can understand friends sticking up for someone if somebody had been nasty or abusive. (Although not by doing so in the same manner) but isnt that just defending someone ...I would do that(and have done it) if I thought someone was being nasty to someone else even if I didn't know them | |||
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"there are cliques on this, they literally hunt in packs once one of them gets hurt they all just pile in on the poor sod who annoyed the person in the first place sort of like a battle royal if u will As a very regular chat and forum user I find this rather rude, you know the amount of abuse that women get on this site is terrible, now I'm not saying men don't but the way you have put that, I don't think this place is cliquey at all, I think ye are just misinterpreting chats between friends, obviously If you know someone well your gonna chat differently, but you yourself have seen me in chat, I talk to everyone, so painting all women or men with the one brush is not very nice and shouldn't be done, there are a few people like that, but not everyone! The cliques you see are friendships! Nothing more! ok thats a very valid point and yes indeedy i have seen u in the irish chatroom many times, u do try and chat to everyone, i suppose its hard saying something which is meant for some and not for others and everyone is annoyed by it etc Look, it's people perceptions, even the way humour comes across over text, this site is what you make of it! I don't agree with ANYONE receiving abuse, its very wrong I so agree but people can be abusive and not in a clique. ..I think I'm coming from the point that. .. As I'm friends with some people. . We keep getting grouped as a clique and I find that a little frustrating is portrayed as if we are unfriendly and abusive.which is so not the case. ...I can understand friends sticking up for someone if somebody had been nasty or abusive. (Although not by doing so in the same manner) but isnt that just defending someone ...I would do that(and have done it) if I thought someone was being nasty to someone else even if I didn't know them" Is that noble? or just adding to the problem, surely a friend can work it out with the aggressor or block them. | |||
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"there are cliques on this, they literally hunt in packs once one of them gets hurt they all just pile in on the poor sod who annoyed the person in the first place sort of like a battle royal if u will That chip on your shoulder is making you delusional
Why do you assume I have a "chip". Actually its a subject that comes up regularly when I'm chatting to males and females. Its a topic for discussion, no biggy!!"For a start I wasn't even talking to you, I didn't quote your comments or refer to you in any way? You're the one taking my reply personally here | |||
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"Don't think its Noble. ..I just don't like to see anyone get abused. ... fair point. . Never thought if it like that. . I'm more of a 'once a thread turns bitchy' its time to leave girl myself... But I have on occasion posted a comment if I have seen someone take something up wrong and I know the person didn't mean it in that way. " Thank you. I hate abuse of ANY kind. | |||
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"there are cliques on this, they literally hunt in packs once one of them gets hurt they all just pile in on the poor sod who annoyed the person in the first place sort of like a battle royal if u will As a very regular chat and forum user I find this rather rude, you know the amount of abuse that women get on this site is terrible, now I'm not saying men don't but the way you have put that, I don't think this place is cliquey at all, I think ye are just misinterpreting chats between friends, obviously If you know someone well your gonna chat differently, but you yourself have seen me in chat, I talk to everyone, so painting all women or men with the one brush is not very nice and shouldn't be done, there are a few people like that, but not everyone! The cliques you see are friendships! Nothing more! ok thats a very valid point and yes indeedy i have seen u in the irish chatroom many times, u do try and chat to everyone, i suppose its hard saying something which is meant for some and not for others and everyone is annoyed by it etc Look, it's people perceptions, even the way humour comes across over text, this site is what you make of it! I don't agree with ANYONE receiving abuse, its very wrong I so agree but people can be abusive and not in a clique. ..I think I'm coming from the point that. .. As I'm friends with some people. . We keep getting grouped as a clique and I find that a little frustrating is portrayed as if we are unfriendly and abusive.which is so not the case. ...I can understand friends sticking up for someone if somebody had been nasty or abusive. (Although not by doing so in the same manner) but isnt that just defending someone ...I would do that(and have done it) if I thought someone was being nasty to someone else even if I didn't know them Is that noble? or just adding to the problem, surely a friend can work it out with the aggressor or block them." When your comment is on a public forum then it's open for anyone to comment on. The so called abused wether that be male or female may not have anything to do with the 'back up party'. Things in here snowball very quickly! People jump on the band wagon so to speak! Best advice I've read here today was to make sure you are clear in what you post on public forums so that they can't be open to misinterpretations otherwise be prepared to have others views, opinions, humour, banter or criticism. That's how a 'public' forum works. Besides even if the abused blocks the abuser they (the abuser) can still comment under her/his (the abused) comments and in their threads. | |||
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"Fairly new to the forums and don't believe I'm in any clique. For what my opinion is worth I see that yes there are groups of 'friends' who communicate regularly (this being the key to their friendship/banter or familiarisation of each other) through forum threads and along the way yes there are 'in house' jokes or references to parties, m&g's etc. that's normal of any society/community though. I may get shot down for this next bit so the bomb shelter is fully stocked! And my hard hat on! Maybe it's jealousy on some level? Felling left out or excluded (in your own mind) because you don't get the jokes or references. I've not met many from forum but I've never felt deliberately excluded or abused in any way. You may say that's cause you're female, it's different for males. I can't comment from that aspect but I see a lot of single guys who are polite, respectful and make an effort to join in. Maybe that's a better approach than trying to get oneself noticed through controversy? Just my opinion not from any 'clique' manifesto "well put. ..... They never told me there was a manifesto! ! Lol.....jeez maybe im not in the clique after all  | |||
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""Maybe that's a better approach than trying to get oneself noticed through controversy?" Actually thats quite offensive in a passive-aggressive way. I'm genuinely not here to get noticed. I pass some time on here, thats all. I like DEBATE." Debate in it's very nature is controversial? Maybe you've misinterpreted an opinion? It's easily done in forum, as there was no intent to offend and the post was just a general statement not directed personally at you (as I did not quote your op) I did have a (weak) disclaimer though! 
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"I think there are clicks in the chatroom. Mainly women that feel they have to "back each other up". Why do women get away with being rude? Why is this? Am I wrong?" Is the pope a catholic ??? | |||
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"Missy, no insult, but re-read it, it was PA" That's simply your interpretation and opinion, I'd beg to differ. That's called agreeing to disagree. | |||
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"Fairly new to the forums and don't believe I'm in any clique. For what my opinion is worth I see that yes there are groups of 'friends' who communicate regularly (this being the key to their friendship/banter or familiarisation of each other) through forum threads and along the way yes there are 'in house' jokes or references to parties, m&g's etc. that's normal of any society/community though. I may get shot down for this next bit so the bomb shelter is fully stocked! And my hard hat on! Maybe it's jealousy on some level? Felling left out or excluded (in your own mind) because you don't get the jokes or references. I've not met many from forum but I've never felt deliberately excluded or abused in any way. You may say that's cause you're female, it's different for males. I can't comment from that aspect but I see a lot of single guys who are polite, respectful and make an effort to join in. Maybe that's a better approach than trying to get oneself noticed through controversy? Just my opinion not from any 'clique' manifesto "I think everyone should give Missy a round of applause for this. Lol. I couldn't have put it better myself. I'm new to the forums myself and noticed there are a group of "friends" on the forums who have met each other at m&g's and for drinks or just from chatting on here and they have banter amongst each other . So what? Were all here for a laugh, well at least the majority of us | |||
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"Fairly new to the forums and don't believe I'm in any clique. For what my opinion is worth I see that yes there are groups of 'friends' who communicate regularly (this being the key to their friendship/banter or familiarisation of each other) through forum threads and along the way yes there are 'in house' jokes or references to parties, m&g's etc. that's normal of any society/community though. I may get shot down for this next bit so the bomb shelter is fully stocked! And my hard hat on! Maybe it's jealousy on some level? Felling left out or excluded (in your own mind) because you don't get the jokes or references. I've not met many from forum but I've never felt deliberately excluded or abused in any way. You may say that's cause you're female, it's different for males. I can't comment from that aspect but I see a lot of single guys who are polite, respectful and make an effort to join in. Maybe that's a better approach than trying to get oneself noticed through controversy? Just my opinion not from any 'clique' manifesto "Missy is the head of the Banter Clique..............Mr Panther | |||
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"Fairly new to the forums and don't believe I'm in any clique. For what my opinion is worth I see that yes there are groups of 'friends' who communicate regularly (this being the key to their friendship/banter or familiarisation of each other) through forum threads and along the way yes there are 'in house' jokes or references to parties, m&g's etc. that's normal of any society/community though. I may get shot down for this next bit so the bomb shelter is fully stocked! And my hard hat on! Maybe it's jealousy on some level? Felling left out or excluded (in your own mind) because you don't get the jokes or references. I've not met many from forum but I've never felt deliberately excluded or abused in any way. You may say that's cause you're female, it's different for males. I can't comment from that aspect but I see a lot of single guys who are polite, respectful and make an effort to join in. Maybe that's a better approach than trying to get oneself noticed through controversy? Just my opinion not from any 'clique' manifesto
For head of the Banter Clique, see........... Mr Panther"He might still be d*unk though so don't expect a reply too soon | |||
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"Fairly new to the forums and don't believe I'm in any clique. For what my opinion is worth I see that yes there are groups of 'friends' who communicate regularly (this being the key to their friendship/banter or familiarisation of each other) through forum threads and along the way yes there are 'in house' jokes or references to parties, m&g's etc. that's normal of any society/community though. I may get shot down for this next bit so the bomb shelter is fully stocked! And my hard hat on! Maybe it's jealousy on some level? Felling left out or excluded (in your own mind) because you don't get the jokes or references. I've not met many from forum but I've never felt deliberately excluded or abused in any way. You may say that's cause you're female, it's different for males. I can't comment from that aspect but I see a lot of single guys who are polite, respectful and make an effort to join in. Maybe that's a better approach than trying to get oneself noticed through controversy? Just my opinion not from any 'clique' manifesto
For head of the Banter Clique, see Missy........... Mr Panther
He might still be sexy though so expect a reply soon "Thanks..........Mr Panther | |||
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"Fairly new to the forums and don't believe I'm in any clique. For what my opinion is worth I see that yes there are groups of 'friends' who communicate regularly (this being the key to their friendship/banter or familiarisation of each other) through forum threads and along the way yes there are 'in house' jokes or references to parties, m&g's etc. that's normal of any society/community though. I may get shot down for this next bit so the bomb shelter is fully stocked! And my hard hat on! Maybe it's jealousy on some level? Felling left out or excluded (in your own mind) because you don't get the jokes or references. I've not met many from forum but I've never felt deliberately excluded or abused in any way. You may say that's cause you're female, it's different for males. I can't comment from that aspect but I see a lot of single guys who are polite, respectful and make an effort to join in. Maybe that's a better approach than trying to get oneself noticed through controversy? Just my opinion not from any 'clique' manifesto
For head of the Banter Clique, see Missy........... Mr Panther
He might still be sexy though so expect a reply soon
Thanks..........Mr Panther"I wouldn't know if you're sexy though | |||
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"Fairly new to the forums and don't believe I'm in any clique. For what my opinion is worth I see that yes there are groups of 'friends' who communicate regularly (this being the key to their friendship/banter or familiarisation of each other) through forum threads and along the way yes there are 'in house' jokes or references to parties, m&g's etc. that's normal of any society/community though. I may get shot down for this next bit so the bomb shelter is fully stocked! And my hard hat on! Maybe it's jealousy on some level? Felling left out or excluded (in your own mind) because you don't get the jokes or references. I've not met many from forum but I've never felt deliberately excluded or abused in any way. You may say that's cause you're female, it's different for males. I can't comment from that aspect but I see a lot of single guys who are polite, respectful and make an effort to join in. Maybe that's a better approach than trying to get oneself noticed through controversy? Just my opinion not from any 'clique' manifesto
For head of the Banter Clique, see Missy........... Mr Panther
He might still be sexy though so expect a reply soon
Thanks..........Mr Panther
I wouldn't know if you're sexy though "Dont believe me then search the word sexy and it says Mr Panther | |||
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"Fairly new to the forums and don't believe I'm in any clique. For what my opinion is worth I see that yes there are groups of 'friends' who communicate regularly (this being the key to their friendship/banter or familiarisation of each other) through forum threads and along the way yes there are 'in house' jokes or references to parties, m&g's etc. that's normal of any society/community though. I may get shot down for this next bit so the bomb shelter is fully stocked! And my hard hat on! Maybe it's jealousy on some level? Felling left out or excluded (in your own mind) because you don't get the jokes or references. I've not met many from forum but I've never felt deliberately excluded or abused in any way. You may say that's cause you're female, it's different for males. I can't comment from that aspect but I see a lot of single guys who are polite, respectful and make an effort to join in. Maybe that's a better approach than trying to get oneself noticed through controversy? Just my opinion not from any 'clique' manifesto
For head of the Banter Clique, see Missy........... Mr Panther
He might still be sexy though so expect a reply soon
Thanks..........Mr Panther
I wouldn't know if you're sexy though Dont believe me then search the word sexy and it says Mr Panther "I did and my dictionary says "xxxMissyxxx" | |||
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"Fairly new to the forums and don't believe I'm in any clique. For what my opinion is worth I see that yes there are groups of 'friends' who communicate regularly (this being the key to their friendship/banter or familiarisation of each other) through forum threads and along the way yes there are 'in house' jokes or references to parties, m&g's etc. that's normal of any society/community though. I may get shot down for this next bit so the bomb shelter is fully stocked! And my hard hat on! Maybe it's jealousy on some level? Felling left out or excluded (in your own mind) because you don't get the jokes or references. I've not met many from forum but I've never felt deliberately excluded or abused in any way. You may say that's cause you're female, it's different for males. I can't comment from that aspect but I see a lot of single guys who are polite, respectful and make an effort to join in. Maybe that's a better approach than trying to get oneself noticed through controversy? Just my opinion not from any 'clique' manifesto
For head of the Banter Clique, see Missy........... Mr Panther
He might still be sexy though so expect a reply soon
Thanks..........Mr Panther
I wouldn't know if you're sexy though Dont believe me then search the word sexy and it says Mr Panther
I did and my dictionary says "Mr Panther" "See told you so lol....Mr Panther | |||
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"We hate the aggressive nature of the posting- we hate the belittling of males by certain older single fems on here- we call them the "Irish ex-wives club" Chips on their shoulders many of them! Having said that- we infrequently use the chat!" PMSL | |||
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"We use this and another site and rarely use the chat room on here as we find it clicky , the other site we enter we say hi and get a few hi how are ye etc , chat on here we find you say hi etc you are lucky to get a response That's our opinion " Its appears 50/50, although I've been blocked by some ladies today for posting this, ladies I don't even have connect with, my god how sad people are. | |||
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"In alk my off swinging i have too say i never experienced any kind off clique in any chatroom that ive been in.I have to say that way i treat it is like a pub go in have the craic and the banter but always be respectful and one thing is that women arent meat there humans and have feelings it takes time and effort.Once u can rem this you get on great." Well said | |||
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"I think there are clicks in the chatroom. People who talk regularly form friendships. This is normal Mainly women that feel they have to "back each other up" Because they are collectively verbally assaulted by males all the time Why do women get away with being rude? Women are held to the same standards as the men on the site, ie - the sites rules. If they break them then they will be disciplined. If they are speaking within the rules then they are free to say what they wish. Why is this? I think this is the same question as the last one Am I wrong? In my opinion yes" B&H
What I can add from my side is that if women do back each other up, it is mostly a result of the actions on the male side. I have spoken with few single ladies and ladies as part of a couple and I am devastated with how few of us, single males, treat these lovely gals. This is a sex site, indeed, however this does not mean that ladies will put up with aggressive messages, illegal and abusive proposals (cash for sex...) and just poor quality emails and cock pictures flying everywhere (one of the sexiest ladies I have seen here is considering leaving the site because of all the abuse...). If the minority of asswholes (thank you for the hate emails received so far and a few aggressive comments on the chat -yes, you know who you are asswhole-, I take all of that as a huge compliment) would stop their bad behaviour, things would have improved here with the benefit for all.
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"Yes I have gone into the chat room and have been ignored" Me too.. and I'm there all the time lol. If you have something interesting, or funny, or contraversial to contribute to something being discissed then just chip in. 99 times out of 100 people will respond. You get out what you put in. If you sit on your own in the corner of the pub without talking to anyone you will get much the same result. | |||
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"Yes I have gone into the chat room and have been ignored Me too.. and I'm there all the time lol. If you have something interesting, or funny, or contraversial to contribute to something being discissed then just chip in. 99 times out of 100 people will respond. You get out what you put in. If you sit on your own in the corner of the pub without talking to anyone you will get much the same result."
Exactly. I fully agree with B&H.
I am still fairly new to swinging and this site and it does take an effort to start chatting with people in the chat or to contribute to forums, however it is something that one should do if one wants to be noticed. Please do not expect that just because you said HI to people on the chat that they all will stop their busy chats (that thing is moving so quickly...) and just throw themselves to welcome you in the discussion. Usually, adding something interesting to the already happing conversation will cause such reaction.
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"We hate the aggressive nature of the posting- we hate the belittling of males by certain older single fems on here- we call them the "Irish ex-wives club" Chips on their shoulders many of them! Having said that- we infrequently use the chat!" can i have vinegar with that chip ! | |||
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"I thought the op was about forum? Chatroom is a whole different scenario! "Me too...ooopps!...i think everyone did. Lol | |||
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"I think there are clicks in the chatroom. Mainly women that feel they have to "back each other up". Why do women get away with being rude? Why is this? Am I wrong? There are no "cliques" or clicks in the room at all. Manners and good grammar will get you chatting to them all. They have never been rude unless being pestered continuously." no wonder I like you ! | |||
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"Yes I have gone into the chat room and have been ignored Me too.. and I'm there all the time lol. If you have something interesting, or funny, or contraversial to contribute to something being discissed then just chip in. 99 times out of 100 people will respond. You get out what you put in. If you sit on your own in the corner of the pub without talking to anyone you will get much the same result." If you look at what I have said previously....A lady can block any fool who is aggressive or rude, AND SHOULD, they should report them also. Women ganging up on someone is not neccessary. As adults we are all capable of dealing with fools and the mechanisms are in place so NO male or female has to listen to abuse of stupidity. BLOCK ! and the aggression is over. I am very respectful towards women and feel all in here should be. I repeat, let individuals sort things out, not groups, mistakes are made by mis-communication | |||
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"I think there are clicks in the chatroom. Mainly women that feel they have to "back each other up". Why do women get away with being rude? Why is this? Am I wrong?" If you wanna call guys n girls who chat to each other on here nearly every day , a clique and back each other up if and when necessary , then yes there's a clique !!!! Don't know if it should be called a clique though cos without most of them there wouldn't be a forum !! Unfortunately what can happen is that things can get nasty when people Dont have the full facts or totally misunderstand what's been said and that's always liable to happen when ur not chatting face to face !! | |||
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"I think there are clicks in the chatroom. Mainly women that feel they have to "back each other up". Why do women get away with being rude? Why is this? Am I wrong? If you wanna call guys n girls who chat to each other on here nearly every day , a clique and back each other up if and when necessary , then yes there's a clique !!!! Don't know if it should be called a clique though cos without most of them there wouldn't be a forum !! Unfortunately what can happen is that things can get nasty when people Dont have the full facts or totally misunderstand what's been said and that's always liable to happen when ur not chatting face to face !!" There is a definite clique in here, no doubt. If one person bad mouths another, especially if a girl is bad-mouthing a guy, then all the girls get on band wagon and believe the one sided story offered by the girl, guys will also side with the woman because all he wants is to get her into bed and she is willing. So a guy, who has not had opportunity to put his side of a situation is completely shunned, insulted, and called everything under the sun. Just because he has the manners and respect NOT to share his side of the situation, because the forum is not the place to discuss issues that may have occured between two people, he is then treated like a ice of ***t. So there is a definite clique on here, no doubt, and dare anyone put their head above the parapet and say anything negative against one of the clique, it will be shot off with insults and inane childish comments and sniping remarks! | |||
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"I think there are clicks in the chatroom. Mainly women that feel they have to "back each other up". Why do women get away with being rude? Why is this? Am I wrong? If you wanna call guys n girls who chat to each other on here nearly every day , a clique and back each other up if and when necessary , then yes there's a clique !!!! Don't know if it should be called a clique though cos without most of them there wouldn't be a forum !! Unfortunately what can happen is that things can get nasty when people Dont have the full facts or totally misunderstand what's been said and that's always liable to happen when ur not chatting face to face !!There is a definite clique in here, no doubt. If one person bad mouths another, especially if a girl is bad-mouthing a guy, then all the girls get on band wagon and believe the one sided story offered by the girl, guys will also side with the woman because all he wants is to get her into bed and she is willing. So a guy, who has not had opportunity to put his side of a situation is completely shunned, insulted, and called everything under the sun. Just because he has the manners and respect NOT to share his side of the situation, because the forum is not the place to discuss issues that may have occured between two people, he is then treated like a ice of ***t. So there is a definite clique on here, no doubt, and dare anyone put their head above the parapet and say anything negative against one of the clique, it will be shot off with insults and inane childish comments and sniping remarks! " Passive aggressive much... | |||
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"I think there are clicks in the chatroom. Mainly women that feel they have to "back each other up". Why do women get away with being rude? Why is this? Am I wrong? If you wanna call guys n girls who chat to each other on here nearly every day , a clique and back each other up if and when necessary , then yes there's a clique !!!! Don't know if it should be called a clique though cos without most of them there wouldn't be a forum !! Unfortunately what can happen is that things can get nasty when people Dont have the full facts or totally misunderstand what's been said and that's always liable to happen when ur not chatting face to face !!There is a definite clique in here, no doubt. If one person bad mouths another, especially if a girl is bad-mouthing a guy, then all the girls get on band wagon and believe the one sided story offered by the girl, guys will also side with the woman because all he wants is to get her into bed and she is willing. So a guy, who has not had opportunity to put his side of a situation is completely shunned, insulted, and called everything under the sun. Just because he has the manners and respect NOT to share his side of the situation, because the forum is not the place to discuss issues that may have occured between two people, he is then treated like a ice of ***t. So there is a definite clique on here, no doubt, and dare anyone put their head above the parapet and say anything negative against one of the clique, it will be shot off with insults and inane childish comments and sniping remarks! " Very well said man. Great to see people speaking their about it | |||
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"jaysus how much more does the issue of cliques have to be discussed??? There are cliques in life so why wouldn't there be cliques on here? To be part of a clique seems like hard work though, I'd rather be a billy no mates "Spot on....I'm going to be BallyNoClique from Banterville on the coast of Ballybeupmineownarse..... | |||
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"jaysus how much more does the issue of cliques have to be discussed??? There are cliques in life so why wouldn't there be cliques on here? To be part of a clique seems like hard work though, I'd rather be a billy no mates
Spot on....I'm going to be BallyNoClique from Banterville on the coast of Ballybeupmineownarse..... "do you get there via timewaster terrace , turn right at camsex close and straight up multiple profile mountain? | |||
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Spot on....I'm going to be BallyNoClique from Banterville on the coast of Ballybeupmineownarse.....
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Spot on....I'm going to be BallyNoClique from Banterville on the coast of Ballybeupmineownarse.....
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but anyho its not just the chat rooms that people are rude too u of all sexes and race some people think there gods gift but infact there just so up there own asses we dont bother going in the irosh chat anymore for that reason we now enjoy fabs new bi sexual chat room where everybody talks too one another and not ignore u like a piece of crap but thats just our experince in chat an on fourms | |||
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"Hahaha at the above comments thats put a wee smile on my face this evening but anyho its not just the chat rooms that people are rude too u of all sexes and race some people think there gods gift but infact there just so up there own asses we dont bother going in the irosh chat anymore for that reason we now enjoy fabs new bi sexual chat room where everybody talks too one another and not ignore u like a piece of crap but thats just our experince in chat an on fourms "We never liked the irish chat rooms......prefer it on here....  | |||
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"Hahaha at the above comments thats put a wee smile on my face this evening but anyho its not just the chat rooms that people are rude too u of all sexes and race some people think there gods gift but infact there just so up there own asses we dont bother going in the irosh chat anymore for that reason we now enjoy fabs new bi sexual chat room where everybody talks too one another and not ignore u like a piece of crap but thats just our experince in chat an on fourms
We never liked the irish chat rooms......prefer it on here.... "same as us its always the same people in it talking among themselfs and u could be nice as pie too them and get noting back thats why we hate going on it but saying that in the fourms can be just as bad i dont get it where all adults on a adult site but yet some act there shoe size some times | |||
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"Can be so awkward on there lol....i hate it.....at least if no one chats back on here its not as noticable lol.... "Sometimes  | |||
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"Can be so awkward on there lol....i hate it.....at least if no one chats back on here its not as noticable lol....
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"@newbie thats my point unless u met them or know them ur most likely are going too be ignored not saying all are like that but some are both on the fourms an chat " Understand that but tbh maybe its our own opinions of clickness etc on here that holds us back from chattin in forums etc.... | |||
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"@newbie thats my point unless u met them or know them ur most likely are going too be ignored not saying all are like that but some are both on the fourms an chat Understand that but tbh maybe its our own opinions of clickness etc on here that holds us back from chattin in forums etc...." not my opinion its a fact in my eyes dont get me wrong its not all people its only a few and even th likes of hi jacking threads by people well known in here is a bit silly thats all im saying | |||
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"I think there are clicks in the chatroom. Mainly women that feel they have to "back each other up". Why do women get away with being rude? Why is this? Am I wrong? If you wanna call guys n girls who chat to each other on here nearly every day , a clique and back each other up if and when necessary , then yes there's a clique !!!! Don't know if it should be called a clique though cos without most of them there wouldn't be a forum !! Unfortunately what can happen is that things can get nasty when people Dont have the full facts or totally misunderstand what's been said and that's always liable to happen when ur not chatting face to face !!There is a definite clique in here, no doubt. If one person bad mouths another, especially if a girl is bad-mouthing a guy, then all the girls get on band wagon and believe the one sided story offered by the girl, guys will also side with the woman because all he wants is to get her into bed and she is willing. So a guy, who has not had opportunity to put his side of a situation is completely shunned, insulted, and called everything under the sun. Just because he has the manners and respect NOT to share his side of the situation, because the forum is not the place to discuss issues that may have occured between two people, he is then treated like a ice of ***t. So there is a definite clique on here, no doubt, and dare anyone put their head above the parapet and say anything negative against one of the clique, it will be shot off with insults and inane childish comments and sniping remarks! " | |||
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"@newbie thats my point unless u met them or know them ur most likely are going too be ignored not saying all are like that but some are both on the fourms an chat Understand that but tbh maybe its our own opinions of clickness etc on here that holds us back from chattin in forums etc.... not my opinion its a fact in my eyes dont get me wrong its not all people its only a few and even th likes of hi jacking threads by people well known in here is a bit silly thats all im saying " don't think people go on threads with the intention of hi jacking them. ... They just start chatting and forget. . Silly maybe. .. anda bit thoughtless.... I guilty of it myself. .. But it's never nasty! | |||
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"@newbie thats my point unless u met them or know them ur most likely are going too be ignored not saying all are like that but some are both on the fourms an chat Understand that but tbh maybe its our own opinions of clickness etc on here that holds us back from chattin in forums etc.... not my opinion its a fact in my eyes dont get me wrong its not all people its only a few and even th likes of hi jacking threads by people well known in here is a bit silly thats all im saying don't think people go on threads with the intention of hi jacking them. ... They just start chatting and forget. . Silly maybe. .. anda bit thoughtless.... I guilty of it myself. .. But it's never nasty! "I always forget what were we talking about..........Mr Panther | |||
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"@newbie thats my point unless u met them or know them ur most likely are going too be ignored not saying all are like that but some are both on the fourms an chat Understand that but tbh maybe its our own opinions of clickness etc on here that holds us back from chattin in forums etc.... not my opinion its a fact in my eyes dont get me wrong its not all people its only a few and even th likes of hi jacking threads by people well known in here is a bit silly thats all im saying don't think people go on threads with the intention of hi jacking them. ... They just start chatting and forget. . Silly maybe. .. anda bit thoughtless.... I guilty of it myself. .. But it's never nasty! I always forget what were we talking about..........Mr Panther"I'm hurt mr p.... hurt I tell ya! | |||
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"@newbie thats my point unless u met them or know them ur most likely are going too be ignored not saying all are like that but some are both on the fourms an chat Understand that but tbh maybe its our own opinions of clickness etc on here that holds us back from chattin in forums etc.... not my opinion its a fact in my eyes dont get me wrong its not all people its only a few and even th likes of hi jacking threads by people well known in here is a bit silly thats all im saying don't think people go on threads with the intention of hi jacking them. ... They just start chatting and forget. . Silly maybe. .. anda bit thoughtless.... I guilty of it myself. .. But it's never nasty! I always forget what were we talking about..........Mr Panther
I'm hurt mr p.... hurt I tell ya! "I am always too busy looking at your tits I never hear you I always go off to lala land when looking.........Mr Panther | |||
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"Mrs s i will slap him hard!!!!!" Ummmm helllo, excuse me Mrs P the way that looks on here is that I said Ll of that I only said that it was maybe our own opinions ummm sorri Mr&Mrs P.....I will take my punishment!! Lol feck that x | |||
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"I have to admit I was under the opinion (my own may I add) that the forums etc seemed clicky...but I have to say I was at my 1st m&g a few days ago & met quite a few people whose names I had seen regularly on the forums. ....my own opinion has now changed, they were the most friendly welcoming bunch of people. I definitely did not feel excluded nor ignored in their company, nor them to be a clicky group.The craic & banter was epic. " Well we do try | |||
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"jaysus how much more does the issue of cliques have to be discussed??? There are cliques in life so why wouldn't there be cliques on here? To be part of a clique seems like hard work though, I'd rather be a billy no mates
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"jaysus how much more does the issue of cliques have to be discussed??? There are cliques in life so why wouldn't there be cliques on here? To be part of a clique seems like hard work though, I'd rather be a billy no mates
Spot on....I'm going to be BallyNoClique from Banterville on the coast of Ballybeupmineownarse..... Hey I think lotta the person ur talking about is my next door neighbour. ....nice guy called Dinnygiveafuck
Jaysus I actually know somebody who moved there last week, you may know them " | |||
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"I have to admit I was under the opinion (my own may I add) that the forums etc seemed clicky...but I have to say I was at my 1st m&g a few days ago & met quite a few people whose names I had seen regularly on the forums. ....my own opinion has now changed, they were the most friendly welcoming bunch of people. I definitely did not feel excluded nor ignored in their company, nor them to be a clicky group.The craic & banter was epic. " See told ya to get that sexy backside on.......grrrrr.....  | |||
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Spot on....I'm going to be BallyNoClique from Banterville on the coast of Ballybeupmineownarse..... "Great talent that being able to be up yer own arse....yours must be massive!! | |||
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"I have to admit I was under the opinion (my own may I add) that the forums etc seemed clicky...but I have to say I was at my 1st m&g a few days ago & met quite a few people whose names I had seen regularly on the forums. ....my own opinion has now changed, they were the most friendly welcoming bunch of people. I definitely did not feel excluded nor ignored in their company, nor them to be a clicky group.The craic & banter was epic. See told ya to get that sexy backside on.......grrrrr..... "lol always do wot im told mrs.p | |||
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"I have to admit I was under the opinion (my own may I add) that the forums etc seemed clicky...but I have to say I was at my 1st m&g a few days ago & met quite a few people whose names I had seen regularly on the forums. ....my own opinion has now changed, they were the most friendly welcoming bunch of people. I definitely did not feel excluded nor ignored in their company, nor them to be a clicky group.The craic & banter was epic. See told ya to get that sexy backside on.......grrrrr.....
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"I have to admit I was under the opinion (my own may I add) that the forums etc seemed clicky...but I have to say I was at my 1st m&g a few days ago & met quite a few people whose names I had seen regularly on the forums. ....my own opinion has now changed, they were the most friendly welcoming bunch of people. I definitely did not feel excluded nor ignored in their company, nor them to be a clicky group.The craic & banter was epic. See told ya to get that sexy backside on.......grrrrr.....
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"Regarding cliques,the way i look at it, every person that is in chat or on the forums was a new person at one time. Every one of them had to chat or post as totally new people,,,, and thru their time and effort got to know others.They should not be derided because they have gone to that effort.Its very easy to say , after a few hellos and no reply "oh thats cos their all in cliques", when actually what you should do is just keep talking.For my part I typed and deleted things from in here and in chat for at least a month before I got the confidance to actually post in here or in chat.If u want to partake ya just keep chatting or posting, bottom line" yep. ...I remember being that newbie. .. But I just kept posting and bring polite and everyone was very welcoming | |||
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"There are cliques yeah, but they don't hunt or single out newbies. Basically when it comes to the chat room some guys say some pretty vile stuff, and then act like a saint. So when a girl calls them on it other girls later on may block him too. If they block you for another reason, you rub them the wrong way, they just dont like you, or something like that, then its highly unlikely that the others in the clique will block you too. Either way, its guys I have never spoken to that block me the most, not girls who are friends with each other." | |||
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"There are cliques yeah, but they don't hunt or single out newbies. Basically when it comes to the chat room some guys say some pretty vile stuff, and then act like a saint. So when a girl calls them on it other girls later on may block him too. If they block you for another reason, you rub them the wrong way, they just dont like you, or something like that, then its highly unlikely that the others in the clique will block you too. Either way, its guys I have never spoken to that block me the most, not girls who are friends with each other." Well said! Belle x | |||
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