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Is there anyone else out there who's the same or am I all on my own??? 
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"Im not bi im not kinky im not into sex toys im not filthy/durty im not into group sex im not into watching im not into being watched im not into gangbangs im not into outdoor fun im not into sub/dom im not into BDSM (tho I do like the gear )
Is there anyone else out there who's the same or am I all on my own???
Cheeky x"That sounds like me, although I'm open to al fresco activities of the weather and location are favourable! Mind you, the last time I tried it, a dead body was found about twenty metres away the following day so maybe I'll scrap the outdoor stuff as well!  | |||
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"Im not bi im not kinky im not into sex toys im not filthy/durty im not into group sex im not into watching im not into being watched im not into gangbangs im not into outdoor fun im not into sub/dom im not into BDSM (tho I do like the gear )
Is there anyone else out there who's the same or am I all on my own???
Cheeky x
That sounds like me, although I'm open to al fresco activities of the weather and location are favourable! Mind you, the last time I tried it, a dead body was found about twenty metres away the following day so maybe I'll scrap the outdoor stuff as well! "Someone you met ???? Lol | |||
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"Im not bi im not kinky im not into sex toys im not filthy/durty im not into group sex im not into watching im not into being watched im not into gangbangs im not into outdoor fun im not into sub/dom im not into BDSM (tho I do like the gear )
Is there anyone else out there who's the same or am I all on my own???
Cheeky x
That sounds like me, although I'm open to al fresco activities of the weather and location are favourable! Mind you, the last time I tried it, a dead body was found about twenty metres away the following day so maybe I'll scrap the outdoor stuff as well!
Someone you met ???? Lol "Thankfully not. It was a guy who had gone missing 25 miles away about five years beforehand. His wife and her lover, who was a lodger in the house, killed him and dumped the body in this forest in an attempt to frame another lodger who was from a town four miles from the forest. They got caught out though, and both are serving life sentences now. | |||
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"Im not bi im not kinky im not into sex toys im not filthy/durty im not into group sex im not into watching im not into being watched im not into gangbangs im not into outdoor fun im not into sub/dom im not into BDSM (tho I do like the gear )
Is there anyone else out there who's the same or am I all on my own???
Cheeky x"Not on your own at all. 
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"Im not bi im not kinky im not into sex toys im not filthy/durty im not into group sex im not into watching im not into being watched im not into gangbangs im not into outdoor fun im not into sub/dom im not into BDSM (tho I do like the gear )
Is there anyone else out there who's the same or am I all on my own???
Cheeky x"I think the term you are looking for is vanilla. You could have saved yourself a lot of typing. | |||
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" I think the term you are looking for is vanilla. You could have saved yourself a lot of typing. " I dont think its considered vanilla if you enjoy meeting other guys for sex who are not your partner?? | |||
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" I think the term you are looking for is vanilla. You could have saved yourself a lot of typing. I dont think its considered vanilla if you enjoy meeting other guys for sex who are not your partner??" The sex you have with them is vanilla, no? | |||
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" Not on your own at all.
Good to know Kim x"your cheeky and that's the main thing | |||
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" I think the term you are looking for is vanilla. You could have saved yourself a lot of typing. I dont think its considered vanilla if you enjoy meeting other guys for sex who are not your partner?? The sex you have with them is vanilla, no? " I may be wrong but vanilla refers to those outside the lifestyle I know a lot enjoy kinky sex but in a monogamus relationship | |||
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" I think the term you are looking for is vanilla. You could have saved yourself a lot of typing. I dont think its considered vanilla if you enjoy meeting other guys for sex who are not your partner?? The sex you have with them is vanilla, no? I may be wrong but vanilla refers to those outside the lifestyle I know a lot enjoy kinky sex but in a monogamus relationship " Well its a swingers site, ehh the swinging goes without saying? She practices vanilla sex within that lifestyle. Nothing wrong with that. | |||
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" I think the term you are looking for is vanilla. You could have saved yourself a lot of typing. I dont think its considered vanilla if you enjoy meeting other guys for sex who are not your partner?? The sex you have with them is vanilla, no? " My understanding of vanilla is sex with your partner that does not include any of the aforementioned as above. But if you enjoy sex with outsiders then it goes outside vanilla. Is that correct? | |||
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Good to know Kim x"I didn't come on here to fulfill 'fantasies' ( i think by this stage of my life ive learned what i like and dont like) ,just to meet like minded people who have the same attitude towards sex as I do. | |||
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" I think the term you are looking for is vanilla. You could have saved yourself a lot of typing. I dont think its considered vanilla if you enjoy meeting other guys for sex who are not your partner?? The sex you have with them is vanilla, no? I may be wrong but vanilla refers to those outside the lifestyle I know a lot enjoy kinky sex but in a monogamus relationship Well its a swingers site, ehh the swinging goes without saying? She practices vanilla sex within that lifestyle. Nothing wrong with that. " Not having a go but just putting my interpretation of vanilla out there not saying its right,as for vanilla sex can that not include a lot if not all of the above list but between two people I know within some of my previous relationships we did a lot of it but not with others just me and my partner at the time | |||
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"I'm some of the things you mentioned but not all of them...some I've tried and won't do them again. Other's things I might do again. Nothing wrong with knowing your boundaries! I think it's very important! Respect!" Couldn't agree more......this life style for us is all about freedom.....and that means not doing things we are not comfortable with just as much as trying new things...... | |||
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"Im not bi im not kinky im not into sex toys im not filthy/durty im not into group sex im not into watching im not into being watched im not into gangbangs im not into outdoor fun im not into sub/dom im not into BDSM (tho I do like the gear )
Is there anyone else out there who's the same or am I all on my own???
Cheeky x"Im into all on that list... It's one of the reasons we both got involved in this lifestyle... But I'm sure there are plenty who are into normal sex just not us! | |||
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"Im not bi im not kinky im not into sex toys im not filthy/durty im not into group sex im not into watching im not into being watched im not into gangbangs im not into outdoor fun im not into sub/dom im not into BDSM (tho I do like the gear )
Is there anyone else out there who's the same or am I all on my own???
Cheeky x
Im into all on that list...
It's one of the reasons we both got involved in this lifestyle...
But I'm sure there are plenty who are into normal sex just not us! "You never told me you liked the great outdoors..... Hmmmmm very interesting | |||
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"Im not bi im not kinky im not into sex toys im not filthy/durty im not into group sex im not into watching im not into being watched im not into gangbangs im not into outdoor fun im not into sub/dom im not into BDSM (tho I do like the gear )
Is there anyone else out there who's the same or am I all on my own???
Cheeky x
Im into all on that list...
It's one of the reasons we both got involved in this lifestyle...
But I'm sure there are plenty who are into normal sex just not us!
You never told me you liked the great outdoors..... Hmmmmm very interesting"You learn something new every day | |||
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"Im not bi im not kinky im not into sex toys im not filthy/durty im not into group sex im not into watching im not into being watched im not into gangbangs im not into outdoor fun im not into sub/dom im not into BDSM (tho I do like the gear )
Is there anyone else out there who's the same or am I all on my own???
Cheeky x
Im into all on that list...
It's one of the reasons we both got involved in this lifestyle...
But I'm sure there are plenty who are into normal sex just not us!
You never told me you liked the great outdoors..... Hmmmmm very interesting
You learn something new every day "I do try.....well maybe not every day....lol | |||
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"Im not bi im not kinky im not into sex toys im not filthy/durty im not into group sex im not into watching im not into being watched im not into gangbangs im not into outdoor fun im not into sub/dom im not into BDSM (tho I do like the gear )
Is there anyone else out there who's the same or am I all on my own???
Cheeky x
I think the term you are looking for is vanilla. You could have saved yourself a lot of typing. "I agree   | |||
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Good to know Kim x your cheeky and that's the main thing" | |||
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"What's bdsm?" An overlapping abbrevation of Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS), Sadism and Masochism (SM). Thanks to the Urban Dictionary app | |||
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"What's bdsm? An overlapping abbrevation of Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS), Sadism and Masochism (SM). Thanks to the Urban Dictionary app "haha thanks Hun | |||
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"Is vanilla not whatever is "normal" ? Surely going out with your partner and having sex with other couples isn't normal in Irish society? Maybe it is? "Without getting too graphic... Normal sex is normal sex... 2 people having sex without kink, or other terminology is normal sex... | |||
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"What's bdsm? An overlapping abbrevation of Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS), Sadism and Masochism (SM). Thanks to the Urban Dictionary app haha thanks Hun "Im nearly scared to ask what Masochism | |||
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"What's bdsm? An overlapping abbrevation of Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS), Sadism and Masochism (SM). Thanks to the Urban Dictionary app haha thanks Hun
Im nearly scared to ask what Masochism :- o"you should be scared to ask lol. I'll leave the answers to the professionals here! | |||
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"What's bdsm? An overlapping abbrevation of Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS), Sadism and Masochism (SM). Thanks to the Urban Dictionary app haha thanks Hun
Im nearly scared to ask what Masochism :- o you should be scared to ask lol. I'll leave the answers to the professionals here!"I dont think i want to know now  lol | |||
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"Is vanilla not whatever is "normal" ? Surely going out with your partner and having sex with other couples isn't normal in Irish society? Maybe it is?
Without getting too graphic...
Normal sex is normal sex...
2 people having sex without kink, or other terminology is normal sex..."..but surely 4 people having sex isn't "normal"? | |||
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"Is vanilla not whatever is "normal" ? Surely going out with your partner and having sex with other couples isn't normal in Irish society? Maybe it is?
Without getting too graphic...
Normal sex is normal sex...
2 people having sex without kink, or other terminology is normal sex...
..but surely 4 people having sex isn't "normal"? "I really taught was one of the normal ones ha ha | |||
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"Is vanilla not whatever is "normal" ? Surely going out with your partner and having sex with other couples isn't normal in Irish society? Maybe it is?
Without getting too graphic...
Normal sex is normal sex...
2 people having sex without kink, or other terminology is normal sex...
..but surely 4 people having sex isn't "normal"? "Define the word " normal" Past Society acceptance is not adhered to or accepted now in some cases. | |||
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"Is vanilla not whatever is "normal" ? Surely going out with your partner and having sex with other couples isn't normal in Irish society? Maybe it is?
Without getting too graphic...
Normal sex is normal sex...
2 people having sex without kink, or other terminology is normal sex...
..but surely 4 people having sex isn't "normal"?
Define the word " normal"
Past Society acceptance is not adhered to or accepted now in some cases."Hence the inverted commas. Normal as defined by society, as in society norms. The apparent definition of vanilla sex is "sex which is within societal norms". | |||
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"I'm living in the wrong part of Dublin, it would seem! u live right beside me haha "Jaysus! It's no wonder I'm feeling flustered!  | |||
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"Is vanilla not whatever is "normal" ? Surely going out with your partner and having sex with other couples isn't normal in Irish society? Maybe it is?
Without getting too graphic...
Normal sex is normal sex...
2 people having sex without kink, or other terminology is normal sex...
..but surely 4 people having sex isn't "normal"? "More than 2 is group sex is it not? And I said 2 people you said 4... | |||
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"Two people having sex with two other people makes 4 people "You need to read the original post then... | |||
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"Two people having sex with two other people makes 4 people
You need to read the original post then...
"It was the reference to cheeky being into simply vanilla sex that I had questioned. | |||
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"Im not bi im not kinky im not into sex toys im not filthy/durty im not into group sex im not into watching im not into being watched im not into gangbangs im not into outdoor fun im not into sub/dom im not into BDSM (tho I do like the gear )
Is there anyone else out there who's the same or am I all on my own???
Cheeky x"Have you tried any of the above? Don't knock it till you've tried it at least twice | |||
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" Have you tried any of the above? Don't knock it till you've tried it at least twice "I've tried all but 2 of the above. Some a couple of times. I love erotic sensual passionate sex and with the right person it's simply amazing. I don't feel the need for any of the other things to add to the pleasure. I just wondered if there were others out there like me who felt the same as many of the threads n verifications I've read refer to some of what I listed. I also wonder if guys find someone like me less exciting/sexy cos I know lots of guys love girl on girl action etc? | |||
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" Have you tried any of the above? Don't knock it till you've tried it at least twice
I've tried all but 2 of the above. Some a couple of times. I love erotic sensual passionate sex and with the right person it's simply amazing. I don't feel the need for any of the other things to add to the pleasure. I just wondered if there were others out there like me who felt the same as many of the threads n verifications I've read refer to some of what I listed.
I also wonder if guys find someone like me less exciting/sexy cos I know lots of guys love girl on girl action etc?"This thread actually was something I have often thought about myself cheeky, I'd say I am normally like yourself but it also depends on who your with. I would say I am more erotic and sensual than kinky but I'm also openminded an willing to try certain things so long as the sensual side still remains. I had this discussion earlier with someone who was told the pics of the toes tied on my profile was pure filth!!!! To me it was nothing more than an erotic experiment that turned us both on and was a lot of fun aswell. As you asked also, I'm going to put this out there too. I may get shot down for it and told I should be on a vanilla site but the idea of girl on girl is way down my list after one on one, MMF and MFF only intrests me if there is a real friendship and understanding there first too. In short sensual erotic and passionate blows my mind every time with the right person  | |||
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"Well said Duffer Indeed and thank you
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" Have you tried any of the above? Don't knock it till you've tried it at least twice
I've tried all but 2 of the above. Some a couple of times. I love erotic sensual passionate sex and with the right person it's simply amazing. I don't feel the need for any of the other things to add to the pleasure. I just wondered if there were others out there like me who felt the same as many of the threads n verifications I've read refer to some of what I listed.
I also wonder if guys find someone like me less exciting/sexy cos I know lots of guys love girl on girl action etc?
This thread actually was something I have often thought about myself cheeky, I'd say I am normally like yourself but it also depends on who your with. I would say I am more erotic and sensual than kinky but I'm also openminded an willing to try certain things so long as the sensual side still remains.
I had this discussion earlier with someone who was told the pics of the toes tied on my profile was pure filth!!!! To me it was nothing more than an erotic experiment that turned us both on and was a lot of fun aswell.
As you asked also, I'm going to put this out there too. I may get shot down for it and told I should be on a vanilla site but the idea of girl on girl is way down my list after one on one, MMF and MFF only intrests me if there is a real friendship and understanding there first too.
In short sensual erotic and passionate blows my mind every time with the right person "wow never thought I'd agree with you duffer but well said | |||
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" Have you tried any of the above? Don't knock it till you've tried it at least twice
I've tried all but 2 of the above. Some a couple of times. I love erotic sensual passionate sex and with the right person it's simply amazing. I don't feel the need for any of the other things to add to the pleasure. I just wondered if there were others out there like me who felt the same as many of the threads n verifications I've read refer to some of what I listed.
I also wonder if guys find someone like me less exciting/sexy cos I know lots of guys love girl on girl action etc?
This thread actually was something I have often thought about myself cheeky, I'd say I am normally like yourself but it also depends on who your with. I would say I am more erotic and sensual than kinky but I'm also openminded an willing to try certain things so long as the sensual side still remains.
I had this discussion earlier with someone who was told the pics of the toes tied on my profile was pure filth!!!! To me it was nothing more than an erotic experiment that turned us both on and was a lot of fun aswell.
As you asked also, I'm going to put this out there too. I may get shot down for it and told I should be on a vanilla site but the idea of girl on girl is way down my list after one on one, MMF and MFF only intrests me if there is a real friendship and understanding there first too.
In short sensual erotic and passionate blows my mind every time with the right person
wow never thought I'd agree with you duffer but well said "There might be a brain in there somewhere | |||
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" Have you tried any of the above? Don't knock it till you've tried it at least twice
I've tried all but 2 of the above. Some a couple of times. I love erotic sensual passionate sex and with the right person it's simply amazing. I don't feel the need for any of the other things to add to the pleasure. I just wondered if there were others out there like me who felt the same as many of the threads n verifications I've read refer to some of what I listed.
I also wonder if guys find someone like me less exciting/sexy cos I know lots of guys love girl on girl action etc?
This thread actually was something I have often thought about myself cheeky, I'd say I am normally like yourself but it also depends on who your with. I would say I am more erotic and sensual than kinky but I'm also openminded an willing to try certain things so long as the sensual side still remains.
I had this discussion earlier with someone who was told the pics of the toes tied on my profile was pure filth!!!! To me it was nothing more than an erotic experiment that turned us both on and was a lot of fun aswell.
As you asked also, I'm going to put this out there too. I may get shot down for it and told I should be on a vanilla site but the idea of girl on girl is way down my list after one on one, MMF and MFF only intrests me if there is a real friendship and understanding there first too.
In short sensual erotic and passionate blows my mind every time with the right person
wow never thought I'd agree with you duffer but well said
There might be a brain in there somewhere "Ha ha there's more to duffer than meets the eye lol | |||
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" Have you tried any of the above? Don't knock it till you've tried it at least twice
I've tried all but 2 of the above. Some a couple of times. I love erotic sensual passionate sex and with the right person it's simply amazing. I don't feel the need for any of the other things to add to the pleasure. I just wondered if there were others out there like me who felt the same as many of the threads n verifications I've read refer to some of what I listed.
I also wonder if guys find someone like me less exciting/sexy cos I know lots of guys love girl on girl action etc?
This thread actually was something I have often thought about myself cheeky, I'd say I am normally like yourself but it also depends on who your with. I would say I am more erotic and sensual than kinky but I'm also openminded an willing to try certain things so long as the sensual side still remains.
I had this discussion earlier with someone who was told the pics of the toes tied on my profile was pure filth!!!! To me it was nothing more than an erotic experiment that turned us both on and was a lot of fun aswell.
As you asked also, I'm going to put this out there too. I may get shot down for it and told I should be on a vanilla site but the idea of girl on girl is way down my list after one on one, MMF and MFF only intrests me if there is a real friendship and understanding there first too.
In short sensual erotic and passionate blows my mind every time with the right person
wow never thought I'd agree with you duffer but well said
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" Have you tried any of the above? Don't knock it till you've tried it at least twice
I've tried all but 2 of the above. Some a couple of times. I love erotic sensual passionate sex and with the right person it's simply amazing. I don't feel the need for any of the other things to add to the pleasure. I just wondered if there were others out there like me who felt the same as many of the threads n verifications I've read refer to some of what I listed.
I also wonder if guys find someone like me less exciting/sexy cos I know lots of guys love girl on girl action etc?
This thread actually was something I have often thought about myself cheeky, I'd say I am normally like yourself but it also depends on who your with. I would say I am more erotic and sensual than kinky but I'm also openminded an willing to try certain things so long as the sensual side still remains.
I had this discussion earlier with someone who was told the pics of the toes tied on my profile was pure filth!!!! To me it was nothing more than an erotic experiment that turned us both on and was a lot of fun aswell.
As you asked also, I'm going to put this out there too. I may get shot down for it and told I should be on a vanilla site but the idea of girl on girl is way down my list after one on one, MMF and MFF only intrests me if there is a real friendship and understanding there first too.
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"I read that cheeky and I was just thinking but what about all the things you ARE!! Gorgeous sexy funny and smart you definitly found the fountain of youth and you better start spilling the beans lol! I've seen the evidence of all the adventurous things you get up to!very admirable! doesn't have to be sexual! You like what you like and lookin like that you'll never be alone
Mrs.s"Thank you Mrs S......you always put a smile on my face . As for the fountain of youth you certainly dont need to be told its secret! Pls say thanks to Mr S for his lovely words on Sat x | |||
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"I dunno why people get all tetchy and defensive at the slightest insinuation that they practice vanilla sex. I would totally admit to being vanilla. And I have had mmfs, but the sex was still vanilla as fuck. " I don't think anyones getting tetchy, its more a difference of opinion on the interpretation of vanila.i for one have a regular person I meet that has explored lots of "kinky" sexual things with me last meet she asked if we could just have cuddly sensual sex which we did I still would not consider it vanilla as we are two people who met on the internet and just meet for sex outside of our normal relationships | |||
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