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"Obviously in a relationship there are strings... ie....meeting the family, walks on the beach, kids, possibility of settling down...bla..bla....bla.... Unless your a bunny boiler I think you may need to reassess.... ![]() Lol @bunny boiler. I never said they were my feelings I was referring to. I just think it's obvious on here that NSA for some is that they have sex then go and there's no further contact. However for others friendships evolve (you see signs of jealousy or maybe protectiveness is a better term to use). Isn't that forming attachments or strings if you like? | |||
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"There's people who can't have sex without love, and theirs us who dont need love to have sex which I would assosaite the NSA. But I have walked on beaches, held hands, chatted all night. Watched the sun rise etc with fabbers" That's my point! NSA can mean different things to different people. ![]() | |||
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"Obviously in a relationship there are strings... ie....meeting the family, walks on the beach, kids, possibility of settling down...bla..bla....bla.... Unless your a bunny boiler I think you may need to reassess.... ![]() To form an attachment to a person does happen I'm sure...but thinking you may end up happily ever after is a string I don't think people want to have ![]() | |||
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"Try looking up 'Polyamory'. I think this might be the case for a lot of people. Both terms, 'Swinging' and 'Polyamory' are closely linked but are different in the way that feelings develop. ![]() ![]() That's kinda freaky!! I've a friend living in India who has a 'Polyamorous' boyfriend, whom she intends to "get registered to" (not married). Was this conversation at the weekend that lead to my deeper thinking on the subject. I never mentioned the word 'Love' in my original post. I think you can have various feelings for another but not necessarily love. | |||
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"Obviously in a relationship there are strings... ie....meeting the family, walks on the beach, kids, possibility of settling down...bla..bla....bla.... Unless your a bunny boiler I think you may need to reassess.... ![]() ![]() I think you're reading further into what I asked. No mention of 'Love' or "happy ever after" just that maybe NSA is not so black and white after all ![]() | |||
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"No strings to me is just fuck and fuck off don't like gettin to close to people cause feelings always come into it " I think that's the intended definition of NSA | |||
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"Obviously in a relationship there are strings... ie....meeting the family, walks on the beach, kids, possibility of settling down...bla..bla....bla.... Unless your a bunny boiler I think you may need to reassess.... ![]() ![]() ![]() I didn't mention love either... But I think a lot of people think it's a possibility here... ![]() | |||
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"I think nsa is different things to different people. It can range from shag and go to spending quality time together but at the end of it you both go back to your own lives with some contact between hand. Depends what you and the other person or people want" Exactly ![]() | |||
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"I think nsa is different things to different people. It can range from shag and go to spending quality time together but at the end of it you both go back to your own lives with some contact between hand. Depends what you and the other person or people want Exactly ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I think nsa is different things to different people. It can range from shag and go to spending quality time together but at the end of it you both go back to your own lives with some contact between hand. Depends what you and the other person or people want Exactly ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Obviously in a relationship there are strings... ie....meeting the family, walks on the beach, kids, possibility of settling down...bla..bla....bla.... Unless your a bunny boiler I think you may need to reassess.... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Very true (just to clarify, I'm definitely not one). I do think that some may find it though. Good luck to them. It's just that I see NSA written on many profiles but (in some of my personal experiences) not always what they're looking. | |||
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"No strings to me is just fuck and fuck off don't like gettin to close to people cause feelings always come into it I think that's the intended definition of NSA " I enjoy sex with people I would be totally incompatible with for reasons varying from political to the fact they watch Coronation Street. I like the sex to be NSA as its easier to meet partners as neither they or I need to be too selective | |||
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"I think nsa is different things to different people. It can range from shag and go to spending quality time together but at the end of it you both go back to your own lives with some contact between hand. Depends what you and the other person or people want Exactly ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I have NSA on my profile - I just realised I don't fully mean it. I've had NSA sex on here and it was utterly soulless and scary. I have also had some wonderful sex. So a few strands of string is good - a bit of friendship, respect , Craic - without moving into an affair/ heavy emotion territory. Just like walking a tightrope. " I like the tightrope analogy! ![]() | |||
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"Mr P always says the 4 f's.....a bit harsh lol....but as said above depends on the circumstances...as we are married we have all the extra trimmings anyway....nsa works for us....as in sex and thats it!! ![]() I'd never heard of the 4f's before ![]() | |||
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"Mr P always says the 4 f's.....a bit harsh lol....but as said above depends on the circumstances...as we are married we have all the extra trimmings anyway....nsa works for us....as in sex and thats it!! ![]() ![]() Yes i agree different for singles...in saying that not all singles crave anything extra...i sure as hell didnt when i was single...i was like yeah that was great see you never lol...4 f's find them/feel them/fuck them/forget them...... ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Sex is a powerful driver of emotions. You remember when you were a teenager - a quick fumble and you were infatuated. I think i prefer the fb analogy - a bit of friendship with good sex - with either party backing off at any stage. An awareness there is no future in it and if it starts affecting your every day life - time to stop and get back to reality." Well yes a FB scenario is a whole different kettle of fish!! May even have started off as NSA (at least in one of the persons minds). | |||
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