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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any other single ladies on here feel nervous about meets???? Yes we can talk and mail and even text potential meets buy am i the only one who never lets her guard down totally?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Any other single ladies on here feel nervous about meets???? Yes we can talk and mail and even text potential meets buy am i the only one who never lets her guard down totally? "

I wouldn't think you're alone, and I wouldn't think it's just a woman's thing either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume all meets are arranged in public location first with an escape plan at the ready if the person seems a bit...er... Strange?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any other single ladies on here feel nervous about meets???? Yes we can talk and mail and even text potential meets buy am i the only one who never lets her guard down totally?

I wouldn't think you're alone, and I wouldn't think it's just a woman's thing either! "

Yes i agree with you there .... genuine men would also find it quite daunting ...... any tips or pointers that would help?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Any other single ladies on here feel nervous about meets???? Yes we can talk and mail and even text potential meets buy am i the only one who never lets her guard down totally?

I wouldn't think you're alone, and I wouldn't think it's just a woman's thing either! Yes i agree with you there .... genuine men would also find it quite daunting ...... any tips or pointers that would help? "

Follow your instincts. If something doesn't feel right, stay away from it. Patience!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I assume all meets are arranged in public location first with an escape plan at the ready if the person seems a bit...er... Strange?"
This is true aslong as the nerves hold out and i dont talk myself outta it first lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any other single ladies on here feel nervous about meets???? Yes we can talk and mail and even text potential meets buy am i the only one who never lets her guard down totally?

I wouldn't think you're alone, and I wouldn't think it's just a woman's thing either! Yes i agree with you there .... genuine men would also find it quite daunting ...... any tips or pointers that would help?

Follow your instincts. If something doesn't feel right, stay away from it. Patience! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other single ladies on here feel nervous about meets???? Yes we can talk and mail and even text potential meets buy am i the only one who never lets her guard down totally?

I wouldn't think you're alone, and I wouldn't think it's just a woman's thing either! Yes i agree with you there .... genuine men would also find it quite daunting ...... any tips or pointers that would help? "

Just a small thing but with smart phone technology communicating with kik allows you to chat off Fab (much easier) but you don't have to give your mobile number. Even up to first meet without exchanging numbers. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other single ladies on here feel nervous about meets???? Yes we can talk and mail and even text potential meets buy am i the only one who never lets her guard down totally?

I wouldn't think you're alone, and I wouldn't think it's just a woman's thing either! Yes i agree with you there .... genuine men would also find it quite daunting ...... any tips or pointers that would help?

Follow your instincts. If something doesn't feel right, stay away from it. Patience! "

Mc your spot on its gut instinct every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd always meet in a public place and I always chat on the phone to a guy first, it puts me more at ease because I think you get a better idea of what a person is like. Any guys I've met have all been fine with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A quick coffee somewhere public first is the best way ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting ppls views. But I do believe with Kik ppl should avoid meeting head the balls. There after make it public for a coffee. It's that simple. Honest genuine guys accept this. And they will accept it's just a coffee. But be sensible ladies! And remember it's a woman's world! Anyone for coffee???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And just remember not all the weirdos are men ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any other single ladies on here feel nervous about meets???? Yes we can talk and mail and even text potential meets buy am i the only one who never lets her guard down totally?

I wouldn't think you're alone, and I wouldn't think it's just a woman's thing either! Yes i agree with you there .... genuine men would also find it quite daunting ...... any tips or pointers that would help?

Just a small thing but with smart phone technology communicating with kik allows you to chat off Fab (much easier) but you don't have to give your mobile number. Even up to first meet without exchanging numbers. X"

Thanks mefor ..... so how do you add people to this kik then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd always meet in a public place and I always chat on the phone to a guy first, it puts me more at ease because I think you get a better idea of what a person is like. Any guys I've met have all been fine with that. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Interesting ppls views. But I do believe with Kik ppl should avoid meeting head the balls. There after make it public for a coffee. It's that simple. Honest genuine guys accept this. And they will accept it's just a coffee. But be sensible ladies! And remember it's a woman's world! Anyone for coffee???"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other single ladies on here feel nervous about meets???? Yes we can talk and mail and even text potential meets buy am i the only one who never lets her guard down totally?

I wouldn't think you're alone, and I wouldn't think it's just a woman's thing either! Yes i agree with you there .... genuine men would also find it quite daunting ...... any tips or pointers that would help?

Just a small thing but with smart phone technology communicating with kik allows you to chat off Fab (much easier) but you don't have to give your mobile number. Even up to first meet without exchanging numbers. X

Thanks mefor ..... so how do you add people to this kik then? "

Get the kik app and If you know that they're on kik too you just give them your addy (tip don't use the same kik profile name as here. People might guess and contact you without you wanting them too. Although you can easily block on kik. There's some bloke on there as Mefor )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other single ladies on here feel nervous about meets???? Yes we can talk and mail and even text potential meets buy am i the only one who never lets her guard down totally?

I wouldn't think you're alone, and I wouldn't think it's just a woman's thing either! Yes i agree with you there .... genuine men would also find it quite daunting ...... any tips or pointers that would help?

Just a small thing but with smart phone technology communicating with kik allows you to chat off Fab (much easier) but you don't have to give your mobile number. Even up to first meet without exchanging numbers. X

Thanks mefor ..... so how do you add people to this kik then?

Get the kik app and If you know that they're on kik too you just give them your addy (tip don't use the same kik profile name as here. People might guess and contact you without you wanting them too. Although you can easily block on kik. There's some bloke on there as Mefor ) "

There is two "mefors" ooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other single ladies on here feel nervous about meets???? Yes we can talk and mail and even text potential meets buy am i the only one who never lets her guard down totally?

I wouldn't think you're alone, and I wouldn't think it's just a woman's thing either! Yes i agree with you there .... genuine men would also find it quite daunting ...... any tips or pointers that would help?

Just a small thing but with smart phone technology communicating with kik allows you to chat off Fab (much easier) but you don't have to give your mobile number. Even up to first meet without exchanging numbers. X

Thanks mefor ..... so how do you add people to this kik then? "

I love kik great messaging media, download app and then give out your username to those you wish to chat too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other single ladies on here feel nervous about meets???? Yes we can talk and mail and even text potential meets buy am i the only one who never lets her guard down totally?

I wouldn't think you're alone, and I wouldn't think it's just a woman's thing either! Yes i agree with you there .... genuine men would also find it quite daunting ...... any tips or pointers that would help?

Just a small thing but with smart phone technology communicating with kik allows you to chat off Fab (much easier) but you don't have to give your mobile number. Even up to first meet without exchanging numbers. X

Thanks mefor ..... so how do you add people to this kik then?

Get the kik app and If you know that they're on kik too you just give them your addy (tip don't use the same kik profile name as here. People might guess and contact you without you wanting them too. Although you can easily block on kik. There's some bloke on there as Mefor )

There is two "mefors" ooooooo"

Nope just one of me and some guy imposter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any other single ladies on here feel nervous about meets???? Yes we can talk and mail and even text potential meets buy am i the only one who never lets her guard down totally?

I wouldn't think you're alone, and I wouldn't think it's just a woman's thing either! Yes i agree with you there .... genuine men would also find it quite daunting ...... any tips or pointers that would help?

Just a small thing but with smart phone technology communicating with kik allows you to chat off Fab (much easier) but you don't have to give your mobile number. Even up to first meet without exchanging numbers. X

Thanks mefor ..... so how do you add people to this kik then?

I love kik great messaging media, download app and then give out your username to those you wish to chat too "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other single ladies on here feel nervous about meets???? Yes we can talk and mail and even text potential meets buy am i the only one who never lets her guard down totally?

I wouldn't think you're alone, and I wouldn't think it's just a woman's thing either! Yes i agree with you there .... genuine men would also find it quite daunting ...... any tips or pointers that would help?

Just a small thing but with smart phone technology communicating with kik allows you to chat off Fab (much easier) but you don't have to give your mobile number. Even up to first meet without exchanging numbers. X

Thanks mefor ..... so how do you add people to this kik then?

I love kik great messaging media, download app and then give out your username to those you wish to chat too

"

angel eyes you fancy coffee? I love local. And not a header lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any other single ladies on here feel nervous about meets???? Yes we can talk and mail and even text potential meets buy am i the only one who never lets her guard down totally?

I wouldn't think you're alone, and I wouldn't think it's just a woman's thing either! Yes i agree with you there .... genuine men would also find it quite daunting ...... any tips or pointers that would help?

Just a small thing but with smart phone technology communicating with kik allows you to chat off Fab (much easier) but you don't have to give your mobile number. Even up to first meet without exchanging numbers. X

Thanks mefor ..... so how do you add people to this kik then?

Get the kik app and If you know that they're on kik too you just give them your addy (tip don't use the same kik profile name as here. People might guess and contact you without you wanting them too. Although you can easily block on kik. There's some bloke on there as Mefor )

There is two "mefors" ooooooo

Nope just one of me and some guy imposter "

Thats a bit freaky Mefor

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"Any other single ladies on here feel nervous about meets???? Yes we can talk and mail and even text potential meets buy am i the only one who never lets her guard down totally?

I wouldn't think you're alone, and I wouldn't think it's just a woman's thing either! Yes i agree with you there .... genuine men would also find it quite daunting ...... any tips or pointers that would help?

Follow your instincts. If something doesn't feel right, stay away from it. Patience! "

Very good advice Mr mcc... I use kik the same as mefor too and I've never had a problem with any guy not accepting that a coffee meet is just that. Anyone I've met for coffee have always been perfectly gentlemanly... There are some great guys here. If someone not happy to just meet for a coffee I wouldn't be meeting them at all tbh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other single ladies on here feel nervous about meets???? Yes we can talk and mail and even text potential meets buy am i the only one who never lets her guard down totally?

I wouldn't think you're alone, and I wouldn't think it's just a woman's thing either! Yes i agree with you there .... genuine men would also find it quite daunting ...... any tips or pointers that would help?

Follow your instincts. If something doesn't feel right, stay away from it. Patience!

Very good advice Mr mcc... I use kik the same as mefor too and I've never had a problem with any guy not accepting that a coffee meet is just that. Anyone I've met for coffee have always been perfectly gentlemanly... There are some great guys here. If someone not happy to just meet for a coffee I wouldn't be meeting them at all tbh! "

speaking if coffee!!! And gentlemen lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any other single ladies on here feel nervous about meets???? Yes we can talk and mail and even text potential meets buy am i the only one who never lets her guard down totally?

I wouldn't think you're alone, and I wouldn't think it's just a woman's thing either! Yes i agree with you there .... genuine men would also find it quite daunting ...... any tips or pointers that would help?

Follow your instincts. If something doesn't feel right, stay away from it. Patience!

Very good advice Mr mcc... I use kik the same as mefor too and I've never had a problem with any guy not accepting that a coffee meet is just that. Anyone I've met for coffee have always been perfectly gentlemanly... There are some great guys here. If someone not happy to just meet for a coffee I wouldn't be meeting them at all tbh! "

Thnks Secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eventhough I'm part of a couple I too get very nervous before a meet when I'm doing meets on my own. That's why I like to chat and get to know the person first the next step would be a coffee meet in a public place. Some people get annoyed and say the pace is too slow but in order for me to get and give as much out of the eventual meet as possible I have to feel very comfortable and safe with that person.

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN


"Eventhough I'm part of a couple I too get very nervous before a meet when I'm doing meets on my own. That's why I like to chat and get to know the person first the next step would be a coffee meet in a public place. Some people get annoyed and say the pace is too slow but in order for me to get and give as much out of the eventual meet as possible I have to feel very comfortable and safe with that person. "
u get nervous? Never haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eventhough I'm part of a couple I too get very nervous before a meet when I'm doing meets on my own. That's why I like to chat and get to know the person first the next step would be a coffee meet in a public place. Some people get annoyed and say the pace is too slow but in order for me to get and give as much out of the eventual meet as possible I have to feel very comfortable and safe with that person. u get nervous? Never haha "

Ssshhhhh Ash it really does happen lol

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN


"Eventhough I'm part of a couple I too get very nervous before a meet when I'm doing meets on my own. That's why I like to chat and get to know the person first the next step would be a coffee meet in a public place. Some people get annoyed and say the pace is too slow but in order for me to get and give as much out of the eventual meet as possible I have to feel very comfortable and safe with that person. u get nervous? Never haha

Ssshhhhh Ash it really does happen lol "

hahaha I seen 2 much I'll never be convinced

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"Any other single ladies on here feel nervous about meets???? Yes we can talk and mail and even text potential meets buy am i the only one who never lets her guard down totally?

I wouldn't think you're alone, and I wouldn't think it's just a woman's thing either! Yes i agree with you there .... genuine men would also find it quite daunting ...... any tips or pointers that would help?

Follow your instincts. If something doesn't feel right, stay away from it. Patience!

Very good advice Mr mcc... I use kik the same as mefor too and I've never had a problem with any guy not accepting that a coffee meet is just that. Anyone I've met for coffee have always been perfectly gentlemanly... There are some great guys here. If someone not happy to just meet for a coffee I wouldn't be meeting them at all tbh! speaking if coffee!!! And gentlemen lol "

coffee mate from a long time ago thread match up lol. ..definitely this week! !! I promise ....I even pinky promise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eventhough I'm part of a couple I too get very nervous before a meet when I'm doing meets on my own. That's why I like to chat and get to know the person first the next step would be a coffee meet in a public place. Some people get annoyed and say the pace is too slow but in order for me to get and give as much out of the eventual meet as possible I have to feel very comfortable and safe with that person. u get nervous? Never haha

Ssshhhhh Ash it really does happen lol hahaha I seen 2 much I'll never be convinced "

I'm great at role playing lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Eventhough I'm part of a couple I too get very nervous before a meet when I'm doing meets on my own. That's why I like to chat and get to know the person first the next step would be a coffee meet in a public place. Some people get annoyed and say the pace is too slow but in order for me to get and give as much out of the eventual meet as possible I have to feel very comfortable and safe with that person. u get nervous? Never haha "

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