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"Some mails im getting from men are more like a sales pitch than a start of a conversation.the info is on their profiles yet they still feel the need to describe themselves fully in a mail the tell you what they are gonna do to you...all in a first mail.this drives me mad.please say im not alone here ladies ??? " there is a few people whos have talk to me like that... soon as i noticed it i blocked | |||
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"women have said here plenty of times (myself included ) "fancy a shag " gets deleted straight away we tell them "hi how are you " is boring we tell them be inventive send a mail that catchs our eye . That will make us respond you . so if a guy goes to the trouble of telling me about himself and likes and dislikes he is doing what women have asked and it seems he still cant win ! " exactly, plus I know from the experience that there are ladies and couples that do not read my profile carefully enough, which results in unpleasant surprises. | |||
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"women have said here plenty of times (myself included ) "fancy a shag " gets deleted straight away we tell them "hi how are you " is boring we tell them be inventive send a mail that catchs our eye . That will make us respond you . so if a guy goes to the trouble of telling me about himself and likes and dislikes he is doing what women have asked and it seems he still cant win ! " think i ll retire | |||
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"women have said here plenty of times (myself included ) "fancy a shag " gets deleted straight away we tell them "hi how are you " is boring we tell them be inventive send a mail that catchs our eye . That will make us respond you . so if a guy goes to the trouble of telling me about himself and likes and dislikes he is doing what women have asked and it seems he still cant win ! think i ll retire " I already have | |||
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"women have said here plenty of times (myself included ) "fancy a shag " gets deleted straight away we tell them "hi how are you " is boring we tell them be inventive send a mail that catchs our eye . That will make us respond you . so if a guy goes to the trouble of telling me about himself and likes and dislikes he is doing what women have asked and it seems he still cant win ! " Would have to agree here... I have only joined here recently and so far I've seen so many differing views on what men are doing wrong or what they should do... Men take a battering for being direct 'Giz a ride' or 'fancy a shag' and rightly so but to go put the extra effort in and be accused of it being a sales pitch is a bit of double standards IMO. Sounds like you need to have a 6 pack profile pic and an exact secret amount of characters per message to be in with a chance of a reply on here... Maybe the next step is disable men from sending message and they can only reply to women when 'chosen'? | |||
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"Couldn't agree more. You men definitely get a hard time. Don't think there's an easy answer to this as what works for one woman won't work for another " it's hard to start a conversation with someone you don't know tbh and I respond more as said above to people I've maybe chatted to in the forum as you maybe have something to chat about to make a message relevant... and of course everyone has their own"horns and haloes", but if someone sends us a polite witty or pleasant message I think it's only courtesy to respond ... and really you are trying to sell yourself to the person you're messaging as obviously you wouldnt be messaging if you hadn't looked at their profile and thought they were interesting. Though sometimes it's hard to catchup and messages drop off the screen before you even get to them | |||
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"Couldn't agree more. You men definitely get a hard time. Don't think there's an easy answer to this as what works for one woman won't work for another " | |||
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"I like a chat in mails....not a" buy me"mail" You do !!!!! All I get in reply a lot of the time are one line answers ! !!!!" lol | |||
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"Couldn't agree more. You men definitely get a hard time. Don't think there's an easy answer to this as what works for one woman won't work for another " Not only we get hard times but also hard ons and we really need help with that situation. Haha. We are not so bad I guess. We try to please and to be pleased. We are all different, so will approach the matter from a different angle. Good thing is if we try politely. If we do, please appreciate it. Guide us if your profile description on what you like and how you like being approached. I tried starting a conversation or the sales message (as you called it) and both worked, all depends on the couples I was getting in touch with. Let us all just relax and have a good time, because this is why we are all here. To realise fantasies and to have good time. If we are lucky, we might even meet great sex friends or maybe even friends. | |||
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"I'm cheap anyway so no need for much of a sales pitch " Don't think you are huni lol | |||
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"I read the profile, if they're receptive to single guys, i'll send a polite message. I really think i'm crap at opening messages, so I prefer to interact with people on he forum first so that my message can be something related to what was discussed there. Those who I message that i dont interact with on the forums are more difficult. "how are you" and "how are you finding the site" are cliched and i try to avoid them...but when you really dont know what else to say it can be tough. I usually go with something truthful like "hi there, i read your profile, and you sound very interesting and i'd like to get to know you better, would you like to chat sometime" does that work? more often than not....no. but the ones that do reply, i usually end up having great conversations with, and have wound up having great craic with. The people I've become friends with here have had a positive influence on me, and how I use the site, and i'm grateful for that." We said and definitely the best approach | |||
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"Couldn't agree more. You men definitely get a hard time. Don't think there's an easy answer to this as what works for one woman won't work for another " +1 | |||
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"No need to sell myself... I am who I am... Get to know me and you might like me, choose not then so be it.... I'll still be me. " and i like u and those white pants! !!!!! | |||
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"No need to sell myself... I am who I am... Get to know me and you might like me, choose not then so be it.... I'll still be me. " You have the right idea... It's not about crafting fake bullshit mails because most women see through it immediately... It's about being yourself and accepting that we are all unique thus attracting and having an attraction to many different people it's the yes or no of the reciprocation that annoys men and then starts the whole I'm fucked if I do and fucked if I don't forum topics | |||
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"No need to sell myself... I am who I am... Get to know me and you might like me, choose not then so be it.... I'll still be me. You have the right idea... It's not about crafting fake bullshit mails because most women see through it immediately... It's about being yourself and accepting that we are all unique thus attracting and having an attraction to many different people it's the yes or no of the reciprocation that annoys men and then starts the whole I'm fucked if I do and fucked if I don't forum topics" Don't you mean: the whole I'm not getting fucked if I do and not getting fucked if I don't forum topics. | |||
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"No need to sell myself... I am who I am... Get to know me and you might like me, choose not then so be it.... I'll still be me. You have the right idea... It's not about crafting fake bullshit mails because most women see through it immediately... It's about being yourself and accepting that we are all unique thus attracting and having an attraction to many different people it's the yes or no of the reciprocation that annoys men and then starts the whole I'm fucked if I do and fucked if I don't forum topics Don't you mean: the whole I'm not getting fucked if I do and not getting fucked if I don't forum topics. " Haha different use and context but I guess your right it all boils down to the same thing .. | |||
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"i find some read like an estate agents wndow. without any personality sadly x " omg thank you...it sounded like i was on my own there..!!! | |||
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"The worst opening message is "Are you having much luck on the site" Drives me mad " or so what are you looking for.... | |||
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"i find some read like an estate agents wndow. without any personality sadly x omg thank you...it sounded like i was on my own there..!!! " youre welcome x estate agents is a good compaison because they have been known to embellish the truth x | |||
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"Hey CC, didn't think you were so discerning! Anyway Fab sometimes is like a second hand sale. I tend to be very selective in whom I wish to meet, hence I send very few messages. The selection is not wonderful at the moment! " Who 's this CC ????? Wasnt she that hot babe from Cavan who always ended up in hospital but deleted her profile some time ago !!! God , if only she'd stayed around long enough we could have gotten to know each other a little better !! lol | |||
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"Hey CC, didn't think you were so discerning! Anyway Fab sometimes is like a second hand sale. I tend to be very selective in whom I wish to meet, hence I send very few messages. The selection is not wonderful at the moment! " oh dear | |||
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"No need to sell myself... I am who I am... Get to know me and you might like me, choose not then so be it.... I'll still be me. and i like u and those white pants! !!!!!" Lol come n get em | |||
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"Hey CC, didn't think you were so discerning! Anyway Fab sometimes is like a second hand sale. I tend to be very selective in whom I wish to meet, hence I send very few messages. The selection is not wonderful at the moment! " pmsl....very few msgs.thats hilarious. | |||
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"Hey CC, didn't think you were so discerning! Anyway Fab sometimes is like a second hand sale. I tend to be very selective in whom I wish to meet, hence I send very few messages. The selection is not wonderful at the moment! pmsl....very few msgs.thats hilarious. " To clarify, CC. Sorry to confuse you, I mean I do not send messages to very many on here, I am selective. Hope that clarifies it for you, and you don't drown the place with PYSL lol | |||
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"Hey CC, didn't think you were so discerning! Anyway Fab sometimes is like a second hand sale. I tend to be very selective in whom I wish to meet, hence I send very few messages. The selection is not wonderful at the moment! pmsl....very few msgs.thats hilarious. To clarify, CC. Sorry to confuse you, I mean I do not send messages to very many on here, I am selective. Hope that clarifies it for you, and you don't drown the place with PYSL lol " | |||
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"Hey CC, didn't think you were so discerning! Anyway Fab sometimes is like a second hand sale. I tend to be very selective in whom I wish to meet, hence I send very few messages. The selection is not wonderful at the moment! pmsl....very few msgs.thats hilarious. To clarify, CC. Sorry to confuse you, I mean I do not send messages to very many on here, I am selective. Hope that clarifies it for you, and you don't drown the place with PYSL lol " get a life | |||
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"Well cat I did not do a pitch I just brought and showed my hardware and demonstrated to you were you impressed with my pitch I prefer to act rather than talk ! Can't wait until next pitch " oh sean...your pitch was...ahem....amazing. you wicked man | |||
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"When can I show you my newest trick " for you....anytime and anywhere as i know thats good for you too.... | |||
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"Hi cc my sales pitch is my accent and charm what u think x " nice wee accent on you of course | |||
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"You wanna buy a piece of my ass sugar" oooookkk....lol | |||
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"Sold....to the lady in the nice bikini" wooohooooooo im on a winning streak i got the ass sugar | |||
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"Sold....to the lady in the nice bikini wooohooooooo im on a winning streak i got the ass sugar " btw....whats ass sugar | |||
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"More like nipples like candy cc and a clit like pop candy " oooooh | |||
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"Pop candy is a good thing cc means ur a cracker in the packed and out of it " thank you so | |||
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"Anytime I knw we have had r up and downs but I still like u cc " we have...xxx | |||
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"How about a 3 sum guys or even another female also " oh i have that sorted hun | |||
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"Any other ladies interested also sorted " lol there isnt much u havent sorted CC !!!!!! | |||
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"Any other ladies interested also sorted lol there isnt much u havent sorted CC !!!!!!" gotta be prepared babe | |||
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"Hey CC, didn't think you were so discerning! Anyway Fab sometimes is like a second hand sale. I tend to be very selective in whom I wish to meet, hence I send very few messages. The selection is not wonderful at the moment! pmsl....very few msgs.thats hilarious. To clarify, CC. Sorry to confuse you, I mean I do not send messages to very many on here, I am selective. Hope that clarifies it for you, and you don't drown the place with PYSL lol get a life " Hey CC, I already have, outside of Fab, a great one, you know this already, so I do not depend on Fab to have one, maybe you should take your own advice!! LOL Ha ha only Kidding CC, seems like you Belle of The Ball still, how many now? lol | |||
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"Hey CC, didn't think you were so discerning! Anyway Fab sometimes is like a second hand sale. I tend to be very selective in whom I wish to meet, hence I send very few messages. The selection is not wonderful at the moment! pmsl....very few msgs.thats hilarious. To clarify, CC. Sorry to confuse you, I mean I do not send messages to very many on here, I am selective. Hope that clarifies it for you, and you don't drown the place with PYSL lol get a life Hey CC, I already have, outside of Fab, a great one, you know this already, so I do not depend on Fab to have one, maybe you should take your own advice!! LOL Ha ha only Kidding CC, seems like you Belle of The Ball still, how many now? lol " I never know if this is mates banter or creepy Internet stalker chat. I know how it comes across. | |||
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"Hey CC, didn't think you were so discerning! Anyway Fab sometimes is like a second hand sale. I tend to be very selective in whom I wish to meet, hence I send very few messages. The selection is not wonderful at the moment! pmsl....very few msgs.thats hilarious. To clarify, CC. Sorry to confuse you, I mean I do not send messages to very many on here, I am selective. Hope that clarifies it for you, and you don't drown the place with PYSL lol get a life Hey CC, I already have, outside of Fab, a great one, you know this already, so I do not depend on Fab to have one, maybe you should take your own advice!! LOL Ha ha only Kidding CC, seems like you Belle of The Ball still, how many now? lol I never know if this is mates banter or creepy Internet stalker chat. I know how it comes across. " In this case I'd say the latter | |||
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"Hi candy are you weary of people pitching on here " Sorry, I don't know what that means. | |||
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"Hey CC, didn't think you were so discerning! Anyway Fab sometimes is like a second hand sale. I tend to be very selective in whom I wish to meet, hence I send very few messages. The selection is not wonderful at the moment! pmsl....very few msgs.thats hilarious. To clarify, CC. Sorry to confuse you, I mean I do not send messages to very many on here, I am selective. Hope that clarifies it for you, and you don't drown the place with PYSL lol get a life Hey CC, I already have, outside of Fab, a great one, you know this already, so I do not depend on Fab to have one, maybe you should take your own advice!! LOL Ha ha only Kidding CC, seems like you Belle of The Ball still, how many now? lol I never know if this is mates banter or creepy Internet stalker chat. I know how it comes across. " It does seem a bit creepy tbh | |||
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"Hey CC, didn't think you were so discerning! Anyway Fab sometimes is like a second hand sale. I tend to be very selective in whom I wish to meet, hence I send very few messages. The selection is not wonderful at the moment! pmsl....very few msgs.thats hilarious. To clarify, CC. Sorry to confuse you, I mean I do not send messages to very many on here, I am selective. Hope that clarifies it for you, and you don't drown the place with PYSL lol get a life Hey CC, I already have, outside of Fab, a great one, you know this already, so I do not depend on Fab to have one, maybe you should take your own advice!! LOL Ha ha only Kidding CC, seems like you Belle of The Ball still, how many now? lol I never know if this is mates banter or creepy Internet stalker chat. I know how it comes across. " Ah here, Candy, it is just banter between 2 old acquaintances, remember there are 2 sides to every story! So don't always jump to conclusions just because you hear one side and opinion can be coloured by knowing just one party! ok. All friendly stuff, we just like to shake the forums up sometimes. CC gets so many bans from on here, as she likes to shake things up, don't you CC? | |||
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"Hey CC, didn't think you were so discerning! Anyway Fab sometimes is like a second hand sale. I tend to be very selective in whom I wish to meet, hence I send very few messages. The selection is not wonderful at the moment! pmsl....very few msgs.thats hilarious. To clarify, CC. Sorry to confuse you, I mean I do not send messages to very many on here, I am selective. Hope that clarifies it for you, and you don't drown the place with PYSL lol get a life Hey CC, I already have, outside of Fab, a great one, you know this already, so I do not depend on Fab to have one, maybe you should take your own advice!! LOL Ha ha only Kidding CC, seems like you Belle of The Ball still, how many now? lol I never know if this is mates banter or creepy Internet stalker chat. I know how it comes across. Ah here, Candy, it is just banter between 2 old acquaintances, remember there are 2 sides to every story! So don't always jump to conclusions just because you hear one side and opinion can be coloured by knowing just one party! ok. All friendly stuff, we just like to shake the forums up sometimes. CC gets so many bans from on here, as she likes to shake things up, don't you CC? " Not knowing any side to any story! You just come across creepy and stalkerish on here | |||
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"Hey CC, didn't think you were so discerning! Anyway Fab sometimes is like a second hand sale. I tend to be very selective in whom I wish to meet, hence I send very few messages. The selection is not wonderful at the moment! pmsl....very few msgs.thats hilarious. To clarify, CC. Sorry to confuse you, I mean I do not send messages to very many on here, I am selective. Hope that clarifies it for you, and you don't drown the place with PYSL lol get a life Hey CC, I already have, outside of Fab, a great one, you know this already, so I do not depend on Fab to have one, maybe you should take your own advice!! LOL Ha ha only Kidding CC, seems like you Belle of The Ball still, how many now? lol I never know if this is mates banter or creepy Internet stalker chat. I know how it comes across. Ah here, Candy, it is just banter between 2 old acquaintances, remember there are 2 sides to every story! So don't always jump to conclusions just because you hear one side and opinion can be coloured by knowing just one party! ok. All friendly stuff, we just like to shake the forums up sometimes. CC gets so many bans from on here, as she likes to shake things up, don't you CC? " Hmmmm? I think I'll wait on both POV (if given). | |||
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"What does PYSL mean? " Piss your self laughing I'd imagine | |||
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"What does PYSL mean? Piss your self laughing I'd imagine" Ahh ok ...thanks for that...learn something new everyday Cheeky | |||
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