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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im a single male here finding it so hard to get meets can anybody help im honest genuine respectful and clean what am I doing wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have no pics uploaded, your profile is very short and doesn't say a lot about you and you have only been here 6 weeks. Change those and get yourself known in either or both the chat rooms and forum and you will increase your chances of getting a meet

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"Im a single male here finding it so hard to get meets can anybody help im honest genuine respectful and clean what am I doing wrong "

first of all your profile says very little and u have no pics

secondly ur only here 6 weeks it can take months to get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a single male here finding it so hard to get meets can anybody help im honest genuine respectful and clean what am I doing wrong "

What expectations did you have? Be _aid back and see the page as a fun

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Im a single male here finding it so hard to get meets can anybody help im honest genuine respectful and clean what am I doing wrong "

It's just you. The rest of us are at it like rabbits!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a single male here finding it so hard to get meets can anybody help im honest genuine respectful and clean what am I doing wrong

It's just you. The rest of us are at it like rabbits!!! "

Suuuuuure !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's because of the Irish psyche.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to the advice respect what people want. But best of all is become known as Sofia said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the lack of a pic would normally indicate a timewaster, i dont message or reply to profiles without pics so im sure alot of the ladies are the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 1 tip for swinging in Ireland.

Go abroad. The UK, Netherlands, France and Spain are much more facilitating. Ireland is a waste of time, money and energy.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"Im a single male here finding it so hard to get meets can anybody help im honest genuine respectful and clean what am I doing wrong

What expectations did you have? Be _aid back and see the page as a fun "

he cant be _aid back im _aid back

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Number 1 tip for swinging in Ireland.

Go abroad. The UK, Netherlands, France and Spain are much more facilitating. Ireland is a waste of time, money and energy."

Ireland is not a total 'waste of time' in fairness...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit profile...thats pretty much it. It aint rocket science

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Number 1 tip for swinging in Ireland.

Go abroad. The UK, Netherlands, France and Spain are much more facilitating. Ireland is a waste of time, money and energy.

Ireland is not a total 'waste of time' in fairness... "

That's is to say in my opinion and experience its not anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More pics more profile text info about urself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pics??? Not much in ur profile to go on

18-99 always a turn off!!

Moaning on the forums don't really do ya any favours either to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have no pics uploaded, your profile is very short and doesn't say a lot about you and you have only been here 6 weeks. Change those and get yourself known in either or both the chat rooms and forum and you will increase your chances of getting a meet"

Pretty much this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a single male here finding it so hard to get meets can anybody help im honest genuine respectful and clean what am I doing wrong "

Though define hard. Patience is a virtue and the best things come to those who wait.

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

Go into chatroom on cam and whip your cock

out. Women will be falling all over you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have no pics uploaded, your profile is very short and doesn't say a lot about you and you have only been here 6 weeks. Change those and get yourself known in either or both the chat rooms and forum and you will increase your chances of getting a meet"

True sofia.....gota get yourself known and stand out from the crowd!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice is

Buy a large tin of Linx it's mighty stuff

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By *at2Couple
over a year ago

north Down


"Number 1 tip for swinging in Ireland.

Go abroad. The UK, Netherlands, France and Spain are much more facilitating. Ireland is a waste of time, money and energy."

I see that you's too have got no photos.

This is the best way to put off potential meets. Ireland is a great place for meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My advice is

Buy a large tin of Linx it's mighty stuff "

Like our Hardy boy...lol...he's well known on here...lord help us lmao!!! Love ya really!!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Number 1 tip for swinging in Ireland.

Go abroad. The UK, Netherlands, France and Spain are much more facilitating. Ireland is a waste of time, money and energy."

I have no experience in the former, but I disagree with the latter.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"You have no pics uploaded, your profile is very short and doesn't say a lot about you and you have only been here 6 weeks. Change those and get yourself known in either or both the chat rooms and forum and you will increase your chances of getting a meet

True sofia.....gota get yourself known and stand out from the crowd!! "

yep all good advice...and there are some very hot and sexy people in Ireland!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 hours later and you still have no pics up......damn it lad..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"9 hours later and you still have no pics up......damn it lad.. "

Iv had to take mine down...

Couldn't handle the fan mail!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"9 hours later and you still have no pics up......damn it lad..

Iv had to take mine down...

Couldn't handle the fan mail!! "

oh i hear thats a terrible issue here...tut tut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do I get so hard?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"9 hours later and you still have no pics up......damn it lad.. "
fully agree with ya there not a good start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"9 hours later and you still have no pics up......damn it lad.. fully agree with ya there not a good start "

nope....ya ask for advice then ignore it....shocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"9 hours later and you still have no pics up......damn it lad.. fully agree with ya there not a good start

nope....ya ask for advice then ignore it....shocking "

well least he knows why hes not getting any meets an that person mails u with a profile like that its just an auto delete shame cause ther could b really nice people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"9 hours later and you still have no pics up......damn it lad.. fully agree with ya there not a good start

nope....ya ask for advice then ignore it....shocking

well least he knows why hes not getting any meets an that person mails u with a profile like that its just an auto delete shame cause ther could b really nice people "

i agree.a guy mailed me like that before and i was feeling like so i started to chat to him. was the best sex ever and he was so nice.but nowadays i just delete the boring pictureless ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"9 hours later and you still have no pics up......damn it lad.. fully agree with ya there not a good start

nope....ya ask for advice then ignore it....shocking

well least he knows why hes not getting any meets an that person mails u with a profile like that its just an auto delete shame cause ther could b really nice people

i agree.a guy mailed me like that before and i was feeling like so i started to chat to him. was the best sex ever and he was so nice.but nowadays i just delete the boring pictureless ones. "
oh we had the bad experince cause of no photos so lesson well learnt so now just deleted well we hav message filters too so that kinda helps aswel did u notice there normaly the exact same messages hi how u u free etc or is that just me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"9 hours later and you still have no pics up......damn it lad.. fully agree with ya there not a good start

nope....ya ask for advice then ignore it....shocking

well least he knows why hes not getting any meets an that person mails u with a profile like that its just an auto delete shame cause ther could b really nice people "

This is true, you can also have a profile full of stuff and get nowhere, trust me.

Less is more, or so it seems.

You ladies seem to like a bit of mystery, but not too much.

It's so hard to please you all!! Haha

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

Hard to please. .. us. . Never! ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hard to please. .. us. . Never! ! Lol "

Nah not you.

I'd easily please you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen profiles with all the requirements and all the right wording and they were still messers. It's not the photos or the wording on the profiles, it's the person behind the profile.

There's a big click on here "oh that profile is only 6 weeks old can't meet them". Who said you can't?

Another great tip is "come into the chat and get known", you still get ignored.

My advice is get out into the real world as there's too many keyboard warriors on here that prevent decent folk progressing for the same activity being seeked out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am staring to doubt in the reason to help out the lads that cannot get their shit together and have absolutely zero understanding of women and their psyche. If you put zero effort to wow the ladies, you deserve your faith. It is a real world here and there. You wouldn't approach a lady in a club with your dick out asking 'hows you', would you?

If a guy has no basic understanding of how life works, why to give him all the answers on a silver platter? He will use all that we had to discover ourselves and will start fooling people that he is somebody who he clearly is not and will star making it more difficult for the ladies and couples to find a decent bloke here, as all profiles will be pampered to the max, without any follow through.

I have been here about 7 weeks and have meets for every week agreed, I do not want these boys to make it harder for me to meet nice people. I opt for natural selection

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

You do make a very good point European.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am staring to doubt in the reason to help out the lads that cannot get their shit together and have absolutely zero understanding of women and their psyche. If you put zero effort to wow the ladies, you deserve your faith. It is a real world here and there. You wouldn't approach a lady in a club with your dick out asking 'hows you', would you?

If a guy has no basic understanding of how life works, why to give him all the answers on a silver platter? He will use all that we had to discover ourselves and will start fooling people that he is somebody who he clearly is not and will star making it more difficult for the ladies and couples to find a decent bloke here, as all profiles will be pampered to the max, without any follow through.

I have been here about 7 weeks and have meets for every week agreed, I do not want these boys to make it harder for me to meet nice people. I opt for natural selection "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who needs women lol

There's that many "straight" men on here messaging me for meeting and they say when it's finished "don't verify me because it'll put off the women I could be with".

Ladies you may think you know the guy you're with is straight but is he???????

There's more men here looking for male male action than a gay site.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"I am staring to doubt in the reason to help out the lads that cannot get their shit together and have absolutely zero understanding of women and their psyche. If you put zero effort to wow the ladies, you deserve your faith. It is a real world here and there. You wouldn't approach a lady in a club with your dick out asking 'hows you', would you?

If a guy has no basic understanding of how life works, why to give him all the answers on a silver platter? He will use all that we had to discover ourselves and will start fooling people that he is somebody who he clearly is not and will star making it more difficult for the ladies and couples to find a decent bloke here, as all profiles will be pampered to the max, without any follow through.

I have been here about 7 weeks and have meets for every week agreed, I do not want these boys to make it harder for me to meet nice people. I opt for natural selection "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who needs women lol

There's that many "straight" men on here messaging me for meeting and they say when it's finished "don't verify me because it'll put off the women I could be with".

Ladies you may think you know the guy you're with is straight but is he???????

There's more men here looking for male male action than a gay site."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who needs women lol

There's that many "straight" men on here messaging me for meeting and they say when it's finished "don't verify me because it'll put off the women I could be with".

Ladies you may think you know the guy you're with is straight but is he???????

There's more men here looking for male male action than a gay site."

OMFG !!! more and more ladies with profiles what are saying: not meeting in the moment ..just for chat...not seeking ... will block all males .. reed my profile first, what is longer then the small prints in an insurance contract ..

so now i know .. this is more than less a gay site hooooly not good for straight men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who needs women lol

There's that many "straight" men on here messaging me for meeting and they say when it's finished "don't verify me because it'll put off the women I could be with".

Ladies you may think you know the guy you're with is straight but is he???????

There's more men here looking for male male action than a gay site.

OMFG !!! more and more ladies with profiles what are saying: not meeting in the moment ..just for chat...not seeking ... will block all males .. reed my profile first, what is longer then the small prints in an insurance contract ..

so now i know .. this is more than less a gay site hooooly not good for straight men

I'm serious about it, everyday I've messages from "straight and usually married". I'm on a gay site and I do t get as many offers as here lol

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