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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lads can't do it . Hi . You want to meet today . You on kik . You want to cam . That's about as good as it gets with most guys on here . We know its a sex site but would like to have some kind of proper conversation before we would consider meeting anyone .

Does anyone else find this to be the way with most lads

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

its because they want to put the least effort into getting a ride well most of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its because they want to put the least effort into getting a ride well most of them"

Saving energy for when it counts ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well if that's the effort they put into getting a meet . Hate to think how little effort they would put into a meet

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By *eedycplCouple
over a year ago

belfast

Yea deff lol we have chatted to some nice blokes and some who just can't hold a decent conversion or even know how to start a conversion We had a bloke the other night send a message out of the blue who we never spoke with b4 here is how he started 'so when can I screw ur ass and cum over ur face while ur hubby watches then make ur hubby lick my cum off u ?'

Like really was he serious ?

Our motto is manners cost Nothen but May get u everything lol we know it's a sex site but there is ways to speak with ppl lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's a sex site but surely every message doesn't have to be about it. But it takes two to have a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We get them messages all the time ...

Do you want to drive to waterford and let your wife sit on my face ??? .. Oh god yes fuck where did I leave the car keys can't wait to get on the road ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get them messages all the time ...

Do you want to drive to waterford and let your wife sit on my face ??? .. Oh god yes fuck where did I leave the car keys can't wait to get on the road ffs"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or another favorite of ours is . Hi I see you are 3 to 5 miles away fancy a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We knw manners are free but if ur messaging peeps all the time it would be good manners to at least reply bk sayin not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lads can't do it . Hi . You want to meet today . You on kik . You want to cam . That's about as good as it gets with most guys on here . We know its a sex site but would like to have some kind of proper conversation before we would consider meeting anyone .

Does anyone else find this to be the way with most lads "

When I receive a message Like that it's immediately deleted.

I think some guys are so use ti no replies that they don't put the effort in.

Recently I deleted a message and he messaged back telling me I was harsh and give him a chance, when I explained that his message proved he didn't read my profile and about the content of a first message to someone, his reply was "it's difficult to know who is respectable when reading a profile"

You can be sure I made some changes to my profile!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get them messages all the time ...

Do you want to drive to waterford and let your wife sit on my face ??? .. Oh god yes fuck where did I leave the car keys can't wait to get on the road ffs"

Think there are offenders on both sides of that though, you can put all the effort you want into an opening email and get no response, not even a thanks but no thanks. Clearly that's because the same morons, who send those type of messages, have issues with rejection too, but it really feels like a waste of time trying to start a conversation by message. I've given up contacting people, if it doesn't happen in chat or through the forum, I wouldn't try anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a message the other day will be passing kk at 10 30 like hold on till I get my coat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if that's the effort they put into getting a meet . Hate to think how little effort they would put into a meet "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners are free so why don't people use them more. Esp males sorry lads.

I enjoy the crack and banter on here and if something comes of it great if not what's the worst that can happen u make done friends on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well first impressions and all that . If you can't start with a proper message its hard to see how that would improve so why bother replying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got a message the other day will be passing kk at 10 30 like hold on till I get my coat "

Lol i was just about to say i got an email at 10.30 the other night saying "you want a good fuck tonight" .... Me in my jammies lol .... You's can imagine the reply lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We knw manners are free but if ur messaging peeps all the time it would be good manners to at least reply bk sayin not interested"

If you want to say all women are ignorant why not say it here instead of in private message ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And my favorite one of all time i'm great in bed wanna shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry just had a funny thought if on a cpl profile what about sticking up willy pic s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The number of times I've written polite messages that were interesting and gotten a reply 1.

The number of times I have written a message of cocktails bullshit and innuendos and gotten a reply - well more than one.

To be honest most women on here reply to questions and never ask questions back. It's hard to always be the one asking questions and trying to be interesting when the other side can't hold a conversation.

Just my two cents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We knw manners are free but if ur messaging peeps all the time it would be good manners to at least reply bk sayin not interested"

I would have thought the no reply would have hinted fairly strongly that they were not interested. How is seeing it in a message any better?

Personally if a guy has put the effort in yes I will reply saying I'm not interested, but why should I waste my time when I'm clearly being part of a blanket mailing request with no effort on a man's part?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Getting abuse in pm for this tread now I know I can't name the person because of site rules . But he was the 9th person to comment on the original post. . Very brave guy in pm would rather if he shared his opinion with everyone else rather than in pm to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We knw manners are free but if ur messaging peeps all the time it would be good manners to at least reply bk sayin not interested

I would have thought the no reply would have hinted fairly strongly that they were not interested. How is seeing it in a message any better?

Personally if a guy has put the effort in yes I will reply saying I'm not interested, but why should I waste my time when I'm clearly being part of a blanket mailing request with no effort on a man's part?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting abuse in pm for this tread now I know I can't name the person because of site rules . But he was the 9th person to comment on the original post. . Very brave guy in pm would rather if he shared his opinion with everyone else rather than in pm to us "

Report his messages to admin and then block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We knw manners are free but if ur messaging peeps all the time it would be good manners to at least reply bk sayin not interested

I would have thought the no reply would have hinted fairly strongly that they were not interested. How is seeing it in a message any better?

Personally if a guy has put the effort in yes I will reply saying I'm not interested, but why should I waste my time when I'm clearly being part of a blanket mailing request with no effort on a man's part?"

How are you 'clearly' part of a blanket mailing. I was accuses of copy and pasting my message before because it was long and thought out. And it was a one off to a certain woman.

She didn't believe it was spontaneous.

Which it was. Even had details related to her profile for Christ sake lol

I reply to everyone. I get messages off the gay guys and always say thanks but no thanks. Bittadon respect to people who are polite no matter what they are looking for. Not my place to judge.

Wish others would take that advice. (Not saying you btw)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We knw manners are free but if ur messaging peeps all the time it would be good manners to at least reply bk sayin not interested

I would have thought the no reply would have hinted fairly strongly that they were not interested. How is seeing it in a message any better?

Personally if a guy has put the effort in yes I will reply saying I'm not interested, but why should I waste my time when I'm clearly being part of a blanket mailing request with no effort on a man's part?

How are you 'clearly' part of a blanket mailing. I was accuses of copy and pasting my message before because it was long and thought out. And it was a one off to a certain woman.

She didn't believe it was spontaneous.

Which it was. Even had details related to her profile for Christ sake lol

I reply to everyone. I get messages off the gay guys and always say thanks but no thanks. Bittadon respect to people who are polite no matter what they are looking for. Not my place to judge.

Wish others would take that advice. (Not saying you btw)"

Messages like fancy a Fuck or the other extreme hi how are you. No effort and I would presume sent to every possible female that hasn't blocked them - yes it may be an assumption on my part but it does happen as sometimes they put another users name at the top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What bothers me is after I write nice and long email to a lady or a couple that in the reply I get: 'great email, send cock and photo pic'.

The lady would have to be smoking hot to make me do that and I would have to be super horny to oblige.

I am actually thinking of implementing a policy of not showing my face photo, until we speak through the phone, coz I am not content with such a treatment.

I also had an experience of one lady treating me like a useless addition to my cock. She clearly did not read my profile and made it quite awkward for me to politely decline while on cam.

It seems that regardless of us being single ladies, lads or couples the chances are, you will meet rude people here. Given there are more single lads here, statistically, you fill find more guys being dicks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No wonder a lot of people never get verified then they just annoyed thinking there gods gift etc and send up putting no effect into writing a mail and when they get no reply send nasty mails.

Complete assholes.

I have always said treat others the way you de like to be treated. At the end on the day it's about connection and fun. Nasty mail just puts the genuine peeps on here in bad form and it's these people that end up leaving

God bless the block button to date 23 males so far and 2 so called cpls profile blocked

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"Getting abuse in pm for this tread now I know I can't name the person because of site rules . But he was the 9th person to comment on the original post. . Very brave guy in pm would rather if he shared his opinion with everyone else rather than in pm to us "

ha ha ha well we shall see if he's brave or just another keyboard warrior

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

now im not some sort of super conversationalist over the web or via txt but in person u would do well to shut me up . b ut im always respectful in any mails i send i will address both of its a cpl and i never get rude crass or absive in a message and if somebody reads and deletes my mail i just let it go as a sign that they are not interested and i certainly dont mail them asking why they didnt reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"now im not some sort of super conversationalist over the web or via txt but in person u would do well to shut me up . b ut im always respectful in any mails i send i will address both of its a cpl and i never get rude crass or absive in a message and if somebody reads and deletes my mail i just let it go as a sign that they are not interested and i certainly dont mail them asking why they didnt reply "

Perfect!!! Wish there were more like you!!

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By *ungdublinguyMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

I'm capable of a conversation but unless the ladies profile is filled out, with info what she wants and is verified then I'm not likely to put a huge amount of effort into my initial message as odds are it's a fake profile or she isn't capable of a conversation.

Plenty of women on here turn into mutes when the conversation isn't about them or sex, not just the men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people join this site and get over excited, thinking they hit the jackpot. They completely misunderstand it and think this is a hook up site. Now I've met some real gentlemen but some clearly think that all women on here are free whores - hence the wanna fuck now emails. They actually can't grasp the concept of respectful, intelligent and empowered women who love sex without a relationship. Because such women must be sluts, that's what their mummies told them. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some people join this site and get over excited, thinking they hit the jackpot. They completely misunderstand it and think this is a hook up site. Now I've met some real gentlemen but some clearly think that all women on here are free whores - hence the wanna fuck now emails. They actually can't grasp the concept of respectful, intelligent and empowered women who love sex without a relationship. Because such women must be sluts, that's what their mummies told them. lol

"

I think you hit the spot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some people join this site and get over excited, thinking they hit the jackpot. They completely misunderstand it and think this is a hook up site. Now I've met some real gentlemen but some clearly think that all women on here are free whores - hence the wanna fuck now emails. They actually can't grasp the concept of respectful, intelligent and empowered women who love sex without a relationship. Because such women must be sluts, that's what their mummies told them. lol

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"now im not some sort of super conversationalist over the web or via txt but in person u would do well to shut me up . b ut im always respectful in any mails i send i will address both of its a cpl and i never get rude crass or absive in a message and if somebody reads and deletes my mail i just let it go as a sign that they are not interested and i certainly dont mail them asking why they didnt reply "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some people join this site and get over excited, thinking they hit the jackpot. They completely misunderstand it and think this is a hook up site. Now I've met some real gentlemen but some clearly think that all women on here are free whores - hence the wanna fuck now emails. They actually can't grasp the concept of respectful, intelligent and empowered women who love sex without a relationship. Because such women must be sluts, that's what their mummies told them. lol

"

But the nail on the head

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

My pet hate lately is when messages are addressed only to me (female). I am one half of a couple and would appreciate if that were recognised.

I don't mind when it's a follow up conversation that I was having. I'm talking more out of the blue messages that make no reference to mr Mcjoy at all.

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm capable of a conversation but unless the ladies profile is filled out, with info what she wants and is verified then I'm not likely to put a huge amount of effort into my initial message as odds are it's a fake profile or she isn't capable of a conversation.

Plenty of women on here turn into mutes when the conversation isn't about them or sex, not just the men."

My profile is not "filled out" as you put it! But I'm more than genuine and real not fake and more than capable of a conversation! So your theory is not totally air tight! and I have my reasons

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"My pet hate lately is when messages are addressed only to me (female). I am one half of a couple and would appreciate if that were recognised.

I don't mind when it's a follow up conversation that I was having. I'm talking more out of the blue messages that make no reference to mr Mcjoy at all.

Miss Mcjoy "

Some Guys are only interested in the female half of the cpl and think ur only in here caus mr cant preform or keep u happy. Thats what weve discovered anyway .

Mr crazy

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By *ungdublinguyMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

@mefor fully understandable reasons I'm sure, but I've encountered a high amount of profiles that just say "will fill in later" or "woman looking to meet men" not pic or meet verified and demanding a face pic before a reply will be considered, and I know your screen-name from the chat room and forums so I wouldn't have tossed any accusations at you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really glad I read this most off my msgs had started with well how's you just thought nothing off it lol... Think I'll make a quote and ask them to name the film lol perfect icebreaker

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Lads can't do it . Hi . You want to meet today . You on kik . You want to cam . That's about as good as it gets with most guys on here . We know its a sex site but would like to have some kind of proper conversation before we would consider meeting anyone .

Does anyone else find this to be the way with most lads "

u just have to stand back and take a laugh at them really. But it does get so annoying message after message.hi there u wanna fuck or im in ur area lol

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"My pet hate lately is when messages are addressed only to me (female). I am one half of a couple and would appreciate if that were recognised.

I don't mind when it's a follow up conversation that I was having. I'm talking more out of the blue messages that make no reference to mr Mcjoy at all.

Miss Mcjoy

Some Guys are only interested in the female half of the cpl and think ur only in here caus mr cant preform or keep u happy. Thats what weve discovered anyway .

Mr crazy "

Ah well, some people obviously have no idea what it means to be in a committed loving relationship and can't understand why basically ignoring Mr is the very last thing to do if the intention is to get into my pants!!

Like yourselves we are a package deal

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"@mefor fully understandable reasons I'm sure, but I've encountered a high amount of profiles that just say "will fill in later" or "woman looking to meet men" not pic or meet verified and demanding a face pic before a reply will be considered, and I know your screen-name from the chat room and forums so I wouldn't have tossed any accusations at you."

I hope you're not tossing anything at me we've not discussed that in my interests list!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really glad I read this most off my msgs had started with well how's you just thought nothing off it lol... Think I'll make a quote and ask them to name the film lol perfect icebreaker "

Hello you! Long time!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really glad I read this most off my msgs had started with well how's you just thought nothing off it lol... Think I'll make a quote and ask them to name the film lol perfect icebreaker "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey me for. .. are you quoting movies to me or just saying hi lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey me for. .. are you quoting movies to me or just saying hi lol"

Lol maybe both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol name the film and win a prize. ...roads huh where we're going we dont need roads. ..

this is a easy one to be fair lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes probley 80 out of 100 would send some sort of message too us or another one face pic followed by me wanna meet now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol name the film and win a prize. ...roads huh where we're going we dont need roads. ..

this is a easy one to be fair lol"

Awwww come on Doc Brown!! I ain't going back to the future with you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marty I have to tell you about your future lol..

Ill have to get a prize now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Marty I have to tell you about your future lol..

Ill have to get a prize now lol "

Yes you will!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a credit card bill you can have if you fancy lol. ..ill be open to suggestions for the prize

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By *hyboydevilMan
over a year ago

Dublin

All that I talk to, I talk to.. Not one could say I've been so blunt

There's a time and place for talk like that, though cunning linguistic skills are much more ejoyable for both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a credit card bill you can have if you fancy lol. ..ill be open to suggestions for the prize"

Eh you offered a prize!! Bk to the drawing board!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a credit card bill you can have if you fancy lol. ..ill be open to suggestions for the prize

Eh you offered a prize!! Bk to the drawing board!! "

A bottle of rose it is hard to go wrong with wine lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some people join this site and get over excited, thinking they hit the jackpot. They completely misunderstand it and think this is a hook up site. Now I've met some real gentlemen but some clearly think that all women on here are free whores - hence the wanna fuck now emails. They actually can't grasp the concept of respectful, intelligent and empowered women who love sex without a relationship. Because such women must be sluts, that's what their mummies told them. lol

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some people join this site and get over excited, thinking they hit the jackpot. They completely misunderstand it and think this is a hook up site. Now I've met some real gentlemen but some clearly think that all women on here are free whores - hence the wanna fuck now emails. They actually can't grasp the concept of respectful, intelligent and empowered women who love sex without a relationship. Because such women must be sluts, that's what their mummies told them. lol

"

Totally agree with everything you said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to chat, have been known to talk legs off tables. Sometimes I get crackin chats on here and that's a good omen.

If you can't get even a basic conversation flowing on here, hiw will it go in person? Though If you recieve one liners in return, no matter what you say, it can be hard to generate conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a credit card bill you can have if you fancy lol. ..ill be open to suggestions for the prize

Eh you offered a prize!! Bk to the drawing board!!

A bottle of rose it is hard to go wrong with wine lol "

Make it a nice dry Chardonnay and you're on!!

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"I think some people join this site and get over excited, thinking they hit the jackpot. They completely misunderstand it and think this is a hook up site. Now I've met some real gentlemen but some clearly think that all women on here are free whores - hence the wanna fuck now emails. They actually can't grasp the concept of respectful, intelligent and empowered women who love sex without a relationship. Because such women must be sluts, that's what their mummies told them. lol

"

think you hit the nail on the head there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to chat, have been known to talk legs off tables. Sometimes I get crackin chats on here and that's a good omen.

If you can't get even a basic conversation flowing on here, hiw will it go in person? Though If you recieve one liners in return, no matter what you say, it can be hard to generate conversation"

I totally agree with you here. I get so many messages and reply to most unless they are the usual 'wanna fuck' ones which I ignore. I get very few where it is possible to generate a good conversation and if that doesn't happen neither will a meet. :-

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By *b061Man
over a year ago

South


"The number of times I've written polite messages that were interesting and gotten a reply 1.

The number of times I have written a message of cocktails bullshit and innuendos and gotten a reply - well more than one.

To be honest most women on here reply to questions and never ask questions back. It's hard to always be the one asking questions and trying to be interesting when the other side can't hold a conversation.

Just my two cents"

Agree with most of this. One tries to write a sensible, non-txt speak, opening message and often never receives a reply. A simple and polite 'no thanks' would be fully acceptable if that's the case.

Also, I agree, it does get tiring asking all the questions and certainly gives a feeling that the other party is either inundated (which can happen, I believe), lazy or just plain disinterested. It would be nice to know which.

Just my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to chat, have been known to talk legs off tables. Sometimes I get crackin chats on here and that's a good omen.

If you can't get even a basic conversation flowing on here, hiw will it go in person? Though If you recieve one liners in return, no matter what you say, it can be hard to generate conversation

I totally agree with you here. I get so many messages and reply to most unless they are the usual 'wanna fuck' ones which I ignore. I get very few where it is possible to generate a good conversation and if that doesn't happen neither will a meet. :- "

Shocking to think I was right, you hear about it in newspapers but never think it'll happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'd agree, I put in the effort to chat and show that I'm just not on here to go "Oi fancy a rattle" but you either get no response or the respond, I do all the asking and get short replies and then radio silence...

Then there's the if you don't have a verified meet then they aren't interested... kind of hard to get a meet verified if you won't talk to us.... so far my best chance of getting a verified meet is turning gay and meeting a fella... but that aint happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My pet hate lately is when messages are addressed only to me (female). I am one half of a couple and would appreciate if that were recognised.

I don't mind when it's a follow up conversation that I was having. I'm talking more out of the blue messages that make no reference to mr Mcjoy at all.

Miss Mcjoy

Some Guys are only interested in the female half of the cpl and think ur only in here caus mr cant preform or keep u happy. Thats what weve discovered anyway .

Mr crazy

Ah well, some people obviously have no idea what it means to be in a committed loving relationship and can't understand why basically ignoring Mr is the very last thing to do if the intention is to get into my pants!!

Like yourselves we are a package deal

Miss Mcjoy "

Lol...thats why i always say its Mr P that needs to be impressed!!

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By *ar madMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I agreed with everything you wrote. There is some weird guys on this site. But alot of the girls on this site, don't make the effort when it comes to conversation on this site. Are the girls a bit spoiled for choice on this site compared to the guys!?

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"Yeah I'd agree, I put in the effort to chat and show that I'm just not on here to go "Oi fancy a rattle" but you either get no response or the respond, I do all the asking and get short replies and then radio silence...

Then there's the if you don't have a verified meet then they aren't interested... kind of hard to get a meet verified if you won't talk to us.... so far my best chance of getting a verified meet is turning gay and meeting a fella... but that aint happening."

keep coming in the forums. .. Most of the time wasters don't seem to bother. People will get a feel For you and you are more likely to get a genuine meet tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I'd agree, I put in the effort to chat and show that I'm just not on here to go "Oi fancy a rattle" but you either get no response or the respond, I do all the asking and get short replies and then radio silence...

Then there's the if you don't have a verified meet then they aren't interested... kind of hard to get a meet verified if you won't talk to us.... so far my best chance of getting a verified meet is turning gay and meeting a fella... but that aint happening.

keep coming in the forums. .. Most of the time wasters don't seem to bother. People will get a feel For you and you are more likely to get a genuine meet tbh. "

This is true.

I'm finding chatting In here more fun. And people seem chilled if you are too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get them messages all the time ...

Do you want to drive to waterford and let your wife sit on my face ??? .. Oh god yes fuck where did I leave the car keys can't wait to get on the road ffs"

Lol lol lol lol,love it

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