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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know there's alot of timewasters and pichunters here i feel these damage the reputations of genuine single guys. Verifications only go so far. So i was thinking if women commented the names if genuine guys here. Maybe those guys might have a better chance of starting a conversation. Just an idea and maybe for selfish gains

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ehh, but you dont even have a veri after 4 months??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ehh exactly. Iv had one meet from here and asked too be verified she didn't but how can i pester if she doesn't want too. And iv photo verification apart from that there's sweet fuck all else i can do. If you pm me ill give you her name and she might verify me to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why wouldn't she verify you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are meet and greets. There is the chatroom. Many options. Digging a bit of a hole for yerself methinks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't know i asked twice and she didn't verify me. I don't see how im digging a hole in chat and cam room no women or cpls chat to you unless your on cam or well verified. IM discreet through work i cant go camming dame way i dint have a face pic on public view. I cannot see how im digging a hole. As for meet and greets iv asked twice but been too late as single guy wuota filled up. I was only speaking to an organiser yesterday. And why would i bother putting a thread up if i was a timewaster i genuinly want to get properly verified even through coffee meets or domething

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is not true. We will chat to you in chatroom if you are genuine and not an arsehole of the 'anyone for skype?' persuasion. Just be patient, its a community, not a race to get a ride. See it as such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not genuine, I'm a total fake!!...

Oops, I shouldn't be posting here so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ehh, but you dont even have a veri after 4 months??"

Me too, but iv nothing to prove to anyone.

Verifications don't really mean much to be fair.

"Tom" could verify "Jane" but Jane could still be a total melt.

A reasonable ability to judge character and common sence go along way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously though, how many times does this keep coming up?

Just be patient, be yourself and be respectful.

Others will see this and then give you an opportunity.

Whining just drives people away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ehh, but you dont even have a veri after 4 months??

Me too, but iv nothing to prove to anyone.

Verifications don't really mean much to be fair.

"Tom" could verify "Jane" but Jane could still be a total melt.

A reasonable ability to judge character and common sence go along way.

"

Yes I have both thank you.

But on an anonymous internet platform such as this there is not much to base first impressions on other than verifications. Other than the sky remote pics I mean

And actually I have contacted guys because of veris they have received from other community members I hold in high regard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though, how many times does this keep coming up?

Just be patient, be yourself and be respectful.

Others will see this and then give you an opportunity.

Whining just drives people away "

This!!

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By *ceryMan
over a year ago

Malahide & Waterford

I don't have too many verifications but wow have I just back from a fantastic meet.

Verifications can help but are not always a means to an end. Communication and patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ehh, but you dont even have a veri after 4 months??

Me too, but iv nothing to prove to anyone.

Verifications don't really mean much to be fair.

"Tom" could verify "Jane" but Jane could still be a total melt.

A reasonable ability to judge character and common sence go along way.

Yes I have both thank you.

But on an anonymous internet platform such as this there is not much to base first impressions on other than verifications. Other than the sky remote pics I mean

And actually I have contacted guys because of veris they have received from other community members I hold in high regard.

"

You can always read a man by looking at his sky remote or bottle pics.

And I hear you!

What I meant was there's an awful lot of verifications which have no substance.

I thinks it's different for both sexes.

I see women writing "nice guy, trustworthy etc"

I see most guys writing "can suck all day, she's a great ride"

Women tend to actually verify people who are decent, men are reviewing the antics that (allegedly) occurred.

I can tell after a few message exchanges if someone is for real or is here to just live a fake life.

And if someone doesn't want to chat with me for instance, because of lack of veris, I couldn't care less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though, how many times does this keep coming up?

Just be patient, be yourself and be respectful.

Others will see this and then give you an opportunity.

Whining just drives people away "

Wise words

Respect on this site is a myth, no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn it!!....

I've only got this Mini Sky remote!!

Where can I get a normal one?

Maybe a HD remote!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though, how many times does this keep coming up?

Just be patient, be yourself and be respectful.

Others will see this and then give you an opportunity.

Whining just drives people away

Wise words

Respect on this site is a myth, no?"

Respect is there, but in order to get respect it must be earned.

But yes, it does go both ways...

It's also a better man that can simply walk away from someone who gives none.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though, how many times does this keep coming up?

Just be patient, be yourself and be respectful.

Others will see this and then give you an opportunity.

Whining just drives people away

Wise words

Respect on this site is a myth, no?

Respect is there, but in order to get respect it must be earned.

But yes, it does go both ways...

It's also a better man that can simply walk away from someone who gives none.

"

Are you some kind of Sensei?

I will learn from this master

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By *rish boy 69Man
over a year ago

Southside

It is hard for guys, I had to meet a tv for coffee just for a verification because no one would talk to me without one! But just say hello and don't be pushy! The amount of girls have told me the story's about assholes you can't blame them for not trusting every man! Try the web chat rooms anyone can't verify that your who you say you are if your nice about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though, how many times does this keep coming up?

Just be patient, be yourself and be respectful.

Others will see this and then give you an opportunity.

Whining just drives people away

Wise words

Respect on this site is a myth, no?

Respect is there, but in order to get respect it must be earned.

But yes, it does go both ways...

It's also a better man that can simply walk away from someone who gives none.

Are you some kind of Sensei?

I will learn from this master "

PMSL!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know there's alot of timewasters and pichunters here i feel these damage the reputations of genuine single guys. Verifications only go so far. So i was thinking if women commented the names if genuine guys here. Maybe those guys might have a better chance of starting a conversation. Just an idea and maybe for selfish gains"

There's also the slight issue if you were to start naming people here you could face a ban as its against forum rules to name people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some of us out here who will meet unverified people for coffee, people seem to forget that they had to start somewhere. To me verifications mean nothing they just mean you turned up, you could be the best actor with one person and a psycho to another. The nice person will verify you but it is unlikely the other will. Just be yourself and eventually it will all happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some of us out here who will meet unverified people for coffee, people seem to forget that they had to start somewhere. To me verifications mean nothing they just mean you turned up, you could be the best actor with one person and a psycho to another. The nice person will verify you but it is unlikely the other will. Just be yourself and eventually it will all happen"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuine males know they are genuine and don't need there name on a thread like this! I have messages people who have verified people to see if they are actually genuine!

But people with multiple Veris from the one person throw me off! I was browsing a profile and a guy had 8 Veris, 5 from one woman??

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

a truely genuine guy doesnt need a veri to prove he is normal he joins in with the community goes to meet and greets joins in debates and discussions on the threads and joins in in the chat room. I have and will talk to anyone in the chat room. u must remember we all started with no verifications but u really have to put the effort into chatting with ppl and not just expecting a quick ride and the most important thing u cant do is started a thread moaning and whinging about being a decent guy and not getting meets as the ladies on here dont do ssympathy rides and nobody finds whinging attractive either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Genuine males know they are genuine and don't need there name on a thread like this! I have messages people who have verified people to see if they are actually genuine!

But people with multiple Veris from the one person throw me off! I was browsing a profile and a guy had 8 Veris, 5 from one woman?? "

Yeah don't really understand the verifying every time you meet someone it's not like a diary of what and who you've done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to be verified but u don't have to show ur verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know there's alot of timewasters and pichunters here i feel these damage the reputations of genuine single guys. Verifications only go so far. So i was thinking if women commented the names if genuine guys here. Maybe those guys might have a better chance of starting a conversation. Just an idea and maybe for selfish gains"

In all honestly, your 1 public pic is just of your cock....its been said a million times already, women just dont go for it when thats all they can see. Id start with improving that if i were you.

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By *ungdublinguyMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

The chat room is a great way to get to know people, not everyone will be your cup of tea so use the block button and patience is the key on here, if your genuine and not looking to stick your cock in anything that offers you won't mind that and I've verified women on here in non crass ways, your writing about a lady not a hooker keep it respectful always.

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"I know there's alot of timewasters and pichunters here i feel these damage the reputations of genuine single guys. Verifications only go so far. So i was thinking if women commented the names if genuine guys here. Maybe those guys might have a better chance of starting a conversation. Just an idea and maybe for selfish gains

In all honestly, your 1 public pic is just of your cock....its been said a million times already, women just dont go for it when thats all they can see. Id start with improving that if i were you."

Women love cock pics. You need at least 50 from all angles though

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By *ardtofindMan
over a year ago

galway

You shouldn't have to ask for a verification. Did you verify her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took the time to mail him with some advice and he didnt even have the courtesy to say thanks.

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By *ardtofindMan
over a year ago

galway


"I took the time to mail him with some advice and he didnt even have the courtesy to say thanks.

THERE YOU GO.......A little bit of respect goes a long way

"

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