FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Ireland

not showing to a meet

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is with this thing of people not showing or cancelling. From what I read in the forum, it is a common thing and people get stood up a lot.

Is this really your experience?

Who does that more, lads, girls, couples? What ages usually? With good reasons?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes people don't show for loads of reasons. Reasons could be real life getting in the way, they Could have changed their mind or even just to nervous and some you don't know as they have just gone silent before the meet. I don't think you could say which group do it more as it depends on who you are looking to meet.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Obviously genuine no shows as real life can take over!!!! But the goldfish dying really is a lame excuse. Some people love the chase but can't go through with the meet. Could be nerves or just plain game playing,that I find just childish. Especially if someone has to travel or arrange hotel. What kick they get out of someone hanging around I will never understand

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go by the Forums as it can be moan central here sometimes. There are lots of people having a huge amount of fun that never use the forums. So take what you read with a pinch of salt.

As for no shows, it does happen sadly. The only thing I can say is IF it were to happen to you don't dwell on it and move on.

Onwards and upwards as I always say

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't go by the Forums as it can be moan central here sometimes. There are lots of people having a huge amount of fun that never use the forums. So take what you read with a pinch of salt.

As for no shows, it does happen sadly. The only thing I can say is IF it were to happen to you don't dwell on it and move on.

Onwards and upwards as I always say "

Are you suggesting everything you read on the interweb might not be true?? Blasphemy!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you suggesting everything you read on the interweb might not be true?? Blasphemy!!

"

Are you mad? Sure everyone knows it's gospel

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has someone used the dying fish as an excuse, or anything as silly? lol

It did not happen to me yet and I hope it will not... But is some not nice lady or a couple does that to me, I will move on to another adventure very quickly.

I am just thinking that if lads do that to the nice people from fab than it sucks and makes the genuine ones living a harder life here. I guess that is why the verifications are so important.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has someone used the dying fish as an excuse, or anything as silly? lol

It did not happen to me yet and I hope it will not... But is some not nice lady or a couple does that to me, I will move on to another adventure very quickly.

I am just thinking that if lads do that to the nice people from fab than it sucks and makes the genuine ones living a harder life here. I guess that is why the verifications are so important. "

People with verifications can be the worst offenders

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't go by the Forums as it can be moan central here sometimes. There are lots of people having a huge amount of fun that never use the forums. So take what you read with a pinch of salt.

As for no shows, it does happen sadly. The only thing I can say is IF it were to happen to you don't dwell on it and move on.

Onwards and upwards as I always say "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

occupational hazard on here for many people me thinks

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you suggesting everything you read on the interweb might not be true?? Blasphemy!!

Are you mad? Sure everyone knows it's gospel

"

Ah that would an ecumenical matter now my child

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top