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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We would love to be playing more and living life to the max enjoying all things swing the smell taste & feel of all those Fab bodies out there.

But sadly we cant have as much fun as we would like BECAUSE we have kids and find it very hard to get sitters.

So i guess my question is are their many swingers in the same boat as ourselfs missing out on all the fun??? And if so should we get together and start a sitter service lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup deffo on the same boat as u though they aint our kids seemly when some thing is good on w have too babysit as her mum is a nurse and she works crazy hours which leaves u to babysit every second weekend or more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yup deffo on the same boat as u though they aint our kids seemly when some thing is good on w have too babysit as her mum is a nurse and she works crazy hours which leaves u to babysit every second weekend or more "

Thats even worse id go spare if i had to mind other ppl kids aswell ffs. I dont want to be hitting 60 before i can get some fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a great babysitter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup deffo on the same boat as u though they aint our kids seemly when some thing is good on w have too babysit as her mum is a nurse and she works crazy hours which leaves u to babysit every second weekend or more

Thats even worse id go spare if i had to mind other ppl kids aswell ffs. I dont want to be hitting 60 before i can get some fun lol"
i know its a bugger but its always when partys are on last time we got too a party was feb this year thats a long time for a swinger lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We were at a m&g lastweek and just about got a sitter for it (thank god) but always the same story as urselfs either lots off ppl wanting to meet and just cant get a sitter to get away or you get a sitter and no body is free to meet. Lifes just so unfair some times

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a great babysitter "

Whats ur going rate? & remember i need money for hotels cause swinging anit cheep lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would love to be playing more and living life to the max enjoying all things swing the smell taste & feel of all those Fab bodies out there.

But sadly we cant have as much fun as we would like BECAUSE we have kids and find it very hard to get sitters.

So i guess my question is are their many swingers in the same boat as ourselfs missing out on all the fun??? And if so should we get together and start a sitter service lol"

Were the same but do try and get one or two nights a month its hard work...but i do the whole booohooo me to my mum lol.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a great babysitter

Whats ur going rate? & remember i need money for hotels cause swinging anit cheep lol"

If your going all night... I'm gonna say 40

Once there's wifi and the kids ain't bold!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a great babysitter

Whats ur going rate? & remember i need money for hotels cause swinging anit cheep lol

If your going all night... I'm gonna say 40

Once there's wifi and the kids ain't bold!"

Oh no we are fucked so and not in a good way our internet is shite and our kids should be put in a padded sell lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a great babysitter

Whats ur going rate? & remember i need money for hotels cause swinging anit cheep lol

If your going all night... I'm gonna say 40

Once there's wifi and the kids ain't bold!

Oh no we are fucked so and not in a good way our internet is shite and our kids should be put in a padded sell lol"

Ah I doubt there that bad!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We would love to be playing more and living life to the max enjoying all things swing the smell taste & feel of all those Fab bodies out there.

But sadly we cant have as much fun as we would like BECAUSE we have kids and find it very hard to get sitters.

So i guess my question is are their many swingers in the same boat as ourselfs missing out on all the fun??? And if so should we get together and start a sitter service lol

Were the same but do try and get one or two nights a month its hard work...but i do the whole booohooo me to my mum lol......... "

At least you have family that are willing to help out with sitting ours dont wana know ffs

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By *eedycplCouple
over a year ago

belfast

Yep we r in the same boat lol ur idea sounds just the ticket we need lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im lucky that have great babysitters but meeting is still hard with not overusing them as with work and other personal stuff it can be difficult to work around

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

We are lucky as my family will babbysit when i ask them but we dont ask them too often nowadays as they seem to ask a bit too many question on where we are going even thou we dont really drink and when we tell them we are going to a party or meeting friends , the questions start , a few months ago my sis asked if we were swingers as we were always going out over nite and going to parties all over ireland we denied of course so since then we hsve calmed down on going out

mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would love to be playing more and living life to the max enjoying all things swing the smell taste & feel of all those Fab bodies out there.

But sadly we cant have as much fun as we would like BECAUSE we have kids and find it very hard to get sitters.

So i guess my question is are their many swingers in the same boat as ourselfs missing out on all the fun??? And if so should we get together and start a sitter service lol

Were the same but do try and get one or two nights a month its hard work...but i do the whole booohooo me to my mum lol.........

At least you have family that are willing to help out with sitting ours dont wana know ffs "

Awww right....yes we are lucky....think its good if you can find someone trust worthy who is willing to help out...thats been the hardest thing we have found in swinging is that things have to be planned...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hardest part for us is that plans & kids dont go well together (sob) we are starting to think we started swinging either to late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most couples that I have been in touch with have same problem. Fixing a sitter ain't easy or requires much planning.

Such a pity, as there are so many nice people that could enjoy some more fun more regularly, however the real life takes priority.

I support the notion that people should start swinging earlier, so they could enjoy much of the lifestyle before having kids and being responsible and stuff.

Happy I started when I am single, when i have more flexibility and less commitments related to the real life...

Hope that you guys will find more opportunities to be naughty and realise all the dirty fantasies you still pursue to fulfil.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah same situation here! So it's awful if somebody cancels on us last minute cuz meets take a lot of organising when you have kids.we used to swing before we had kids much easier back then! But we appreciate our free nights so much more now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah same situation here! So it's awful if somebody cancels on us last minute cuz meets take a lot of organising when you have kids.we used to swing before we had kids much easier back then! But we appreciate our free nights so much more now! "

So far I am meeting only couples and I cannot imagine I would stood them up in the last minute. It takes a lot of good effort to arrange a meeting with usually busy people, so if I did that once, the word would have gotten out and I would have been expelled from here...

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