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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been chatting to a guy since before my holiday. We agreed to meet when I got home. So we settled on tomorrow. Said he'd book the hotel.

I have a feeling he is gonna cancel but I'm going to play along for my own amusement

He doesn't use the forums so don't need to worry about him seeing this post.

Any bets he'll back out?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He would be stupid if he did

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha just a vibe I'm getting! I'm pretty good at that

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By *lutaxiMan
over a year ago

Dundalk

Very stupid if he did, though not a lot here surprises me now

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

No he wont i have faith in my fellow man but just in case here's my no 087.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What signals is he given you to tink this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Putting off booking hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol good a reason as any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cj...always a life saver

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

That wouldn't bother me i usually only book a few hrs ahead when i am pretty sure the meet is going ahead. Now if he had stopped chatting or started taking a long time to answer msgs then i would be thinking dodge

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was always gonna be a bit dubious as he's not verified.

Although I was arranging to meet a verified guy and just as we were arranging a date etc he went offline for three weeks

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Cj...always a life saver "

awe Annie u know me to well always willing to please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was always gonna be a bit dubious as he's not verified.

Although I was arranging to meet a verified guy and just as we were arranging a date etc he went offline for three weeks "

Not verified ????? O lord chancy is it not don't ever be stuck in Galway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope he doesn't cause im sure it'll be his loss. Name and shame him if he does lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been chatting to a guy since before my holiday. We agreed to meet when I got home. So we settled on tomorrow. Said he'd book the hotel.

I have a feeling he is gonna cancel but I'm going to play along for my own amusement

He doesn't use the forums so don't need to worry about him seeing this post.

Any bets he'll back out?!"

Okay...so its 1/2on he backs out...2/1 Amber backs out....10/1 the hotel is fully booked out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been chatting to a guy since before my holiday. We agreed to meet when I got home. So we settled on tomorrow. Said he'd book the hotel.

I have a feeling he is gonna cancel but I'm going to play along for my own amusement

He doesn't use the forums so don't need to worry about him seeing this post.

Any bets he'll back out?!

Okay...so its 1/2on he backs out...2/1 Amber backs out....10/1 the hotel is fully booked out. "

Can I have €5 on him backing out !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been chatting to a guy since before my holiday. We agreed to meet when I got home. So we settled on tomorrow. Said he'd book the hotel.

I have a feeling he is gonna cancel but I'm going to play along for my own amusement

He doesn't use the forums so don't need to worry about him seeing this post.

Any bets he'll back out?!"

no im not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Step right up and place your bets....Evens- Amber gets a better offer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hed be doing good if he did back out "

What do you mean by that??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been chatting to a guy since before my holiday. We agreed to meet when I got home. So we settled on tomorrow. Said he'd book the hotel.

I have a feeling he is gonna cancel but I'm going to play along for my own amusement

He doesn't use the forums so don't need to worry about him seeing this post.

Any bets he'll back out?!

Okay...so its 1/2on he backs out...2/1 Amber backs out....10/1 the hotel is fully booked out. "

I'll bet a tenner he backs out

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Monitoring with interest....

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By *ublindjMan
over a year ago

Kildare

Well if he is gonna back out lets just hope he does it early and you can arrange something else, loads of takers in here waiting for the call up from the subs bench ??

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Well if he is gonna back out lets just hope he does it early and you can arrange something else, loads of takers in here waiting for the call up from the subs bench ?? "

Long eyebrows there dude! What's your secret?

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By *ublindjMan
over a year ago

Kildare


"Well if he is gonna back out lets just hope he does it early and you can arrange something else, loads of takers in here waiting for the call up from the subs bench ??

Long eyebrows there dude! What's your secret? "

eh if i told you then it wouldn't be a secret now would it??

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By *upoftea2Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"I've been chatting to a guy since before my holiday. We agreed to meet when I got home. So we settled on tomorrow. Said he'd book the hotel.

I have a feeling he is gonna cancel but I'm going to play along for my own amusement

He doesn't use the forums so don't need to worry about him seeing this post.

Any bets he'll back out?!"

Ah, I'm in not in Galway until next week!

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Well if he is gonna back out lets just hope he does it early and you can arrange something else, loads of takers in here waiting for the call up from the subs bench ??

Long eyebrows there dude! What's your secret?

eh if i told you then it wouldn't be a secret now would it?? "

Fiesty! Love it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you do kinda know when someone is going to back out , and then when it happens

you will end up the completely heartless b...h for not believing him

or even better your the time waster

But i do hope this is not the case for you and you have a wonderful night

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"He would be stupid if he did "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you do kinda know when someone is going to back out , and then when it happens

you will end up the completely heartless b...h for not believing him

or even better your the time waster

But i do hope this is not the case for you and you have a wonderful night "

Thank you sweetness nice to see friendly, cheerful people on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been chatting to a guy since before my holiday. We agreed to meet when I got home. So we settled on tomorrow. Said he'd book the hotel.

I have a feeling he is gonna cancel but I'm going to play along for my own amusement

He doesn't use the forums so don't need to worry about him seeing this post.

Any bets he'll back out?!"

Why he should do that ? That would make no sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be shy....Place your bets....Hurry, these odds can't last forever..

1/2 on- He backs out

Evens- Amber gets a better offer

2/1- Amber backs out (no reason)

10/1- Hotel is fully booked out

15/1- His car breaks down

25/1- He sends a substitute

26/1- Amber sends a substitute

33/1- Amber decides to wash her hair instead

50/1- Amber calls me instead

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By *unkeyMan
over a year ago

Clare

it always bothers me how men back outta meets i tink the ones who do usally attached and play as far as it can go b4 slinking offwhy bother bein on here then.hope it works out for u

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By *he VansCouple
over a year ago

mullingar

Ffs tawt ye were in about G.Brooks !!! Sorrreeee lol !

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Ffs tawt ye were in about G.Brooks !!! Sorrreeee lol !"

that's a dead cert hes definitely not showing up

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By *haggy13Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere nice :-)

His loss xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amber when do we collect our winnings !!!!!...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amber dont worry about that shite sure plenty more guys would be lucky to meet u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whats the latest lol did he back out

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Reading the op says the meet is tomorrow and when he shows it will depend on how good he is it could be the week end before amber is able to deliver the result or it could be an hr after the arranged time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading the op says the meet is tomorrow and when he shows it will depend on how good he is it could be the week end before amber is able to deliver the result or it could be an hr after the arranged time "
shitye another 24 hrs to wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if he dont show he d want his nuts fooking chopped off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he just doesnt want to do the hotel thing? I know its not my preference...with a hotel meet, you're pretty much committed to spending the night with the person, sounds good in theory but both parties may not want that. Why not suggest one of you accommodates instead? Could be a brief meet then if required. Thats always my preference for a first meet

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Jayus no u don't have to spend the night in the hotel. Certainly would not recommend accommodating on a first meet especially with a non verified person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe he just doesnt want to do the hotel thing? I know its not my preference...with a hotel meet, you're pretty much committed to spending the night with the person, sounds good in theory but both parties may not want that. Why not suggest one of you accommodates instead? Could be a brief meet then if required. Thats always my preference for a first meet"

I'm open to social meets too but this is the option we decided on. I never accommodate and would never meet a man in his house. So hotels are what I do. No complaints so far

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"His loss xx "

Awh thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And the results are in!!!

He cancelled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ahhh the dirty shite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And the results are in!!!

He cancelled "

what a donkeyyyyyyy fs his loss well im free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on the upside least ya didnt have to wait till tomorrow to find out!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And the results are in!!!

He cancelled "

So had ye made it clear in advance whether it was only going to be a short meet or a stay-overnight meet? Im willing to bet that if it was the latter, thats why he cancelled.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And the results are in!!!

He cancelled

So had ye made it clear in advance whether it was only going to be a short meet or a stay-overnight meet? Im willing to bet that if it was the latter, thats why he cancelled."

A few hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And the results are in!!!

He cancelled

So had ye made it clear in advance whether it was only going to be a short meet or a stay-overnight meet? Im willing to bet that if it was the latter, thats why he cancelled."

I'm willing to bet it had nothing to do with hotel meet and more to do with being a arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And the results are in!!!

He cancelled

So had ye made it clear in advance whether it was only going to be a short meet or a stay-overnight meet? Im willing to bet that if it was the latter, thats why he cancelled.

A few hours "

Well in that case im stumped haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ahhh the dirty shite "

Ah well I have study to do anyway

Meeting my fb next week so no harm

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By *aster of SeductionMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Are you ever in Dublin x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And the results are in!!!

He cancelled

So had ye made it clear in advance whether it was only going to be a short meet or a stay-overnight meet? Im willing to bet that if it was the latter, thats why he cancelled.

I'm willing to bet it had nothing to do with hotel meet and more to do with being a arse "

Hahahaha That's what I'm thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And wots d bet he be onto u tmw to make arrangments for another meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ahhh the dirty shite

Ah well I have study to do anyway

Meeting my fb next week so no harm "

My advice still applies though...do your best to accommodate. If its a security thing youre worried about, fair enough i can understand that, but prepare for the odd cancellation then! On the other hand, no guy will back out of calling over to your place for a bit of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure your fb will reap the rewards the guy was a fool to stand you up . His loss big time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ahhh the dirty shite

Ah well I have study to do anyway

Meeting my fb next week so no harm

My advice still applies though...do your best to accommodate. If its a security thing youre worried about, fair enough i can understand that, but prepare for the odd cancellation then! On the other hand, no guy will back out of calling over to your place for a bit of fun "

that has got to be the worst advise I have ever heard !

Bring strangers to your home it's much better .... For him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ahhh the dirty shite

Ah well I have study to do anyway

Meeting my fb next week so no harm

My advice still applies though...do your best to accommodate. If its a security thing youre worried about, fair enough i can understand that, but prepare for the odd cancellation then! On the other hand, no guy will back out of calling over to your place for a bit of fun

that has got to be the worst advise I have ever heard !

Bring strangers to your home it's much better .... For him "

Im not denying that...im just saying that the best way to ensure you dont get cancellations. Ive already acknowledged the security fears she may have, but just calling a spade a spade

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ahhh the dirty shite

Ah well I have study to do anyway

Meeting my fb next week so no harm

My advice still applies though...do your best to accommodate. If its a security thing youre worried about, fair enough i can understand that, but prepare for the odd cancellation then! On the other hand, no guy will back out of calling over to your place for a bit of fun

that has got to be the worst advise I have ever heard !

Bring strangers to your home it's much better .... For him "

You saved me writing I agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sure your fb will reap the rewards the guy was a fool to stand you up . His loss big time "

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amber if we pool our winnings we should have a few bob towards a room !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i opened this and thought it was a Gareth Brooks thread!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And the results are in!!!

He cancelled "

Just like Ticketmaster, I'm not paying out for a few days...Just in case its back on....or he does half a date now and the other half in October....or he might just do a matinee date...So when he has confirmed to me that he is "crushed" for having to cancel his date with Amber...then I'll pay out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And the results are in!!!

He cancelled

Just like Ticketmaster, I'm not paying out for a few days...Just in case its back on....or he does half a date now and the other half in October....or he might just do a matinee date...So when he has confirmed to me that he is "crushed" for having to cancel his date with Amber...then I'll pay out "

Some of these post are too funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And the results are in!!!

He cancelled

Just like Ticketmaster, I'm not paying out for a few days...Just in case its back on....or he does half a date now and the other half in October....or he might just do a matinee date...So when he has confirmed to me that he is "crushed" for having to cancel his date with Amber...then I'll pay out "

I read the small print on the back and it didn't say any of this !!!!

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim

Our last planned meet was also a no show on 18th May. Circumstances haven't allowed us to meet anyone since.

Doesn't matter how you play things some profiles in here are all talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And the results are in!!!

He cancelled

Just like Ticketmaster, I'm not paying out for a few days...Just in case its back on....or he does half a date now and the other half in October....or he might just do a matinee date...So when he has confirmed to me that he is "crushed" for having to cancel his date with Amber...then I'll pay out

I read the small print on the back and it didn't say any of this !!!! "

Well you should have....cause it said-"Ambers date is subject to license"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And the results are in!!!

He cancelled

Just like Ticketmaster, I'm not paying out for a few days...Just in case its back on....or he does half a date now and the other half in October....or he might just do a matinee date...So when he has confirmed to me that he is "crushed" for having to cancel his date with Amber...then I'll pay out

I read the small print on the back and it didn't say any of this !!!!

Well you should have....cause it said-"Ambers date is subject to license" "

Brooks has a lot to answer for !!!!...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a body like dat he'd be a fool

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Our last planned meet was also a no show on 18th May. Circumstances haven't allowed us to meet anyone since.

Doesn't matter how you play things some profiles in here are all talk "

sad but true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could I have a flutter each way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"With a body like dat he'd be a fool "

flattered

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By *plitupcplCouple
over a year ago

Fethard

If he backs out....he must be off his trolley.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If he backs out....he must be off his trolley. "

There was an update earlier. He cancelled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg

He should be just ashamed the fool lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bonkers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol yeah a bit of a fool to cancel but is it the case that guys cancelling are fools women cancelling are just selective. I know it's off topic as such but if a woman cancels because something came up and turns out that something was another meet would it be acceptable

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I am gutted i placed my faith in an unverified newbie i thought there was a man behind the profile awe well onwards and upwards

amber don't forget there plenty good reliable guys here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And the results are in!!!

He cancelled "

& if he asks to reschedule?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With a body like dat he'd be a fool

flattered "

Now amber don't get carried away !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am gutted i placed my faith in an unverified newbie i thought there was a man behind the profile awe well onwards and upwards

amber don't forget there plenty good reliable guys here "

I was giving him the benefit of the doubt as he's not here over a year but it won't put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am gutted i placed my faith in an unverified newbie i thought there was a man behind the profile awe well onwards and upwards

amber don't forget there plenty good reliable guys here

I was giving him the benefit of the doubt as he's not here over a year but it won't put me off "

You mean to say you had doubts shush red will not pay out

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"I am gutted i placed my faith in an unverified newbie i thought there was a man behind the profile awe well onwards and upwards

amber don't forget there plenty good reliable guys here

I was giving him the benefit of the doubt as he's not here over a year but it won't put me off "

hun remember the old saying. .. fool me once shame on you. . Fool me twice. ...

Go with your gut instinct next time. And don't take advice that puts you at risk. .. There are some dangerous people in this world.

And finally the are some great guys on this site,but as they say.. Never take an arsehole with ya. . You'll always find one when you get there! Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am gutted i placed my faith in an unverified newbie i thought there was a man behind the profile awe well onwards and upwards

amber don't forget there plenty good reliable guys here

I was giving him the benefit of the doubt as he's not here over a year but it won't put me off

hun remember the old saying. .. fool me once shame on you. . Fool me twice. ...

Go with your gut instinct next time. And don't take advice that puts you at risk. .. There are some dangerous people in this world.

And finally the are some great guys on this site,but as they say.. Never take an arsehole with ya. . You'll always find one when you get there! Good luck "

love it!! Best advice yet!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am gutted i placed my faith in an unverified newbie i thought there was a man behind the profile awe well onwards and upwards

amber don't forget there plenty good reliable guys here

I was giving him the benefit of the doubt as he's not here over a year but it won't put me off

hun remember the old saying. .. fool me once shame on you. . Fool me twice. ...

Go with your gut instinct next time. And don't take advice that puts you at risk. .. There are some dangerous people in this world.

And finally the are some great guys on this site,but as they say.. Never take an arsehole with ya. . You'll always find one when you get there! Good luck "

Awesome, love it I'd nearly print it and put it on the fridge

Lots of lovely friendly people around tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am gutted i placed my faith in an unverified newbie i thought there was a man behind the profile awe well onwards and upwards

amber don't forget there plenty good reliable guys here

I was giving him the benefit of the doubt as he's not here over a year but it won't put me off

hun remember the old saying. .. fool me once shame on you. . Fool me twice. ...

Go with your gut instinct next time. And don't take advice that puts you at risk. .. There are some dangerous people in this world.

And finally the are some great guys on this site,but as they say.. Never take an arsehole with ya. . You'll always find one when you get there! Good luck "

Just to clarify, in my responses above, i wasnt advising her to do anything...just letting her know that is the way i believe guys prefer to meet and as a result less chance of a cancellation

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"I am gutted i placed my faith in an unverified newbie i thought there was a man behind the profile awe well onwards and upwards

amber don't forget there plenty good reliable guys here

I was giving him the benefit of the doubt as he's not here over a year but it won't put me off

hun remember the old saying. .. fool me once shame on you. . Fool me twice. ...

Go with your gut instinct next time. And don't take advice that puts you at risk. .. There are some dangerous people in this world.

And finally the are some great guys on this site,but as they say.. Never take an arsehole with ya. . You'll always find one when you get there! Good luck

Just to clarify, in my responses above, i wasnt advising her to do anything...just letting her know that is the way i believe guys prefer to meet and as a result less chance of a cancellation"

I wasn't being funny with you or getting a dig in at you .. I can appreciate it's easier and less chance of someone not showing but it's also kinda dangerous on so many levels

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By *urferniMan
over a year ago

Antrim


"I am gutted i placed my faith in an unverified newbie i thought there was a man behind the profile awe well onwards and upwards

amber don't forget there plenty good reliable guys here

I was giving him the benefit of the doubt as he's not here over a year but it won't put me off

hun remember the old saying. .. fool me once shame on you. . Fool me twice. ...

Go with your gut instinct next time. And don't take advice that puts you at risk. .. There are some dangerous people in this world.

And finally the are some great guys on this site,but as they say.. Never take an arsehole with ya. . You'll always find one when you get there! Good luck

Just to clarify, in my responses above, i wasnt advising her to do anything...just letting her know that is the way i believe guys prefer to meet and as a result less chance of a cancellation

I wasn't being funny with you or getting a dig in at you .. I can appreciate it's easier and less chance of someone not showing but it's also kinda dangerous on so many levels "

Very well said. There are some crazy people on here, and for a woman to invite someone from this site into her home before she has had a good chance to get to know them is never, ever a good idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am gutted i placed my faith in an unverified newbie i thought there was a man behind the profile awe well onwards and upwards

amber don't forget there plenty good reliable guys here

I was giving him the benefit of the doubt as he's not here over a year but it won't put me off

hun remember the old saying. .. fool me once shame on you. . Fool me twice. ...

Go with your gut instinct next time. And don't take advice that puts you at risk. .. There are some dangerous people in this world.

And finally the are some great guys on this site,but as they say.. Never take an arsehole with ya. . You'll always find one when you get there! Good luck

Just to clarify, in my responses above, i wasnt advising her to do anything...just letting her know that is the way i believe guys prefer to meet and as a result less chance of a cancellation

I wasn't being funny with you or getting a dig in at you .. I can appreciate it's easier and less chance of someone not showing but it's also kinda dangerous on so many levels "

I for one would never even entertain the idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always go with gut instinct!

I have given the benefit of the doubt as well and they have turned out to be too weird! Trust in your self! His loss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he is out of money

During summer months hotels are overpriced.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Maybe he is out of money

During summer months hotels are overpriced. "

travel lodge has rooms at €49.00

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make ur move cj!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Make ur move cj! "

oooh Jo ill see u there if i can find it again

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"ahhh the dirty shite

Ah well I have study to do anyway

Meeting my fb next week so no harm

My advice still applies though...do your best to accommodate. If its a security thing youre worried about, fair enough i can understand that, but prepare for the odd cancellation then! On the other hand, no guy will back out of calling over to your place for a bit of fun

that has got to be the worst advise I have ever heard !

Bring strangers to your home it's much better .... For him "

Couldn't agree more......

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