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Couples V Singles

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After yet another last minute back out by a couple when a meet was arranged, I'm left wondering what's the point of interacting with couples. In 10 years or so of doing this, I have never been left hanging by a single girl. Yet it has happened maybe 50% of the time dealing with couples, so much so, I no longer contact couples profiles at all and only interact if they initiate, even at that I'm somewhat reticent at this stage.

What's other guys opinion on this, is it just best to let couples play by themselves and stick to singles, or is it just really bad luck/judgement on my part?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well u must have missed us cause we love meeting single guys if they fit our bill which is not really alot so ya cant really brush all couples with the same sweep

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"After yet another last minute back out by a couple when a meet was arranged, I'm left wondering what's the point of interacting with couples. In 10 years or so of doing this, I have never been left hanging by a single girl. Yet it has happened maybe 50% of the time dealing with couples, so much so, I no longer contact couples profiles at all and only interact if they initiate, even at that I'm somewhat reticent at this stage.

What's other guys opinion on this, is it just best to let couples play by themselves and stick to singles, or is it just really bad luck/judgement on my part? "

honey your not meeting the right person. ... Come to mama lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have met and played with some great couples over the years. It's 50/50 though with the genuine ones and the messers, I have yet to be messed around by a single female though. Just seems there are a lot of couples out there, who like the fantasy of swinging but don't do the reality and mess people around in the process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples V Singles

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By *ittsandtatsCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Couples V Singles

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Tag teams??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have met and played with some great couples over the years. It's 50/50 though with the genuine ones and the messers, I have yet to be messed around by a single female though. Just seems there are a lot of couples out there, who like the fantasy of swinging but don't do the reality and mess people around in the process. "

I think this applies to singles as well though! There are just as many fantasists in the singles category who love the idea of swinging/meeting but don't follow through.

I guess the times when plans fall through can be genuine or maybe because in a couple there are two people to please and suit. I have found that for some couples there might be one person more keen to play than the other. This can cause tension in couples and in that case it's not good to continue the meet if all parties are not happy.

I guess you just chalk it up to experience and move on. I honestly believe that it's no reflection on you, more so to do with them and their own issues.

Keep looking, don't give up! It'll be worth it and if you fancy a ffm I'm sure Mrs S and I could be available!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Keep looking, don't give up! It'll be worth it and if you fancy a ffm I'm sure Mrs S and I could be available!! "

And I thought you weren't meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a couple contact me first and we had all planned. Then the day before the meet all they just quit responding. Time wasters apart from the few genuine people on here (you know who ye are)

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


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Keep looking, don't give up! It'll be worth it and if you fancy a ffm I'm sure Mrs S and I could be available!!

And I thought you weren't meeting

"

You can join me and mefor anytime!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's ok, you're not a couple, you'd probably turn up

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"That's ok, you're not a couple, you'd probably turn up "

have never not turned up myself....Why make arrangements and not do it. .. way to rude.. If you don't want to meet someone. . Don't arrange it simple! ! Unless a genuine reason which can happen but in reality you would know if that's the case. That's why it's better to chat for a while and get a feel for someone before meeting. Shame the wasters spoil it for people!

Rant over. ..lol

Ps let you down why ! !... We wouldn't sure we wouldn't mefor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your welcome to join us anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least some people give some sort of lame excuse. I was left standing on the doorstep. Not literally but close enuf

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By *oci1Couple
over a year ago

Trim

Think it's just bad luck on your behalf

We've never had a let down from a couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's ok, you're not a couple, you'd probably turn up

have never not turned up myself....Why make arrangements and not do it. .. way to rude.. If you don't want to meet someone. . Don't arrange it simple! ! Unless a genuine reason which can happen but in reality you would know if that's the case. That's why it's better to chat for a while and get a feel for someone before meeting. Shame the wasters spoil it for people!

Rant over. ..lol

Ps let you down why ! !... We wouldn't sure we wouldn't mefor

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It's not a go at couples, just my experience I have no doubt you play for real and don't mess people around and someday I'm going to test that theory

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"That's ok, you're not a couple, you'd probably turn up

have never not turned up myself....Why make arrangements and not do it. .. way to rude.. If you don't want to meet someone. . Don't arrange it simple! ! Unless a genuine reason which can happen but in reality you would know if that's the case. That's why it's better to chat for a while and get a feel for someone before meeting. Shame the wasters spoil it for people!

Rant over. ..lol

Ps let you down why ! !... We wouldn't sure we wouldn't mefor

It's not a go at couples, just my experience I have no doubt you play for real and don't mess people around and someday I'm going to test that theory "

mmmm I look forward to that! !

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