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By *eedycpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

belfast

Just wondering if most single blokes r on here purely as a fantasy ? We have found most blokes we chat to on here are all talk and text but when it comes to meeting they seem to back out at the last min, we think maybe they like the idea of meeting a cpl but nerves get the better of them lol

Any other cpls find this too ?

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

They probably don't wanna shave off their tight beards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Headers I tell ya, why would anybody pass up a meet with you pair?

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By *eedycpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

belfast

Lol I can shave it for them haha

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"Lol I can shave it for them haha "

You need a steady hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well loads of single men here, but only the big mouth get the chance not the real one who are more into action then talk

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By *ornyandwellhungMan
over a year ago

belfast

Invite me around and see if I'm for real or not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No shortage of single guys looking meets with just fems!! Maybe they don't like the thought of performing in front of another guy (especially straight guys), stage fright maybe? Unless they're hung like a Banaba!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Needs to be the right couple for me and have got to know them a bit socially first also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No shortage of single guys looking meets with just fems!! Maybe they don't like the thought of performing in front of another guy (especially straight guys), stage fright maybe? Unless they're hung like a Banaba! "

Where is that innocent whistling emoticon when you need it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Needs to be the right couple for me and have got to know them a bit socially first also "

+1

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By *eandmrsjones1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Just wondering if most single blokes r on here purely as a fantasy ? We have found most blokes we chat to on here are all talk and text but when it comes to meeting they seem to back out at the last min, we think maybe they like the idea of meeting a cpl but nerves get the better of them lol

Any other cpls find this too ? "

Maybe the wife wouldn't let them out the night you wanted to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flip me there's singles males getting it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Flip me there's singles males getting it again. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Needs to be the right couple for me and have got to know them a bit socially first also

+1"

Same here. Much the same as a woman but even more so with a couple. Have to be relaxed and at ease and find them welcoming. Only ever with one couple and they were not nice to put it mildly. They were all about themselves and quite arrogant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they havent got a few veries from actual meets pass on them harsh on the single guys but times too short so well verified guys only saves the messing about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if they havent got a few veries from actual meets pass on them harsh on the single guys but times too short so well verified guys only saves the messing about"

And bi for you two

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"No shortage of single guys looking meets with just fems!! Maybe they don't like the thought of performing in front of another guy (especially straight guys), stage fright maybe? Unless they're hung like a Banaba!

Where is that innocent whistling emoticon when you need it "

in the garage. . Next to the banabas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no fair op...lots genuine single males, to put in into perspective iv'e had 23 no-shows or cancellations from couples/girls, now that sounds mad but most of em ages ago, i was naive enough to get caught a couple times booking a room only to spend the night alone, now i'm much more cautious and will only meet when i know peeps are genuine, well verified or share the booking process...ie u book ill pay wrks well

but leave the poor single guys alone, ull start another ream of 'poor me threads'....jaysus we've all had enough of them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to know your experience explicit, as this only gonna help me here.

I started recently and got an invite, for which I had to drive a long way. I was tired after work and the drive, but I did show up and had a great deal of fun. Pity the couple was on another site and did not pay for the full subscription, so couldn't verify me. We will see each other again, so great, however helped my noway in getting myself established on the scene as a reliable person.

As funny as it sounds, I also noticed that there are couples that treat men as a cock with attached body and they think that guys should be available 24h and be able to have sex with every single lady that exists. It is an uncomfortable situation, when my profile is very specific about the types of playmates I expressed the desire to play with and I still get approached by couples that do not fit the criteria at all.

We are all here for fun and enjoyment of all involved parties, so let us be respectful to all members of the community.

Stage fright to perform next to another guy, what are we, kids?

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By *eedycpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

belfast


"Needs to be the right couple for me and have got to know them a bit socially first also "
same here we like to chat on here a bit but have even arranged a meet in town for a few drinks but ends up with a no show and a lame excuse lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good to know your experience explicit, as this only gonna help me here.

I started recently and got an invite, for which I had to drive a long way. I was tired after work and the drive, but I did show up and had a great deal of fun. Pity the couple was on another site and did not pay for the full subscription, so couldn't verify me. We will see each other again, so great, however helped my noway in getting myself established on the scene as a reliable person.

As funny as it sounds, I also noticed that there are couples that treat men as a cock with attached body and they think that guys should be available 24h and be able to have sex with every single lady that exists. It is an uncomfortable situation, when my profile is very specific about the types of playmates I expressed the desire to play with and I still get approached by couples that do not fit the criteria at all.

We are all here for fun and enjoyment of all involved parties, so let us be respectful to all members of the community.

Stage fright to perform next to another guy, what are we, kids?

"


"Good to know your experience explicit, as this only gonna help me here.

I started recently and got an invite, for which I had to drive a long way. I was tired after work and the drive, but I did show up and had a great deal of fun. Pity the couple was on another site and did not pay for the full subscription, so couldn't verify me. We will see each other again, so great, however helped my noway in getting myself established on the scene as a reliable person.

As funny as it sounds, I also noticed that there are couples that treat men as a cock with attached body and they think that guys should be available 24h and be able to have sex with every single lady that exists. It is an uncomfortable situation, when my profile is very specific about the types of playmates I expressed the desire to play with and I still get approached by couples that do not fit the criteria at all.

We are all here for fun and enjoyment of all involved parties, so let us be respectful to all members of the community.

Stage fright to perform next to another guy, what are we, kids?

"

It might not be in your case but for many straight guys they feel uncomfortable in the presence of another male. Especially if they think they are not well endowed and that can cause nerves (also known as stage fright). Adults (not just kids) have hang ups, get nerves and have self image issues. You'll find it's just my opinion! Based on my experiences. Not based on anything factual.

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By *eedycpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

belfast


"Just wondering if most single blokes r on here purely as a fantasy ? We have found most blokes we chat to on here are all talk and text but when it comes to meeting they seem to back out at the last min, we think maybe they like the idea of meeting a cpl but nerves get the better of them lol

Any other cpls find this too ?

Maybe the wife wouldn't let them out the night you wanted to meet"

Lol been thinking that too

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Amateurs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It might not be in your case but for many straight guys they feel uncomfortable in the presence of another male. Especially if they think they are not well endowed and that can cause nerves (also known as stage fright). Adults (not just kids) have hang ups, get nerves and have self image issues. You'll find it's just my opinion! Based on my experiences. Not based on anything factual. "

I understand all that (my cock is not the biggest in the village, neither is the smallest, although one nice lady judging by my photo said it is tiny - she is a really classy lady - I kinda wish now she had the chance to feel it, so she could give first hand opinion - lol - rather than just being rude), however one could imagine that since people made a decision to participate in this lifestyle they understand what they have signed up for

Showing up to an appointment is the most decent thing to do in my opinion. The quality of performance is another. I wasn't on my best the first time as I was overwhelmed with the situation and excitement (we had an amazingly erotic scenario for the play), however I was thankfully no way intimidated by the presence of the gentleman, as I knew what I was signing up for

This might not differ much from real life, most men have big mouth and brag about who they are and what they can do, however usually life verifies quickly who was just bragging and who was honest.

I guess it is all about honesty and the ability to communicate well. This environment is highly pressurised for new male members of the community, so maybe you guys are right here that all this could case a big level of stress (I can only accept this to the performance, no show is not an option).

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By *eedycpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

belfast

For all u males who might be embarrassed with ur manhood size rem this, it's not the size that matters it's the hammer that pushes it lmao

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By *ellfastbhoyMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

well if this is the case it's no wonder single males seem to find t difficult to be trusted or taken seriously

I'm only on this a week but I'm starting to realize that I'm gona have to be patient

Ive had a couple of threesomes outside of fab so i don't think i would have a problem meeting couples, but i can certainly understand their aprehension, they just shouldn't organise meets unless they know their def up for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be a social meet first get to know them, some people are just rushy then wen you mention a social they don't want to know, they want it there and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we met a guy a while back he was really nice an chatty and so on he kept saying oh cant wait too meet u both gonna have great fun it then came too meeting him myself was half naked for him when we stripped down after an hour he stripped too his boxers and said shit sorry im not able too this he then got dressed and left an hour or 2 later he deleted his profile and never heard off again lol maybe this wasin for him

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By *ellfastbhoyMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

[Removed by poster at 06/07/14 17:20:55]

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By *ellfastbhoyMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Auk god love him lol you must have been to much for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dunno not sure we neve had issue with any single males before an that happened where we like emm ok then lol

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By *ellfastbhoyMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Id assume it was his first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it was well first time meeting another couple he met a guy and female that was it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have heard alot of people say the same thing that some guy's are all talk...we would have to get to know a few first...and tbh...mr p is the one that would have the final say...as i would be the one to have the most say in choosing a fem....get to know a few first and build up the trust....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have heard alot of people say the same thing that some guy's are all talk...we would have to get to know a few first...and tbh...mr p is the one that would have the final say...as i would be the one to have the most say in choosing a fem....get to know a few first and build up the trust.... "

You mean I need to sweet talk Mr P first yer asking a bit much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have heard alot of people say the same thing that some guy's are all talk...we would have to get to know a few first...and tbh...mr p is the one that would have the final say...as i would be the one to have the most say in choosing a fem....get to know a few first and build up the trust....

You mean I need to sweet talk Mr P first yer asking a bit much "

Haha duffer....your sweet talk in the toilet's was all he needed....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are just assholes that make it difficult for genuine guys like myself to meet other genuine people.

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By *ellfastbhoyMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Well im sure it was his loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have heard alot of people say the same thing that some guy's are all talk...we would have to get to know a few first...and tbh...mr p is the one that would have the final say...as i would be the one to have the most say in choosing a fem....get to know a few first and build up the trust....

You mean I need to sweet talk Mr P first yer asking a bit much

Haha duffer....your sweet talk in the toilet's was all he needed.... "

Yeah but he was so easy, I'd prefer a bit of a challenge lol

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By *ellfastbhoyMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

lol harsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd meet anyone I'd arranged to but I won't shave off my stubble for a meet. You can have me scruffy or not at all cause I look good scruffy. Lol.

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By *ardtofindMan
over a year ago

galway

I'm sorry to hear that you had a bad experience with a single guy.Its important to meet well verified people who won't buckle under the pressure Coffee first and then maybe more Ye should have no problem s ye are a very sexy couple

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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago

Belfast

im with xxp on this! And i can see where mefor is coming from.

Loads of couples have cancelled at short notice on me more so than the single girls at considerable expense and hassle for me. I am wiser and experienced enough to know this is a two way trip. we all need to out the incompatibles and be a little understanding for the nerves.So a social meet is always the best starting position

BTW OP always available for sexy couples from Belfast

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

Ballybunnion


"

It might not be in your case but for many straight guys they feel uncomfortable in the presence of another male. Especially if they think they are not well endowed and that can cause nerves (also known as stage fright). Adults (not just kids) have hang ups, get nerves and have self image issues. You'll find it's just my opinion! Based on my experiences. Not based on anything factual.

I understand all that (my cock is not the biggest in the village, neither is the smallest, although one nice lady judging by my photo said it is tiny - she is a really classy lady - I kinda wish now she had the chance to feel it, so she could give first hand opinion - lol - rather than just being rude), however one could imagine that since people made a decision to participate in this lifestyle they understand what they have signed up for

Showing up to an appointment is the most decent thing to do in my opinion. The quality of performance is another. I wasn't on my best the first time as I was overwhelmed with the situation and excitement (we had an amazingly erotic scenario for the play), however I was thankfully no way intimidated by the presence of the gentleman, as I knew what I was signing up for

This might not differ much from real life, most men have big mouth and brag about who they are and what they can do, however usually life verifies quickly who was just bragging and who was honest.

I guess it is all about honesty and the ability to communicate well. This environment is highly pressurised for new male members of the community, so maybe you guys are right here that all this could case a big level of stress (I can only accept this to the performance, no show is not an option). "

have to agree with the above i remember my first Cpl it was a last min meet, so no time to panic about it when i entered the house he was in jeanss and t shirt she had the sexiest number i had ever seen on. i nervous hell i was shitting but we had a drink and started chatting all the while she had the chat room open on the lappy, shifting on the sofa to give me a better view after a bit she stood up and leant down to me showing some great cleavage as she kissed me that was it nerves gone as i thought. We played and he watched joining in after about half an hr i have to say it wasn't my best performance but it got me over the hurdle of will i could i. Remember u and ur partner have probally years of experience with each other he is stepping in to ur life and afraid to over shoot the mark if u get my drift best to stick with proven guys and introduce new guys probably in a party scenario

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

I'm just too shy lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just too shy lol."

Oh I doubt that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just too shy lol."

+1

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time was daunting, the idea of someone else watching made it feel a little like take your driving test, you're doing everything slowly and cautiously, getting it alright, but you know you'll never drive that way again ever, once you pass this test. Luckily for me, the woman in question was very aware of this and kept me focused on her, I soon enough forgot there was someone else in the room. After that it doesn't bother you anymore. OP maybe just stick with guys verified by other couples for now.

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By *ungdublinguyMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

Never bailed on a meet from here or any other site.

Been stood up by a lady once.

So it's just how the site is some are idiots here to take to piss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made the experience that the couple suddenly only a male part was ... stupid excuses that the female part was probably suddenly indisposed. Not funny as a straight guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are single males on here would gladly meet couples myself being one of them

usually i message them and dont get a reply but never had a couple look for me

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By *escrean100Man
over a year ago

North Co Dublin

I disagree! I hate the constant email tennis, I'd rather meet people in real life, see if there's anything there And take it from there then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In sure that there are messers or lads on for a fantasy but majority, myself included are here for the real deal. Would love to be in a position where I had the option to turn someone down. Its hard enough work arranging a meet without being verified.

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By *ellfastbhoyMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

I'd love the opportunity to prove myself, just putting that out there lol

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