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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So any helpful tips would be appreciated! Not sure it our profile is crap or if Galway is quiet in general

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

block single males

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"block single males "

That's the first thing we did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So any helpful tips would be appreciated! Not sure it our profile is crap or if Galway is quiet in general "

sum cpls dont like to meet fuck buddys,i was on here as a cpl a while bak,me and the guy were just friends with benefits and cos we werent a proper cpl sum cpls had a problem with tht and wudnt meet us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good move..oh wise one...but more seriously, galway seems to b a bit of a hotspot for swingers and your pics are lovely, so if its quiet maybe you just need to do what single males do all the time and get mailing, making the first move sometimes isn't so bad!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"good move..oh wise one...but more seriously, galway seems to b a bit of a hotspot for swingers and your pics are lovely, so if its quiet maybe you just need to do what single males do all the time and get mailing, making the first move sometimes isn't so bad!!!!!"

You'd be surprised! I think it's very quiet! Doesn't seem to be many youngish couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sure you get a free zimmer when u join!!...really think if they changed the free gift it might attract younger ones!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sure you get a free zimmer when u join!!...really think if they changed the free gift it might attract younger ones!!!!"

The what?

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

You should check out Carlow. I hear its a very welcoming place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should check out Carlow. I hear its a very welcoming place! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"good move..oh wise one...but more seriously, galway seems to b a bit of a hotspot for swingers and your pics are lovely, so if its quiet maybe you just need to do what single males do all the time and get mailing, making the first move sometimes isn't so bad!!!!!

You'd be surprised! I think it's very quiet! Doesn't seem to be many youngish couples "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go with the flow..

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"good move..oh wise one...but more seriously, galway seems to b a bit of a hotspot for swingers and your pics are lovely, so if its quiet maybe you just need to do what single males do all the time and get mailing, making the first move sometimes isn't so bad!!!!!

You'd be surprised! I think it's very quiet! Doesn't seem to be many youngish couples "

Now all of this is my opinion, and I'm sure others will disagree with me but having looked at your profile, i'll say this:

I think you're at a right age for this site. the general demographic for swingers in ireland is about late 30's upwards, and as a younger couple it will make you attractive. I dont know how strict you are on the age filtering, but if you're so inclined perhaps say you've got certain age limits, but might be willing to discuss it.

Your admission of being FWB early on is good, if thats not someones thing, they can click away quickly.

you're only into couples, but you've only pictures of ms fungalway....couples will want to see both, esp if another fem is wanting to play with you both.

you cant control the pace of things, even if you're happy with your own pace. you might be ready for an MMFF now, but it mightn't happen for a while. for example, the next known local (to you) m&g is looking ike november. thats a while away. you're gonna have to travel a bit to meet new people, unless yo get meets yourself.

I'll say this to fems, males and couples alike: Patience.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

john...u just gotta change that username...confucius

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"john...u just gotta change that username...confucius "

I'm lucky enough to have seen swinging from both sides of the fence. It's an ongoing process that i'm still learning from, I still make mistakes, and given the chance I apologise for them.

I see no problem with paying what i've learned forward. It's only my opinion though. not fact.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"good move..oh wise one...but more seriously, galway seems to b a bit of a hotspot for swingers and your pics are lovely, so if its quiet maybe you just need to do what single males do all the time and get mailing, making the first move sometimes isn't so bad!!!!!

You'd be surprised! I think it's very quiet! Doesn't seem to be many youngish couples

Now all of this is my opinion, and I'm sure others will disagree with me but having looked at your profile, i'll say this:

I think you're at a right age for this site. the general demographic for swingers in ireland is about late 30's upwards, and as a younger couple it will make you attractive. I dont know how strict you are on the age filtering, but if you're so inclined perhaps say you've got certain age limits, but might be willing to discuss it.

Your admission of being FWB early on is good, if thats not someones thing, they can click away quickly.

you're only into couples, but you've only pictures of ms fungalway....couples will want to see both, esp if another fem is wanting to play with you both.

you cant control the pace of things, even if you're happy with your own pace. you might be ready for an MMFF now, but it mightn't happen for a while. for example, the next known local (to you) m&g is looking ike november. thats a while away. you're gonna have to travel a bit to meet new people, unless yo get meets yourself.

I'll say this to fems, males and couples alike: Patience....."

pretty sound advice !!!

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By *upoftea2Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"john...u just gotta change that username...confucius

I'm lucky enough to have seen swinging from both sides of the fence. It's an ongoing process that i'm still learning from, I still make mistakes, and given the chance I apologise for them.

I see no problem with paying what i've learned forward. It's only my opinion though. not fact."

Pretty sound advice.

Pay forward and patience is a virtue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So any helpful tips would be appreciated! Not sure it our profile is crap or if Galway is quiet in general

sum cpls dont like to meet fuck buddys,i was on here as a cpl a while bak,me and the guy were just friends with benefits and cos we werent a proper cpl sum cpls had a problem with tht and wudnt meet us "

Ya I've heard that before

I'm the female of the OP by the way, couldn't be arsed logging out and logging back in again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Now all of this is my opinion, and I'm sure others will disagree with me but having looked at your profile, i'll say this:

I think you're at a right age for this site. the general demographic for swingers in ireland is about late 30's upwards, and as a younger couple it will make you attractive. I dont know how strict you are on the age filtering, but if you're so inclined perhaps say you've got certain age limits, but might be willing to discuss it.

Your admission of being FWB early on is good, if thats not someones thing, they can click away quickly.

you're only into couples, but you've only pictures of ms fungalway....couples will want to see both, esp if another fem is wanting to play with you both.

you cant control the pace of things, even if you're happy with your own pace. you might be ready for an MMFF now, but it mightn't happen for a while. for example, the next known local (to you) m&g is looking ike november. thats a while away. you're gonna have to travel a bit to meet new people, unless yo get meets yourself.

I'll say this to fems, males and couples alike: Patience....."

Good advice What m&g in November?

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


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Good advice What m&g in November?"

my apologies, It's september.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Good advice What m&g in November?

my apologies, It's september."

Ah I thought there was another one I hadn't heard of

Did you know it was my thread that lead to that m&g being organised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So any helpful tips would be appreciated! Not sure it our profile is crap or if Galway is quiet in general "
i think galway is quite in general! not alot of action going down and ppl not very willing too meet up! maybe thats just me tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So any helpful tips would be appreciated! Not sure it our profile is crap or if Galway is quiet in general "

always,always meet for a coffee/drink first.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"So any helpful tips would be appreciated! Not sure it our profile is crap or if Galway is quiet in general "

Be prepared to travel, put some pics of himself up and remember bi curious people are also happy to play straight.

Mr crazy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So any helpful tips would be appreciated! Not sure it our profile is crap or if Galway is quiet in general

always,always meet for a coffee/drink first."

Thanks, We insist on a social meet first so it's not awkward if there is no attraction

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So any helpful tips would be appreciated! Not sure it our profile is crap or if Galway is quiet in general

Be prepared to travel, put some pics of himself up and remember bi curious people are also happy to play straight.

Mr crazy "

Ya I should mention on our profile that I'm happy to play straight too thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Thanks, We insist on a social meet first so it's not awkward if there is no attraction "

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