FabSwingers.com forum: Friend requests

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are just wondering what are peoples thoughts on friend requests here? We don't tend to accept them unless we either have or plan to meet people. We believe that most requests are to have a perv at your friend pics and we proved this when we have put all our pics to either private or public for 2 months, during that time we never received one random friend request!!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I get random friends requests never even chatted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same, I've very few friends on my list. I get a ton of requests off random people, as you say purely to perve my friend only pics, I just ignore 'them. I'm cautious about who see's my face pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

normally just delete if they arent for us

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I don't delete just leave them cause they b request again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't delete just leave them cause they b request again. "

Ahhh, good idea missus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I leave all the ones I recieve and only accept the ones from people I already knew before or the ones I plan on meeting in the future. Ive enough pics up public that they can look at without needing to be friends just to perv my private ones

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

We only accepct requests from people weve met and do leave the rest there as they cant send another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have lots of friends requests and won't accept them until I'm ready. I have no pics on and just my avatar one for now and when I have some I will keep them on private and one just for friends that I will be wearing a polpneck and wooly hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm the same, I've very few friends on my list. I get a ton of requests off random people, as you say purely to perve my friend only pics, I just ignore 'them. I'm cautious about who see's my face pics

Oh yea Red uv tots hurt my feelings sent one last week lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friend requests from people I've never chatted to are so irritating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno. I get random friends request and I have all my photos set to private and I only share those when a meet us looking likely

I just accept the ones from people I know and wish to keep in touch with

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

when i was on a couples profile one of the things that annoyed me most were requests from people we hadn't chatted. I vowed never to do that when i became a single.

if we're friends here, it means we've chatted for a bit or have met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Won't say we are overwhelmed with requests,but if there ain't a mail to go with it we don't even bother, regardless of who they are,how hot they think they are or how many verifications they got.

After all,we aint on here as stamp colectors, we plan to swing with them. Common courtesy goes along way regardless of what Greek god or goddess DNA blood they may think runs through their vain's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yea Red uv tots hurt my feelings sent one last week lol"

Lol really? I rarely even check them!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yea Red uv tots hurt my feelings sent one last week lol

Lol really? I rarely even check them!!

Accepted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We only accepct requests from people weve met and do leave the rest there as they cant send another "

I didn't know that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few requests too, usually from people who have NEVER chatted, or from people who DON'T meet single guys!

(Why send a request? I'm a single guy!)

If I've chatted and got to know someone, and feel confortable about letting them into my world, then yes, I'll accept a request...

My anonimity and privacy are special to me, and trust plays a huge part in this lifestyle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few requests too, usually from people who have NEVER chatted, or from people who DON'T meet single guys!

(Why send a request? I'm a single guy!)

If I've chatted and got to know someone, and feel confortable about letting them into my world, then yes, I'll accept a request...

My anonimity and privacy are special to me, and trust plays a huge part in this lifestyle!

I used to be friends with u on my last profile n got rejected by u on this one. Clearly being pure is not to your taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few requests too, usually from people who have NEVER chatted, or from people who DON'T meet single guys!

(Why send a request? I'm a single guy!)

If I've chatted and got to know someone, and feel confortable about letting them into my world, then yes, I'll accept a request...

My anonimity and privacy are special to me, and trust plays a huge part in this lifestyle!

I used to be friends with u on my last profile n got rejected by u on this one. Clearly being pure is not to your taste

Who said you were rejected?

I ignore requests until I get to know someone...

I'm also outside your preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few requests too, usually from people who have NEVER chatted, or from people who DON'T meet single guys!

(Why send a request? I'm a single guy!)

If I've chatted and got to know someone, and feel confortable about letting them into my world, then yes, I'll accept a request...

My anonimity and privacy are special to me, and trust plays a huge part in this lifestyle!

I used to be friends with u on my last profile n got rejected by u on this one. Clearly being pure is not to your taste

Who said you were rejected?

I ignore requests until I get to know someone...

I'm also outside your preferences

So u r

Shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few requests too, usually from people who have NEVER chatted, or from people who DON'T meet single guys!

(Why send a request? I'm a single guy!)

If I've chatted and got to know someone, and feel confortable about letting them into my world, then yes, I'll accept a request...

My anonimity and privacy are special to me, and trust plays a huge part in this lifestyle!

I used to be friends with u on my last profile n got rejected by u on this one. Clearly being pure is not to your taste

Who said you were rejected?

I ignore requests until I get to know someone...

I'm also outside your preferences

So u r

Shame "

Ah well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In general I'd say I don't send them out if I've chatted to someone and they want to add me as a friend then fine. I do get some from guys tho who I've never spoken too just ignore them. I'd say mostly your right it's a "I want to see the private pics your hiding".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get all sorts sending me invites without even chatting to me I just delete straight away. If I've been chatting to someone I always ask if it's ok to send a request

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit

"I get all sorts sending me invites without even chatting to me I just delete straight away. If I've been chatting to someone I always ask if it's ok to send a request "

ditto. Always ask first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I accept friend requests from anybody, I'm needy

Ummm...I mean, friends on here are folk I have either met or intend to, trust or chat to on a regular basis. Don't see point of random silent folk being my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I accept friend requests from anybody, I'm needy

Ummm...I mean, friends on here are folk I have either met or intend to, trust or chat to on a regular basis. Don't see point of random silent folk being my friend"

so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a friend invite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a friend invite

Me and you duffer, let's be best friends and take over this place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a friend invite

Me and you duffer, let's be best friends and take over this place."

awe how sweet, a bromance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a friend invite

Me and you duffer, let's be best friends and take over this place.

awe how sweet, a bromance

You're next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a friend invite

Me and you duffer, let's be best friends and take over this place.

awe how sweet, a bromance

And what's going on Tina, are you my neighbour, your always nearest to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a friend invite

Me and you duffer, let's be best friends and take over this place."

Sorry I've already got my partner in crime Ronaldtoe

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

I only hav 15 people on my friend list and I'll only add people who I get on with or think I will or hav met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a friend invite

Me and you duffer, let's be best friends and take over this place.

Sorry I've already got my partner in crime Ronaldtoe

Oh……ok then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a friend invite

Me and you duffer, let's be best friends and take over this place.

awe how sweet, a bromance

And what's going on Tina, are you my neighbour, your always nearest to me!"

ha ha so you are.... afraid to ask where you live? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a friend invite

Me and you duffer, let's be best friends and take over this place.

awe how sweet, a bromance

And what's going on Tina, are you my neighbour, your always nearest to me!

ha ha so you are.... afraid to ask where you live? Lol"

I know you are within a mile of my bed.

This is a good start lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a friend invite

Me and you duffer, let's be best friends and take over this place.

awe how sweet, a bromance

And what's going on Tina, are you my neighbour, your always nearest to me!

ha ha so you are.... afraid to ask where you live? Lol

I know you are within a mile of my bed. Ok

This is a good start lol "

lol

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

well as i am very anti social this is the only place i can get friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah willy I'm sure that's not true

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"Ah willy I'm sure that's not true"

it is - i might start a thread about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah willy I'm sure that's not true

it is - i might start a thread about it

you should lol

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"Ah willy I'm sure that's not true

it is - i might start a thread about it

you should lol"

tina will you be my friend - i am special - trust me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah willy I'm sure that's not true

it is - i might start a thread about it

you should lol

tina will you be my friend - i am special - trust me"

of course I will willy

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"Ah willy I'm sure that's not true

it is - i might start a thread about it

you should lol

tina will you be my friend - i am special - trust me

of course I will willy

thats it - i now officially love you - all other stalkers can now leave tina alone - i am on the job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah willy I'm sure that's not true

it is - i might start a thread about it

you should lol

tina will you be my friend - i am special - trust me

of course I will willy

thats it - i now officially love you - all other stalkers can now leave tina alone - i am on the job"

whew thank god for that

you heard the man

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

We get loads often without even a message. I just delete them all as I think it's a bit rude to just send one if you haven't even chattered or met. My friends are only people I have met with or spoken to for some time and trust.

so many just want to see your pics!

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