FabSwingers.com forum: age difference

By *aid back OP Man
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

i'm just wondering is a 12/13 year age gap too big ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you get along who cares about the age gap. My biggest was 27 years and got on extremely well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you get along who cares about the age gap. My biggest was 27 years and got on extremely well."

Well said!! Age is just a number after all. If ur both happy then fuck every1 elce

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By *aid back OP Man
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"If you get along who cares about the age gap. My biggest was 27 years and got on extremely well."

i suppose you're right. except this wouldnt be sab related.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think so. A 14 year gap was the biggest age gap I've experienced with the person I was seeing. He was younger and so much fun. Go for it

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By *eandmrsjones1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"i'm just wondering is a 12/13 year age gap too big ?? "

Depends on what age the people are i would say.

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By *aid back OP Man
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"i'm just wondering is a 12/13 year age gap too big ??

Depends on what age the people are i would say."

well the ages would be 35 and 23 a mates younger sister asked me to go for a drink at the weekend and i said no as i felt a little old lol

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

"i'm just wondering is a 12/13 year age gap too big ?? "

It depends, if ur a person who cares what other people think then it probally is, if ur a person that dont really care what peopke think no its not too big. As long as the two people are good for one another and are happy thats whats is important.

Mr crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

35! Sure you're only a spring chicken yourself

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By *aid back OP Man
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"35! Sure you're only a spring chicken yourself

jesus i wish i was a spring chicken lol

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By *eandmrsjones1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"i'm just wondering is a 12/13 year age gap too big ??

Depends on what age the people are i would say.

well the ages would be 35 and 23 a mates younger sister asked me to go for a drink at the weekend and i said no as i felt a little old lol"

Mates sister is probably a bigger problem than the age tbh. At 23 she is old enough to make her own mistakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'm just wondering is a 12/13 year age gap too big ??

Depends on what age the people are i would say.

well the ages would be 35 and 23 a mates younger sister asked me to go for a drink at the weekend and i said no as i felt a little old lol"

My first thought would be "how much do I value my 'mates' friendship".

If it's of any value, let her admire you from afar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'm just wondering is a 12/13 year age gap too big ?? "

Nope....

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By *eandmrsjones1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"i'm just wondering is a 12/13 year age gap too big ??

Depends on what age the people are i would say.

well the ages would be 35 and 23 a mates younger sister asked me to go for a drink at the weekend and i said no as i felt a little old lol

My first thought would be "how much do I value my 'mates' friendship".

If it's of any value, let her admire you from afar."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'm just wondering is a 12/13 year age gap too big ??

Nope....

+1, it'd be the mate's reaction that'd concern

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your mate has no issue then go for it. I think anything above 20 years is probably a bit much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 24 I don't see it as that big of a gap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so im 42 now so wud it be odd going to meet a 30 yr old???????????

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I'd agree with pure...20+ years of a gap might be a little much. But fab related or not...its not really the age, both parties have to be mature enough to handle it. I've met 20 somethings that are more emotionally mature than some 40 somethings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'm just wondering is a 12/13 year age gap too big ??

Depends on what age the people are i would say.

well the ages would be 35 and 23 a mates younger sister asked me to go for a drink at the weekend and i said no as i felt a little old lol

My first thought would be "how much do I value my 'mates' friendship".

If it's of any value, let her admire you from afar."

I agree with this

I went with my uncles friend there was 8 years between us and they haven't really got on since

I regret it to be honest cus is did affect there friendship....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how about 18 years

jaysus id love to me et angel there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again it would be about how the mate would feel.but if he/she was ok with it then the age is not an problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree I think it's down to the individuals, not the age. Little close to home though...as some said maybe best to admire from afar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah fek all this age difference lol once ppl get on and have fun who cares what age they are

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

I'd think this one out carefully......friend my not like the idea it is after all his little sister

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By *aid back OP Man
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

oh I know that about being too close to home it was one of the reasons I said no but it got me thinking about the age gap is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh I know that about being too close to home it was one of the reasons I said no but it got me thinking about the age gap is all"

Well in that case, you're the older one so you need to be aware that she is only starting her journey & it may not be what she still wants in a years time. One would think that at 35 you have at least got an idea of your direction in life, she won't be in the same place for a while so the longevity of the relationship may depend on your patience.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"oh I know that about being too close to home it was one of the reasons I said no but it got me thinking about the age gap is all

Exactly this. Went out with an 18 yr old when I was 26...and this pretty much summed it up

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

If it was just the age gap I couldn't see a problem....if ppl get on that's what counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh I know that about being too close to home it was one of the reasons I said no but it got me thinking about the age gap is all

Exactly this. Went out with an 18 yr old when I was 26...and this pretty much summed it up"

Of course there's lots of fun to be had whilst waiting... PMA guys, PMA!

Of course, add 10 to each age & it's a different ball game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

25 years was my biggest gap.. I'd consider him one of my great friends now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"25 years was my biggest gap.. I'd consider him one of my great friends now

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naughty girl lol 25 yrs

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By *usky Couple01Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Age is only a number am 38 I was with a 16 years gap and it was good

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit

Definitely more important for the ladies. Hate to saw it but its true. I reckon if you enjoy it, go for it.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

My hubby is 23 years older than me. and i wouldn't change him for the world. He is the best ever not just lover, husband, but best friend too

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit

"My hubby is 23 years older than me. and i wouldn't change him for the world. He is the best ever not just lover, husband, but best friend too

that's very cool! X to you both!

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"My hubby is 23 years older than me. and i wouldn't change him for the world. He is the best ever not just lover, husband, but best friend too

that's very cool! X to you both!"
Thank you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think age is a big thing once both people are into it!

My last 2 exs were 30+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number, 26 was my biggesst age gap and we got on great

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit

So why is the cutoff for most women here 45?

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit

Well that's a deafening silence....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number

10 yrs between us...and I'm the mature one

Mrs.s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos 45 is older than my dad

that's why my age is low!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age is just a number, 26 was my biggesst age gap and we got on great

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same here for me and was amazing

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit

Ohhhhh. So tis grand for a woman to take a younger lover here but not for a guy... grand so!

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

Have to say that is a very good question. And I self am also guilty of it. But in my case we had it at 55 but a few people we met were way above that maybe 65 people lie on profile for many reasons so why don't you

just a wee thought to by pass it. Yeah I know my bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cos 45 is older than my dad

that's why my age is low!"

i had mine at 50 for the same reason lol but i broke it once

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

"i'm just wondering is a 12/13 year age gap too big ??

Depends on what age the people are i would say.

well the ages would be 35 and 23 a mates younger sister asked me to go for a drink at the weekend and i said no as i felt a little old lol

My first thought would be "how much do I value my 'mates' friendship".

If it's of any value, let her admire you from afar."

Have to agree. ... Could ruin a friendship potentially. ...

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit

"Cos 45 is older than my dad

that's why my age is low!

i had mine at 50 for the same reason lol but i broke it once "

Im pretty sure I'm neither of ye girls dads!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half your age plus 7

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just turned forty... Waiting for life to begin lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just turned forty... Waiting for life to begin lol

Happy Birthday X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because most guys have their age lower than it actually is!! My cut off is 45 but still meet guys who look olde than 50!!! Very annoying Cos I don't like older men at all, that's just me. Everyone's different I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its not an issue.ive have much older and a bit younger and i seemed to be the one with the issue not them.do what feels right

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

"Because most guys have their age lower than it actually is!! My cut off is 45 but still meet guys who look olde than 50!!! Very annoying Cos I don't like older men at all, that's just me. Everyone's different I guess

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor

“Today is the oldest you've ever been, and the youngest you'll ever be again.”

Think about it, take all the time you need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age on here is 38 but I'm told I don't look a day over 30, would I have more success if I lowered my age?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what each of you want from it.

I had a bonking buddy/casual relationship, we were never going to get romantic,the exact same ages as you are talking about there,a 13 yr difference but she had had a releationship with a guy older than me before and also she is very intelligent and mature minded.

It was great and it fizzled out after a year or so.Each of us moved on and have no issues with any of it.

I've dated a friends older sister for a short while,it was good but we had different needs and it went nowhere but we get on well these days.

I had a hot and steamy,on and off thing in my mid 20's with my best friends younger sister,it didn't end well but she fights with everyone,her own family,her ex husband.The odd thing about that was that she ad the same colour eyes as my friend and that was weird.So once the eye colour is different it's easier.

Now in my late 40's,I would have no problem dating seriously 20 yrs below my age and maybe 5 yr's older depending on how healthy the woman is.

As for a casual bonking buddy or a once off shag,I'd go for any age above 27 once the personality was mature and the attraction is there.

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